If This Mom’s Before & After Photos Don’t Scare You About Skin Cancer, Nothing Will
This mom of two is on a mission to warn people about the realities of skin cancer with a shocking photo diary documenting her battle with melanoma.
Bethany Gambardella-Greenway, 39, from Austin, Texas discovered a dark spot on her skin while she was pregnant with her youngest child in 2015. She ignored it in the belief that it was something to do with hormonal changes, and when she finally got it checked out, the dermatologist reassured her that it wasn’t a cancer symptom. Eighteen months later, however, a painful mole appeared, and a biopsy revealed that it was, in fact, an aggressive form of skin cancer called desmoplastic melanoma. Doctors removed the mole and did a skin grafting procedure, but after learning that cancer had spread to her bones and lymph nodes, she started immunotherapy in October 2016.
“The radiation was absolutely the worst part of cancer treatment. It was hell plain and simple,” she said. “It fried the inside of my mouth. My throat was so sore. My skin was covered in sores; I lost my ability to taste the food, my voice was hoarse, at about week three my hair began to fall out on the treated area. By the time I was done with treatment I had lost about forty pounds because eating had become such a miserable chore. Now I am almost completely healed from the radiation which permanently damaged one saliva gland and altered my hairline.”
Bethany said she wasn’t surprised by the diagnosis because her mother also had melanoma at the same age, and even though she’s finished her treatment and is now in the all-clear, she’s encouraging other people to wear sunscreen so they don’t have to go through the same awful experience that she did. “Please stop sunbathing and going to tanning salons,” she says sharing her pictures of the skin cancer battle. “A tan isn’t a healthy glow — it’s damaged skin.” Wise words that everybody should pay attention to.
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UPDATE: One of the photographs we previously used was incorrectly labeled as depicting Bethany in hospital for the birth of her second child. This picture was actually taken when Bethany was in the hospital having her appendix removed. Also, we’d just like to clarify that Bethany has never been a tanner and was always careful in the sun. Her story serves as a cautionary reminder for everybody, regardless of whether they like to sunbathe or not.
This mom of two is on a mission to warn people about the realities of skin cancer
Her shocking photo diary documents her battle with melanoma
Bethany Gambardella-Greenway discovered a dark spot on her skin while pregnant with her youngest child
When she finally got it checked out, the dermatologist reassured her that it was just a liver spot
18 months later however, a painful mole appeared
A biopsy revealed that it was in fact an aggressive form of skin cancer called desmoplastic melanoma
Doctors removed the mole, but after learning that the cancer had spread, she started immunotherapy
“The radiation was absolutely the worst part. It was hell plain and simple,” she said
“My skin was covered in sores, I lost my ability to taste food, my voice was hoarse”
“At about week three my hair began to fall out on the treated area”
“It fried the inside of my mouth. My throat was so sore”
“By the time I was done with treatment I had lost about forty pounds”
Bethany has finished her treatment and is now in the all-clear
Now she’s encouraging people to wear sunscreen so they don’t have to go through the same experience
“Please stop sun bathing and going to tanning salons,” she says
“A tan isn’t a healthy glow — it’s damaged skin”
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Share on FacebookWord of caution. If you have light skin, are red headed, and get freckles easily, be very careful of the amount of sun exposure. Freckles are mutated skin cells, and sooner or later some of those mutations may well become malignant.
Black people get skin cancer from exposure to the sun. Anyone with skin, including dogs, can get melanoma.
Load More Replies...Seriously good advice about not going to tanning salons. They increase the risk of skin cancer by 75%. Look it up.
It amazes me that people still go. Then again, people still smoke.
Load More Replies...For me these photos are more striking than other cancer stories. Most often you see cancer results on peoples bodies, like hair out etc. Here I saw the actual cut, and how it damaged the face + results of theraphy. It's scary. Good I don't tan *shivers*. Best wishes for her and her family, happy she healed!!!
Don't just avoid tanning. Wear a brimmed hat everywhere you go. I wore sunscreen all the time growing up (I had a prescription for it as a child before higher spf was considered safe for an over-the-counter product) but I still have basil cell carcinoma on my face. I now have scars on my nose and forehead from having it removed. Protect yourself!
Load More Replies...It's that important to say "this mom of two"? Why not simply "this person..."?? If it was a guy, or a woman without children would be less important?
I don't think so, I think that it makes it that all the more relatable to the reader. It makes them more personable instead of a character
Load More Replies...I'm so sorry that this happened to her, but hellooooo ding dong how do you not know that ginger skin is to fair to tan!?
The point is NO ONE should ever try to tan! Some people with fair skin can tan. No one should.
Load More Replies...I used to work at a tanning salon for 4 years while in college and would see women in their mid 30s look like they were in their late 40s, one woman had skin cancer and refused to stop tanning! Boy do I have stories. And no, I didn't tan regularly- Olive skin lets you get by with the bare minimum.
They only recently found out that it is very addictive. That's why in The Netherlands they're trying to close/regulate all tanning salons.
Load More Replies...My mother died of melanoma. It went from being a cancerous mole on her back removed to metastasizing into her brain. Not only do I wear mineral sunscreen( mineral send screens off for a physical barrier that chemicals in screens cannot), I wear hats, I use Parasol's, I wear long sleeves even in the summer. I also go for bi annual skin checks. Melanoma is extremely aggressive and this woman was one of the very lucky few that survived it. And this does not just apply to fair-skinned people; Bob Marley died of melanoma.
While it's true lighter skinned people are more prone to skin cancers, it affects people of all races. It's so simple: use sunscreen, limit your time in the sun, wear appropriate clothing, i.e., hats, sunglasses, long sleeves. Also, all skin cancer is NOT black, brown, misshapen, ugly. I was diagnosed with stage 4 melanoma in Jan 2008 and was given 50 percent chance of 5-yr survival. It was from normal, everyday sun exposure. I never tanned. The melanoma was PINK and my general practitioner thought it was a skin fungus. It gradually turned red. Two surgeries, endless CTs and MRIs, even PET scan, a month of IV immunotherapy treatment and 11 months of self-injections 3x week. Felt like a I had a nasty case of flu for a year. Blessed to say I've been cancer-free since Jan 2010. Immunotherapy was a new treatment at the time and has shown to be a wonderful treatment.
Thank you for sharing your unfortunate situation. I just hope the young woman listen and learn from your situation and pictures.
No matter your skin color you shouldn't be exposed to sun without sunscreen. There is no safe amount of unprotected sun exposure.
Seriously? You want everyone to lather on sunscreen to walk ten feet to their mail boxes and back? You do know that exposure to sunlight is necessary for our bodies to produce vitamin D, right? Sunlight also triggers the production of important hormones. It's also important for many other health reasons. The issue here is moderation. Tanning salons are certainly not healthy, but acting like the sun is going to kill you the moment you poke your nose outside is preposterous.
Load More Replies...Freckles are NOT mutated skin cells. My goodnes, the mutation which allows for freckles, light skin, and red hair, lies in the actual DNA. The 16th chromosome to be exact. It allows the body to absorb lots of red yellow and less brown black melatonin . The freckles are simply there as a by product of the genetic mutation. The reason were getting skin cancer is because that mutation evolved from our ancestors living in areas where Sun exposure was low and we needed to absorb all we could to stay healthy. Freckles are NOT dangerous, nor are they the source of can
Thank you! I was going to say the same thing. What an ignorant falsehood to be propagating on here. He might as well have added that 'gingers have no souls'. I have freckles and learned when I was very young what made me different and I guess I thought everyone knew how melanin works. Guess not. smh
Load More Replies...Sunlight is like all these things which are bad for you, it shouldnt be feared, simply respected. Put your sun cream on, (there are plenty of quality products these days) and dont lay in it like an idiot. Everything in life is about moderation, i drink, i eat c**p food and i get lightly tanned in the summer as i walk a lot, but i also eat well generally, drink to moderation (most of the time) and put on sun screen.
I'm saying this for real, her recovery was just shocking. That treatment must have been extremely painful. I don't even know you and I'm so proud of you. 💜💜
You can get cancer from breathing apparently. Live life. Just dont go lay put and burn weekly or several days in a row. I tan in a tanning bed like once-2x per week die to severe eczema that itched so bad I had bruises and deep scrarches everywhere. I very rarely burn. If im outside longer than 20 mins, I dont use the tanning bed. People over do it. We ALL have onco genes but if we are careful we wpmt turn them on. Im so sorry for this wpman and her experience. That is devastating!
How is it one photo it's on her left side above he eye. And another it's on her right side?
That is driving me crazy too, I keep on thinking maybe because its a mirror image, but it doesn't jibe.
Load More Replies...In one picture it was on the left side of her fore head and on the next picture it was on right side ??? Strange wouldnt you say ?
Um no..... she's taking a picture of a mirror and mirrors flip the image.
Load More Replies...Bethany...I just wanted to say that I read your story and I truly feel your pain I went through something similar to you it wasn't cancerous but still very painful and very real. What i had came on suddenly with no warning signs. It started with a rash that I ignored and progressed into something nasty. I saw numerous doctors. To make a long story short I have a rare condition called sweet syndrome. My painful Journey left my legs scarred and discolored my name is Carol from Green bay,Wi.
0_0 omg that poor lady that was horrible. for a minute i wasn't sure that big lump on her forehead was real!
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My father was diagnosed with Melanoma when he was in his mid 40's. He died within 10 months. I was 10 and have never been in a tanning bed and I was a teen when they first came out. I caution every one about them along with pointing out the need to be checked often and wear sunscreen. I am that friend who comes up and says; "Have you had that checked?"
I did the same thing i got melanoma i had to have surgery too it was from tanning bed i swore i will never do that again i was just lucky it was the slow growing one
Have dark hair, one skin cancer off in March this year and a nasty one needing a skin graft this Friday. Dad was also dark haired, melanoma grew inwards, no obvious signs, mother dark haired has had so many bits off she needs makeup to cover her many many scars. Another beautiful dark haired friend lost her battle with melanoma same time as my dad did. Basically trying to say it's not just the readheads. Skin cancers don't care about hair colour. Sun damage increases your risk. Use sunscreen.....
In one of the pics, the spot is on the other side of her forehead!? Really???!
My husband died of melanoma. There was nothing to warn that he had it. No primary anything...
Even in the northern parts of Canada the summer sun is intense and direct. God Bless her soul for this revealing article.
I have squamous cell, i know thats as bad as what you have But i agree on staying out of the sun.. ive have mu chest, arms and hands Four times in the left hand? Just kept growing it sucks. But thank you for getting the word out this SERIOUS SITUATION
Everyone, regardless of skin color, should avoid long exposure to ultraviolet rays. Think you're safe because it's cloudy outside? Think again!! https://www.aimatmelanoma.org/prevention/dangers-of-tanning-and-burning/
errrrr...in one of the photos the scar is on the other side of her face
She's also like red headed white. That's the worst one to be for skin cancer.
So how did it change which side of her face it was on? Caution is helpful. Lying isn't.
Some were pics taken of her, some were mirror selfies. Mirrors flip images.
Load More Replies...What a pretty young lady...Thanks for the words of advice to the young people. I wish they would all listen, but they don't.
Skin cancer left a 4 inch scar on my upper collar bone area. I was lucky I got it early. I have pale skin and dark hair. Family of Irish descent... People don't take it serious
Its the sun, kinda a no brained. Don't take your cloths off and lay under it getting baked. That's exactly what its doing, baking you. Limit your exposure to it, especially if you live in hot zones
i had a melanoma on my big toe. they removed the nail, nail bed and did a skin graft. the bandage i had on my toe is exactly what she had on her head and the place they took the graft from (front of thigh) was exactly where they took mine from. must be a thing.
Thanks, I had been wondering if that's what they did.
Load More Replies...One of these pics doesn't look right... The second pic from the bottom shows the stitches over her other eye ..
My daughter had it twice. She is light. It killed her uncle at 45. I saw something on her shin. It turned out to be melanoma 1 a. Then a year later found another one. Yes she went tanning. Never again. All good with regular checkups . Excellent Dr.
I was thinking the yellow thing was a weird fungus that was growing out of her forehead.
i had that same bandage type ion my toe when they removed a melanoma from it. same spot for skin graft too. front of thigh.
Load More Replies...It's amazing what modern medicine can do. The early pictures are awful, but the end result looks great. You had some great surgeons.
Sad to see this. But the struggle is real. I've just had my 2nd surgery for basal cell carcinoma. Though not as serious as melanoma I know have had a chunk of my nostril and my clavicle taken out. All from tanning. In the sun and the booth. Wear sunscreen people. This is no joke.
The only thing I got to say is other than poor woman is why is she going on tanning beds while pregnant 🤰 there not recommended and sunbathing it's common sense to be careful especially pregnant xx
She never tanned. She always wore sunscreen. Please don't assume she previously tanned just because she had cancer or is now encouraging others to avoid harmful practices.
Load More Replies...Why the hell is a ginger going to a tanning salon in the first place?!?!?!
IN Germany it is common to check your skin once a year, especially when reaching a certain age - we're being reminded (thankfully, we have that covered by our insurance here). I have freckles and get myself checked once a year, with some bigger spots, too. So far all good natured. Cancer, no matter the form, is a terrible diseases and can be prevented if regular checkups are done. We are not immortable or indestructable as we often think we are
I am very fair and always have been, I do not have to try to tan and have never even considered a tanning bed. I use sunscreen at least every morning, afternoon and evening from April to October and at least once daily even in the winter, and still sometimes I burn. Glad she is okay.
I also had desmoplastic melonoma. I had it in the top of my head. So I had a bald spot where they did the skin graft on top of my head. . I have now been cancer free for 2 years. It was an ordeal for sure but I'm happy to be alive for sure. I still struggle with covering up the bald spot on the top of my head but better to be here and alive.
Sorry didn't realize it was a mirror. Hope everything goes well for you
In one photo the wound is on her left eye. In the next photo below it, it's on her right. Hmmm?...
Why in all pics is the cancer on the left side of her face and in the one its on the right side. Seems strange that is moved!!
I swim at midnight on full moon nights. I skinny dip in the moon light and charge my crystals as well. It is so erotic and mystical.
Are you trying to tell us ur half wearwolf and half wizard? Lol
Load More Replies...I swim at midnight on full moon nights. I skinny dip in the moon light and charge my crystals as well.
Going to the beach is fine, as long as you go there in certain hours at the morning and the evening with some cream protection. For me it's needed for immune system as we in the North lack sunshine and we need vitamin D. Everything is good without extremes etc. So writing the warning that a tan isn't a healthy glow is ridiculous.
My cousin Marvin was only 30 when he got diagnosed with Melanoma. He passed only a year later, leaving two little girls behind. Protect skin
My 43 yr old son died last year because of this. Started on his side. By the time he finally got it checked it spread to his liver, spleen and kidneys. In the end it took his brain all from a sun spot.
I had carcinoma of my tongue and lymphnodes and had to have a graft from my arm to graft it to my tongue, 12 hour. Surgery then 30 days of radiation treatments it was hell i am 3 moths clear of radiation treatments now just trying to heal from it, drs said stay out of the sun unless you have a big hat sand sun screen on
9 year Melanoma survivor. And yes, gingers "tanned" back in the day. We didn't know the evils of tanning beds in 1985!
I think that TV and motion pictures should get on the bandwagon and help promote a healthier image of what people's skin should look like, i.e. The God give color you were born with....not the tanned I just got back from the Caribbean look. Nothing is prettier than healthy skin that has been protected from the suns harmful rays. I ever tanned excessively because my father had melanoma when I was a baby and I grew up looking at the scar from his radical neck surgery. At 61 I have fared pretty good to a lot of my southern coastal counterparts, but if I had to do it all over again I would be even more diligent.
Holy c**p! Why would this lady sun worship it her mom had to deal with this and, on top of that, she is covered with the biggest and most obvious indicator of potential skin issues.... freckles!
How come in about the third picture it shifted over from the left side of her face to the right side?
Three generations of melanoma in my family. I don't intend to be the fourth. Even though I live in Texas I wear long sleeves and pants. And remember you can get a burn on overcast days too.
You sure went through a lot but looking great now !the sun is know joke as you have shown here
Why is "the area of concern" in most pictures over her LEFT eye, but in one picture in particular, it appears over her RIGHT eye....I'm perplexed....
The photo over her right eye has been taken in a mirror
Load More Replies...I hope she dropped the dermatologist who diagnosed it as a liver spot.
Omg. Im a red head with freckles and pale skin. I have never and will never use a sunbed. Embrace pale skin or just fake it Is it really worth risking your health and life?
I'm a red headed, green eyed, freckles and very fair skin. when I was child i went outside to play all day, every day and came home with a sunburn frequently. the problem was no one was being warned back then about sun damage and we only remember there being tanning lotion, never heard of sunscreen until I was in my 20's, but by then it was too late, I had my first skin cancer diagnosis before I was 21 and every 3-5 years since then. Why people would do this now is beyond me, the skin is the largest organ in the bosy and we treat and mistreat it the worst of all.
I also got skin cancer - melanoma - from tanning beds. I havw also had obe 30 smaller cancerous and pre cancerous Nevi removed. Tanning beds are NOT safe.
I am a graphic designer. I did a poster for the local NHS about skin cancer. I had a book I had to scan images from. I looked through the whole book. I never was a tanner (fair skin), but I always have a hat & sunscreen. Don't take your skin for granted!!
Bless you, Beautiful. Glad you're okay. I'm so sorry you had to endure that. I have spinal cancer so I am all too aware of how miserable radiation is. ❤️
I almost died from this...it was heading for my brain...I was only 2 years old...then 7 then 21....n now we think it's back again...it can happen to anyone...anytime...
Thank you for sharing your story. I hope it inspires others to use sunscreen and to limit their exposure to the sun. Hopefully,they will protect their children too! I am glad you won your battle with skin cancer just sorry. You had to struggle with such a painful ordeal.
I feel for this woman and her battle. What a hard thing for her children to understand. As a nurse I have seen much worse than this on the face...it is real and CAN happen to you! Protect yourself!
That looks incredibly painful. Good advice. (Though one one of the pictures, the scar appears to be over her right eye... Correct me if I'm wrong)
The photo over her right eye has been taken in a mirror
Load More Replies...People are always surprised when they see my pics, assuming since I live in San Diego I'd be rockin' a killer tan. Nope, nope, nope! I am fair skinned (polar white in certain areas) and protect myself to the best of my ability. That means SPF 50 (minimum) and a hat, most days. A little color from playing on the beach is one thing, looking like I'm becoming a mahogany tree is something else. It is just not worth it!
Apparently us blondes with blue eyes are particularly at risk? I wear factor 50 all year on my face, but there are no guarantees in life. Thank you for this article fascinating xx
As a kid, living near Santa Monica beach, I'd spend every day I could getting a tan. Back then, it was considered if you were tan, you were well off, because after all, to get a tan you'd have to spend time in the sun and not work in an office. Now 80, I've been lucky to "only" have had 100% removal of occasional melanomas, multiple basal cell carcinomas, endometriosis, none of which had so far spread. But: another trouble spot has appeared, no one yet knows its extent, and hopefully it will fall like the others. Please don't tan your bodies. Stay out of the sun, wear sunscreen, a hat, and if you are susceptible to sunburn, invest in anti uv clothing and wear a hat at all times.
I need to get checked out, I have loads of liver spots and I was in my early 40's when they started appearing, I know it's from my teens 20's and early 30's sunbathing and sun beds I had my own at one point, what concerns me is if that doctor couldn't differentiate between a liver spot and a cancerous mole how am I supposed to? Need to make an appointment
Poor woman. Good on her for sharing her story though. When in doubt sunscreen!
I wish this woman nothing but the best-she is a warrior and I so hope she kicks cancers a*s!!! However - I cannot unsee the thumbnail pic of that horrifying yellow compression bandage- when I first saw it- I thought it was a growth from her head- for the love of God- will a doctor invent a better compression bandage and can these types of posts come with a warning? That s**t should have been covered up! I get her message- she never tanned- she just had terrible luck- and YES- being a fair red-head predisposed her to this horrible illness. In THAT vein- I understand she urges others not to tan- but that's not what caused her horrible cancer. Bottom line- cancer sucks- fair people have a higher risk of cancer- and now I have to seek treatment to try to get that horrifying image of that bandage on her head out of MY head!!!! Say what you will about me- but it was unfair to the general public to post such a disturbing image.... cover that s**t up!!!
Load More Replies...Ah, I find it interesting how people from each ends of the earth will do to have their skin different. Meanwhile, asians will do anything to have their skin be fair. Even injecting chemical into their body to be the whitest asian there is. Some has even been poisoned from it. There will always be people who will want different from what they have. I hope they learn of the consequences first though. Not worth it sacrificing your health just for beauty standards.
You're painting Asians with an awfully broad stroke. That's certainly not true in all Asian countries, you should be specific.
Load More Replies...I'm not a ginger, but do have a fair complexion. I had melanoma when I was 26. I had basal cell ca. On my ear 2 yrs ago at 38. This skin cancer is no joke and I didn't even go to tanning beds when I was younger.
I'm a red head and tanning has always scared me so I never have. No one should do it, you are only burning yourself basically like a roasted chicken. Pale and interesting is the best way.
Fair skinned blond here. I am sitting her with a big bandage on my nose from having a cancer spot removed yesterday. I was lucky, and caught it early. I will stay vigilant in the future, but expect that I will have many more spots popping up in the future. I am investing in lot's of sunblock and big brimmed hats with SPF, but the damage was done 30 years ago and I will pay for it for the rest of my life.
Always keep an eye on your freckles and moles people! If they change, have them checked out. If they are big, uneven and/or itchy, have them checked out! Use sunscreen, factor 20 or higher and frequently reapply!
I see my dermatologist every year and like a true Sherlock (with a magnifying glass!) he examines my body and everytime several spots are removed. So far, so good, better safe than sorry! :)
Thank you for sharing your story, showing the grim reality of skin cancer
I think this woman is very brave and selfless sharing this very painful and traumatic story, I wish her every happiness with her beautiful children and hope she lives a long and happy life after this experience.
Just one of the many many reasons why I haven't been in the Sun for over 30 years.
Okay, you can be in the sun. Just not a lot. 30 years is way too long out of the sun.
Load More Replies...Wow what an awful experience! Even worse that the docs didn't catch it sooner! :/
Nice picture of the group b***h flipping off the camera. What's that supposed to do you get rid of the cancer make everybody feel sorry for.? Not sure what the whole stick in the finger up the Camera means but it takes away from the whole meaning of the story. I think she should spend more time trophy I was wrong with her then trying to impress the world with her ignorance
"Wear sunscreen" should be edited to say "Wear PHYSICAL sunscreen NOT chemical sunscreen." Chemical sunscreens can CAUSE skin cancer due to their highly toxic ingredients. Look it up on EWG. Also, vitamin D (from limited sun exposure) actually helps your body fight cancer so let's not go too far in the other direction. Common sense needs to come into play as well.
On one photo it is on her left side....an other photo it is on her right side.....FAKE 😀
is it me or are the cancer patch of her facees on diff sides in the pics
It's always on the same side of her face. Some pics are flipped.
Load More Replies...i just dont understand one thing. in one photo its on the left and on the other its on the right
Yes. Some images are flipped. It is quite common with digital photos.
Load More Replies...Why is it on the opposite side of her forehead in the pic where she shows where the skin graft was taken from her thigh?
What applies to her hardly applies to everyone. I'm not going to live in fear of going outside.
No one asked you to "live in fear of going outside." It's asking you to protect and educate yourself. That applies to everyone.
Load More Replies...If your skin is getting all freckled up like that it's probably your first sign that you should back off on the sun or do something differently. I have like 3-4 of these freckles on the tops of my shoulders at 30 years old. The poor girl is this article is completely covered in them.
I don't think you understand how easy it is for some to get freckles.
Load More Replies...If you look at all the pictures especially the one when she wearing a towel its over her right eye
She is clearly a ginger and fair skinned. Why someone with her tone and coloring would think tanning is a good idea is just plain STUPID! I have dark hair, olive skin tones, and have Cherokee Indian in me and I STILL WEAR SUNSCREEN! Granted, I might be pink at the end of a 5 hr day in the sun, but by the morning it's a nice brown. People who don't pay attention to their own personal heritage and skin tones are just begging to have issues. Wise up, we are different for a REASON! We're not all supposed to be dark and tan in this world!
she never tanned. Ever. She does want to warn people about the dangers though
Load More Replies...This is about CANCER AWARENESS AND THE AFFECT TANNING CAN HAVE. Who cares about how ugly she is? Besides she's beautiful just the way she is
Load More Replies...What an ignorant comment, everyone can get skin cancer, the darker your skin the more natural protection you have, but even the darkest skin tones can get skin cancer and should not go out in really hot sun without protection. It is no problem to get enough Vitamin D without frying or damaging your skin
Load More Replies...I'm a nurse and I can ASSURE you, this is a real wound .
Load More Replies...Look again, she is standing in front of a mirror in that picture.
Load More Replies...Word of caution. If you have light skin, are red headed, and get freckles easily, be very careful of the amount of sun exposure. Freckles are mutated skin cells, and sooner or later some of those mutations may well become malignant.
Black people get skin cancer from exposure to the sun. Anyone with skin, including dogs, can get melanoma.
Load More Replies...Seriously good advice about not going to tanning salons. They increase the risk of skin cancer by 75%. Look it up.
It amazes me that people still go. Then again, people still smoke.
Load More Replies...For me these photos are more striking than other cancer stories. Most often you see cancer results on peoples bodies, like hair out etc. Here I saw the actual cut, and how it damaged the face + results of theraphy. It's scary. Good I don't tan *shivers*. Best wishes for her and her family, happy she healed!!!
Don't just avoid tanning. Wear a brimmed hat everywhere you go. I wore sunscreen all the time growing up (I had a prescription for it as a child before higher spf was considered safe for an over-the-counter product) but I still have basil cell carcinoma on my face. I now have scars on my nose and forehead from having it removed. Protect yourself!
Load More Replies...It's that important to say "this mom of two"? Why not simply "this person..."?? If it was a guy, or a woman without children would be less important?
I don't think so, I think that it makes it that all the more relatable to the reader. It makes them more personable instead of a character
Load More Replies...I'm so sorry that this happened to her, but hellooooo ding dong how do you not know that ginger skin is to fair to tan!?
The point is NO ONE should ever try to tan! Some people with fair skin can tan. No one should.
Load More Replies...I used to work at a tanning salon for 4 years while in college and would see women in their mid 30s look like they were in their late 40s, one woman had skin cancer and refused to stop tanning! Boy do I have stories. And no, I didn't tan regularly- Olive skin lets you get by with the bare minimum.
They only recently found out that it is very addictive. That's why in The Netherlands they're trying to close/regulate all tanning salons.
Load More Replies...My mother died of melanoma. It went from being a cancerous mole on her back removed to metastasizing into her brain. Not only do I wear mineral sunscreen( mineral send screens off for a physical barrier that chemicals in screens cannot), I wear hats, I use Parasol's, I wear long sleeves even in the summer. I also go for bi annual skin checks. Melanoma is extremely aggressive and this woman was one of the very lucky few that survived it. And this does not just apply to fair-skinned people; Bob Marley died of melanoma.
While it's true lighter skinned people are more prone to skin cancers, it affects people of all races. It's so simple: use sunscreen, limit your time in the sun, wear appropriate clothing, i.e., hats, sunglasses, long sleeves. Also, all skin cancer is NOT black, brown, misshapen, ugly. I was diagnosed with stage 4 melanoma in Jan 2008 and was given 50 percent chance of 5-yr survival. It was from normal, everyday sun exposure. I never tanned. The melanoma was PINK and my general practitioner thought it was a skin fungus. It gradually turned red. Two surgeries, endless CTs and MRIs, even PET scan, a month of IV immunotherapy treatment and 11 months of self-injections 3x week. Felt like a I had a nasty case of flu for a year. Blessed to say I've been cancer-free since Jan 2010. Immunotherapy was a new treatment at the time and has shown to be a wonderful treatment.
Thank you for sharing your unfortunate situation. I just hope the young woman listen and learn from your situation and pictures.
No matter your skin color you shouldn't be exposed to sun without sunscreen. There is no safe amount of unprotected sun exposure.
Seriously? You want everyone to lather on sunscreen to walk ten feet to their mail boxes and back? You do know that exposure to sunlight is necessary for our bodies to produce vitamin D, right? Sunlight also triggers the production of important hormones. It's also important for many other health reasons. The issue here is moderation. Tanning salons are certainly not healthy, but acting like the sun is going to kill you the moment you poke your nose outside is preposterous.
Load More Replies...Freckles are NOT mutated skin cells. My goodnes, the mutation which allows for freckles, light skin, and red hair, lies in the actual DNA. The 16th chromosome to be exact. It allows the body to absorb lots of red yellow and less brown black melatonin . The freckles are simply there as a by product of the genetic mutation. The reason were getting skin cancer is because that mutation evolved from our ancestors living in areas where Sun exposure was low and we needed to absorb all we could to stay healthy. Freckles are NOT dangerous, nor are they the source of can
Thank you! I was going to say the same thing. What an ignorant falsehood to be propagating on here. He might as well have added that 'gingers have no souls'. I have freckles and learned when I was very young what made me different and I guess I thought everyone knew how melanin works. Guess not. smh
Load More Replies...Sunlight is like all these things which are bad for you, it shouldnt be feared, simply respected. Put your sun cream on, (there are plenty of quality products these days) and dont lay in it like an idiot. Everything in life is about moderation, i drink, i eat c**p food and i get lightly tanned in the summer as i walk a lot, but i also eat well generally, drink to moderation (most of the time) and put on sun screen.
I'm saying this for real, her recovery was just shocking. That treatment must have been extremely painful. I don't even know you and I'm so proud of you. 💜💜
You can get cancer from breathing apparently. Live life. Just dont go lay put and burn weekly or several days in a row. I tan in a tanning bed like once-2x per week die to severe eczema that itched so bad I had bruises and deep scrarches everywhere. I very rarely burn. If im outside longer than 20 mins, I dont use the tanning bed. People over do it. We ALL have onco genes but if we are careful we wpmt turn them on. Im so sorry for this wpman and her experience. That is devastating!
How is it one photo it's on her left side above he eye. And another it's on her right side?
That is driving me crazy too, I keep on thinking maybe because its a mirror image, but it doesn't jibe.
Load More Replies...In one picture it was on the left side of her fore head and on the next picture it was on right side ??? Strange wouldnt you say ?
Um no..... she's taking a picture of a mirror and mirrors flip the image.
Load More Replies...Bethany...I just wanted to say that I read your story and I truly feel your pain I went through something similar to you it wasn't cancerous but still very painful and very real. What i had came on suddenly with no warning signs. It started with a rash that I ignored and progressed into something nasty. I saw numerous doctors. To make a long story short I have a rare condition called sweet syndrome. My painful Journey left my legs scarred and discolored my name is Carol from Green bay,Wi.
0_0 omg that poor lady that was horrible. for a minute i wasn't sure that big lump on her forehead was real!
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My father was diagnosed with Melanoma when he was in his mid 40's. He died within 10 months. I was 10 and have never been in a tanning bed and I was a teen when they first came out. I caution every one about them along with pointing out the need to be checked often and wear sunscreen. I am that friend who comes up and says; "Have you had that checked?"
I did the same thing i got melanoma i had to have surgery too it was from tanning bed i swore i will never do that again i was just lucky it was the slow growing one
Have dark hair, one skin cancer off in March this year and a nasty one needing a skin graft this Friday. Dad was also dark haired, melanoma grew inwards, no obvious signs, mother dark haired has had so many bits off she needs makeup to cover her many many scars. Another beautiful dark haired friend lost her battle with melanoma same time as my dad did. Basically trying to say it's not just the readheads. Skin cancers don't care about hair colour. Sun damage increases your risk. Use sunscreen.....
In one of the pics, the spot is on the other side of her forehead!? Really???!
My husband died of melanoma. There was nothing to warn that he had it. No primary anything...
Even in the northern parts of Canada the summer sun is intense and direct. God Bless her soul for this revealing article.
I have squamous cell, i know thats as bad as what you have But i agree on staying out of the sun.. ive have mu chest, arms and hands Four times in the left hand? Just kept growing it sucks. But thank you for getting the word out this SERIOUS SITUATION
Everyone, regardless of skin color, should avoid long exposure to ultraviolet rays. Think you're safe because it's cloudy outside? Think again!! https://www.aimatmelanoma.org/prevention/dangers-of-tanning-and-burning/
errrrr...in one of the photos the scar is on the other side of her face
She's also like red headed white. That's the worst one to be for skin cancer.
So how did it change which side of her face it was on? Caution is helpful. Lying isn't.
Some were pics taken of her, some were mirror selfies. Mirrors flip images.
Load More Replies...What a pretty young lady...Thanks for the words of advice to the young people. I wish they would all listen, but they don't.
Skin cancer left a 4 inch scar on my upper collar bone area. I was lucky I got it early. I have pale skin and dark hair. Family of Irish descent... People don't take it serious
Its the sun, kinda a no brained. Don't take your cloths off and lay under it getting baked. That's exactly what its doing, baking you. Limit your exposure to it, especially if you live in hot zones
i had a melanoma on my big toe. they removed the nail, nail bed and did a skin graft. the bandage i had on my toe is exactly what she had on her head and the place they took the graft from (front of thigh) was exactly where they took mine from. must be a thing.
Thanks, I had been wondering if that's what they did.
Load More Replies...One of these pics doesn't look right... The second pic from the bottom shows the stitches over her other eye ..
My daughter had it twice. She is light. It killed her uncle at 45. I saw something on her shin. It turned out to be melanoma 1 a. Then a year later found another one. Yes she went tanning. Never again. All good with regular checkups . Excellent Dr.
I was thinking the yellow thing was a weird fungus that was growing out of her forehead.
i had that same bandage type ion my toe when they removed a melanoma from it. same spot for skin graft too. front of thigh.
Load More Replies...It's amazing what modern medicine can do. The early pictures are awful, but the end result looks great. You had some great surgeons.
Sad to see this. But the struggle is real. I've just had my 2nd surgery for basal cell carcinoma. Though not as serious as melanoma I know have had a chunk of my nostril and my clavicle taken out. All from tanning. In the sun and the booth. Wear sunscreen people. This is no joke.
The only thing I got to say is other than poor woman is why is she going on tanning beds while pregnant 🤰 there not recommended and sunbathing it's common sense to be careful especially pregnant xx
She never tanned. She always wore sunscreen. Please don't assume she previously tanned just because she had cancer or is now encouraging others to avoid harmful practices.
Load More Replies...Why the hell is a ginger going to a tanning salon in the first place?!?!?!
IN Germany it is common to check your skin once a year, especially when reaching a certain age - we're being reminded (thankfully, we have that covered by our insurance here). I have freckles and get myself checked once a year, with some bigger spots, too. So far all good natured. Cancer, no matter the form, is a terrible diseases and can be prevented if regular checkups are done. We are not immortable or indestructable as we often think we are
I am very fair and always have been, I do not have to try to tan and have never even considered a tanning bed. I use sunscreen at least every morning, afternoon and evening from April to October and at least once daily even in the winter, and still sometimes I burn. Glad she is okay.
I also had desmoplastic melonoma. I had it in the top of my head. So I had a bald spot where they did the skin graft on top of my head. . I have now been cancer free for 2 years. It was an ordeal for sure but I'm happy to be alive for sure. I still struggle with covering up the bald spot on the top of my head but better to be here and alive.
Sorry didn't realize it was a mirror. Hope everything goes well for you
In one photo the wound is on her left eye. In the next photo below it, it's on her right. Hmmm?...
Why in all pics is the cancer on the left side of her face and in the one its on the right side. Seems strange that is moved!!
I swim at midnight on full moon nights. I skinny dip in the moon light and charge my crystals as well. It is so erotic and mystical.
Are you trying to tell us ur half wearwolf and half wizard? Lol
Load More Replies...I swim at midnight on full moon nights. I skinny dip in the moon light and charge my crystals as well.
Going to the beach is fine, as long as you go there in certain hours at the morning and the evening with some cream protection. For me it's needed for immune system as we in the North lack sunshine and we need vitamin D. Everything is good without extremes etc. So writing the warning that a tan isn't a healthy glow is ridiculous.
My cousin Marvin was only 30 when he got diagnosed with Melanoma. He passed only a year later, leaving two little girls behind. Protect skin
My 43 yr old son died last year because of this. Started on his side. By the time he finally got it checked it spread to his liver, spleen and kidneys. In the end it took his brain all from a sun spot.
I had carcinoma of my tongue and lymphnodes and had to have a graft from my arm to graft it to my tongue, 12 hour. Surgery then 30 days of radiation treatments it was hell i am 3 moths clear of radiation treatments now just trying to heal from it, drs said stay out of the sun unless you have a big hat sand sun screen on
9 year Melanoma survivor. And yes, gingers "tanned" back in the day. We didn't know the evils of tanning beds in 1985!
I think that TV and motion pictures should get on the bandwagon and help promote a healthier image of what people's skin should look like, i.e. The God give color you were born with....not the tanned I just got back from the Caribbean look. Nothing is prettier than healthy skin that has been protected from the suns harmful rays. I ever tanned excessively because my father had melanoma when I was a baby and I grew up looking at the scar from his radical neck surgery. At 61 I have fared pretty good to a lot of my southern coastal counterparts, but if I had to do it all over again I would be even more diligent.
Holy c**p! Why would this lady sun worship it her mom had to deal with this and, on top of that, she is covered with the biggest and most obvious indicator of potential skin issues.... freckles!
How come in about the third picture it shifted over from the left side of her face to the right side?
Three generations of melanoma in my family. I don't intend to be the fourth. Even though I live in Texas I wear long sleeves and pants. And remember you can get a burn on overcast days too.
You sure went through a lot but looking great now !the sun is know joke as you have shown here
Why is "the area of concern" in most pictures over her LEFT eye, but in one picture in particular, it appears over her RIGHT eye....I'm perplexed....
The photo over her right eye has been taken in a mirror
Load More Replies...I hope she dropped the dermatologist who diagnosed it as a liver spot.
Omg. Im a red head with freckles and pale skin. I have never and will never use a sunbed. Embrace pale skin or just fake it Is it really worth risking your health and life?
I'm a red headed, green eyed, freckles and very fair skin. when I was child i went outside to play all day, every day and came home with a sunburn frequently. the problem was no one was being warned back then about sun damage and we only remember there being tanning lotion, never heard of sunscreen until I was in my 20's, but by then it was too late, I had my first skin cancer diagnosis before I was 21 and every 3-5 years since then. Why people would do this now is beyond me, the skin is the largest organ in the bosy and we treat and mistreat it the worst of all.
I also got skin cancer - melanoma - from tanning beds. I havw also had obe 30 smaller cancerous and pre cancerous Nevi removed. Tanning beds are NOT safe.
I am a graphic designer. I did a poster for the local NHS about skin cancer. I had a book I had to scan images from. I looked through the whole book. I never was a tanner (fair skin), but I always have a hat & sunscreen. Don't take your skin for granted!!
Bless you, Beautiful. Glad you're okay. I'm so sorry you had to endure that. I have spinal cancer so I am all too aware of how miserable radiation is. ❤️
I almost died from this...it was heading for my brain...I was only 2 years old...then 7 then 21....n now we think it's back again...it can happen to anyone...anytime...
Thank you for sharing your story. I hope it inspires others to use sunscreen and to limit their exposure to the sun. Hopefully,they will protect their children too! I am glad you won your battle with skin cancer just sorry. You had to struggle with such a painful ordeal.
I feel for this woman and her battle. What a hard thing for her children to understand. As a nurse I have seen much worse than this on the face...it is real and CAN happen to you! Protect yourself!
That looks incredibly painful. Good advice. (Though one one of the pictures, the scar appears to be over her right eye... Correct me if I'm wrong)
The photo over her right eye has been taken in a mirror
Load More Replies...People are always surprised when they see my pics, assuming since I live in San Diego I'd be rockin' a killer tan. Nope, nope, nope! I am fair skinned (polar white in certain areas) and protect myself to the best of my ability. That means SPF 50 (minimum) and a hat, most days. A little color from playing on the beach is one thing, looking like I'm becoming a mahogany tree is something else. It is just not worth it!
Apparently us blondes with blue eyes are particularly at risk? I wear factor 50 all year on my face, but there are no guarantees in life. Thank you for this article fascinating xx
As a kid, living near Santa Monica beach, I'd spend every day I could getting a tan. Back then, it was considered if you were tan, you were well off, because after all, to get a tan you'd have to spend time in the sun and not work in an office. Now 80, I've been lucky to "only" have had 100% removal of occasional melanomas, multiple basal cell carcinomas, endometriosis, none of which had so far spread. But: another trouble spot has appeared, no one yet knows its extent, and hopefully it will fall like the others. Please don't tan your bodies. Stay out of the sun, wear sunscreen, a hat, and if you are susceptible to sunburn, invest in anti uv clothing and wear a hat at all times.
I need to get checked out, I have loads of liver spots and I was in my early 40's when they started appearing, I know it's from my teens 20's and early 30's sunbathing and sun beds I had my own at one point, what concerns me is if that doctor couldn't differentiate between a liver spot and a cancerous mole how am I supposed to? Need to make an appointment
Poor woman. Good on her for sharing her story though. When in doubt sunscreen!
I wish this woman nothing but the best-she is a warrior and I so hope she kicks cancers a*s!!! However - I cannot unsee the thumbnail pic of that horrifying yellow compression bandage- when I first saw it- I thought it was a growth from her head- for the love of God- will a doctor invent a better compression bandage and can these types of posts come with a warning? That s**t should have been covered up! I get her message- she never tanned- she just had terrible luck- and YES- being a fair red-head predisposed her to this horrible illness. In THAT vein- I understand she urges others not to tan- but that's not what caused her horrible cancer. Bottom line- cancer sucks- fair people have a higher risk of cancer- and now I have to seek treatment to try to get that horrifying image of that bandage on her head out of MY head!!!! Say what you will about me- but it was unfair to the general public to post such a disturbing image.... cover that s**t up!!!
Load More Replies...Ah, I find it interesting how people from each ends of the earth will do to have their skin different. Meanwhile, asians will do anything to have their skin be fair. Even injecting chemical into their body to be the whitest asian there is. Some has even been poisoned from it. There will always be people who will want different from what they have. I hope they learn of the consequences first though. Not worth it sacrificing your health just for beauty standards.
You're painting Asians with an awfully broad stroke. That's certainly not true in all Asian countries, you should be specific.
Load More Replies...I'm not a ginger, but do have a fair complexion. I had melanoma when I was 26. I had basal cell ca. On my ear 2 yrs ago at 38. This skin cancer is no joke and I didn't even go to tanning beds when I was younger.
I'm a red head and tanning has always scared me so I never have. No one should do it, you are only burning yourself basically like a roasted chicken. Pale and interesting is the best way.
Fair skinned blond here. I am sitting her with a big bandage on my nose from having a cancer spot removed yesterday. I was lucky, and caught it early. I will stay vigilant in the future, but expect that I will have many more spots popping up in the future. I am investing in lot's of sunblock and big brimmed hats with SPF, but the damage was done 30 years ago and I will pay for it for the rest of my life.
Always keep an eye on your freckles and moles people! If they change, have them checked out. If they are big, uneven and/or itchy, have them checked out! Use sunscreen, factor 20 or higher and frequently reapply!
I see my dermatologist every year and like a true Sherlock (with a magnifying glass!) he examines my body and everytime several spots are removed. So far, so good, better safe than sorry! :)
Thank you for sharing your story, showing the grim reality of skin cancer
I think this woman is very brave and selfless sharing this very painful and traumatic story, I wish her every happiness with her beautiful children and hope she lives a long and happy life after this experience.
Just one of the many many reasons why I haven't been in the Sun for over 30 years.
Okay, you can be in the sun. Just not a lot. 30 years is way too long out of the sun.
Load More Replies...Wow what an awful experience! Even worse that the docs didn't catch it sooner! :/
Nice picture of the group b***h flipping off the camera. What's that supposed to do you get rid of the cancer make everybody feel sorry for.? Not sure what the whole stick in the finger up the Camera means but it takes away from the whole meaning of the story. I think she should spend more time trophy I was wrong with her then trying to impress the world with her ignorance
"Wear sunscreen" should be edited to say "Wear PHYSICAL sunscreen NOT chemical sunscreen." Chemical sunscreens can CAUSE skin cancer due to their highly toxic ingredients. Look it up on EWG. Also, vitamin D (from limited sun exposure) actually helps your body fight cancer so let's not go too far in the other direction. Common sense needs to come into play as well.
On one photo it is on her left side....an other photo it is on her right side.....FAKE 😀
is it me or are the cancer patch of her facees on diff sides in the pics
It's always on the same side of her face. Some pics are flipped.
Load More Replies...i just dont understand one thing. in one photo its on the left and on the other its on the right
Yes. Some images are flipped. It is quite common with digital photos.
Load More Replies...Why is it on the opposite side of her forehead in the pic where she shows where the skin graft was taken from her thigh?
What applies to her hardly applies to everyone. I'm not going to live in fear of going outside.
No one asked you to "live in fear of going outside." It's asking you to protect and educate yourself. That applies to everyone.
Load More Replies...If your skin is getting all freckled up like that it's probably your first sign that you should back off on the sun or do something differently. I have like 3-4 of these freckles on the tops of my shoulders at 30 years old. The poor girl is this article is completely covered in them.
I don't think you understand how easy it is for some to get freckles.
Load More Replies...If you look at all the pictures especially the one when she wearing a towel its over her right eye
She is clearly a ginger and fair skinned. Why someone with her tone and coloring would think tanning is a good idea is just plain STUPID! I have dark hair, olive skin tones, and have Cherokee Indian in me and I STILL WEAR SUNSCREEN! Granted, I might be pink at the end of a 5 hr day in the sun, but by the morning it's a nice brown. People who don't pay attention to their own personal heritage and skin tones are just begging to have issues. Wise up, we are different for a REASON! We're not all supposed to be dark and tan in this world!
she never tanned. Ever. She does want to warn people about the dangers though
Load More Replies...This is about CANCER AWARENESS AND THE AFFECT TANNING CAN HAVE. Who cares about how ugly she is? Besides she's beautiful just the way she is
Load More Replies...What an ignorant comment, everyone can get skin cancer, the darker your skin the more natural protection you have, but even the darkest skin tones can get skin cancer and should not go out in really hot sun without protection. It is no problem to get enough Vitamin D without frying or damaging your skin
Load More Replies...I'm a nurse and I can ASSURE you, this is a real wound .
Load More Replies...Look again, she is standing in front of a mirror in that picture.
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