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The term 'sigma male' has become a buzzword in the online world, generally describing a man who is independent, introspective, and does not conform to societal norms. And anyone who is interested in learning more about these characters should check out the Twitter account Sigma Male Activity.

It strives to deconstruct the mindset and lifestyle of those who identify as such through quotes and sigma memes. It covers a wide range of topics, ranging from dating and partner selection to earning a living and hobbies.

While the concept of a sigma male is not without controversy, this account offers a fresh (and often humorous) perspective on what it can mean to different people.

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According to the internet culture database Know Your Meme, online males from this supposed class are usually considered equal to alphas on the dominance hierarchy but exist outside of the structure by choice. John Wick has often been cited as a prominent example of a sigma male.

The term itself has been attributed to writer Vox Day, aka Theodore Robert Beale, a self-described Christian nationalist. On his blog, he often shares detailed explanations of the hierarchy of males using the Greek alphabet.

On May 16th, 2010, he published, "Explaining sigma. Again," in which he wrote that the sigma is not just a social outcast, but a person who despite being a supposed social outcast "wins" at the social game.

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"[Sigmas are] the outsiders who don't play the social game and manage to win at it anyhow," he wrote. "The alphas hate sigmas because they are the only men who don't accept or at least acknowledge their social dominance. (NB: Alphas absolutely hate to be laughed at and a sigma can enrage an alpha by simply smiling at him.)"

"Everyone else is vaguely confused by them. At the party, it's the guy who stops by to say hello to a few friends accompanied by a tier-one girl that no one has ever seen before. Sigmas often like women, but also tend to be contemptuous of them."

He has also listed some pop culture characters as examples, including Han Solo, Neo, and many Clint Eastwood roles.

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Over the course of the 2010s, explanations of the sigma male began growing more popular online. But it has received a fair share of criticism, too.

Writing for the Daily Dot, Gavia Baker-Whitelaw said that, "Conveniently, [the sigma male concept] offers men the chance to rebrand themselves as a cool, sexy loner if they've alienated their friends and loved ones by ascribing to self-defeating theories about gender and relationships."

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"Once again, the men's rights community has come so close to realizing that their real problem is the restrictive nature of old-fashioned gender roles. 'Redefining masculinity' can be a helpful idea for many people, but if you're redefining it as a hierarchy of tough wolf guys versus incels, it's probably time to go back to the drawing board," Baker-Whitelaw added.

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Dr. Leonor Gonçalves, who is a Research Associate in Neuroscience, Physiology, and Pharmacology at the University College London, would probably agree with Baker-Whitelaw.

"We can wish to hold on to the past and choose to emulate the societal structure of ancient animals," she wrote. "But the fact [some animals] have survived for so long without changing is a reflection of how well they are adapted to their environment – and how little this has changed."

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"Human ancestors have left the ocean, developed lungs, vocal cords and many things in between. We have explored continents, built flying machines and some of us even live outside the Earth. We crave change and challenge. We also try to make our societies more fair and balanced and aspire to make humanity better and more advanced," Gonçalves continued.

"What's more, the animal kingdom is full of examples of hierarchies, with the highest level of organization observed in insects ... In the world of bees, the queen is much larger than the males and the only fertile female. She lays all the eggs in the colony after being fertilized by several males. After [the] breeding season, the males are driven out of the colony and die. If we chose to organize society in this 'natural' way, would we be okay with that?" she wondered.

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But while categorizing men as a pack of wolves and labeling them with Greek symbols might be archaic (or even dumb), the beauty of such loose definitions is that you can bend them in whatever way you want — there's no academic institution safeguarding it. And judging by its content, the Twitter account 'Sigma Male Activity' is painting a pretty inspiring picture of sigmas.

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Bonesko
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OK, I don't have the whole story, but having worked in restaurants for several years, I think that cook is f**king with you because you're a bad guest. I could be wrong.

Rostit .
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The cook and this guy should just make out and get it over with

Analyn Lahr
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe I read too much but I could see this becoming a gay romantic comedy.

Ron H.
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought fighting with Waffle House staff was part of your meal experience there?! 😅

Riley Quinn
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The really crazy part of this story is how there's a field of red flags flapping wildly and she can't see them.

Jared Robinson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At this point that cook 100% is a professional chef when it comes to cooking eggs and he refuses to cook them runny. Have em poached b***h!

Roland
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Plot twist: they're both gay and madly in love but too afraid to come out, choosing fist fight as the 2nd best way of getting close on a regular basis

Luna Crow
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Leaving out the important information - which waffle house? I've given up on ordering eggs because they always come out runny no matter what I ask. I would love to have eggs prepared by this cook!

Cara G
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't understand this one. How does a guest in the dining room gain access to the BOH staff ever? Is he physically entering the kitchen beyond the "employees only" sign? Is he demanding that the cook come to his table? Why are any servers complying with this? How tf has a manager not intervened? Six or seven times?!?! This is a GIANT liability.

Coolwhip
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's waffle house, they are trained for this. A healthy set of waffle house employees can take on the Avengers, I promise you.

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Bron
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is quite the stupidest thing I’ve read in a long time.

Jeffrey Crawley
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Working a construction site in Ontario and we used a BP gas station for breakfast. One guy, Michael, used to ask for his eggs "blinded" (you put a cover over frying eggs and the steam cooks white over the yolk). Each time they'd come up sunny side or over easy or with stab wounds in the yolk. One Saturday Mike was away at a wedding and all our eggs came up perfectly blinded. The chef had been at school with Mike and said he'd been a complete arsehole and a bully. Revenge is best served with a side of hash browns.

Marina Laisa
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sadly, this story is fake. I remember reading about that a few months ago, someone creating weird stories on Reddit to gather attention, and this one was one of them

nate kasinski
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1 year ago

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Krod Mandoon
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

29, but acts like a 19 y/o after ordering like a 9 y/o. If you want them runny, the adult way to order is sunny side up, over easy or over medium. OP also acts like a 19 y/o for staying with this child...

Reviewer UK01
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel like both parties know what the deal is here, they've consented to a good fight and every time they feel the need to beat s**t out of someone, they get together and let the egg ritual play out.

Cthulhu Kitty
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband won't take me to a waffle house (never been, so just want to see what they are about) because he says his "knife skills aren't good enough". I think he is joking.... Is he?

J
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OP, I think your boyfriend and that guy are starting a fight club.

Robert Beveridge
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Get banned from Waffle House? You'd have to be a serial killer, and even then it's probably manager's call.

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Coolwhip
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She should place bets and make some money off the fights lol.

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