I felt a pop in my back. It was actually a vertebra breaking. I had severe pain after, and was later diagnosed with multiple myeloma, a blood cancer. That was five years ago, and today I am in remission.

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This brings me hope. My friend is going through this now. Broke multiple vertebrae and his femur so far.

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I was diagnosed at 43. For two years my gynecologist insisted that I get a mammogram as part of turning 40. I am very small chested so I thought it was a complete waste of time. In February 2013 I promised my doctor that I would get a mammogram before my next annual appointment. I was diagnosed in February 2014. Stage 2 breast cancer. There was absolutely no signs or indication. No family history. All the way up to the pathology results from the biopsy, I thought it was all a complete waste of time and money. The results came back positive.

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Get cancer screening regardless of the size of your boobs. The little ones might try and kill you too.

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My wife felt a lump in her armpit. The doctor was not concerned, but wifey insisted they check it out. The ultrasound was concerning enough that they did an immediate biopsy, which came back as metastatic breast cancer that had invaded a lymph node, and had grown to the size of a golf ball. It appeared not to have spread any further (touch wood) so after surgery and chemo she is doing fine (touch more wood, 3.5 years and counting).

EDIT: I should add that she had clean mammograms, and they never found any evidence of cancer in her breast.

EDIT2: And a huge shout-out to the BC Cancer Agency, they were on top of it from the get go and quickly got her through treatment.

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That... is unusual, about 1% of metastatic breast cancers; "Occult breast cancer (OBC)".

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I was 15 when I started having super sharp, terrible pain in my ankle whenever something touched it, which sucked because I was really into martial arts. Would be training, then hit it with my other foot or something and just drop, couldn’t walk for minutes. Lived with it for probably a year or more, going to doctors who said it was a bad growth plate, or all in my head, or some other similar b******t.

After lots of scans over time they figure that it’s a “nerve cluster” in there, so I have surgery to take it out. The whole ordeal almost ended there, but a university asked for a sample and they determined that instead of a nerve cluster, it was a sarcoma (soft tissue tumor), and the first surgery had just spread it around.

After consulting with a few doctors near home who said they’d have to take my foot, or I’d lose most function and just limp for the rest of my life, we went to MD Anderson who said they could fix it.

They had to cut out my tendon and most of the flesh in the area, replacing it with a cadaver tendon and muscle from my thigh, with a graft of skin from my thigh. Then it got a blood clot and started to die, so they took a blood vessel from my other ankle to replace the clotted one, and redid the graft with skin from my other thigh too.

Totally clean since, just had my 5 year checkup last week!

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My dad came back from a family holiday with me and my mum in Feb 2020 from somewhere cold (Northern Europe during winter) and just wouldn’t stop coughing. We just assumed it was a horrible fever and kept treating it with hot water with lemon and honey... but we’d booked an appointment with his GP as soon as we’d landed, but that wasn’t for another two weeks.

At his GP appointment he was diagnosed with a viral infection and given a week’s antibiotics. His viral infection wouldn’t go though, no matter how many antibiotics he was prescribed. His GP prescribed the same set again, and we called 111 once to be prescribed a different set. Nothing.

One night it got so bad that mum and I called 999. Since it was a “non life threatening” call, the ambulance said they’d be 40-60 minutes. In that time, dad stopped coughing as much and told us he felt okay, asked to cancel the ambulance and that just wanted to go to sleep.

I said f**k no, let the ambulance get here and let the people with medical degrees and training decide if you get to go to bed or not.

They arrived - a senior paramedic we’ll call Joe (late 30s, friendly) and a junior paramedic we’ll call Sarah.

They both do standard tests, an ECG and a review of his meds (antibiotics). Joe asks Sarah for her opinion (presumably for her training) and she says he seems fine, the swelling at his glands is reasonable and in line with a viral infection.

Joe says, “Well look, it got so bad that you all felt the need to call 999. I don’t like that at all, and despite not seeing any evidence myself, I want to drive him to A&E and get a blood test done.”

So I drove behind an ambulance at 11pm to sit with my dad as he got his blood test done. Blood report comes back at 4am, all normal, we go home.

Next day, hospital calls and asks us to come in ASAP. Turns out it’s Acute Leukaemia.

Dad’s still going through chemotherapy but he’s doing great, and we’ve got our fare share of hurdles but damn if he isn’t a fighter and a fantastic role model. We’re now talking about marrow donation and final stages of treatment.

But god damn, that paramedic Joe made the right call. Thanks Joe - if you hadn’t trusted us, I might be telling a much sadder story.

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They treated a suspected viral infection with antibiotics?

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Seizures. I got seizures out of nowhere during the night. No history of seizures in my family. Got my head screened and they found what they thought to be a benign tumor.

Anaplastic Astrocytoma, diagnosed two months before my 22nd birthday.

Nearing the 5-year mark, though, with no evidence of it returning!

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I was four. We were visiting my grandmother at work (Target). I still distinctly remember playing with the little dots on a Sprite bottle.

I had to potty. So my mom took me to the bathroom. I peed, and stood up. While she was helping fasten my pants, I looked at the toilet.

It was full of blood.

We rushed to the hospital. Turns out I had Wilm’s Tumor. A tumor the size of a large grapefruit had ruptured my right kidney and I was internally hemorrhaging. I was rushed to surgery.

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This might sound really really strange, but I felt "high" all the time. Like I was detached from reality. Hard to put into words. Went in, found a tumor, hodgkins & non-hodgkins at the same time.

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Well, I have a benign brain tumour which was diagnosed due to double vision and really bad headaches. I also have had a mild hand tremor for ages.

I had radiotherapy 11 years ago and now I have been diagnosed with a low grade parotid cancer which is a lump on my neck. Soon going to be having radiotherapy for that.

Edit: the doctors have decided on proton beam therapy for me.

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I have a benign brain tumor which was diagnosed by my Ophthalmologist who said my optic nerve was swollen. I had had no symptoms. I feel very blessed that the surgery to remove the tumor went well. Three years on, my brain is working very well.

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Most of the patients I've seen had some weird gradual symptom(s) onset that they either ignored or just assumed was normal (or at least their "normal"). Fatigue despite not changing much in their life. Weight loss that was attributed to "I'm never really hungry anyways". Weird headaches. Changing bowel habits (pencil-thin stool, blood in stool, etc).

Moral of the story is don't ignore chronic symptoms, please see your doc.

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I was 8 when I got Leukaemia (21 now), the first unusual thing was that I was constantly tired. I’d just come home and lie down on the couch and wouldn’t have energy for anything. My mom was just alarmed as I was a lively child but she first brushed it off as school and autumn moods exhausting me.

And then I started getting red spots on my skin. Not breakouts, just red dots appearing right under my skin.

First on my face, then on my neck, eventually they spread down to my chest. It happened within days and thankfully my mom called my grandmother, who’s a cardiologist, and who ordered my parents to take me to a doctor.

Other doctors could’ve said it was a skin allergy breakout (I suffered from skin allergies before that) but this one noticed the signs, ordered extensive blood tests and then got me transferred to the haematology hospital within an hour.

I still remember how I tried to be brave when they were taking my blood and how proud I was that I was calm through that whole evening.

And that was the start of over a year of hospital life.

If my mom hadn’t called my grandmother, If she then wouldn’t order my parents to take me to the hospital, if that doctor then would dismiss the signs (which are not at all common with leukaemia) I would’ve been gone within a week, maybe two. If I came there days, hours later, I would’ve been beyond saving.

But in the end, 8/9yo me was happy to be allowed to spend whole days in bed playing the Sims 2 and that’s what I choose to remember from that time.

I’d also like to say that my parants are amazing people who made sure to spend every moment they could with me, all the while working to support us (not all the meds etc were available through the local NHS) and they made this hard time so much easier for me.

TLDR; I was 8yo, was tired all the time, had red spots on the skin, was very lucky that came to the hospital quickly and wasn’t dismissed as an allergy, or I would’ve been dead in a week.

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Peeing out what appeared to be a pint of blood, completely painlessly. It was bladder cancer.

Still took me 2 years until I got a diagnosis. Every time it happened, I'd go to the clinic and by the time I got there, I was peeing clear again, with only trace amounts of blood. They'd give me antibiotics for a UTI and send me on my way.

Turns out, "painless gross hematuria" (peeing out A LOT of blood, with zero pain) is almost ALWAYS a sign of bladder cancer. As the tumors grow, they bleed, but the bladder heals (or rather, the tumors heal) incredibly quickly, so by the time you give a urine sample, it's over. And it doesn't happen constantly, just once every few weeks or months.

Finally I caught it mid-stream, and ran to the clinic with a full bladder. I remember feeling so triumphant when they asked me to pee in a cup and I handed over a full cup of blood. I also remember the nurse's face. It was a student clinic, and I was a 21 year old woman. 21 year old women don't get bladder cancer, but I did. They got me a referral to a urologist within a couple days. They did a cystoscopy (scope in through the urethra to look at the inside of the bladder) and found 8 tumors.

I've since found other women on the internet that had the same experience.

I've also since had a UTI, years after bladder cancer. UTIs hurt REALLY BAD, and if there's blood, it's only a tiny bit. Ridiculous that they just thought I was exaggerating the blood...but somehow ignoring the pain?

Tl;dr, if you ever pee out what appears to be straight blood and feel zero pain, don't let them tell you it's just a UTI. You probably have bladder cancer. Demand a referral to a urologist and get a cystoscopy.

ETA: I forgot that they also kept insisting that it must have been my period, and I was just confused. Nevermind the fact that I wasn't on my period, and it's fairly easy to tell if blood is coming from your vagina or your urethra.

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Had a hard small knob on the left side of my neck and I jokingly said to my friends "Haha I bet it's cancer". Well, yeah indeed it was.

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A lump in my boob I found accidently in the shower. Nothing else, just the lump. I was fortunate I found it. I was in my early 30's and breastfeeding my second child. Statistically it shouldn't have been me.

I'm 5 years from diagnosis and my current status is NED (no evidence of disease) which is the best you can hope for.

Check your boobs. Do it regularly. And go to you Dr if you find anything you aren't sure about.

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I had a white patch on the left side of my tongue. I do not smoke or chew tobacco. As soon as the hygienist saw it and I saw her face, I new it was trouble. It was cancer and something I have to monitor all the time now. Every sore on my tongue or in my mouth is a cause for concern. Had one biopsy and two surgeries to remove it all. No chemo or radiation. Down side was the spots kept coming back, hence the two surgeries. THC and CBD oil was recommended to me. That was two years ago and I haven’t had a spot since. Yay.

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Seizures in my sleep. Had been living a very healthy lifestyle while in my first year of law school and then all of a sudden I started getting seizures in my sleep. I immediately went to my primary care and was sent to the hospital for scans. Results came back the same day and was told to go to the neurologist ASAP and that’s when I was told about the tumor growing in my brain.
Edit: I’d like to add that I’d had migraines since I was like 17, but my GP told me it was probably because of periods since that was usually the case with women. It wasn’t until I had my first gran mal seizure that he took things seriously. IF YOU HAVE CHRONIC MIGRAINES, PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD SUGGEST AN MRI. Just to rule out whether it’s a tumor or not.

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My dad went to the ER after a big bump had formed on his neck overnight. He was prescribed sever rash medication but went back after nothing had worked. Everyone, even the doctors thought it had been an allergic reaction or some kind of rash but after testing for other causes, they found that he had had hodgkins lymphoma and a six inch mass in his chest. It has be over a year, he has finished treatment, and the cancer shows no sign of returning.

Edit: Thank you all so much for all the kind words and support!

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I had a biggish mole on my chest, GF made me go to the doctors to get it checked out. Turned out to be malignant melanoma.

If it wasn’t for her persistence I would probably be dead now, I thought she was way overreacting and I don’t like going to the doctors.

Edit: it was 7 years ago now

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A runny nose:

My father always had allergies. But the severity of his runny nose reached a point where he went from doctor to doctor trying to figure out what was going on. It wasn't until the 7th doctor when he was finally referred for a [spinal tap procedure ](https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/lumbar-puncture/about/pac-20394631#:~:text=tap%20(lumbar%20puncture)-,Spinal%20tap%20(lumbar%20puncture),collect%20cerebrospinal%20fluid%20for%20testing.) to determine if his runny nose was actually a [CSF leakage](https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/neurology_neurosurgery/centers_clinics/brain_tumor/center/skull-base/types/csf-leak.html#:~:text=A%20CSF%20leak%20is%20a,and%20brain%20or%20sinus%20surgery.).

Night after the procedure, we almost lost him. He had developed meningitis. Spent several days in the hospital. They didnt know if it was [viral](https://www.cdc.gov/meningitis/viral.html) or [bacterial](https://www.cdc.gov/meningitis/bacterial.html). Some days they made us wear a full cover-up while others we could hold on to him without a face mask even. He recovered and now we wait for his results.

Turns out it was a CSF leakage. The surgery to fix that was scheduled right away. He had the surgery and my mother and I waited to be called to see him. While he was still out, the doctor came to my mother and I and told us she found something near his pituitary gland. A small growth. She said she scraped some off and sent it to the lab. When those results came back, we found out he had [chordoma](https://ghr.nlm.nih.gov/condition/chordoma#:~:text=A%20chordoma%20is%20a%20rare,and%20soft%20tissue%20around%20them.), a type of brain cancer.

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Dark stools and intermittent lower abdominal pain. Went to the doc and he said "colitis, just don't eat nuts and seeds." A couple days later it still hurt and I ended up seeing a nurse practitioner. She ordered blood work, an abdominal CAT scan, and a gastroenterologist consult. Two weeks later I had half my colon removed. Caught it fairly early so things are looking OK.

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Nothing. I got my first routine mammogram because I was 42. I had zero signs.

The mammogram caught the very early stages of an aggressive breast cancer caused by the ATM gene which is common to people of Norwegian ancestry. I have a tiny sliver of Norwegian. No family history of cancer, breast or otherwise, except the occasional skin damage-sort.

If I’d gotten the mammogram two weeks earlier, nothing would have been visible. I’d have waited until next year’s mammogram which would have revealed a metastasized, likely fatal breast cancer.

I had my mammogram in August, my biopsy to confirm it in October (at which point the two little dots had turned into two clusters), bilateral mastectomy in December, and I went back into the classroom in the first week of January. Because of the timing, I did not need any chemo, preventive meds, or treatment beyond the mastectomy.

And that was my first and last mammogram!

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I had childhood leukemia. When I was about 10 both of my knees started to hurt progressively more and more to the point where I was limping around. I also couldn't catch my breath. I remember this one lunch lady at school giving me s**t for "being slow" walking up some stairs and I just didn't know what to tell her because I couldn't go any faster. I went to the doctor once and they said I sprained my knees (I played soccer so it wasn't impossible). But they never got better. So I went back and they decided to take some blood tests just in case. Thankfully they did because it turns out my red blood cells were 1/3 what they were supposed to be, hence why I couldn't heal and I couldn't get enough oxygen, ever.

That was 20 years ago now and I got lucky, I didn't relapse. I had friends who did, and didn't make it. Idk. Kinda a personal story that I don't talk about much.

Edit: a lot of people have seen this and shared some great, oddly similar stories. Hope everyone is taking care of themselves. But to answer a recurring question: I never did see that lunch lady again, she was gone (unrelated reasons) by the time I went back to school.

Another edit: I also don't blame my pediatrician for not catching it sooner, and I did end up having an incredible medical team providing treatment for me every step of the way.

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I was rubbing my thigh with my hands after exercise and I felt a hard, painless lump the size of a big jelly bean about 5cm deep under my skin. I felt around in the same spot on the opposite leg and didn't find another one, so I went to the doctor.

A bunch of scans later, I was diagnosed with myxoid sarcoma. It turned out to be a misdiagnosis as the tumour ended up being benign, but I still needed surgery and the nerves in my leg got f****d up.

Tldr; if something about your body feels off, get it checked out! If my tumour had of been cancer, my prognosis still would have been very good because I noticed it when it was still small.

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2 of my friends, both of their partners had huge appetites, built like rugby players, loads of energy, always on the go. They both had a sudden loss of appetite, became really lethargic and didn't poop for more than 7 days. Bowel cancer. Both died within six months of diagnosis.

If something is out of the ordinary, don't ignore it thinking it'll go away. Get yourself checked out, that's what the doctor is there for.

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My dad thought he had the flu & went to urgent care, by the end of the weekend he had started chemotherapy. He had acute myeloid leukemia, made it 6 years though so not bad

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I was in a drum line in middle school and we used to do this thing with the drum sticks to sting one and other. This kid got me real good on my shoulder blade, and it caused an irritated growth. Doctor told us that it wouldn't go away on its own and would have to be removed. While in surgery to have it biopsy, my mom pointed out another bump on my back, and asked the surgeon if it was the same thing, he replied no, and that it was fine. My mom insisted, asking him to remove it just incase so we wouldn't have to come back and he did. The second biopsy got infected and I had to go on antibiotics, unknown at the time, the antibiotic prescribed to me I was allergic to which did not have a good result. Got a call back for a results appointment that just happened to be on my 14th birthday. The surgeon never looked at me or said happy birthday, he just read the results and said sorry before leaving, it was scale 4 malignant melanoma.

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Damn, that surgeon was stone cold. Who does that to a kid?

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One lump on my underarm, no other symptoms. Had a biopsy and scans and then was diagnosed with hodgekins lymphoma stage 2B. Turns out i had half a dozen tumours inside me but close together. Had chemo and radio, in remission within 3 months, stopped treatment within 6. Life was on pause for a year. Been cancer free for a year now.

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On Christmas Eve 2018, my Dad lost the ability to talk except for the phrase "this is crazy." Called paramedics because we thought he'd had a stroke. Got him to the hospital where the imaging showed a brain tumor on the outside edge of his brain. The swelling caused him to have a seizure. He was transferred to a bigger local hospital. They did full body scans because it's pretty rare to just have brain cancer- usually it's a secondary for another cancer site. We got lucky in that it was the sole spot. Went through a craniotomy and 5 rounds of high dose inpatient chemo, and he's one year in remission!

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Funnily enough, it was a totally unrelated lump.

"Nope, that lump is fine, just a lipoma. However, we found another lump in the corner of your xray and we need to biopsy it".

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This question hits too close to home for me. I am currently fighting stage IV rectal cancer that spread to my liver. I am a late 50's male that was too stupid and arrogant to go get checked or have a colonoscopy when the doctors said I should. I thought I knew my body better than they did. That naive attitude will probably end up costing me my life. My family is what forced me to finally act, but unfortunately, too late.

I have had digestive problems my entire life. Born with a faulty pyloric valve. Lousy eating habits, bad choices, lack of caring, have finally caught up with me. Everything has a price and the bill eventually comes due. I am paying now.

Three years ago, in addition to my normal struggles, I started seeing red blood on the toilet paper when I went to the bathroom. Not all the time so I kind of ignored it. It eventually started happening more often. I did not tell anyone or go to a doctor. I just ignored it. My family kept pushing me to get it checked. I finally relented.

In January 2019, I had a colonoscopy. When I woke up, the first words out of the doctor's mouth were, "I found something very concerning. This is not good." 4 polyps. He removed 3 but the fourth was too large and too close to my a**s. He took a bunch of biopsies. They all came back negative. Whew, or so I thought. It was recommended that I have it removed surgically so in March, I had surgery and had it taken out. The surgeon wanted to remove the lymph nodes as well (it is the only way to be sure) but I said no because that meant a colostomy. I was not ready for that. The biopsy from the surgery came back in late March 2019. Cancer. The dreaded C word. I was shocked but not surprised. I had brought this on myself. In some way, I deserved it.

Again, the surgeon recommended removing everything to be sure. I said no. The chances were not great but not zero so I opted for chemo and radiation to see if that would get it. 5 weeks of daily chemo and radiation in May 2019. That was tough and it took a pretty big toll on me but I made it through.

The August scans looked promising. My CEA level (the colon cancer tumor marker) was dropping fast. My doctors were optimistic and telling me good things. My November scans looked just as good. I was told I was in remission and they would monitor me for the next 2 years. Wow. Dodged a bullet, so I thought.

Right after Thanksgiving, I get a call from my oncologist, my CEA level has increased again and they aren't sure why. I need to get checked again. I wait it out through the holidays. In February 2020, I have a CT scan and a PET scan. I then have an EUA (exam under anesthesia) to check the original tumor. Not only is the original tumor back but the cancer has spread to my liver. 3 lesions.

I went from being in remission to stage IV in less than 3 months. You talk about whiplash. My head was spinning. The hardest part was talking to my family about what was going on and what comes next. In April I started on infused chemotherapy, FOLFOX + Avastin. 4 hours of infusion followed by 36 hours of a pump worn at home. I did this every 2 weeks, 4 times, covering an 8 week span. I was told to pause after that so I could deal with my liver.

Time to up the ante. I got into MD Anderson to see the experts. I have a huge team of doctors and specialists trying to help me survive. Even though I was told by my local oncologist last year that radiation was a one-time thing and I had my life-time dosage, MDA doesn't see it that way. They have a more specialized approach so in June, I went through a second round of radiation and chemo. Twice a day for 13 days at the end of June. That was hell and the following 2 weeks were just as bad trying to recover. I was honestly missing the infused chemo.

Oh, and towards the end of the radiation, I paused the final treatment so I could have a procedure done on my liver to zap the 3 lesions. Then I finished the final radiation treatment the next day. My local oncologist called me "ballsy" for putting my self through that. In some ways, I felt like I deserved to suffer.

I have slowly recovered from all of that and I am about to start back up on the infused chemo. I have 8 more rounds that have to be completed over the next 16 weeks. I have been hoping that by some miracle, this would cure my cancer. My doctors give me a less than 10 percent chance. All of this treatment is just slowing the spread of the cancer. As they have all been telling me for over a year, my only real chance is to remove the original tumor with surgery. I am almost assuredly facing a permanent colostomy at the end of all of this. If I had listened to my doctors last year and had that done, I might have saved some of this suffering and be cancer free. Or perhaps not. I will never know.

In the meantime, I will continue to fight it. I will deal with the terrible side effects from the treatments. The constant running to the bathroom. The s******g myself time and again. The pain and irritation. The embarrassment. The humiliation. The sadness of knowing what I have and am putting my family through. I am not afraid of dying. I am afraid of letting my family down.

All because I was too stupid to listen to the people that know more than me.

Trust me on this one people. Pay attention. Get checked early. Get checked often. Don't be me.

EDIT: Wow. I am overwhelmed by the responses, the kind thoughts and words, and the gilding. Thank you all.

In reading your replies and my original post, I can see where it may sound like I am despondent and being too hard on myself. It reads worse than it is. I know cancer is an evil killer that is not prejudiced or biased. I did not help myself but I know I didn't deserve it either.

Another aspect I should have added to my post is that I am adopted and I have zero knowledge or information about my birth parents. So my medical history is a complete blank. It was this reason (and the pushing from my family) that drove me to get checked. For my kids. Subsequent genetic testing has shown that I do in fact have 4 variants making me more susceptible to certain cancers. Now my kids know that as well.

The message is simple. Get checked. If not for yourself, then for your kids and your family, present or future.

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I turned my head and noticed a giant lump on my neck in the mirror. It didn’t hurt at all, and I hadn’t noticed it before. I went to my doctor the next day and BAM! Lymphoma. That was 6 years ago, so now I’m officially considered cured :)

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I found a lump on my neck too. Turned out to be a Carotid Body Tumor, which is not cancer but I ended up in surgery for removal the following week as it was wrapped around my carotid artery and was getting bigger.

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I was passing menstrual blood clots the size of tennis balls. I had uterine cancer. I was 32 and childless. Had to have a complete hysterectomy.

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Wife had recurring sinus infections for months, then uncontrolled burping / acid reflux. Turned out to be an esophageal tumor that had spread to liver and a few other places. Fought for three years, but is now in brain and she is currently in hospice.

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Grandmother 1 suddenly developed a lot of pain, seemingly from nowhere. She also felt completely drained of energy. Went to the doctor and was soon diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. She died 2 months later.

Grandmother 2 started experiencing tummy issues. Pain, cramps, upset stomach, painful and foul smelling gas. Turned out to be bowel cancer. Had it surgically removed and has been in remission for about 15 years now. She has since been diagnosed with IBS though, and because some symptoms match the symptoms she experienced with the cancer, she is so scared that it’s come back. Goes to see several specialists a year on her own insistence because of anxiety about recurrence. Her IBS would be better if she didn’t insist on loading up with every type of fibre there is, but she’s so scared of dying now that she insists on eating 10 types of fibre and 50 pieces of fruit and veg every day. This makes her IBS flare up which triggers her anxiety which makes her eat “healthier” etc. Vicious cycle.

Grandfather experienced some clotting issues, bruising etc, was diagnosed with a type of Leukaemia that was very non-malevolent, it posed no real danger. Then a year later he developed pneumonia and the antibiotics he was given for it wouldn’t work somehow because of the leukaemia. He died about a week later.

All but 1 grandparent have had some type of cancer so I’m not all that optimistic about dodging that bullet myself. Only time will tell, I guess.

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Well technically I had a number of symptoms that I didnt catch on to including shortness of breath, swollen lymph nodes, lethargy, extreme weight loss, and night sweats. I didn't really start to pay attention until I started to vomit every night and it all culminated one night when I went to puke in the middle of the night and ended up losing vision for almost a full minute. I went into my universitys medical center and later down the road the nurse who helped diagnose me actually told me that she knew just looking at me that something was seriously wrong. I was fully diagnosed with hodgkins lymphoma within 2 days and started chemotherapy next week

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Every time I puke I lose vision for at least like 10 seconds

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Stage IV colon cancer here. Edit: I’m under 40, so the diagnosis was unexpected.

Episodes of intense pain/cramping accompanying a feeling like I needed to “go number two” were what made me get checked out. I sat on the toilet for about an hour, experiencing waves of pain, before a small amount of stool worked its way out of me. The first and second times this happened, I (mistakenly) thought I had overeaten the day before, and those two experiences led me to change my diet. The *third* time it happened was the worst of the three, and I *knew* I hadn’t overeaten the day before. I went to the hospital to get checked out, suspecting IBS or Crohn’s.

A stool sample test showed tremendous inflammation—I forget the name of the test (edit: as /u/Zoykah pointed out, it was a test for calprotectin), but it measured inflammation by-product in the stool, and a rating of 0-50 meant there was no inflammation, up to 200 was iffy, and over 200 meant there was definitely inflammation... and my result was close to 5000. A follow-up colonoscopy discovered the tumor, and a biopsy of my lymph nodes (nearby nodes extracted in the surgery) indicated that the cancer had spread at least that far. A CT scan showed spots in my liver, which a subsequent MRI confirmed were cancerous.

It’s been just over a year since the initial tumor was cut out, along with a foot or so of my colon. I began chemo not long after that. I stopped chemo temporarily in the fall so that I could have another surgery for half my liver to be cut out. Then back on the chemo, which finished in early May.

I had a colonoscopy just this week that showed no signs of cancer growing in my colon, and an MRI a couple months after my liver surgery suggested that the surgery caught all of the cancer there as well. Fingers crossed that this doesn’t pop up again for many years.

It’s also worth noting that I had occasional blood in my stool, which I ignored. Don’t be a buffoon like me—if blood comes out of your butt, get that checked out.

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My brother, age 24, had *a pain in his lower back* so went to the chiropractor. Didn't help so he went to a real doctor. "Cancerous tumor is blocking the spinal cord, you have less than a year to live."

Anyway, my brother lived three years more but the last one was in bed.

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‘Real doctor’ - lol, I agree. Go to a chiropractor who is also an MD if you must go to one.

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My mother began having numbness in her hand and that became more frequent and it lead to loss of control. She was a heavy smoker and always coughed but apparently the cancer started in her lungs.

My aunt had chronic pneumonia and then they realized she had cancer too this was 7 years later and they were identical twins. Both smoked. My mother was also a drug (speed)user though.

My cousin had throat cancer and that was diagnosed pretty early and she beat it. She was having recurring throat infections and loss of voice.. But cancer disqualifies you from organ transplants

They all lived in the same house. I am now selling that house.

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just burn that house to the ground and salt the earth

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Severe pain. I was 12 years old and woke up screaming and crying from the pain. Swiftly passed out right after. It felt like a knife had stabbed into my side and was just twisting over and over again. I had already had cancer once before so my family took me to get an MRI right after I went to school, and they saw a stomach tumor and immediately had me go to the hospital to have it surgically removed.

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My aunt is on her third stint of Leukemia. She normally has more energy than the rest of the room, always positive, always a smile. She had overall weakness and felt down for a month. They did a blood test and found her white blood counts all out of whack. Round three started a month ago and seeing her have a smile on her face is becoming rarer and rarer. F*** cancer.

Edit: spelling while emotional can be tough.

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My father-in-law (65 or something) has been feeling lethargic over the years. A month ago he felt the left side of his body weaken and then it’d intermittently go numb. MRI and found tumour on the right side of his brain. Cancerous and aggressive. Removed some in a successful brain surgery. He has between 6 months and 3 years to live. Doesn’t help that he has kidney and heart issues as well.

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Broken back, cancer had eaten away into the bones and weakened spine.

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