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Parents set rules for kids so that they know which behaviors are acceptable and which are not. As the CDC writes, children will have to be in public places when they grow up, places that might have certain rules. So they must get used to adhering to rules. But what if those rules don't always make sense?

Like when parents don't let their kids watch TV while lying in bed. Why is there a TV in the bedroom, then?!? It's true: not all the rules we heard from our parents make sense, but some might be extra silly. Like many from this thread, where a person asked: "What's a rule your parents had that you thought was silly at the time and still can't quite understand?"

What are the strangest rules your parents had in your house growing up? Let us know in the comments, and don't forget to upvote your favorite entries!

#1

31 Weird And Silly Rules Parents Had Kids Follow That They Still Don't Get After Growing Up I wasn't allowed to have any Ken dolls because my dad didn't want me to make my Kens and Barbies kiss. He said if I had one, I would become boy crazy and turn into a wh*re. Jokes on him, I just made my Barbies kiss each other.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had gay barbies too, but that was because my mother detested "American" toys and once she'd FINALLY caved in and bought me a couple of Barbie dolls (and a couple of knock off Barbies) she flat refused to buy me a Ken. My Barbies dated a couple of weird knitted dolls I had, or more often each other.

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    31 Weird And Silly Rules Parents Had Kids Follow That They Still Don't Get After Growing Up 9pm bedtime... Always. Figured out in middle school, it was so they could have 'no kids' time, so as long as I stayed quiet in my room, I didn't have to go to sleep. This is how I acquired a love of reading late into the night.

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    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We have a no waking Mummy and Daddy before 7 rule (I say rule, if he needs us it's fine, if he wants snuggles, it's fine, we're just not having loud games, etc). Found out he wakes around 6.30 and reads for half an hour. I feel so utterly proud (and have told him)

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    31 Weird And Silly Rules Parents Had Kids Follow That They Still Don't Get After Growing Up My father installed a tetherball game in our back yard. We weren't allowed to play it because we would ruin the grass. It hung there for years and we just stared at it from the porch.

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    #4

    31 Weird And Silly Rules Parents Had Kids Follow That They Still Don't Get After Growing Up My dad wouldn't let me wear studded belts because "that's what strippers wear"
    I've never heard of a stripper wearing a belt but whatever.

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    #5

    31 Weird And Silly Rules Parents Had Kids Follow That They Still Don't Get After Growing Up Not me but my friend’s parents didn’t allow Adidas because they were told it stands for “all day I dream about sex”.

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    General Anaesthesia
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    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That would be Itdgtvs (Ich träume den ganzen Tag von Séx) because Adidas is German.

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    #6

    31 Weird And Silly Rules Parents Had Kids Follow That They Still Don't Get After Growing Up Why I couldn't shave or wear deodorant until after I graduated high school. Seriously, wtf?

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    Yayheterogeneity
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    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's borderline abuse. What if you sweat after sports. Did they want you to reek? Isolate you from your peers? How cruel...

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    #7

    31 Weird And Silly Rules Parents Had Kids Follow That They Still Don't Get After Growing Up I wasn't allowed to wear headphones/listen to music in the house.
    Edit: my mother's reasoning was that it was a sign of depression and she "didn't want to see it".

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    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah yes, keep your child from having depression by making their life depressing. Checks out.

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    #8

    31 Weird And Silly Rules Parents Had Kids Follow That They Still Don't Get After Growing Up My mom prohibited using the washing machine between Christmas and New Years, she believed it would bring death in the family in the following year. Never made sense in any way, just a superstition. When I finally moved out it was a really big deal for me to finally be able to wash my clothes in that time period. And as expected, my family was fine the year after.

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    31 Weird And Silly Rules Parents Had Kids Follow That They Still Don't Get After Growing Up I wasn’t allowed to watch any type of TV. I’m talking no movies even Disney movies, cable, anything etc. I had to secretly watch x files with my dad on the weekend when she didn’t know. Yet my mum let me play video games? I still don’t get that one.

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    3 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was she religious? I wasn't allowed to watch TV the same as you but I could play video games. Church standards. There were many.

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    #10

    31 Weird And Silly Rules Parents Had Kids Follow That They Still Don't Get After Growing Up Any birthday gifts I received from friends or family needed to be split up evenly between me and my siblings because I was the oldest. While still wrapped my mom would evenly distribute them between the three of us.

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    #11

    My mom regularly shot down my "can I do XYZ with friends" plans because "family time". Like I pretty much NEVER got to hang out with friends after school or on weekends because "family time". Except my parents couldn't stand being in the same room so said "family time" was either me silently watching tv with one parent or just hiding out in my room.

    And relatives still ask why I'm so introverted and anti-social.

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    3 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We had our own living room and weren't allowed in the 'front' room. This only started when I was 12, when we moved to a slightly bigger house (similar size but had 2 reception rooms instead of 1). It changed the dynamics of the relationship with our parents. Don't recommend it. I spent most of my time around my friends homes/out & about or in my bedroom. I rarely went in 'our' living room.

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    #12

    31 Weird And Silly Rules Parents Had Kids Follow That They Still Don't Get After Growing Up I wasn't allowed to shower until my homework was done. But I also wasn't allowed to shower past 7pm. So between getting home from school, homework, eating dinner etc...

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    #13

    31 Weird And Silly Rules Parents Had Kids Follow That They Still Don't Get After Growing Up "When we have guests over you either sit down quietly or go upstairs. Adults aren't here for you. Don't talk to them."

    I still can't comprehend not allowing your children to have a conversation with your friends.

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    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hated that I can still hear kids are to be seen but not heard

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    31 Weird And Silly Rules Parents Had Kids Follow That They Still Don't Get After Growing Up When I was 11 I wasn’t allowed to buy a black bathing suit. No reason given. When I was 12 and bathing suit shopping, Mother suggested this black one. I said I’d try it but asked when the “no black bathing suit” rule changed, and she denied there had ever been such a rule. So I guess she couldn‘t understand the rule either even though it was her rule.

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    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hmm...maybe it was a particular black bathing suit you weren't allowed and there was some miscommunication or your mum took the easy way out and said it was the colour?

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    #15

    31 Weird And Silly Rules Parents Had Kids Follow That They Still Don't Get After Growing Up If you asked to do something the answer was always no. if you didnt ask it was 95% of the time allowed with maybe a few questions.

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    3 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "It's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission".

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    31 Weird And Silly Rules Parents Had Kids Follow That They Still Don't Get After Growing Up My mom was extremely wary of anything related to magic. She wouldn’t allow us to have cats because she thought they were evil. One time my cousin got me a history of magic book for Christmas-confiscated and never seen again. I tried to sneak and play DnD in high school, she found out and banned me from the after school club. She’s not religious or anything, she just doesn’t think it’s a good idea to mess with magic.

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    #17

    31 Weird And Silly Rules Parents Had Kids Follow That They Still Don't Get After Growing Up My mother arbitrarily declared that I couldn’t wear shorts unless it was 75°F (24C) outside. Still makes me mad when I think about it.

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    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a mother I get this. She wanted to make sure you don't get cold. Yes, from a certain age on that should be solely your problem. I hope she she made it your own responsibility at some point.

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    #18

    31 Weird And Silly Rules Parents Had Kids Follow That They Still Don't Get After Growing Up My grandma didn't like me watching TV while I was on my bed. Why did you put a TV in my bedroom then.

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    #19

    "Yuck" was a bad word. Like, swear word bad, and I wasn't allowed to say it.

    Not because it was insulting to say about food someone had worked hard to prepare. No, it was bad because it rhymed with an actual swear word.

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    When we went away for a week for a holiday my parents used to cover every mirror in the house in case lightening would be attracted to the mirror and come in through the closed window and strike it.

    No amount of me telling them this was rubbish would change their minds.

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    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean, mirrors are quite likely to reflect the sun and start a fire, so covering them isn't that ridiculous. But no idea why that would be any different when you were away - except that there wouldn't be anyone around to notice.

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    #21

    31 Weird And Silly Rules Parents Had Kids Follow That They Still Don't Get After Growing Up My father was a doctor, I had to answer the phone “Doctor XYZ residence u/Jesture4 speaking.” I can’t tell you how many times people would just talking about all their medical problems and I’d have to remind them, “this is his residence”.

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    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "That's really interesting about how you accidentally sat on that candle, Mr. Burns, but please remember I am a child with no doctor/patient confidentiality boundaries."

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    #22

    31 Weird And Silly Rules Parents Had Kids Follow That They Still Don't Get After Growing Up I was born in 1993 and my younger brother in 1998. Neither of us were allowed to eat beef when we were growing up, until I’d say 2004/2005? My parents were super strict about this rule too, I live in the UK so most birthday parties around that time were hosted in the party bus at McDonald’s (still miss that bus!), and my parents would always tell the birthday child’s parents that we were not allowed to order a hamburger for our happy meal!

    I remember one birthday party at McDonald’s I actually swapped my happy meal with another child who had a burger and on this particular occasion I had to leave early as we had some sort of family event right after it. My parents walked in whilst we were all eating and saw me eating this burger, and boy was I in trouble! I was told if it happened again I’d be banned from going to anymore birthday parties!

    What made this rule silly is the fact that both of my parents ate beef!

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    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe because of mad cow disease that was going on in Britain in that period? In Croatia, people are still not allowed to donate blood or organs if they visited Britain in that time frame for longer than a month.

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    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    BSE and there were fears that it could affect developing brains in children more than adults.

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    3 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bovine spongiform encephalopathy in cattle/cows. BSE... AKA Mad Cow Disease, which could lead to Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease in humans. Their parents were maybe being overprotective? But at the same time? It was understandable that they were because of the fears at the time.

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    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mad Cow disease. One of my sister's still doesn't eat beef. I actually know someone who died from Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease (piron disease). The doctors believed she developed it spontaneously; it was horrible.

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    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Im not allowed beef because of religious reasons but neither can my mum and my dad only eaty it once a yr max and he makes sure to wash him hamds n make sure my mum doesn't kiss him etc

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    3 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm in the UK, born 1984. Not allowed to donate blood abroad. It's vile we're all potential ticking time bombs and for what? For greed. Capitalism was so greedy we essentially made it eat itself.

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    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wasn't allowed to wear a sweater to dinner and I'd be so cold eating dinner in winter! Speaking of food my mom just wouldn't feed us when we went on vacation. We were so hungry!

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    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe there were legitimate fears behind this rule, and I had a similar rule for my children till they got older as MCD's suffered several cases of bad food (beef) which led to the deaths of young children who couldn't fight off the food poisonings.

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    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    BSE doesn't (and didn't) cause food poisoning. It's a disease that affects the central nervous system (the brain and spinal cord). It usually takes years to progress to the stage where symptoms are visible, though a small number of people became sick more rapidly. Symptoms include changes in personality (including depression), memory issues and cognitive impairment, loss of coordination and balance, etc. There's still some who expect a surge in the númber of cases in coming years, as those infected in the 80s and 90s begin to show symptoms, and this is why Britain was unable to export beef and why, as some have mentioned, some countries still won't allow brits to donate blood. Food poisoning, as unfortunate as it is, has nothing to do with bovine spongiform encephalitis, or creuzfeldt-jakob disease as it's known in humans.

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    #23

    My mom refuses to use the dishwasher or let anyone use it till this day because she believes it uses up significantly more water than traditionally cleaning dishes in the sink. I'm pretty sure she's wrong but she swears by it. She's pretty old school though.

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    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    there are a lot of people convinced of that. Dishwasher uses LESS water if properly used (fully loaded etc)

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    #24

    I wasn't allowed to have a hula hoop. It still baffles me.

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    31 Weird And Silly Rules Parents Had Kids Follow That They Still Don't Get After Growing Up I wasn't allowed to take our dog for a walk outside of his scheduled walk time.

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    3 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I walked my brother and sister in laws dog once as he's never taken out. He was overweight with hip problems. On top of that he wasn't allowed inside while the other little dogs were. Anyhow, I take him around a few blocks and he loved it. The next time I go to take him out my sister in law hide the dog leashes and that was that.- she's a controlling narcissist.

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    #26

    I never understood why I couldn't say the word " lie" parents are deceased and I still don't get it.

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    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My dad had a rule that you had to have concrete proof that something is false before you could call it a lie, because calling a person a liar is rude. Something similar?

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    #27

    No backwards caps unless we were camping.

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    No drinking soda from a can, get a glass and pour it into that. My Mum would mysteriously say it was something "only common people do". Years later I asked her and she just replied "It *is* common". I *think* she is figuring it's like people drinking from beer cans and in her mind that is socially unacceptable.

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    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    not drinking from cans is actually a good idea. You never know who or what touched it

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    #29

    31 Weird And Silly Rules Parents Had Kids Follow That They Still Don't Get After Growing Up Don't sing at the dinner table. You could sing "Happy Birthday" if it was actually someone's birthday and a cake with lit candles was present. Any other time, NO SINGING AT THE TABLE!

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    We were allowed to wear shoes in the bathroom but no where else in the house. To get to the bathroom you had to walk in through the front door, through the kitchen, through the living room and then through my bedroom (all of which were off limit areas for shoes, which I do understand and still implement in my house unless you're a guest that's leaving quickly). I can't count the number of times I'd be standing in front of the bathroom mirror getting ready to leave with shoes on and the second I walked into my bedroom, she'd yell at me to take my shoes off. Really f*****g weird and makes her sound crazy lol. I guess she kind of was but normally in a fun way.

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    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We just have specific indoor slippers/crocs. Have extras for guests too. Outdoor shoes have to come off by the front door.

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    #31

    Turn the light off. I was grounded several times growing up because I didn't turn the light off because the bill would be sooooo much higher and then I found out how much it cost. 10 cents if I left the bathroom light on. I started leaving dimes next to the lights I left on. F**k you step dad, you worked in the pentagon. You can afford it.

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    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doesnt matter if you're rich or poor. Nobody should be waste things.

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