It is exactly threads like this one that drives division. Claiming misogyny and racism where none exists. I firmly believe that everybody deserves an equal shot at life and nobody should have to live in fear. Where injustice exists, we should be vigilant and stand up to it but all this fake 'victim-claiming' is really grinding me down. Come on people, we're better than this. How about a thread highlighting the plight of the uyhgur muslims in China or the workers earning 64 cents a day making Beyonce's fashion range instead of this self-indulgent crap?

I am so happy and thankful to work where I do now. I've had many bad experiences with previous jobs. Market Basket, for example, did not even let women become managers back when I first started there in high school. And let's not forget about the constant sexual harassment and demeaning of women. I work in an office all women now. We are all very supportive of each other, and help build each other up. The culture here is amazing. We also don't tear men down. Yes, it's possible. I'm sad reading so many of these comments. I thought Bored Panda wasn't so full of people who get angry when they read about the BS women constantly deal with.

There's a psychological manipulation with the way a lot of these TikToks are presented: everyone shown from Tiktok agrees with the Tiktok presenter. I mean the following as background, not as a complaint because I think BoredPanda members are fairly politically tolerant: BP is definitely more liberal than the general population of the U.S. at least. Yet even here, many of the comments are criticisms. But the "seeded" responses from TikTok are all praise. Given that people downvote those they disagree with and the effect of downvoting is censorship (not state censorship, of course, but discretionary censorship), there's a subtle coercion (which the comments demonstrate is not entirely effective).

I never waste my time and try to prove to anyone what I’m capable of doing as a woman. I just do things for myself and it speaks volumes. Stop bringing attention to yourself and get off social media.

Misogyny is real. Yapping about it does nothing to fix it. We already know the problem. Raise your kids to be less sexist. Raise them to see each other as people, not "girls" or "boys" with all attendant stereotypes regarding interests, mood, etc. How about we try that?

Let’s just play a victim card for no reason. So stupid.

Another man bashing article from BP, Next time there's a war, you sisters can storm the beaches, we'll stay at home taking selfies.

Assertive and aggressive are two completely different things. Loud and shouty is aggression, not assertion.

Sharpay and Gabriella (High School Musical) were both good enough to get the part. But Sharpay was making the show all about her, whereas Gabriella was a first-timer and thus didn't want to draw too much attention to herself.

I refuse to support any societal standard that puts the blame on the victim. I've had enough of that piled onto me for my entire life, thank you very much.

I agree with the "Daddy issues" part. I never thought about it that way before. I think "Daddy has issues" would be more appropriate. However, I don't believe the following parts are gender-specific. Both men and women fall into the two double-bind categories, and both resent male/female colleagues who work in the same position.

Nope, I have never heard of any female being told she has "Daddy Issues". I either live under a rock or it's not that wide spread!

Its always somebody else's fault. No accountability for your own actions

Blah blah blah. Find a new lane, BP

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this whole post was bullshit. and the reason more men go mgtow and tell women to pound the road.

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Uh... "women are senile without men"? According to Webster, senile means either "characteristic of old age" or "approaching the end of a geologic cycle of erosion", and neither meaning seems to apply here.

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When you are a hammer, everything looks like a nail

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About women tearing each other down: I entirely see this as a critically common phenomenon, and I don't in any way mean to question that it has roots in sexism, or the struggle to overcome sexism. But here's an odd solution: Can we please encourage girls to play sports OUTSIDE of leagues? When I was young, boys spontaneously played pick-up games, where your opponent was your best friend. Keeping a playmate meant constantly putting fairness, equity and compromise -- the very skills supposedly men are bad at simply because they don't like making these things explicit or compulsory -- ahead of hyper-competitiveness. League sports have great virtues, but they reward viewing competitors as "them."

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"daddy issues" isnt something men coined. Its something female see them selves as having and they sexualize it.

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Looks like someone flunked out of sammich school and is mad