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Social anxiety is like a tiny gnome in the back of your head; it might be sleeping, it might be as active as never, or… it might be forcing you to go over the way you said “here” that one time during attendance. One thing is clear, though—people without one will never know what it feels like to have it affect every single social situation you’re in.

The r/socialanxiety subreddit is a safe space for those feeling distressed in a social environment. People here share memes that other members might find a been-there-done-that kind of situation.

Bored Panda has created a list of relatable social anxiety-induced moments. Whether it’s thinking of better arguments for that conversation earlier or finding the perfect eye-contact-to-floor ratio, some people might feel more at ease knowing they’re not alone.

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Shark Lady
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm too nervous to go to Subway. If my daughter wants to I just give her the money and let her choose my sandwich. Luckily she knows exactly what I like and so far I haven't had any weird food.

Ba-Na-Na
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s sweet of her! You raised a lovely person. It must be kind of fun too, for you-because you don’t know what you’re getting but you know it’s going to be tasty!

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Lisa H
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

While the internet can be one of darkest and cruelest places, it can also be one of best havens one can ask for.

juice
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/dw8f8c/i_have_very_bad_anxiety_and_would_like_to_try/

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Penny Kemper
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I remember the first time I ordered at the counter at McDonalds for myself. I was 18 and there completely alone (first time alone). I practiced ordering in my head as I stood in line. I never thought of this as anxiety. I was always shy. You know until I get to know you. I want anyone with anxiety to know practice really does help. That doing things out of your comfort zone really is good for you. Also want them to know everyone gets embarrassed, everyone knows how it feels even if they don't act like they do. Every makes mistakes. And nobody is thinking about your mistakes or embarrassment except you. I only feel this way now if it's a situation I've never encountered before. You know I work best if I know what to do in that situation.

BeepBeepBoopBoop
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

wow I think I needed to hear that, thank you. I never switch up my subway order, and if I'm feeling okay enough to order in front of people instead of online, I have to make sure the shop is empty lol

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May light defeat the darkness
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am glad McDonald’s has screen ordering. All fastfood resto’s should have one too to make it easier for us introverts.😊

Marilyn Russell
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yet it’s scary and anxiety producing for us oldies who have no idea how the heck to use them.

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Anti
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I aspire to be the person who did that or the one who clones them

Passerby
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is one of the reasons why I love online food ordering. You can take as long as you want without anyone pressuring you.

Son of Philosoraptor
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had have horrible anxiety. And I'm an experienced meditator. It bugged me so much that I couldn't overcome it. So HHL I go to the psych, and they find I have a serotonin deficiency. Bottom out in seratonin and have a panic attack! So Zoloft is an SSRI, a selective serotonin re-up take inhibitor. It leaves more of it in you. Way less panic! Its chemical, not personal, is the point. I am glad I got some help with it.

Nick
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is what every restaurant needs and it needs to be posted online so I can read it 10 times before going. It should also have the top 5 things not to do.

zak
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Step one: Walk out of Subway and go to Jersey Mike's, or any other sandwich shop that actually has good sandwiches. 🙂

Scott McHattan
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anxiety disorders can be extreme. Some people can't hold down jobs or form lasting relationships.

SushiPusha
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Subway never came with instructions even when they first opened. The hardest part for me is the many choices of bread!

J.J. Cooper
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Subway - gotta insist that they do things in the correct order, like “black olives first” and lettuce-tomato last so the good stuff gets pushed down into the meat… which can cause friction with the sandwich artist. Introverts and the socially anxious may not want be bossy and assertive with strangers

Sheila Stamey
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Even for us war calloused veterans, subway is a scary place, no joke! I swear they teach their sandwich makers where the extra sharp eyebrow glare is kept! I usually just say a "whatever" drag it through the garden but no hot stuff, add sweet Vidalia sauce. If I could just get the sweet Vidalia sauce,I probably would just get a roll with that but how weird would that be?

Kea_Tortilla
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's so sweet and considerate! I wish more people were like this

Hush_Booom
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My dad sent me to tropical smoothie for lunch with some money and I almost died. And it didn’t help that some random a*s dude came and stood next to me

devotedtodreams
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My Mom gets super-anxious every time we go to Subway - she fears she will be too slow and the employee will get impatient. This is due to a bad experience we had in Germany. I always gently remind her that it will be alright and try to give her little tidbits of advice. Also, I let her place her order first so I can be her "buffer zone" to any potential customers behind us. Best of all, in our most recent visit to Subway, we discussed the issue of her anxiety with the very friendly woman behind the counter, who repeatedly reassured her it was no problem at all. We walked out of there with Mom feeling better about the whole thing :) Hope it will carry over to our next visit!

SmooshyFries
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to have to make phone calls for my adult daughter. Dr appts, insurance questions, internet and cable companies, her apt manager. She would sit and listen and is now able to make the calls herself. It just takes patience and love, one task at a time. That's another thing I would tell her- one task per day and if you feel up to it, make another call

Brenda
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My youngest has bad anxiety and panic attacks. I knew they had to learn to do things on their own, so every time a new or challenging situation was coming up, we rehearsed possible scenarios and conversations. They couldn't avoid everything, but at least they felt more prepared to try things.

Gmaddles
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Truly. I hate ordering at a restaurant in front of whoever I'm with.

Tweaked
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to suffer from severe anxiety, I never thought I'd say this about reddit, but I wish I'd had it for assistance back then.

That Bi Book Lover
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I need this! I’m always terrified and apparently the comment is deleted. Can someone help me out please??

Steve Ramaekers
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So happy this person was seeking to conquer anxiety and asked for help so he/she could tackle it instead of enable it. Brave and healthy. Shout out to the person that gave the directions and supported rather than enabled. We must battle it and we can!

Danielle Edwards
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can totally relate to this. I wanted to start cycling to work but I didn't understand how the bike lockers worked, where the showers were and the best route to take. It took me WEEKS, non bike visits to the bike lockers and two early Sunday morning rides to figure out the route before I could bring myself to do it. I don't know why things are hard like this?

Dr. N
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thank god! I thought I am the only one too scared to go to subway!

My O My
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Subway stresses me out sooooo much!!! I like a sub now and then but would never dare to go with anyone but hubby. They ask so many questions! And there are so many decisions to make! And no matter how often I've rehearsed what I want to say I always end up staring at the subway person like he's an alien as soon as he asks me a question. Thank god the guy at "our" subway is very laid back and even gives recommendations if you are unable to decide

DeoManus Argentem
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This has made online/app ordering such a blessing! I've been to so many places I'd never go to before because I'd feel self-conscious about holding up the line. I even stopped going to my favorite fast food chain (Pollo Tropical) many years ago when they started offering options (think, "make it your way") on my favorite item, where before it was basically just " choose your protein" instead of "choose everything"! Now I'm back all the time. Went to subway once (pre app/online ordering) and ordered a teriyaki chicken sandwich - they asked me what I wanted on it, and poor me just replied, " whatever's supposed to be on it." (It looked and sounded good on the ads) Dunno if it's anxiety or just being paralyzed by choice.

Katy McMouse
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband and sons are finally realizing that they need to just let me explain whatever it is that needs explaining, in my own slightly neurotic way. If I give them a grocery list with bullet points, it's not because I don't trust them to get the right things (mostly) - it's because that's how my brain keeps things straight. It's like this for anything I need to figure out and if you ask me for instructions or a recipe or directions, you shouldn't be surprised when I hand you instructions equivalent to the page count of "War and Peace". I guess my point is - never underestimate well detailed instructions. Good instructions are our security blankets and people like me love people who understand and humor us.

Rosie Red
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That warms my heart. Struggling with anxiety makes even the simple things hard to do.

Chez2202
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was socially awkward when I was younger. I got a lot better at around 30 when I had a child and became her advocate. Subway became a breeze when she was about 7 because asking the staff there for exactly what she wanted was way easier than explaining to my kid that I had got her sandwich wrong.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love this every time. That'd be so useful for me honestly this person is an angel

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Also known as social phobia, social anxiety disorder (SAD) is the persistent and excessive fear of being around people or in specific collective situations. It differs from person to person but there are some common traits. They might include worrying about meeting new people and starting conversations, tending to avoid social gatherings and eye contact, overthinking about judgment from others.

It might sound like everyone feels that way every once in a while. However, for those with social anxiety, these negative feelings are constant and way stronger. In some cases, they can lead to high levels of stress or even panic attacks.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m ACTIVELY trying to make friends, but the actions that take me extreme effort to do are apparently natural for everyone.

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Thank You!!!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

YES!!! These people are genuinely some of the best people! We ALL need people like this in our lives!

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SAD is part of the group of generalized anxiety disorders (GAD), which is actually the most prevalent mental illness in the United States. The National Alliance on Mental Illness states that around 18% of people in the US live with some sort of an anxiety disorder.

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According to the Recovery Village, 264 million people worldwide suffer from it. Their data shows that younger people are more affected by it than the older generation. Just over 22% of people aged from 18 to 44 suffer from these conditions while for people 45–59 years of age, the number drops to 20.6%. Out of people over 60, only 9% deal with anxiety disorders.

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Angie Chiyoko ( She/they)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or when you finish a assignment in class and you wait for someone else to turn it in first so that you know it's now okay to go turn it in too

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Despite rather large numbers of people living with GAD, not a lot of them tend to look for professional help. The Anxiety & Depression Association of America (ADAA) states that less than 37% of people with generalized anxiety disorder receive treatment, even though it is believed to be very effective. ADAA also revealed that 36% of people suffering from social anxiety waited for 10 or more years before seeking help.

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The Blue Spirit
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Imagining myself in situations that will never exist" seriously like 25% of my life is me reading a book but accidentally going off-track and not realizing

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I’ve Never Related To Anything More

I’ve Never Related To Anything More

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Iva Kazalova
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it’s because social anxiety centres around you personally, and when it crosses over the focus shifts on someone else and it’s not about you anymore, it subsides and you can do the thing, probably how i feel too

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As with other anxiety disorders, SAD can develop due to numerous reasons. Some of the main factors include inherited traits, brain structure, and the person’s surroundings.

It is believed that certain mental illnesses or disorders can run in the family, making it one of the possible causes behind developing social anxiety as well. It might also be related to our environment, as family or close people usually have an impact on our surroundings from an early age. Therefore, if a member suffers from certain disorders, their behavior might end up reflecting in ours.

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People Like This Deserve A Special Place In Heaven

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've done this. It's hard maintaining relationships when you don't want to be a burden to the other person. I feel you.

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The founder of Washington Center for Cognitive Therapy, Vincent Greenwood, Ph.D., has expanded on social anxiety in a video online. He stated that there are three subtypes of social anxiety, based on its main triggers. The first—and the most common—one is general fear of social interactions. This might affect the day-to-day acts as simple as engaging in small talk, entering a room filled with strangers, participating in group activities.

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The second type of social anxiety according to Dr. Greenwood reveals itself when performing. Whether it’s sports activities, art performances, or giving presentations, some people might have difficulties dealing with the additional stress of being the center of attention.

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Show Me A Better Duo, I’ll Wait!

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Lauren S
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Seriously! Where did they get my picture?? Every dang one of these is so relatable.

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In his video, Dr. Greenwood names the phenomenon known as observational fears as the third type of social anxiety. It is based on the angst of being judged or feeling embarrassment. People affected by this type might feel anxious while doing things when others are watching, whether it’s signing a document or cooking dinner.

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"Social Anxiety"

"Social Anxiety"

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Lisa Hopkins
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s my life. Because when I signed up for it I really wanted to do it lol times comes for it and I hate myself for signing up for it.

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People with social anxiety share some common behavioral disturbances that can appear in both emotional and physical forms. The emotional ones comprise excessive worrying about others judging them, intense and persistent fear of communicating with people, anticipating certain social situations expecting the worst, among others. Some physical ones include but are not limited to heart palpitations, profuse sweating, blushing, trembling.

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Teachers : *surprised Pikachu*

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yup, and then belittling then for not interacting or interacting awkwardly

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I Saw This Earlier And It Couldn't Be More True

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Luckily, there are ways to cure or minimize the impact of SAD. First and foremost, if certain symptoms feel like it could be social anxiety, it is important to seek help from professionals. They can help diagnose it and appoint the appropriate treatment, whether it’s medication or alternative types of medical care. In addition to that, methods of occupational therapy or other practices, such as yoga or meditation, can be helpful as well.

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Another solution that might help some people deal with social anxiety is connecting with people in a similar situation. The negative feelings caused by the disorder might make one feel lonesome, but there are people suffering from anxieties, getting in touch with whom might alleviate the load of it all.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I miss CollegeHumour. The comments section was constantly full of jerks and trolls and jerk trolls but their content was great - especially the comics.

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Social anxiety is a serious topic, but people in certain online communities manage to find ways to present their lives with the disorder in a rather lighthearted way. Quite a few great examples can be found on this list. Whether it’s an outlet for the emotions caused by SAD or a way to connect with people going through a similar thing, some of these will definitely find a person or two who can relate.

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A Little Hyperbole To Remind You You're Not Alone

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Abby da great
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

that is not a hyperbole. If I was weird at 60 yrs old I would still be thinking about it for 20 years after I die

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Either Too Shy Or Annoying

Either Too Shy Or Annoying

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Angie Chiyoko ( She/they)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why is this so TRUEEEEEEE!?!?!!?! Seriously, as soon as I'm comfortable being around you, I am so freaking annoying.....

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... :/

... :/

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have been known to duck into a corner when I hear other people coming…. Not for any particular reason, just because apparently seeing strangers on the street is scary

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Lil Potato
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know I already said this but all of these are so relatable I am actually crying. People actually get it somewhere out there! (edit) thanks to all of you in the comments!

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Getting A Call From A Unknown Caller

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Isabelle Lamarque
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My dispatch from my last job had no caller id. So it always came up as ''unknown'' worst time of my life. I was obligated to answer every call that said ''unknown number'' 🫤

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Never Related To Something More

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Angie Chiyoko ( She/they)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My friends parents think I'm such a good influence but they just know the awkward, socially anxious side of me and not me when I finally open up to you

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*checks Excuse Book*

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What's It Gonna Be Today Folks

What's It Gonna Be Today Folks

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Lisa H
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Being depressed and alone is less embarrassing than having a panic attack in public. Please don't ask me how I know.

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Thanks Brain, Very Cool

Thanks Brain, Very Cool

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My Life In One Picture

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Plus Thinking About How You Sounded Afterwards

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Can Anyone Else Relate?

Can Anyone Else Relate?

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It’s A Vicious Cycle

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Why Are You Like This

Why Are You Like This

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Real life downvotes. You’ll be steadily talking, then suddenly when you open your mouth no sound comes out, and you realise you’ve received 10 real life downvotes. 😳😂

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True

True

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deejak
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Then what is "omg I hate everyone and wish I was watching Netflix in my room" because that's def what I have.

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I Felt This In My Soul

I Felt This In My Soul

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Lauren S
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are people I want to be friends with. There are people I used to be friends with. There are people I don’t want to annoy so I slowly stop trying.

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Anyone Else?

Anyone Else?

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Maggie Marrelli
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is me every day at work; just printed 300 t-shirts perfectly, my very nice boss comes by and says "how's it going?" and I ruin the shirt I am doing.

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Found This Gem On Instagram

Found This Gem On Instagram

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wind up with everyone knowing that I'm a dumb rambling mess.

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Me Attending Online Classes

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once cursed out a teacher in online class in a low voice because she did not accept my correct answer. I was unmuted and embarrassed 😳

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Tbh

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Lisa H
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once had a teacher call the entire class's attention, point to me and YELL "Who's in charge of stupid questions?" I cried the rest of class. I was 13 and have been anxious about asking anyone anything ever since. This was 23 years ago. I've only gotten slightly better. F**k you, Mr. Boyd.

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Social Anxiety - The Beginning

Social Anxiety - The Beginning

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Nice

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We Can’t Be Like This

We Can’t Be Like This

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why is this so true? 😭 one time I tried to join in a conversation about Percy jackson in sixth grade at a new school and I’m like, “you guys know who Rick Riordan is??” And they were just like “yeah…?” And went back to talking and ignoring me. ETA; welp, I was trying to respond to the people who commented on my comment and BP said I was commenting “too quickly.” Like that’s ever stopped scammers?

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Social_skills.exe Has Stopped Working

Social_skills.exe Has Stopped Working

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes! I just know that I'm going to be stared at when I leave the room. My throat may be drier than the Sahara but I am waiting until the front door closes before getting an ocean sized glass of water.

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#70

Make That 6 Weeks

Make That 6 Weeks

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rs_adahl1971
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Social battery! I love it too. One outing to the grocery store and I'm out of commission for a couple of weeks at least.

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#72

I Didn't Make The Rules

I Didn't Make The Rules

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Cheeky chicken
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oohhh I was on my way to my wedding and part of me was still convinced my husband was with me for a bet and the "big reveal" would be everyone laughing at me as I got out of the car at the registrary office and I was let in on the secret bet he had made 🙄 x

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#73

You Are Not Supposed To Call!

You Are Not Supposed To Call!

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#74

The Wonderful Feeling Of An Empty Parking Lot To Eat Your Lunch In Peace. No Coworkers, No Small Talk

The Wonderful Feeling Of An Empty Parking Lot To Eat Your Lunch In Peace. No Coworkers, No Small Talk

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#75

Sadly True

Sadly True

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#76

Yeah

Yeah

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Lil Potato
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same. I wore jeans today. Someone saw me on them and now I'm re thinking my life choices

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#77

I'm Mostly Txt, But

I'm Mostly Txt, But

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

True except for the fact that I then worry that they don't care about me. Thanks autophobia

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#78

That Be Me

That Be Me

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Amanda Rose
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just did that yesterday with the most fascinating can of green beans ever.

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#79

I Don’t Know If This Has Been Posted Here Before But I Laughed

I Don’t Know If This Has Been Posted Here Before But I Laughed

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#80

Ah Yes Self Sabotage

Ah Yes Self Sabotage

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Lauren S
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Here was my secret formula in college. During the first few classes don’t arrive super early but get there a little before it starts. Look around the room and find a girl (I’m a girl so that was less scary) sitting alone. Sit near her but not next to her. Ask her if she’s heard anything about the professor/class. Hope she’s extroverted and chatty and adopts you for the semester. Try again the next class if it doesn’t work. Life long friendships? No. Study buddy for the semester? Often, which I was grateful for.

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#82

Can We Text Instead

Can We Text Instead

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Tess
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Your GP hesitantly reminding you over a telehealth phone consult, that you have to have an in person appointment every 12 months. Letting you know that you've got three months until then, so that you can start to prepare for it.

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#88

And Then They Never Text Back

And Then They Never Text Back

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#89

It’s Me Every Freakin Day Lmao 🤣

It’s Me Every Freakin Day Lmao 🤣

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AJay
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But you have that one social friend who then tells you all the tea and it is always just so interesting to hear how regular people live (or at least for me)

#90

Me Irl Whenever I See Anyone

Me Irl Whenever I See Anyone

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Angie Chiyoko ( She/they)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I still make awkward eye contact and smile at the girl I've liked for a few months now every time I pass by her in the hallway. I once waved to her and she waved back and I freaked out.

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#91

Too Relatable

Too Relatable

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#96

That Shit Hurted 🤧

That Shit Hurted 🤧

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#98

I Like When Ppl Cant See My Face

I Like When Ppl Cant See My Face

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Lakota Wolf
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Those were the best years of my life. I got cute masks with animal noses/mouths on them and NO ONE could see me grimacing behind them!

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#99

Thanks

Thanks

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#100

Should’ve Just Stayed Home

Should’ve Just Stayed Home

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deejak
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And then when you can't hold it in any longer and it erupts in an explosive burst that doesn't sound like a cough or a sneeze or any other human noise.

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#103

Oof

Oof

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What_the_actual_sloth?
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

me tryna make a funny joke or comment on BP and then deleting it incase I'm not as funny as I think I am and I think I am boring:

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#107

I’ve Never Related To Anything More

I’ve Never Related To Anything More

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anyone feeling this…. remember there often is *something* you can do. Even if it’s ‘just’ getting online & trying to figure out what might be ‘going on’ &/or what options/resources might be available for you locally/otherwise. Or journaling. Or finding at least one friend/relative you can talk to. Because often those people do *really* love you & just want you to feel better/get help/believe them. Coming from one of those loved ones… I *LOVE* this person, but feel helpless/hurt when they don’t believe I care/assume I’m lying/manipulating them instead of believing someone could really love them that much. :’( In my case, they also often lash out/push away instead of believing it’s even a possibility there’s no judgment from me, only love & hope… </3 I know it’s hard, but if someone keeps telling you this…. Try to believe them & accept the support they want to give. Tell them what you need instead of retreating into yourself. In time, you may see that they really do love & respect you.<3

#108

Me Coming Home After Socializing, Thinking About How Awkward And Cringy I Was

Me Coming Home After Socializing, Thinking About How Awkward And Cringy I Was

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#110

Anyone Can Relate?

Anyone Can Relate?

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#112

Every Time

Every Time

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Lakota Wolf
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

* how I feel a nanosecond after sending said message, regardless of whether there are any replies XD

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#114

Something

Something

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#115

Can’t I Just Take A Magic Healing Pill

Can’t I Just Take A Magic Healing Pill

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erica joi
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Eight years sober after being addicted to magic pills that helped better than anything with social anxiety. Can confirm no natural ways help!

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#118

When Your Mere Existence Is Embarrassing

When Your Mere Existence Is Embarrassing

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️Crystal️
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thoughts like these are normal for anyone who endured emotional abuse growing up... you're not flawed, your parents literally messed up your brain wiring so you think that everyone is constantly criticizing your very existence.

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#119

I Live In A Dorm There's Literally 20 Rooms In A Single Straight Hallway

I Live In A Dorm There's Literally 20 Rooms In A Single Straight Hallway

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#120

Yes

Yes

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#122

Me Today

Me Today

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Vix Spiderthrust
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They were probably making sure bloody Nicholas Witchell wasn't camped outside again.

#123

Hmmmmmmmmm

Hmmmmmmmmm

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Tess
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Then realising that there is a button in your carriers app to turn off voicemail. If they can't figure out how to text me from a landline, it can't be that important.

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#125

I’d Rather Stay Home

I’d Rather Stay Home

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erica joi
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exclusive complication for the ladies: Why aren't you smiling? YoU'rE sO mUcH pReTtIeR wHeN yOu sMiLe!

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#127

Meetings, Am I Right?

Meetings, Am I Right?

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Upstaged75
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For some reason my camera frequently "breaks" when it's time for a Zoom meeting. Happens all the time and I just can't figure out why. ;)

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#129

Why Am I Like This

Why Am I Like This

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Lakota Wolf
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I play WoW and I am a feral druid, so I run around in cat form all the time and use that as an excuse to not talk to people. If other players try to strike up a conversation with me, I use the "meow" emote, hop around a few times, and run away.

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#130

Thats Me

Thats Me

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What_the_actual_sloth?
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

its just too scary! even when they are like "you can approach me, it's strictly confidential" like bro I didn't say it wasn't strictly confidential so why do u feel the need to reiterate it like are you lying?

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#132

I Wouldn’t Want To Bother Anyone

I Wouldn’t Want To Bother Anyone

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Turner Floor
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just to reassure anyone who does this… As long as you’re kind about it, most service staff are *happy* to fix issues. Having worked years in the service industry, the good feels of helping kind people who actually need it helps to balance out all the “help” you have to give the p.o.s. entitled customers who still treat you like garbage even if you bend over backwards for them. I’m one of those people who loves service jobs because I love making people happy. I’d be so sad thinking a customer suffered through their meal/service like this. </3

#133

It This True For Anyone?

It This True For Anyone?

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