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"I posted the question on r/AskReddit with no intentions of it gaining the traction it did," 05tn3021 tells Bored Panda. "In all honesty, I just wanted 2024 to be a better year and wondered what people do to find joy in whatever they do, [regardless] of the magnitude of their actions."

The Redditor says she hoped to pick up some habits and learn more about appreciating the smaller things in life from other Redditors. "I never really expected it to garner the attention it did. But I'm happy the Reddit community banded together to create a beautiful thread on how all of us could better our mental health and lead more joyful lives."

Out of the almost five thousand replies and stories, there had to be one that stood out most to the author. She says two comments resonated with her the most. One of them was about deleting social media. The other described being able to question the source of frustration in others instead of internalizing their anger.

#2

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier I found a friend who is interested in the same things I am who is intelligent and open-minded at my age this is quite an accomplishment. We go to lunch once a week usually spend about two to two and a half hours just talking about the things we love sharing ideas no politics no gossip. I am immensely better a different person you could say.

WolfThick , ELEVATE / Pexels Report

Final score:

166points

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Alexandra 10 months ago

I'm so happy for you!

22points

#3

I'm trying to stop judging folks, and instead, I say to myself, 'I don't know their story.' Trying to be more understanding and empathetic has taken a huge burden off my heart.

MRSRN65 Report

Final score:

165points

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Papa 10 months ago

This should be much higher than #60.

22points

CrazyKnitter 10 months ago

Now at #43!

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WindySwede 10 months ago

But at the same time I think it depends on if you get irritated on an äss in traffic, or if it's SA DV or worse??

1point

JSMart26 9 months ago

Nice to hear you like the item, yet maybe "Amen!" or "Bravo" or something else is a better way to express that. Please consider that "This should be much higher" comes across like "I deserve more than one vote" or "everyone should agree with me" ...

0points

JayWantsACat 10 months ago

It's #7 as of my comment!

0points

Tammy Kirks 10 months ago

When someone annoys my husband or I in public (cut off in traffic, etc) we always say, "maybe they just found out their kid has cancer." Sounds morbid, but it puts into perspective that we don't know what is going on in their life.

7points

Kevin the Manager 10 months ago

Can you convince my mother-in-law to do the same thing?

4points

Papa 10 months ago

There may be hope for her. I know I've become much less judgmental than I was when I was younger.

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Red PANda (she/they) 10 months ago

As someone who started doing this a long time ago, I can say that I live with a lot less anger in my life. My friend once told me they loved being around me so much because they feel like they could be themselves and I wouldn’t judge :) But also, it’s important to remember that knowing why someone did something doesn’t exactly justify what they’re doing, it just helps you understand why they did that. Like someone bullying another person isn’t okay, but you may be able to understand and support them better knowing why they did that, like if they were being bullied as well, instead of just writing them off as just mean in your head.

2points

Sergio Bicerra 10 months ago (edited)

Some months ago a known actor in my country posted a video of an argument with a lady on the street while he was walking his dog, and she was yelling something along the lines of "I'm gonna kill your dog and every dog around here". People went to her house to harrass her and if I remember well she had to move to a relative's house. Two days later a regular guy psted a video "I'm here in this lady's house front and REEKS of dog urine, and her garden is full of dog s**t. Can you undertand her reaction now?" She didn't want to kill any dog, she was just frustrated people used her house as a letrine.

2points

Beachbum 9 months ago

I am trying to do the same. I watch my daughter who never says a bad word about anybody, well at least not verty often, and I am learning from her

1point

Shane S 10 months ago

My version is “that’s their journey”. We are all on our own journey through life. Others’ are different than mine. That’s not better or worse.

1point

Auntriarch 10 months ago

It's strange how doing something for another's benefit can be good for you

1point

Laurie Ostergaard-Overbey 9 months ago

i say this to myself daily, and to others who are 'gossiping' or being otherwise mean. i have been through heck and back, you never know what someone is struggling with. i also throw out meaningful compliments to strangers daily, (i love your dress, hair, eyes, etc) people will really perk up, actually stand taller when they hear a compliment.

0points

Nonya Business 10 months ago

I think females are socialized to compete. Putting in the conscious effort to appreciate other people's traits/achievements has made me a much happier person and much better friend. I need to work on extending that grace to strangers when they make mistakes.

0points

Theora Fifty-five Johnson 10 months ago

this is lovely; thank you.

0points

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“I was able to relate to deleting social media,” the Redditor says. She says we should focus on living in the present, away "from mind-numbing scrolls on TikTok or Instagram and the fictionality of 'social media lifestyles.'" The netizen says she's no stranger to endless scrolling herself. This comment helped her to reflect and make changes in her lifestyle.

"Also, another comment revolved around the source of frustrations and how people lash out. I found it really insightful, as they reminded us that sometimes people take out their frustration on us, and it's not always our fault."

"For the better of our mental health, we should question the way people speak to us. We should start to question, 'Why are they responding this way' rather than 'What did I do wrong?'"

#4

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Not working until I am on the clock and stopping work when I'm off the clock. My time is my time.

Final score:

162points

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Alexandra 10 months ago

Yep, you work to live, not the other way around.

26points

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#5

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Wipe my counters and put away the dishes every night no matter how tired I am.

The energy boost from getting up to see a neat kitchen is not to be underestimated.

Final score:

158points

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Alexandra 10 months ago

YES! Coming down in the morning and then be immediately confronted with a cluttered and dirty counter is such a bad start of the day! This is such a small change with huge benefits. In order to change your life for the better, you don't need to make huge changes. Make this small one, see what it brings you and, more likely than not, it will set you on the path to making more small changes that in the end will make a such a difference.

39points

--lll-era-lll-- , Alena Darmel / Pexels Report

#6

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier I brought my son a dog when he was struggling post lockdown. It helped him almost instantly but I didn't realise how much having him helped me too.. Being around animals and nature are so underestimated as a cure for the modern world's detachment or rather it's attachment to meaninglessness.

Final score:

154points

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Boootifull Unicorn 10 months ago

Yes! The pets help with both mental and physical health :)

35points

Numerous_Sugar_7055 , August de Richelieu / Pexels Report

The Redditor also took some of the suggestions from this thread and tried to implement them into her everyday life. One example is simply taking a walk every day. "Whether I took one with a pet, partner, or even by myself. Sometimes it's nice to slow down and listen to your favorite playlist or podcast and be able to breathe a breath of fresh air," the Redditor muses.

05tn3021 has some wise words about our inclination to always be faster, better, and more productive. "In a world where everything moves so fast, the ability to be [at] one's own peace and to pick your own pace really is valuable."

"You don't have to run after your goals constantly, as you'll face the inevitable doom of burning out. Instead, learn to find your own pace rather than copy someone else's and be proud of your achievements, small or large. Otherwise, you'll never really feel happy."

#7

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Reading books before going to sleep instead of watching TV.

Final score:

140points

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BrownTabby 10 months ago

I’ve found that it depends on the kind of TV (and the kind of book!)

28points

Grownfetus , Towfiqu barbhuiya / Unsplash Report

#8

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Doing one chore or errand every work-day so I can actually enjoy a day off, rather than having to catch up on all the cleaning and errands no one wants to do on off-days.

Final score:

123points

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Alexandra 10 months ago

Sometimes it doesn't take much to feel more relaxed. Before you go to bed, spend 10/15 minutes putting everything that's lying around in its proper place and your day will start with a smile.

28points

Rollthembones1989 , Andrea Piacquadio / Pexels Report

#9

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Slowing down at work. I don't need to respond to every email right away, or make sure everything is up to date constantly. Some things can just wait.

Final score:

118points

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Superb Owl 10 months ago

Giving 100% all the time is about the worst advice you can get. Do that, and you'll burn out for sure. Work is long distance, not sprint – if you start a long distance at full pelt, you will not finish. Make 70% your 100% and give that, then you'll have some reserve when the brown stuff hits the fan.

40points

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The Redditor also found the comment about making a routine particularly helpful. She says it's important to dedicate some time in the day to just relax and read a book, play games, or whatever one considers downtime.

"Although it might not seem productive, I personally think it's better than cramming all your chores into one day or weekend, [and] to then only give yourself 10-30 minutes of free time before bed."

"We subconsciously want to put off work and don't want to just sleep, work, eat, clean, and then sleep again. Instead, we end up digging into that necessary 8 hours of sleep and pleasing our dopamine demon with a 'death scroll.'"

"Setting a fixed time to wind down and then sleep is very important, and routines, in general, will improve your quality of life. It'll definitely help you get out of bed, especially on those days when life just has a bit more bite than usual."

#10

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier I stopped reading the comments on social media. I thought it didn’t effect me and was just entertaining, but man did it make me depressed with the state of humanity.

Final score:

118points

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BravePanda 10 months ago

BP and specific membership groups are the places that I read comments and it's marvelous. Thanks BP community for being so great.

95points

BrawndoTTM , Karolina Grabowska /pexels Report

#11

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Stopping caring what others think of me.

Final score:

106points

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MEB 10 months ago

Took me a while to get there, but it was worth every effort and stint in therapy! Freedom!

23points

bellabbr , Andrea Piacquadio / Pexels Report

#12

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Bedtime routine. I worked on it and now its solid and I can fall asleep in less than 20 minutes. For an insomniac worry wart , its been life changing getting solid sleep and made me so less c**ty.

Final score:

104points

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Nae who and where 10 months ago

But what is the routine?

22points

CulturedBoldne , Clem Onojeghuo / Pexels Report

The author behind this post encourages others to be more mindful and kind to themselves. "Continue doing what makes you happy, even if it feels like a waste of time or that you could be doing something more meaningful. There's nothing more important than yourself. Staying happy and working on your mental health should be your top priority."

"Everyone deserves a break, and your worth isn't solely based on your accomplishments. Be rich in health rather than wealth, although both play pretty nicely together! Celebrate the small accomplishments and be proud of yourself for who you are today," the Redditor says.

#13

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Started incorporating daily walks into my routine. It might sound small, but the fresh air and movement have done wonders for my mood. Highly recommend listening to your favorite podcast or playlist too.

Final score:

104points

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Alexandra 10 months ago

This is where people with dogs have the advantage. You have to walk them, rain or shine or hail and thank goodness you have! For me, it's a way to be me, just me, my dog and the weather, no people who want something from you.

32points

Greenis67 , Fernando Jorge / Unsplash Report

#14

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Whenever there’s a BOGO for any cat or dog food in my local grocery store I buy some. When I have a few collected, I deliver to a local shelter. They are always so grateful and I feel wonderful.

Final score:

102points

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Alexandra 10 months ago

Yep, do that too. Especially the soft foods for elderly cats than can't chew properly anymore. Taking food to an animal shelter feels also more rewarding than just donating.

34points

Tsundere_Revy , cottonbro studio / Pexels Report

#15

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Undressing the moment I get home from work, swaping that piece of s**t uniform to comfy soft clothes legit makes me chill out and smile just to think about it.

Final score:

97points

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Boootifull Unicorn 10 months ago

Home time = pyjama time

39points

Il_Magn1f1c0 , RDNE Stock project / Pexels Report

#16

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Cut out toxic people!

Final score:

97points

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sbj 10 months ago

It's difficult but it has to be done

18points

SUGARDUNKERTON956 , August de Richelieu / Pexels Report

#17

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Realizing the difference between when I actually screwed up and when someone is taking their frustrations out on me, and then asking what's actually wrong bc this isn't a proportional response to the issue.

Final score:

96points

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Boootifull Unicorn 10 months ago

this should be higher

13points

ima_little_stitious , Athena / Pexels Report

#18

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Solo travel. I never used to travel because it was hard to coordinate with others, and when I did, I had to plan something everyone going would enjoy, often sacrificing what I wanted to do. Now, I try once a year to go on a trip that I want just for myself, with no one else to please. Last year, I went to a farm and hung out with some awesome animals and painted. This year, I'm going to a concert and staying in a nice hotel downtown.

Final score:

95points

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Kris 10 months ago

Im doing the exact same thing this year! First a long weekend for a concert and a spa hotel, then one week in Cyprus. I decided I didnt want beeing single and having friends that are bussy, stop me from doing what I want

20points

DragonElephantCat , Tracy Le Blanc / Pexels Report

#19

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Deleted social media. Stopped thinking about the past. Those two things have been huge in increasing my well-being.

Final score:

93points

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Jill Rhodry 10 months ago

Living in the past creates depression; worrying about the future creates anxiety.

28points

#20

Started learning the names of the plants and birds I see every day.

Sounds dumb but I live in a metro area and was treating the nature around me like visual white noise. Once I started learning the names of what’s around me, I started really seeing it, and then I suddenly saw it everywhere. That kind of noticing has really enriched my life. I love walking past a bush and thinking “forsythia!” like it’s a friend I recognize. It makes me feel like I’m part of my environment rather than just existing inside it.

euphonicbliss Report

Final score:

89points

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cerinamroth 10 months ago

For birds, I recommend the Merlin Bird ID app - after an evening swim at our local pool in the summer, I walk home past some beautiful grasslands and can hear so many birds. This allows you to record a section of the bird song and it tells you who you can hear.

23points

#21

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier I'm only allowed to insult myself with G-rated 'curse words.' If I realize I forgot an errand or missed an email, I'll think, 'Good job, you goose,' or, 'Aw, you've messed this up, dillweed'. Then, instead of dwelling on berating myself, I'm smiling because 'goober' is just a funny insult.

Kyoukon , Engin Akyurt / Pexels Report

Final score:

88points

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Kris 10 months ago

«Im a goofy goober yeah!»

29points

#22

Forcing myself to do more arts and crafts. I've been in such a creative slump for so long. It's still difficult at times to be creative, but when I am doing it, it makes me so happy.

SaveusJebus Report

Final score:

87points

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Boootifull Unicorn 10 months ago

YES should be higher :)

10points

AcidNeonDreams , Andrea Piacquadio / Pexels Report

#23

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Cleaning up as I cook. I often felt very overwhelmed with a dirty kitchen and a ton of dishes to do once I was done with cooking a meal. I started to make it a habit to clean up as I cook, and it instantly became more manageable when I'm done and can enjoy my meal instead of stressing out about the mess.

Final score:

87points

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Sonja 10 months ago

Do the TV chef routine: prepare everything first, put it on a huge plate to use or in little bowls if not possible otherwise. Put everything ready on the corner. Then you can clean up without hassle while everything is cooking. It called mis en place and professional kitchens do it all the time for the exact reason that it streamlines the whole process.

32points

#24

I decided to answer every spam call with my best pirate impression. Now, telemarketers probably think they've dialed the wrong century, and I've found my inner pirate swagger. Cheers!

pic_magician Report

Final score:

85points

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Owen 10 months ago

This is genius. Chaotic neutral.

35points

#25

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier I wouldn't say that it has made me drastically happier, but feeding my birds and watching them brings a peaceful joy each day.

DustyBubble656 Report

Final score:

84points

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Pferdchen 10 months ago

The week of the American insurrection, there was an article in the Washington Post about a vagabond painted bunting along the C&O canal - in January, in DC. Hundreds of people were flocking to the park trying to catch a brief glimpse of the bird. I had seen buntings around here in Florida some years back so, what the heck, I set up a bird feeder less than a foot from my home office window. The very first birds to appear, that same day, were painted buntings. So, for four years, from October through April, I have painted buntings coming to visit several times every single day. They never fail to brighten my day. There is so much ugliness in the world. Seeing their beauty is a soothing salve. Fortunately, I don't have hundreds of people coming to catch a glimpse :-)

28points

tumchie , Valeria Ushakova / Pexels Report

#26

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Stretching every day has helped a great deal. Doesn't always have to be a lot.

Final score:

80points

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Amelia Jade 10 months ago

For those considering daily stretching, look up Qigong. There are tons of youtube videos. Qigong with Kseny are my favorite. It has helped me manage chronic pain. Like the post says, it doesn't always have to be a lot, but a little daily goes a very long way.

26points

#27

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Stopped commenting on political articles online. Too many pointless arguments really ruin the day.

Glozboy , Ivan / Pexels Report

Final score:

76points

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LaserBrain 10 months ago

I still comment on BP articles, though. As does everyone else whose comments are below.

11points

rock-mommy , Monstera Production / Pexels Report

#28

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Started declining invitations I didn't feel like attending such as going out with people I don't like that much, big social events with a lot of expectations, activities with friends that I wouldn't like to do if they weren't going... And all of that with a simple "no thanks, I don't actually feel like it because X". No excuses, no easy lies such as "that day's my grandma's birthday", no fake feelings like "awww I wish I could BUT". Being the owner of my free time and learning to say no without needing to give further explanations has done wonders for my mental health.

Final score:

76points

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Alexandra 10 months ago

I just wonder. Does anyone else have the experience that there are people who just use you as a kind of battery? There are people that, whenever I have to meet them, seem to drain all the energy out of me. When they leave, I'm so tired I need at least a few hours to charge, if you know what I mean.

42points

MARRIEDT0THEOIL , RF._.studio / Pexels Report

#29

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Coming to terms with clothes I no longer wear (for whatever reason) and donating them to shelters.

Final score:

75points

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Alexandra 10 months ago

Getting rid of things that don't fit you anymore (and with "fit" I mean not just your size, but the whole you as a personality) is a good way to get out of a stale situation.

32points

EZEZEYEY , Juan Pablo Serrano Arenas / Pexels Report

#30

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Realizing that I can choose what I think about. If I catch myself thinking about something that’s making me anxious, I simply choose to think about something else (unless it’s immediately necessary). If it’s something that’s making me sad, I sit with the emotion rather than trying to intellectualize it.

Final score:

74points

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MP 10 months ago

I had to train myself out of this. I’m still working on it. It’s hardwired into me but I’m finally breaking it after all these years

14points

Different-Director26 Report

#31

I quit my religion/cult and my anxiety walked out the door. It was life-changing! I quit putting my happiness and decisions in 'god’s hands' and started just focusing on what I wanted and I got so much better. I feel in total control of my life.

Final score:

73points

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Shreshta Sreenatha 10 months ago

Well, to some people religion makes them feel better, but if your religion felt like it was suppressing you, then let it go.

20points

#32

Taking depression medication.

BottleTemple Report

Final score:

72points

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Garthus Andicus 10 months ago

I've only had mine for the past 2-3 years. I'm kind of surprised I managed to survive that long without them lol

18points

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#33

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Baking with my daughter a couple times per week. Pies, cookies, different kinds of breads, etc. We have so much fun doing it together and then we get to enjoy eating what we make too!

Final score:

65points

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A C 10 months ago

Your kiddo is going to have a better life for you doing this too!!!

13points

#34

Rescuing a kitten.

beerbrained Report

Final score:

65points

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Owen 10 months ago

Always rescue a kitten or pup. They will pay you back 1000x

24points

#35

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Volunteering. Find out what kind of volunteering activity interests you and do it. It can drastically change your happiness level. I drive a shuttle van for seniors and volunteer at a community kitchen. I'm so happy doing them and I look forward to doing them.

EEXC , Marta Ortigosa / Pexels Report

Final score:

64points

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Alexandra 10 months ago

Big hug to you! We need people like you!

15points

PrecariousThings , Andrea Piacquadio / Pexels Report

#36

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Audiobooks. I get them free from my library app and listen to them to and from work, and when I do chores like dishes and laundry. Suddenly, I don't mind taking the time to fold my clothes perfectly because I'm being entertained while doing so. I also never had time to sit and dedicate time to reading, but this way I can consume books on the go. I read four books in 2021. I read two books in 2022. I read four books in the first six months of 2023. Then I got into audiobooks and read 17 books in the last six months of 2023. This year's looking even better. I'm already on my fourth book since New Year's!

Final score:

63points

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BravePanda 10 months ago

Yes! I read 15 books in 2021, 30 in 2022, and 130! in 2023. Love audio books!

14points

Careful_Control9246 Report

#37

Realizing I don't have to always go places with friends. It's okay to do things solo.

Final score:

63points

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Owen 10 months ago

I really love eating alone. It's not 'sad' to go to a restaurant by yourself. It takes a little confidance, but it gets easy. I enjoy having a burger or something while watching the world go by.

20points

#38

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier I set my iPhone to only accept calls from people in my contacts.

Do I miss an occasional call that I need to take? Yep. They leave a message, and I call them back. If it is a business or organization that I deal with semiregularly, I add them to my contacts.

The important thing, for me, is that I get ZERO spam/scam calls anymore. Well, ones that ring through, anyways.

On average, I was getting over 30 of them every day.

I am much happier with this setup.

froebull , Anna Shvets / Pexels Report

Final score:

62points

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MEB 10 months ago

Over 30 a day? That's insane!

31points

#39

A few months ago, I picked up one of those cheap floral bouquets while on a grocery run. I really enjoyed arranging them, smelling them, watching them bloom over the next ten days.

So next grocery run I bought another.

Now every grocery run I buy myself a $7-12 bouquet. I trim them, i rearrange including last week's blooms that are still in great shape. I envision having my own sunroom or greenhouse to grow my own flowers sometime in the future.

It brings an inordinate amount of joy. 💐

ErinMcLaren Report

Final score:

62points

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Boootifull Unicorn 10 months ago

Cool, if you have 7-12 dollars to spare. No problem with treating yourself if you can tho

7points

#40

Also when I walk my dog I’ve started listening to sound baths and practicing mindfulness. I try to notice everything… different colours, how the ground feels beneath my feet, the breeze in my hair, the way the sunlight filters through the trees. I pick up interesting leaves and rocks to look at up close and see how they feel in my hand. I probably look nuts, but I always come back feeling so relaxed having given my brain a break from anxieties and stresses.

XLittleMagpieX Report

Final score:

54points

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Amelia Jade 10 months ago

I love this one.

9points

GuaranteeComfortable Report

#41

Choosing to focus on positive aspects of my marriage.

Learning to communicate without getting angry or overwhelmed.

Cutting out toxic family from my life.

Hanging out with my dad once a month to reconnect and strengthen our bond.

Forgiving myself for abusing my body with food so I can become healthier.

Learning that I can improve my life daily with small habits.

Final score:

52points

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Judy Reynolds 10 months ago

Tiny little baby steps toward becoming more healthy!

5points

#42

Drinking enough water - I didn't realize how much of my body discomfort daily was just dehydration.

Foodiebride Report

Final score:

48points

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Miranda Veracruz de la Joya Cardenal 10 months ago

Kidney stones are a pain comparable to childbirth. Drink water, people.

10points

#43

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier I started doing 10 push-ups when I got really stressed out or couldn’t solve a problem. It was something I could do quickly, and it makes me feel like I accomplished something. Also, it gets the blood pumping and gives a small rush of endorphins. It makes a world of difference when I remember to stop and do push-ups when I get overwhelmed.

etsprout Report

Final score:

46points

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Judy Reynolds 10 months ago

That sounds like a really good idea. There doesn't seem to be anything I can do about feeling overwhelmed, so change the focus.

6points

#44

Going to bed early.

No-Commission007 Report

Final score:

43points

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Bored something 10 months ago

I've found lights out 10 works well for me and I naturally wake 6:30-7ish

11points

#45

Weaned off of caffeine. When I was a teenager it was energy drinks + coffee. 18-20ish hears it was a lot of coffee since I worked at a coffee shop. After quitting my job, I was too cheap to buy the yummy coffee so I’d just have a black coffee at home. Then I started drinking black tea. I’m currently pregnant and just ran out of my black tea but I’m moving so I didn’t buy more. Therefore I switched to what I had of my green tea, and then decided to switch to just ginger tea altogether or any other caffeine-free tea. I feel so much more stable and plain water is the best thing you can drink for reliable energy.

justblippingby Report

Final score:

40points

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Judy Reynolds 10 months ago

At least you had a choice. If I have more than one coffee a month, it starts tasting horrible and I start getting heartburn.

4points

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#46

I stopped making things out of my control my problem.

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Ample Aardvark 10 months ago

That's a skill I can only wish I had

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#47

Getting half an hour of exercise every day.

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Judy Reynolds 10 months ago

I got a dog, and now I get both exercise and cuddles every day.

6points

#48

Started talking to myself like a human being. I didn't realize how hateful I was to myself, and it was all in my head, my inner voice was a C**T!

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Boootifull Unicorn 10 months ago

I heard that you should imagine it's someone you don't like when you criticize yourself. Trump says I'm lazy? Pffft, he can p**s off

4points

#49

This is truly really small. I started wearing my smart watch to bed because I wanted to see what the sleep monitoring was about. That was fine, it took a little getting used to but I got to the point where I didn't notice it on my wrist or anything. I then realized I can set alarms on my watch that vibrate and don't make a noise. I feel like it is much more pleasant waking up to a slight vibration on my wrist instead of the noise of an alarm, or of the noise of the phone vibrating against my nightstand. I also learned I could do this for naps, want to take a 30 min nap, I can quickly set a timer on my watch and feel confident I will wake up. I have tried to convince all my friends to do this but they don't see any value in it.

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Judy Reynolds 10 months ago

I set my dog to wake me up in the mornings. That is enjoyable, too.

8points

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#50

Actually touching grass.

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Judy Reynolds 10 months ago

I don't put my shoes on when I go out in the yard in the summer. This week, of course, I am wearing my boots, and a hat and mittens, but grass will come again.

5points

#51

Smiling to myself. Like physically smiling randomly. Really helps.

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Jonni Jones 10 months ago

I do that too even at home and starting to feel down. It makes me feel good enough that I can just get on without sliding into more of those feelings

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#52

I developed the motto of "sometimes you just need a cookie." When I'm stressed, pissed or super busy, I take the time to sit down and eat a cookie. I savor it as best I can and use that little bit of downtime to relax and destress even for a minute. I focus on the cookie, not the problem(s). In my opinion you can't really be in a bad mood when you're eating a cookie.

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Garthus Andicus 10 months ago

Much much better than my motto of, "sometimes you need 10 cookies."

17points

#53

Giving myself permission to spend entire days in my PJ's on the weekends. IDK why I felt the pressure to be so ACTIVE on my time off. PJ days are the best days.

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Boootifull Unicorn 10 months ago

Your time off is your own, nobody should be telling you what to do with it

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#54

Napping in the afternoon on weekends.

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KombatBunni 10 months ago

Naps are awesome. Naps with pets are fantastic :) My birds will sometimes have a nap with me during the afternoon..it’s adorable

4points

#55

“Has Done Wonders For My Mental Health”: 45 Small Life Changes That Made People Happier Instead of deleting social media, I unfollowed probably 70% of the people on my list so I don't get inundated with everyone's life and start comparing it to my own. I can then go and catch up on people when I feel like I have the mental clarity to do so, and not be bombarded with it when I'm doom-scrolling at 3:00 a.m. and wondering what I'm doing with my life. It really made a big difference, and I got to keep all of my hobby groups and can share my hobby stuff when I want.

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Boootifull Unicorn 10 months ago

Yes, it doesn't have to be a drastic change to make a difference. With social media, it should be like chucking out the clothes you don't use instead of chucking the whole closet.

4points

#56

Okay, these are *really* small, but...

1) Wearing gloves while washing dishes.

2) Wearing earplugs or noise-cancelling earbuds + audiobook/podcast while vacuuming or drying my hair.

3) Watching a favorite TV show while folding laundry.

Basically I tried to minimize the sensory discomfort and boredom of regular chores, and now I almost look forward to them.

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cerinamroth 10 months ago

1) Revealed to me that I had developed a late-onset latex allergy after pregnancy :( Now I have bought a cheap pair of cotton gloves that I wear under the washing-up gloves. Problem solved and no more sweaty hands either!

6points

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#57

Not drinking during the week. Makes Fridays buzz feel earned and like I deserve it.

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Bell-icose Premium 10 months ago

When I was trying to learn to control my drinking I implemented a “Once per Week” rule whereby I would allow myself to drink as much or as little as I wanted to, but it was only one day. This taught me several things: 1. I could live without alcohol. 2. It taught me that I could actually have one and quit. 3. By paying attention to the times that I wanted to drink helped me realize that I drink more than I thought. I’ve since quit drinking altogether and it was the exercise I mentioned above that helped me understand what I needed to do. For many, this won’t be a stepping stone to quitting full stop, but if you’re already thinking about cutting back, this rule might help you to do it without having to quit altogether.

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#58

Giving up alcohol.

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Bell-icose Premium 10 months ago

1.5 years after making the decision to quit drinking I have never been happier. I didn’t think I would know who I was without booze. In many ways I was right! I’m stronger, more outgoing and more fun sober but didn’t know that because I had never really been sober. Also, the amount of cash you save is wild. Not just on booze, but taxis and fast food and all the other stuff that just kind of disappears after you give up. Find the motivation and strike while the iron is hot. Go to a meeting, find an app, tell the world. Do whatever you need to do to quit and do it now. Before all the negative comments come here, I’m not speaking to everyone. If you think this is silly advice, you probably don’t have issues with alcohol. If this post makes you a little uncomfortable or self-conscious, I’m talking to you. Quit drinking now, it is never too late.

1point

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#59

I now make my bed in the morning. Every single day. It only takes 5 minutes and every night, when I am ready for bed it makes me feel a little happier, like when I go to a hotel.

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Liz Reid 10 months ago

I leave my bed to air with the duvet folded.back all day then make it when I get changed into my pjs a while before bedtime. But then again my husband is still in bed asleep for more than 1½hours after I get up!

3points

#60

A consistent sleep schedule. Seems like one of those super obvious things we always know we should be better about. Very noticeable difference in how easy it is to wake up and actually be energized first thing in the morning.

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Bell-icose Premium 10 months ago

…and if you can do it in a way that you are also rising early to meet the day, so much the better.

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#61

I tend to be a procrastinator. I know enough about myself to not let things pile up because then they seem insurmountable. But sometimes it does happen. What I have learned is to prioritize but not in the sense of always doing the most important or time sensitive things first. I put one or two smaller, easily accomplished and not too time-consuming tasks first so I can easily and quickly knock them off and the seamlessly slide into the big tasks, momentum having been established.

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Owen 10 months ago

Do the little jobs first. Then the bigger ones don't seem as hard. It's a simple trick, but it works.

5points

#62

I have a pillow scent spray. I think it’s a very light cucumber citrus scent. I put it on right before I get in for bed, and then I have the lovely scent while I read and fall asleep. Surprisingly, it's a really nice thing to give myself every day.

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GB 10 months ago

Can you tell us what this product is?

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#63

Cleaning my room every week. Used to clean my room whenever felt like it, but having the consistency of having a clean room has brought me happiness whenever I enter it.

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#64

Daily fruit smoothie. I was eating zero fresh fruit before. Stopped falling asleep at my desk midday.

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Shetland Tony 10 months ago

That's sugar for ya

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#65

I put my phone on do not disturb. It lets 2 calls back to back go through in case it’s an emergency, but I realized I was stressing about making sure I got back to someone RIGHT NOW. If it’s a text it can wait. Forcing myself not to listen to news/videos at certain times, but rather music. Essentially scheduling in relaxing time. Going for walks in nature is the best one though. And also I force myself to not look at my phone. Every bit of technology is screaming for our attention at every given moment. If you’re always focused on something, then you’re actually never focused on anything. The times we’re “bored” are great for kinda recalibrating my adhd brain.

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#66

Keep a gratitude journal. I write down three things I'm thankful for every day.

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cerinamroth 10 months ago

My daughter and I do this before bed "Three things that made you happy" - we've been doing that since she was about 4. It also helps her recall what she actually did that day, and is interesting for me to hear!

2points

#67

Putting my phone on the charger in a different room. I’m finding it easier to sleep and quicker to get out of bed. Overall, my mood has been loads better.

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devotedtodreams 10 months ago

The only time my phone is beside my bed during the night is when I'm sleeping at a hotel (for alarm clock purposes). It's been many years since I've slept in the same with it otherwise.

1point

#68

Using a week's vacation to take every Friday off for a month in the summer.

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#69

Bought indoor plants.

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Owen 10 months ago

I'm not very good at looking after plants. But I bought about a dozen fake ones and I love them.

5points

#70

Telling myself "I love you, baby girl" & "you are so beautiful", I'm so much happier, especially when I look at myself in the mirror my heart is filled... 😌

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#71

Paying close attention to not get defensive in conversations with my wife.

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Boootifull Unicorn 10 months ago

That's a really important one, a lot of the time it seems like someone is aggressive or gas lighting, but they are just overly defensive

2points

#72

Before my feet hit the floor in the morning, I forgive everyone I need to in order to move on in my life and not carry around stuff from relationships. It really starts to work after a while.

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Bell-icose Premium 10 months ago

The last line is the most important.

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#73

Paying bills first, getting every single debt out of the way, doing every unpleasant chore ASAP. It's so much more of a weight knowing something unpleasant has to be done than just getting it set aside and enjoying the rest of my evening in next to total peace. I hate debt like anathema, it feels like a millstone around my neck.

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#74

Saying no way more often and learning not to feel guilty about it. Strong boundaries have definitely made me happier, though I wouldn’t say this is a small thing for everyone.

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Julie S 10 months ago

For a minute there I couldn't work out why saying "no way" would make you feel better, then I reread it.

3points

#75

I started logging everything I eat on the Lose It! app.

I was struggling to drop 20lbs for MONTHS. I was so careful but the weight wasn't budging. Then I started keeping track of Every. Single. Bite. for this app.

You have to weigh and calculate everything you eat. That means no more random snacking because, frankly, I'm just too lazy to figure out how many calories are in a handful of my mom's homemade granola.

Dropped 7lbs in 2wks. My clothes are more comfortable and I'm happier.

I'm HUNGRY, but I'm happier.

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Boootifull Unicorn 10 months ago

Good for you!

1point

#76

Yoga. Even just for 20-30 minutes a day.

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MP 10 months ago

I just do ten mins a day for posture. Fixed me up. I do longer sessions too but the ten mins for posture is a daily.

2points

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#77

Oil painting for an hour a day.

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#78

Enjoying my morning coffee in bed on a fuzzy pillow, fleece blanket and even wearing some fuzzy socks. I started doing it about 4 years ago during the worst/darkest months of my life as a way to just find strength for the day. So much was out of my control, but that short time wrapped up in all the comfort and coziness available allowed me to feel something good. I still do it now even though those difficult days are behind me. I also give that piece of advice to friends or family when their world is upside down. You can’t underestimate the power of feeling softness when everything else feels so hard.

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#79

I've been doing DIY house stuff. Landlord finally got us a new carpet (11+ years) and now I just want the rest of the house to look as nice as the floors. I've been having so much fun learning about different tools, materials, etc. It's so satisfying to rip off an old quarter round. Lol

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#80

Listening to jazz or classical music while I do anything I want to focus on, like work or relaxation. I'm not one to be able to work in complete silence, and this kind of ambiance gives me the soothing noise but not the words where I'll sing along. Unless it's Frank Sinatra.

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Boootifull Unicorn 10 months ago

Lofi is also really great for this!

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#81

I started being more assertive and actually asking people if something's wrong instead of making assumptions and letting it bother me.

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#82

Being very very organized and having a routine. It relieves so much mental load that i prepped and planned everything and all i need to do is exist or be somewhere at a certain time. I found out a good majority of my depression and anger from previous years was just inability to control my seemingly chaotic environment so once i became proactive about controlling it, all the legos fell into place like tetris.

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#83

Meditating and being fully present wherever I am.

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#84

Lifting weights.. It was hard at the beginning but now I see the benefits of it..

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MP 10 months ago

My fave!!!!!

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