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Nowadays our society is incredibly concentrated on the mental picture that we have of ourselves, both external and internal. Yet, the world has turned into an expensive catwalk, where physical appeal has pulled that inner beauty aside back into the dark attic. We’re quick to judge one another based on the way we look and oftentimes we tend to forget that simplicity is the most beautiful thing.

A discussion took place on Reddit started by the user u/kushnair, asking fellow readers—"what are the simplest things to do that make you look attractive?" The post received 41,700 upvotes, 12,600 comments and over 100 awards, where users shared their opinions about what simple things attract them in their potential partner.

Scroll down to see the most interesting answers!

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#1

Online Thread Has Folks Pointing Out Simple Things That Can Make People Look More Attractive, And Here Are 30 Of The Best Ones Be compassionate to animals.

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Falcon
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How a person treats living beings smaller and weaker than themselves, tells a lot about the persons character.

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Online Thread Has Folks Pointing Out Simple Things That Can Make People Look More Attractive, And Here Are 30 Of The Best Ones Don't base your humour on making fun of others.

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T.
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Self roasts don't count in my opinion, as they're not targeting/hurting somebody else. Alsi, I like people who don't take themselves too seriously very much.

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#4

Online Thread Has Folks Pointing Out Simple Things That Can Make People Look More Attractive, And Here Are 30 Of The Best Ones A bald head is much more attractive than a huge receding hairline. Sometimes it's better to literally cut your losses.

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Falcon
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fair point, and if you're able to grow a short full beard that makes it better imo.

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#5

Online Thread Has Folks Pointing Out Simple Things That Can Make People Look More Attractive, And Here Are 30 Of The Best Ones Have good manners. Manners are free and in unlimited supply. Manners is a super sexy trait.

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Chloe *Leah* Pheonix
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I said it before, I dont want to be sexy or hot. I want to be a smol bean in an oversized hoodie

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#9

Online Thread Has Folks Pointing Out Simple Things That Can Make People Look More Attractive, And Here Are 30 Of The Best Ones Brush your teeth. Twice a day. Floss, too. Check in with your dentist once in a while. Clean healthy teeth are fantastic.

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Online Thread Has Folks Pointing Out Simple Things That Can Make People Look More Attractive, And Here Are 30 Of The Best Ones Posture

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Skara Brae
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Dang, legs tangled up again. Where did I put those instructions?"

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#11

Online Thread Has Folks Pointing Out Simple Things That Can Make People Look More Attractive, And Here Are 30 Of The Best Ones Calm and confident. Nothing is hotter than being self assured.

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#12

Nothing is sexier than asking questions with the intent of listening, not waiting for your turn to speak.

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Tamra Stiffler
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know about it being sexy, per se, but I do feel it's a real need - people want to feel like they are really being heard.

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#13

Online Thread Has Folks Pointing Out Simple Things That Can Make People Look More Attractive, And Here Are 30 Of The Best Ones Don't be an a@#$hole, and be respectful of other people.

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Online Thread Has Folks Pointing Out Simple Things That Can Make People Look More Attractive, And Here Are 30 Of The Best Ones Men who are good with kids. Instantly more attractive to me.

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#17

Online Thread Has Folks Pointing Out Simple Things That Can Make People Look More Attractive, And Here Are 30 Of The Best Ones Keep your appearance neat. I used to work retail and I noticed that people treated me WAY better when my hair was cut and my beard was trimmed, which was like 10% of the time because I worked two jobs and my hair grows so fast I couldn't keep up with it. So when I cleaned myself up, I really noticed the change in how people treated me.

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#18

Online Thread Has Folks Pointing Out Simple Things That Can Make People Look More Attractive, And Here Are 30 Of The Best Ones Take an interest in the world. Read the news. Watch new series and movies. Try new things.

You have to have something to talk to people about. Something interesting. You can't just talk to them about yourself and your favourite hobby or interest for hours on end.

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Falcon
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

music and shows I can agree on, but news in general would not be a topic I'd touch when first meeting someone.

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#19

Online Thread Has Folks Pointing Out Simple Things That Can Make People Look More Attractive, And Here Are 30 Of The Best Ones Being "natural". Gosh, nothing annoys me more than people who completely change the way they behave and try to one-up everyone as soon as they feel or fear the smallest amount of competition.

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WilvanderHeijden
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All the clowns play charades to seem to be someone they are not. That's why watching people go by is so much fun; it's a constant flow of delusional people who think that they are the epitome of fashion and beauty.

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#20

Cooking.

I think, if you are looking for a way to impress a girl, then this is a very good idea.

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Pezor Zass
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i firmly took this advice when i was in university. threw a dinner party for my friends (because they were my friends, not just because i was trying to impress the women), served a chocolate cheesecake for dessert, got met with a chorus of "oh wow, you would be dangerous to date!" well, hmm, time for a rethink ;)

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#21

Online Thread Has Folks Pointing Out Simple Things That Can Make People Look More Attractive, And Here Are 30 Of The Best Ones A decent haircut. I got a different cut a couple months ago and the first comment I got was from a lovely Korean gal at the local convenience store and she said, “you look more handsome since the last time I saw you!”. It’s given me a bit more confidence.

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classbag
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What people consider nice hair is highly subjective, so I can't get fully on board with this one. I've seen many people call black people who wear their hair in their natural texture, in braids, or in dreadlocks "ghetto" and "unkempt," and those people can go ahead and kick rocks. Don't give a hoot what they think.

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#22

Have a direction in life. Even if it seems silly to some people, a person making strides toward a goal is hot.

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WilvanderHeijden
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Debatable, it can quickly change to a person being an overachiever with little to no respect for other people.

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#23

Minding your own business.

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Online Thread Has Folks Pointing Out Simple Things That Can Make People Look More Attractive, And Here Are 30 Of The Best Ones For guys, boxer briefs. They make your butt look really good.

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snipergun
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Loose breathing underwear always, doesn't matter you don't like it. Health doesn't care about what you like, either, you'll get used to it. And change it every day (no, i do not know many guys who do that!!!)

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#26

Live in your own skin, keep yourself clean, and don't be a d$%k. Everything else is just extra frosting on the cake.

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#27

Believe that you look attractive. If you act like it, people will believe it alongside you.

Humans act by mimicking others.

If you can’t get yourself to believe your attractive, do what you need to do so you can believe it.

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Hermitbunny
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think I'm fine, but I'm also very aware that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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#28

Online Thread Has Folks Pointing Out Simple Things That Can Make People Look More Attractive, And Here Are 30 Of The Best Ones Good pants. You'd be surprised how much the rest of your outfit is irrelevant if you've got a good pair of pants on.

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Otter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If your clothes fit perfectly, they look expensive even if they cost diddly-squat.

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#29

Learn a skill. Find a hobby you love and learn to be really good at it. Especially if it's something you can share or enrich other people's lives with. Like cooking, playing an instrument, gardening, woodworking, knitting, drawing, etc.

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Tenacious Squirrel
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it’s more important to have the passion for something than to have to be “really good” at something. Hobbies and passion should be enjoyable and not necessarily a competition.

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Online Thread Has Folks Pointing Out Simple Things That Can Make People Look More Attractive, And Here Are 30 Of The Best Ones Bring food and coffee; Earn my loyalty.

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#31

I guess being happy. I am getting the most compliments when I am genuinely happy.

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#33

Online Thread Has Folks Pointing Out Simple Things That Can Make People Look More Attractive, And Here Are 30 Of The Best Ones Iron your clothes!

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Online Thread Has Folks Pointing Out Simple Things That Can Make People Look More Attractive, And Here Are 30 Of The Best Ones When talking to someone, modulate your voice (don’t scream at their face or mutter) and look into their eyes. Knowing how to keep someone’s attention is attractive as hell.

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#35

Looking people in the eyes when talking.

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Natalie Kelsey
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Neurodivergent people have a very hard time doing this. It's just as good if it's clear someone's listening to you even if they're uncomfortable with eye contact. There's other ways to show you're paying attention

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#36

Community activism. Nothing more attractive than those who actively do things to improve the community!

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WilvanderHeijden
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate those people because they don't want to improve the community, they want the power to tell you what to do. Keep your frontyard tidy, don't play music after 10 pm, don't wash your car on Sunday, for the good of the community you should be part of our What'sapp group, join our "Share your private life with your neighbors" group.

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#37

Online Thread Has Folks Pointing Out Simple Things That Can Make People Look More Attractive, And Here Are 30 Of The Best Ones Get a dog.

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snipergun
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

*if you can and are willing to take care for it for next 15+ years and schedule your whole life around / with it.

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#38

Honesty, and I know it sounds cheesy but if people just say what they think, whether its bad or not, eventually a certain someone will fall for them.

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#39

Stand out. Trust me it works.

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Shelby P
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

what does "Stand out" even mean? that's like saying "be rich" if you want to have more money...

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#40

Tell a joke. Or kill spiders. Not sure which is more effective.

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Pezor Zass
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

there's no reason to kill spiders. spiders are in your house because you have insects in your house. if you kill the spiders, you will have more insects.

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