100% red flag if they're mean to animals.

Yes, if you don't like the food, keep it to yourself. Act gracious. Act kind.

I’m a victim minded person. Each time something happens, I blame the other person and hold a grudge against them. Now I’m doing much better and have started owning up to my mistakes without unfairly blaming someone

They always have rubbish bins right outside the door too. If you can carry your popcorn to your seat you can carry the empty carton back to the bin.

My biggest turn off on a date is if they treat the waiter poorly.

“It’s all in your head” Yes I know that’s the whole problem LOL

I'd say a 'slumlords' hoodie may be a flag waving on its own

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On any professional level, it should not even be the last.

Even worse, they don't shake hands with a bin.

Some people are so cruel to that they LIKE to hurt people

I love my fur baby, but why why why must his comfy spot be 1 inch from my face? We've established your ownership of me 8,364 times already. get-off-me...c4e626.jpg

Ugh

I've learned over the years that as much as the people I care about love their pets, it's wrong for me to assume they even want another pet after having to put one down. I've had to put 3 pets down in the past 15 years sooner than I had hoped due to undiagnosed medical issues. I now have an almost 14 year old beagle mix girl (Ziggy). When she goes, I will likely be unconsolable and if anyone tells me (that doesn't understand the bond between a pet and owner) to "just get another one", I will likely remove said person from my life. I don't even know if I would WANT another pet after Ziggy goes, and my husband may not want another one either. It's just simply insensitive and uncalled for to a grieving pet parent.

It is a sad several months to get out of the depression of your pet's loss however another loving pet helps you get out of it. I lost my dog and stumbled along untill Christmas and suddenly the loss was too much and I just needed another cudly warmth to go through the day and adopted the first puppy available. It needed not be a puppy just something alive in the room. Maybe your friends meant this kind of thing. To tell the truth I kept comparing the puppy with my deceased dog and it took me time to feel the same level of love for her. But now I am able to remember my lost dog with warm feelings instead of tears.

wtf.... you lost a friend and family member. they can´t be replaced. you can choose to open your heart and home to another pet but that is not a replacement- its a new relationship.

This also applies to experiencing the death of another person; “he’s in a better place now” does nothing to assuage grief.

Last year, I endured the same quiet cruelty.

Sorry for ur loss, our 2 yo dog is like my son, we have a daughter who is 11 but my baby cuddles me, my pre teen is like, ewww do i have to give u a hug 🙈 love our dog ❤

There are situations in which the best input is just saying nothing.

My dog had to be euthanized because his kidneys were failing. That was in 2007. I still miss him, and occasionally cry.

Insensitive & ignorant, but not intentionally

My sister decided Christmas Eve was the right time to talk to my mum about having her 2 aging dogs put down. My sister is 53, not a child, but has no compassion for pets whatsoever. I was gobsmacked, my mum (76) understandably burst into tears.

To some people a pet is like a tampon. You have it, you use it, you throw it away and get another.

Even if I agreed with them, I certainly wouldn't voice that out loud, especially within earshot of ANYONE I call friend.

Because they have no empathy! That’s what’s wrong with the world and people!!!

Sorry for your loss

Good! Ditch people like that. 😑

He just said “Get another?” HE JUST SAID “GET ANOTHER!?!” Excuse me, no matter how many you get, they’ll never be like your past fur-babies, and you have a right to mourn! Getting a new one may fill the empty dog, or cat bed, but it can’t replace the sad little depression that has been pressed into ones mind. No not heart, the heart pumps blood. And I am terribly sorry for your loss, and I’m terribly sorry that your friend said what he said! >:(

When we had a pet pass growing up, my family and I went and got a new pet that day. My parents thought it helped with grieving.

Can't relate with the photo...

what the c**p thats so dumb--

Yep but I rather they leave the trash in the car than throw it out the window...that's an absolute no-no.

Those are arrogant, egoistical AHs who don't care what this means for others. They're just to lazy to spit it into a trashcan or, like normal people, into a tissue or a piece of paper and then throw it away

Your rules may be important, but mine are importanter.

Pfft! Those trophies are weaksauce compared to my collection. Why, did you know I was the 1977 world pickleball champion? All of these new players need to know who’s boss.

Treatment of servers, retail workers, etc - that's the key. If they pick on someone that can't fight back, that is beyond a red flag. You are officially a complete b a s t a r d.

If they gossip about people to you… then they are gossiping about you to other people :/

So piling them up on your truck and driving away is cool? TIL

This one usually doesn't go alone. Such people are also narcissistic and emotionally abusive, extracting validation from humiliating and belittling others. They know everything, they give unsolicited lessons and advice, the world revolves around them. If you lost somebody for example, your grief is nothing as compared to what they had suffered in a similar situation. If you're planning to do something, they've already done it ahead of you. If you wish to visit a place, they've already been there before you. I had such a "friend". Avoid them like plague.

I'm never sure if the protocol on this. I would always offer, but it does depend on how well you know people and some people seem genuinely offended if you try to help out, like they want to act as the hosts and treat you like guests.

I know some people who can't breathe through their nose and do this. I think it's okay if they have certain medical issues.

I don't know how to clean a house very well, because my mother did all of it. Her reasoning.....me, my sister, and my dad won't do it right. It's not like I don't do my best to keep a clean home, but it's not a very good job.

Who offended the kitty?!

Welcome to my childhood!

Or they are Canadian.

How be be a good neighbor: never bring up religion or politics when talking with neighbors.