100% red flag if they're mean to animals.

Yes, if you don't like the food, keep it to yourself. Act gracious. Act kind.

I’m a victim minded person. Each time something happens, I blame the other person and hold a grudge against them. Now I’m doing much better and have started owning up to my mistakes without unfairly blaming someone

They always have rubbish bins right outside the door too. If you can carry your popcorn to your seat you can carry the empty carton back to the bin.

My biggest turn off on a date is if they treat the waiter poorly.

“It’s all in your head” Yes I know that’s the whole problem LOL

I'd say a 'slumlords' hoodie may be a flag waving on its own

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On any professional level, it should not even be the last.

Even worse, they don't shake hands with a bin.

Some people are so cruel to that they LIKE to hurt people

I love my fur baby, but why why why must his comfy spot be 1 inch from my face? We've established your ownership of me 8,364 times already. get-off-me...c4e626.jpg

Ugh

I've learned over the years that as much as the people I care about love their pets, it's wrong for me to assume they even want another pet after having to put one down. I've had to put 3 pets down in the past 15 years sooner than I had hoped due to undiagnosed medical issues. I now have an almost 14 year old beagle mix girl (Ziggy). When she goes, I will likely be unconsolable and if anyone tells me (that doesn't understand the bond between a pet and owner) to "just get another one", I will likely remove said person from my life. I don't even know if I would WANT another pet after Ziggy goes, and my husband may not want another one either. It's just simply insensitive and uncalled for to a grieving pet parent.

Yep but I rather they leave the trash in the car than throw it out the window...that's an absolute no-no.

Those are arrogant, egoistical AHs who don't care what this means for others. They're just to lazy to spit it into a trashcan or, like normal people, into a tissue or a piece of paper and then throw it away

Your rules may be important, but mine are importanter.

Pfft! Those trophies are weaksauce compared to my collection. Why, did you know I was the 1977 world pickleball champion? All of these new players need to know who’s boss.

Even over stuff that shouldn't be something to boast about, such as how much more painful their pain is compared to your wimpy pain. Their pain is the painiest pain that ever did pain, dammit!

Ah, the "everything is a competition" guy. No one likes that guy. 🤬

Ugh... I have a co- worker like this. I onlybtalk to her now when I have to

My father was a narcissist and did this; I took great pleasure in responding to his bragging by being unimpressed, it drove him CRAZY.

So, Matthew Perry.

I have a family member who doesn't have an advanced degree like I do, which no one including me cares about. But they literally have posted 4 fake advanced degrees online, on Facebook, on LinkedIn, etc to make themselves appear more educated than I am.

My future father in law is like this. Im pleased as punch we are grown (in our 40s and independent and he lives hours away. So I can simply choose to be elsewhere when my fiancee visits his father. His mom is awesome though.

That is so exhausting. I'm so tired of people who make it a competition. And when you mention an accomplishment the person never acknowledgedges it but goes on to say how they topped it. Forget that person.

I have a co-worker like this. I'm polite and professional to her but I go WAY out of my way to avoid her as much as possible.

Treatment of servers, retail workers, etc - that's the key. If they pick on someone that can't fight back, that is beyond a red flag. You are officially a complete b a s t a r d.

If they gossip about people to you… then they are gossiping about you to other people :/

So piling them up on your truck and driving away is cool? TIL

This one usually doesn't go alone. Such people are also narcissistic and emotionally abusive, extracting validation from humiliating and belittling others. They know everything, they give unsolicited lessons and advice, the world revolves around them. If you lost somebody for example, your grief is nothing as compared to what they had suffered in a similar situation. If you're planning to do something, they've already done it ahead of you. If you wish to visit a place, they've already been there before you. I had such a "friend". Avoid them like plague.

I'm never sure if the protocol on this. I would always offer, but it does depend on how well you know people and some people seem genuinely offended if you try to help out, like they want to act as the hosts and treat you like guests.

I know some people who can't breathe through their nose and do this. I think it's okay if they have certain medical issues.

I don't know how to clean a house very well, because my mother did all of it. Her reasoning.....me, my sister, and my dad won't do it right. It's not like I don't do my best to keep a clean home, but it's not a very good job.

Who offended the kitty?!

Welcome to my childhood!

Or they are Canadian.

How be be a good neighbor: never bring up religion or politics when talking with neighbors.