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“I Wasted 2 Hours Of My Sister’s Time Because She Refused To Listen To Me”
Interview With Author
GPS systems, while incredibly helpful, are not infallible. Many of us have been in situations where our navigation systems have led us astray. It’s then that knowledge of the local area or traditional maps come in handy.
Redditor u/MotorMania85, who studies maps in their spare time, recently shared a story about what happens when someone relies too much on GPS. The OP opened up to the r/MaliciousCompliance community about how their sister was unwilling to listen to their advice about where to drive, meaning their entire trip was more than twice as long as it should have been. Read on for the full story.
We reached out to the author of the post, redditor u/MotorMania85, and they were kind enough to answer our questions. You’ll find Bored Panda’s interview with them as you read on.
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One person shared how their sister chose to trust the GPS over their intimate knowledge of the local roads
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The redditor’s story is all about miscommunication. The OP was clearly only trying to help their sibling get where they needed to go faster. However, their sister was unwilling to listen. So when she asked u/MotorMania85 to stop offering advice, that’s exactly what the author did.
The end result was that the OP was eventually proven right: their advice would have gotten them to their destination far faster than what the GPS suggested. And that’s all thanks to the author’s interest in and study of local road maps.
Instead of shutting the advice down, the author’s sister could have inquired about how they know about what roads to take. Being open to the idea that we can sometimes be wrong and actively listening to what others have to say are important skills to have. They keep us grounded and humble.
It’s in moments like this that you begin to realize that digital navigation systems, while very powerful, still aren’t immune to error. Looking at maps of the area yourself (whether physical or digital) in advance can help you spot possible mistakes before they pop up on the road.
That’s not to say that GPS isn’t useful—it absolutely is. But if your navigation system starts glitching out or switches off altogether, you need to have the skills and the confidence to get to your final destination with just your wits.
“The worst thing you can do is drive without knowing where you’re going”
Bored Panda was curious what the post author’s initial reaction was when their sister kept ignoring their advice about where (not) to drive.
“My first reaction was just nothing, almost,” redditor u/MotorMania85 opened up to us. “I was scared of starting an argument by pushing it, and I wanted to see a new road anyway.”
We were also very interested to hear about the OP’s passion for cars, maps, and roads. The author was happy to tell us all about it.
“What got me into cars was my grandfather’s old classic car, a Porsche from 1958. What got me into roads was just boredom,” they told Bored Panda.
“Exploring random apps on my father’s phone back when I was 5 and I found this app called ‘Maps.’ I just studied the roads around me and found it interesting. I’m now going to college to become a Porsche technician.”
Meanwhile, the redditor was kind enough to share some practical advice for new drivers who don’t (yet) have the experience navigating roads well.
“What I recommend every new driver does is study their route before they leave,” u/MotorMania85 suggested.
“The worst thing you can do is drive without knowing where you’re going. Don’t depend on the GPS telling you where to go in real-time,” the OP warned.
“If you make a wrong turn, it’s hard to get back to where you were. Just spend 5 or 10 minutes reading through the roads you have to take. It will save you a lot of time and stress.”
Getting lost without a GPS isn’t the end of the world if you have your wits about you
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‘The Newswheel’ suggests applying the ‘LOSTCAR’ approach if you get lost without a GPS. The acronym stands for landmarks, observe, sun, traffic, chart, ask, and retrace. That means looking out for tall landmarks in your local area and slowing down to look at the details in your environment to better orient yourself.
If you have a compass, it can help guide you, too. However, even if you don’t, you can still look at the sky to see where the sun is to get a general sense of your movement trajectory.
Meanwhile, if you find yourself extremely lost, follow major roads until you find a stop, settlement, or other drivers. If there are other people, they can help you out!
And it’s important to be able to ask for help, even if we’re extremely proud. It’s best to think about what’s more important in that moment: finding your way again or your ego.
Alternatively, if there’s nobody around to ask for help, you can always try retracing your path to the point where you think you might have taken a wrong turn. But all of this can be avoided if you put in the extra time to study the maps of the areas where you’ll be driving in advance.
What would you have done if you were in the OP’s situation, dear Pandas? Have you ever gotten badly lost while driving? Do you always rely on the GPS or do you look at maps before you drive anywhere? We’d love to hear your thoughts, so feel free to share them in the comments.
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Montanavanna 11 months ago
Here is a sad story. I was working for a boarding school way up in the mountains. A parent came to visit their son and take them to the dentist in Missoula a couple of hours from us. The mom used apple maps on the way back, and it led her to a logging road. Eventually, she would have made it too, but that is not a road you take in the winter unless you know what you're doing and have the vehicle to handle it. Well, they were missing for 2 or 3 days, and then their bodies were found. Hypothermia. I am ever thankful for my father, who taught me navigation and map reading.
Seadog 11 months ago
There are daily examples of people blindly following GPS units onto/into areas clearly not made for road vehicles. The average person has zero common sense.
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Papa 11 months ago
The worst I know of was years ago when a co-worker left Texas for North Dakota, and arrived about 8 hours later than he should have. He would never say what happened, but at the end of the month when the company credit card statement arrived in the mail the office manager realized he had filled up with gas twice, in the same city, on the same day. He had apparently gone the wrong direction at some point, didn't realize it for several hours, and then instead of cutting across (to make the third side of a triangle), he retraced his route and started over.
INGI 11 months ago
I had the same reaction. I'd like that four minutes of my life back, please.
Load More Replies... Montanavanna 11 months ago
Here is a sad story. I was working for a boarding school way up in the mountains. A parent came to visit their son and take them to the dentist in Missoula a couple of hours from us. The mom used apple maps on the way back, and it led her to a logging road. Eventually, she would have made it too, but that is not a road you take in the winter unless you know what you're doing and have the vehicle to handle it. Well, they were missing for 2 or 3 days, and then their bodies were found. Hypothermia. I am ever thankful for my father, who taught me navigation and map reading.
Seadog 11 months ago
There are daily examples of people blindly following GPS units onto/into areas clearly not made for road vehicles. The average person has zero common sense.
Load More Replies... Papa 11 months ago
The worst I know of was years ago when a co-worker left Texas for North Dakota, and arrived about 8 hours later than he should have. He would never say what happened, but at the end of the month when the company credit card statement arrived in the mail the office manager realized he had filled up with gas twice, in the same city, on the same day. He had apparently gone the wrong direction at some point, didn't realize it for several hours, and then instead of cutting across (to make the third side of a triangle), he retraced his route and started over.
INGI 11 months ago
I had the same reaction. I'd like that four minutes of my life back, please.
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