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Long gone are the days when you have to go to reunions to learn what your former classmates are up to. All you need now is social media. Just log into Facebook, Instagram, or some other platform they're on and stalk away. Many share so much of their personal lives that it makes it quite easy.
So when Reddit user Desperate_Bluejay330 asked people "What happened to the smartest kid at your high school?", the replies immediately started pouring in, reminding us that you never really know what the future holds.
Continue scrolling to check out some of the most interesting stories, and don't miss the talk we had about looking back at your past with licensed clinical psychologist, Michael Stein, Psy.D.
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#1
He does some kind of morbidity projections for a hospital in a major city in Europe. The reason I know this is because in April or May of 2020, he posted on Facebook asking someone to call him because he was afraid he was going to hurt himself. I literally hadn’t talked to this guy since probably 5th grade (we went to the same elementary school and then different middle schools. When we got to high school, he had skipped two grades. We weren’t really friends in high school). It was 9 or 10 at night where I live so probably about 4 am where he lived. It was late, and I was worried nobody would see his post. I couldn’t have lived with myself if he had done something and I hadn’t called. So I called him using Facebook messenger. He was drunk and thinking about jumping off his balcony. His whole job was predicting covid deaths, and the numbers he was coming up with were terrifyingly high (and accurate), but nobody was listening to him. We talked for a long time. We both cried some. It was the weirdest thing - I literally talked him off a ledge. He didn’t jump, and now he seems to be doing great. He quit drinking, got back into running, and got through the pandemic. I think of him often, which is weird considering we were never really what you’d call friends.
Stein, who runs a team of therapists in Colorado called Anxiety Solutions of Denver, thinks the main motivation that drives us to check up on our past acquaintances is simply comparison.
"People love to compare their own accomplishments to those of others, for better or worse," he told Bored Panda. "That's not necessarily a healthy thing, but it's something a lot of people feel compelled to do. It can feel good to know that your career or relationship status compares favorably to others, but of course that can run the other way as well; it can hurt to see that you have not progressed in life as much as your peers."
"I think the other biggest reason though is just curiosity. People have their set impressions of what their classmates were like in high school and they're curious to know if those classmates turned out how they thought they would. And then a final reason I would say is gossip! People love talking about people, and it can be entertaining to share what you found out, especially if you find something funny about a former acquaintance," Stein explained.
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#2
He became an astronaut, a doctor, AND a Navy seal. And was even nice in high school. Disgusting.
#3
I married her
The psychologist believes that high school can be a precursor for someone's adult life, but that's not always the case.
"By high school, you are likely to have a pretty good idea of a person's academic achievement, and high academic achievement in high school tends to lead to high academic achievement after it, but in terms of a person's personality, that is definitely not set in stone by high school. Personality tends to solidify in our mid-20s, so there is a lot of room for people to change from who they were in high school."
#4
I graduated in a class of 18 people (Edit).
I was co-Valedictorian. Thanks to social media and my mother sending me the local paper for years, I can tell you what happened to all of them:
Two are dead. Three are in jail, including my co-Valedictorian (child molestation). Three work in healthcare (RNs and radiologists, etc). One is a FEMA inspector (she’s in Kissimmee right now). Two work for the Cherokee Nation. One is a roofer. One has been fired as a jail guard (violence toward inmates) and kicked out of a church as pastor for embezzlement. One is a high school basketball coach. One is an openly gay cop in Austin, which I find fascinating considering where we came from. Two are meth heads who dropped off the map.
And I got college scholarships, left my shitty town for an English degree and the promise of the Great American Novel. Instead I became a college advisor, married a college professor, had a great kid later in life, and then semi-retired last year to be the single cook at my son’s small private school. Today I made Sour Cream Chicken Enchiladas with a roasted tomatillo sauce from scratch. Truly living my best life. #Classof88
#5
Valedictorian with perfect SAT. Kind, approachable and funny. Everyone assumed he would want to go into law or become a doctor. Instead learned traditional dance and joined a well respected dance troupe performing at cultural events and weddings. Was honored to have them perform at my wedding. Still an amazing human as far as I know.
Some predictions, however, are possible. For example, when researchers from the University of Virginia looked at a community sample of 169 adolescents over 10 years (from the time they were age 15 to when they were 25), they found that teen friendships (or the lack of them) may directly impact their long-term mental and emotional health.
"High school students with higher-quality best friendships tended to improve in several aspects of mental health over time, while teens who were popular among their peers during high school may be more prone to social anxiety later in life," said Rachel K. Narr, a Ph.D. candidate in clinical psychology, who led the study.
#6
She graduated from college, got married, had 5 kids, and homeschools now. She and her husband lived way below their means, saved every penny, invested in trailer parks, and retired early. She goes on cruises twice a year and makes a mean homebrew in her basement. She is me. Thanks for asking!
#7
He took 6 years to finish college and graduated with a chemical dependency problem that took another 6 years to get over. He has a low key job now and is reliable, if unremarkable. Some would say he never realized his potential, but he's content and doesn't really care what people say.
Interestingly, neither having a strong best friendship nor being more popular predicted short-term changes in mental health; these differences only became apparent later and they appeared regardless of the youth's experiences in the interim.
"Our study affirms that forming strong close friendships is likely one of the most critical pieces of the teenage social experience," Joseph Allen, Hugh P. Kelly Professor of Psychology at the University of Virginia, who co-authored the study, added. "Being well-liked by a large group of people cannot take the place of forging deep, supportive friendships. And these experiences stay with us, over and above what happens later. As technology makes it increasingly easy to build a social network of superficial friends, focusing time and attention on cultivating close connections with a few individuals should be a priority."
#8
Four years after high school graduation, he was driving back to Yale from spring break, weeks from graduating with highest honors, and then starting a Rhodes scholarship, when his car was hit head-on by a truck. He was killed instantly. We all believed he would be the first African American president of the U.S.
#9
He was actually quite overweight. When he left for college, he was studying physics. Couple of years later, I learned that he lost 175 pounds, became super into fitness, dropped out of college and became a gym trainer.
Ahimsa Soul 2 years ago
Taking care of your health and doing what you love is a smart move! Good for him!
Our former classmates aren't the only people from our past we like to keep tabs on. How many times have you "accidentally" looked up your ex?
"These are obviously people that you've had a strong emotional attachment to and the obvious question people want the answer to is whether they found someone new," Dr. Stein said.
"Again, it's that comparison thing: for better or worse, people want to know if past relationship partners have moved on to someone else, what that person is like, and in general see how they are doing in life. I don't think there are many people who haven't looked up past partners online!"
Quick, someone ask Redditors about this topic!
#10
Not my class, like 15 years after I graduated. I visited my hs to see an old teacher who was retiring. While talking to the principle he tells me about this student who was legit one of the most brilliant students the school had had in decades. He wanted to be a chef. (I am one). Cut to the graduation and he is due to give his speech.
The one they approved was totally dropped. He gave a scathing tirade against all the teachers for not supporting him and kept pushing him to not follow his dreams and to just go to regular college. I heard it was brutal.
(Kid had a scholarship to several top culinary programs already, his family owned a successful restaurant).
He is a happy chef. His family doesn’t support the school anymore.
My years smart folks are all married and grandparents by now.
#11
Became a doctor, decided it wasnt for her and went to law school. Is currently a barrister as far as I know.
Bernd Herbert 2 years ago (edited)
For non English natives: Do not confuse a Barrister with a Barista. Edit: should have written "non UK-English Natives". Greetings from Germany my friends
#12
He had a offer to work on a nuclear submarine I s**t you not. But he failed the drug test.
The last person he smoked with. Me.
I felt horrible.
#13
My best friend was arguably the smartest kid in my school, or one of the smartest. Had a lot of inner demons, passed away young because of those inner demons.
Sarah SH 2 years ago
Smart doesn’t always equal emotionally/psychologically sound. Too many instances out there of people being baffled that smart kids don’t always have everything going for them. “He was so smart, he should have known better than to try drugs.” Umm, different elements at play there.
Thomas Alskit 2 years ago
I agree with that statement, and it really is quite sad. Just because they're smart doesn't mean that they are immune to depression, or anxiety, or even just basic things like neglect or unkindness. People seem to see them as less human than the rest, which just isn't true.
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Paul Brown 2 years ago
My step-son was one the smartest kids i ever seen, he could've literally been anything he wanted to be. Instead he's a heroin addict with one od and several car wrecks to his name. Sad.
Monosyllabic girl 2 years ago
I was in the advanced classes from 1st grade on, skipped 3rd grade. Started taking college courses in the summer in between years of high school. Being book smart doesn't help you relieve the boredom from being smart or the pressure to succeed. At 16 i started smoking pot and drinking, 17 using lsd. 18, pain pills as they melt all the worries away. At 20 graduated to heroin as the pills got harder to obtain. I've been clean for 8 years now and i try to give advice to people who i see are going down my path. We can't change the past but we can change the future and don't deserve to be judged for the people we were. Not getting emotional support from loved ones is what is "sad."
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He dropped out if uni and became a bartender. Made fun of me and bullied me because i was failing at math and science in hs. Now I have an engineering degree and last I saw him, he was still living with his parents.
#15
He went on to study Business and Chinese and now he's a businessman in China
#16
I still talk to him. He's a good friend of mine, still. He's an engineer at Google now. I am not.
#17
She went to college, got her Master's degree, started medical school, got pregnant and has been a stay at home Mom for 20 years.
Susie Elle 2 years ago
If she's happy and in a good situation then that's all that matters I suppose
#18
I was friends with the guy who had the 2nd highest GPA in our class. He created a business renting out and managing office equipment. I lost touch with him, but I just Google his business. It's still open, and he's still the owner, after 15-20 years. Glassdoor says it's worth 5 to 25 million USD.
#19
I was the smartest in my school, I am now in university and have become the depressed average student with no skills or social life.
#20
Went to West Point. Knocked up his girlfriend his junior year, so automatically disqualified from attending (you couldn't have dependents and attend a military academy at the time, not sure if that is still true). Married the girl, got divorced a couple of years later.
Enlisted in the Army to fulfill his service obligation, finally became an officer in his early 30s and is now flying blackhawks. Got remarried and has two kids with the new wife. Seems genuinely happy.
#21
The one older than me went to MIT and then Stanford. He’s doing something tech related in Silicon Valley or something like that.
The one younger than me (and I never knew he was this smart) wound up at Harvard Medical and then was a Fulbright Scholar. He’s a doctor in New England somewhere and his wife is also a Harvard doctor.
Vanja Timmers 2 years ago
Just wondering if a "Harvard doctor" has better skills than a not Harvard doctor. In my country we would never mention the name of the University as it is not relevant (same qualifications). But as I often see similar references I just wonder if this is different in the US.
#22
Has 6 kids to 5 different fathers & is currently being investigated for massive benefit fraud.
#23
He went to college and double majored in business and biomechanical engineering at a very good school. Graduated, and is apparently doing research for some big company. Dude is smart as f**k.
#25
Last I saw our class valedictorian, 40 years ago - when we were about 21, he bragged about he and a couple of friends breaking into a logging company's powder shack to steal the explosives. He was disappointed that they failed to ignite under the bridge they had selected.
It is very depressing to know that I'm stupider than him.
#26
After graduation at our high school, he did four years of University, I went to his wedding right after University Graduation. She was probably the smartest girl at our high School. Got a job with Lockheed Martin real quick. Nobody has seen him since. I could see him in a top secret government lab inventing anti gravity flight. Whenever I hear about a UFO sighting, I say “ Oh that’s just Bill”
#27
He lives in the same small village he was living in when we were in school, is married with kids and apparently works in an office in the nearest town. He had aspirations of becoming a surgeon when we were in school, it didn't happen, but it sounds like he's living a good life regardless
Diphylleia Grayi 2 years ago
The only think that should matters to us the most is to find our own paths! I was 15 when I finished highschool. I got very anxious because around two years two teachers kept comparing me and others with the most intelligent of our groups, it haunted me years, in personal experience that kid only lost a gift from my aunt and I did not hate her a a single day, but, the assumptions of teachers that of 100 adolescents only her would be the one that was going to go to the university made me not wanting to even listen her name again, I wish her well always. And then, adulthood crushed me and taught me that my biggest dream is to find in which thing I am good enough because I am below average, and I did not like the job unestability that provides my career, so I started to study programming languages, I suck, but at least if it helps me to fullffil my dream I would be honoured and happy too find my own path in life.
#28
He was my investment advisor. I wasn’t overly impressed with him but I trusted him. We are all retired now.
#29
He barely graduated due to giving up on public school, joined the army for one term to get out of his rural improvised town. He struggled for 15+ years to make ends meet and at his mid 40s is finally buying a house and is on track to retire at 55.
Being the smartest out of a class of 100 isn't that exceptional.
PeachPossum 2 years ago
Hmm... This one makes me think there's more to it than meets the eye. He must be doing something right to be able to retire by age 55, a full decade younger than the average.
#30
She got her Ph.D in Chemistry from Harvard and is now Dean of the Science Department at our local state university, of about 20k students. Went to a high school in a town of about 4,500 people. Still see her occasionally.
#31
Completely fell off the radar. I assume he's running some sort of nefarious thinktank for a huge tech company or something.
#32
The smartest kid: Went to an esteemed Aerospace university but had to move back home due to medical issues. No idea what happened to him there.
The valedictorian (smartest on paper): Works as an OBGYN in upstate New York.
The most successful: A musical tiktok star with 12 million followers.
*Displayname*=idk 2 years ago
According to Google OBGYN is "A branch of medicine that specializes in the care of women during pregnancy and childbirth and in the diagnosis and treatment of diseases of the female reproductive organs" (I didn't know what it stood for)
#33
So the valedictorian is a dentist. The person I believe is the actual smartest person (I think she was 3rd in our class) is getting her PhD in physics of some sort.
#34
Professor at Cambridge University
#35
Male: Got a 4.0 from a top public university, studied Financial Mathematics, became a quantitative Trader
Female: Graduated Summa Cum Laude from an Ivy and is now in Medical School
What do you think ?
Bobby 2 years ago
It was me. I was the smart kid. After school I made one terrible decision after another and it took a 5 year vacation from the world courtesy of the department of Justice to get my head out of my a*s and stop blaming the world for my problems. Now I'm a father of 3 lovely children and have a wife who is supporting of me and helping me get back to school to pursue my passions. Our hope is that if I can make it as a freelancer making close to what she does as a travel sleep tech we'll be able to each only work 6 months a year and take all of summer off with our kids
GirlFriday 2 years ago
The smartest guy in my high school went on to graduate from West Point and about 2 after his graduation from there, he was arrested, tried and found guilty of molesting and trafficking several children. He is prison now and probably won't ever get out. That is a good thing.
John Ambrose 2 years ago
The one really smart guy I was friends with got a bunch of scholarships for one of the best universities in our state. Some kind of computer science, it was the 90s. First year of school got involved in a toxic relationship. She lied about being pregnant, cheated on him and all that. When they broke up, he quit everything. School, job, life. Ended up being a pretty successful musician a couple years later. He got into drugs for a while but, luckily, quit the lifestyle before it killed him. I remember seeing him once when we were about 30 and he was as skinny and pale as a skeleton. Now he's in grad school to be a veterinarian.
Leo Domitrix 2 years ago
Grades aren't always intelligence. And luck and so forth play parts. Let's face it, if you graduate top of the class in Nowhere, vs top of the class at a fancy preparatory school? Your options right there are different.
madbakes 2 years ago
It has taken me a good amount of therapy to truly accept this and not beat myself up too badly.
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Casey Burns 2 years ago
The smartest woman in our class became a NASA aerospace engineer. Monanika was her name.
Wysteria_Rose 2 years ago
Smartest person was my best friend and still is, though we live far apart and can't talk as much anymore. She now teaches at our high school and works alongside her mom, but she has her own house and plans to have kids on her own someday. I'm proud of her!
howdylee 2 years ago
Of my graduating class (about 100 students per grade): 1 is a veterinarian, 1 is a lawyer, 1 is an aviation engineer, several RN's & teachers, I am an architect, and this is just the women! 1 guy was/is an engineer for NASA. Most of the loud mouths never got out of town and aren't doing anything exciting (not saying they're not happy, just not as accomplished on paper.) We had quite the group of quiet, determined women in our class!
Michael Largey 2 years ago
The first valedictorian from our school went to a prestigious college and then became a priest. He worked his way up the order and ended up at a very young age the president of a major Catholic university. Then he was exposed as a pedophile, and all that came crashing down. I was not surprised. He always had been the picture of smug entitlement and felt he deserved anything he wanted. He refused to express any remorse.
Ahimsa Soul 2 years ago
The smartest kids in my school (there were quite a few), went to college, took the degree they dreamt of, and prioritised travelling, living and working abroad, before having their own business. Most of them married relatively late and have children. They seem happy and are kind to me now as they were as when we were kids.
Benita Valdez 2 years ago
I was friends with the smartest kid and he dropped everything at his girlfriends prodding to get married and have kids right after high-school. She was his first girlfriend and a terrible person who convinced him not to pursue anything, move hundreds of miles away and just marry her. Last I heard he was utterly miserable, hated her, resented the kids that he never wanted and couldn't divorce her because of his religion.
Miranda Small 2 years ago
Smartest girl (on paper) was from a wealthy family and was very entitled. She was pretty mean, couldn't understand that some people just didn't have the same money that her family did. She went to an expensive private university. Suddenly there were people much richer than she was. She maxed out several credit cards, and I guess in desperate attempt to pay them off, she agreed to rob this guy by pretending to go on a date with him. Her partner actually killed the guy, they were both arrested, and she was sentenced to time served and 5 years probation. Her parents divorced over it.
lila marie 2 years ago
The smartest kid in my class was headhunted by Microsoft freshman year of college and has been working with them ever since. The smartest kid ever was a year ahead of me and we dated for a couple of years in high school. Last I knew he was working with Facebook, Instagram, Twitter (something like that) happily married for almost twenty years to someone he met in college with two kids. Probably teenagers by now.
Jasam Nitko 2 years ago
The three smartest in my class went on a joy ride on graduation night. One of them survived the crash but is paralyzed. He blew all his insurance money on booze and drugs. He was not doing that well the last time I talked to him, but it was 15 years ago so he might be doing better now. The two guys at the "bottom" of our class contacted me a couple of years ago, and they are living their best lives. Still best friends, still quirky, and still down to earth. They run a business together, as they planned to when we were kids. One teacher once told them that no one would hire them because of their low grades. Their solution was to hire themselves. Maybe that makes them the smartest?
LynzCatastrophe 2 years ago
A plethora of smart kids in my graduating class. We live in a small town and all once used to define success as leaving. The smart classmates ended up staying: most are stay at home moms, the males ended up as port workers or construction. I'd say being a port worker pays lots but you wouldn't guess that based on rental rates or housing prices here. Those who were average students or barely managed to graduate? All left. I was an average student, I have a degree from a major university that I can't use because I came back to this hometown because hubby got a job here. I'm massively unhappy living here and planning to leave.
Scarlett 2 years ago
They’ve gotten into great colleges (Ivy league), made tons of friends, love their majors, and seem to be living their best life. They’re my best friends and I wish them well. I used to be smart and now I’m a depressed mess of a senior who’s going to community college and probably has no future or chance to get out of this miserable state.
Leo Domitrix 2 years ago
Don't kid yourself. I seemed that way and was suicidal. I'd probably have been healthier if I *had* admitted i was a depressed mess. You're already one step ahead of me at that age. And there is a chance. Always. My life is nowhere near what it was then. Gentle hugs.
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Hannahbanana007 X 1 year ago
'The most succesful: 12 million subs on Tiktok'. Tell me you're American without telling me you're American.
kath morgan 2 years ago
I don’t know about school-wide, but in my friend group; she got her doctorate and is in academia in her chosen field. Very proud :)
censorshipsucks 2 years ago
why is this thread full of american examples? what is a valedictorian?
waddles 2 years ago
valedictorian is the person who gets the highest grades
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Bobby 2 years ago
It was me. I was the smart kid. After school I made one terrible decision after another and it took a 5 year vacation from the world courtesy of the department of Justice to get my head out of my a*s and stop blaming the world for my problems. Now I'm a father of 3 lovely children and have a wife who is supporting of me and helping me get back to school to pursue my passions. Our hope is that if I can make it as a freelancer making close to what she does as a travel sleep tech we'll be able to each only work 6 months a year and take all of summer off with our kids
GirlFriday 2 years ago
The smartest guy in my high school went on to graduate from West Point and about 2 after his graduation from there, he was arrested, tried and found guilty of molesting and trafficking several children. He is prison now and probably won't ever get out. That is a good thing.
John Ambrose 2 years ago
The one really smart guy I was friends with got a bunch of scholarships for one of the best universities in our state. Some kind of computer science, it was the 90s. First year of school got involved in a toxic relationship. She lied about being pregnant, cheated on him and all that. When they broke up, he quit everything. School, job, life. Ended up being a pretty successful musician a couple years later. He got into drugs for a while but, luckily, quit the lifestyle before it killed him. I remember seeing him once when we were about 30 and he was as skinny and pale as a skeleton. Now he's in grad school to be a veterinarian.
Leo Domitrix 2 years ago
Grades aren't always intelligence. And luck and so forth play parts. Let's face it, if you graduate top of the class in Nowhere, vs top of the class at a fancy preparatory school? Your options right there are different.
madbakes 2 years ago
It has taken me a good amount of therapy to truly accept this and not beat myself up too badly.
Load More Replies... Casey Burns 2 years ago
The smartest woman in our class became a NASA aerospace engineer. Monanika was her name.
Wysteria_Rose 2 years ago
Smartest person was my best friend and still is, though we live far apart and can't talk as much anymore. She now teaches at our high school and works alongside her mom, but she has her own house and plans to have kids on her own someday. I'm proud of her!
howdylee 2 years ago
Of my graduating class (about 100 students per grade): 1 is a veterinarian, 1 is a lawyer, 1 is an aviation engineer, several RN's & teachers, I am an architect, and this is just the women! 1 guy was/is an engineer for NASA. Most of the loud mouths never got out of town and aren't doing anything exciting (not saying they're not happy, just not as accomplished on paper.) We had quite the group of quiet, determined women in our class!
Michael Largey 2 years ago
The first valedictorian from our school went to a prestigious college and then became a priest. He worked his way up the order and ended up at a very young age the president of a major Catholic university. Then he was exposed as a pedophile, and all that came crashing down. I was not surprised. He always had been the picture of smug entitlement and felt he deserved anything he wanted. He refused to express any remorse.
Ahimsa Soul 2 years ago
The smartest kids in my school (there were quite a few), went to college, took the degree they dreamt of, and prioritised travelling, living and working abroad, before having their own business. Most of them married relatively late and have children. They seem happy and are kind to me now as they were as when we were kids.
Benita Valdez 2 years ago
I was friends with the smartest kid and he dropped everything at his girlfriends prodding to get married and have kids right after high-school. She was his first girlfriend and a terrible person who convinced him not to pursue anything, move hundreds of miles away and just marry her. Last I heard he was utterly miserable, hated her, resented the kids that he never wanted and couldn't divorce her because of his religion.
Miranda Small 2 years ago
Smartest girl (on paper) was from a wealthy family and was very entitled. She was pretty mean, couldn't understand that some people just didn't have the same money that her family did. She went to an expensive private university. Suddenly there were people much richer than she was. She maxed out several credit cards, and I guess in desperate attempt to pay them off, she agreed to rob this guy by pretending to go on a date with him. Her partner actually killed the guy, they were both arrested, and she was sentenced to time served and 5 years probation. Her parents divorced over it.
lila marie 2 years ago
The smartest kid in my class was headhunted by Microsoft freshman year of college and has been working with them ever since. The smartest kid ever was a year ahead of me and we dated for a couple of years in high school. Last I knew he was working with Facebook, Instagram, Twitter (something like that) happily married for almost twenty years to someone he met in college with two kids. Probably teenagers by now.
Jasam Nitko 2 years ago
The three smartest in my class went on a joy ride on graduation night. One of them survived the crash but is paralyzed. He blew all his insurance money on booze and drugs. He was not doing that well the last time I talked to him, but it was 15 years ago so he might be doing better now. The two guys at the "bottom" of our class contacted me a couple of years ago, and they are living their best lives. Still best friends, still quirky, and still down to earth. They run a business together, as they planned to when we were kids. One teacher once told them that no one would hire them because of their low grades. Their solution was to hire themselves. Maybe that makes them the smartest?
LynzCatastrophe 2 years ago
A plethora of smart kids in my graduating class. We live in a small town and all once used to define success as leaving. The smart classmates ended up staying: most are stay at home moms, the males ended up as port workers or construction. I'd say being a port worker pays lots but you wouldn't guess that based on rental rates or housing prices here. Those who were average students or barely managed to graduate? All left. I was an average student, I have a degree from a major university that I can't use because I came back to this hometown because hubby got a job here. I'm massively unhappy living here and planning to leave.
Scarlett 2 years ago
They’ve gotten into great colleges (Ivy league), made tons of friends, love their majors, and seem to be living their best life. They’re my best friends and I wish them well. I used to be smart and now I’m a depressed mess of a senior who’s going to community college and probably has no future or chance to get out of this miserable state.
Leo Domitrix 2 years ago
Don't kid yourself. I seemed that way and was suicidal. I'd probably have been healthier if I *had* admitted i was a depressed mess. You're already one step ahead of me at that age. And there is a chance. Always. My life is nowhere near what it was then. Gentle hugs.
Load More Replies... Hannahbanana007 X 1 year ago
'The most succesful: 12 million subs on Tiktok'. Tell me you're American without telling me you're American.
kath morgan 2 years ago
I don’t know about school-wide, but in my friend group; she got her doctorate and is in academia in her chosen field. Very proud :)
censorshipsucks 2 years ago
why is this thread full of american examples? what is a valedictorian?
waddles 2 years ago
valedictorian is the person who gets the highest grades
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