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Society has normalized a lot of things that are blatantly sexist—that’s what the ‘Power To Her’ channel shared in a viral TikTok video that caught the attention of many women on the platform. According to the ‘Power to Her’ project’s video, one of the most mind-blowingly sexist things that are still prevalent in modern society is the fact that women are pressured to change their last names once they get married.

Meanwhile, other TikTokers pitched in with their own examples of what kinds of sexist behaviors have been normalized. From brides wearing white dresses that symbolize purity, innocence, and virginity, and fathers ‘giving away’ their daughters after they walk them down the aisle to other sexist behaviors that you can find in everyday life. Have a look at some of the most insightful responses to ‘Power To Her’s’ video and upvote the ones that you’ve noticed in society, too, dear Pandas.

More info: TikTok | PowerToHer.org

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist I've tried numerous times and asked numerous doctors if I can have my tubes tied because I don't want to have children, nor does my husband. They want to have a meeting with both me and my husband, they tell me I'll probably change my mind, that I'm too young or that I need to wait until I have at least one child. Even though I don't want any. But my husband can make a phone call and set up an appointment, just like that.

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Eslamala
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

THIS. Even if the laws are on your side, most doctors won't do it and give you all kinds of illegal and irrelevant excuses, and there's nothing you can do about it, except for going from doctor to doctor until you luck out. Had a huge fight with my former OBG/YN because he wouldn't tie my tubes because "I was too young (23) and eventually *my husband* could want kids. I literally kicked him in the nuts while cursing at him. Would do it again.

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist School dress codes. This logic about girls needing to "cover up" is so problematic and flawed, because we're teaching girls that they are responsible for how men act when they show any part of their body.

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist The prefix for men is Mr. and the prefix for women is Miss, Ms. and Mrs. A prefix for women is directly dependent on if she is single or married. It stays Mr. for men all their lives.

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    Amy Dodds
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or just keep yours Ms, which is neither single nor married

    Cassie
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The other two should be eliminated entirely, imo. Ms. works for all.

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    Vicky Zar
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why Germany abandoned the use of Fräulein (not married woman) and only uses Frau now. We stopped using it in the late 90ies/ early 2000

    Karin Jansen
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes!! Same reason Netherlands banned "juffrouw/mejuffrouw" in the 70's (except for school teachers. They're always juffrouw somehow, married or not).

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    Two_rolling_black_eyes
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In many countries, they have eliminated prefixes for women based on marriage status. For instance, its been illegal in France for about 10 years to use mademoiselle in government documents.

    Iggy
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ms. is not dependent on marital status. It is the equivalent of Mr.

    Kt
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So why have miss and mrs? I think that's the point of the post.

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    Cee Mor
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have always gone by Ms...whether married or divorced...I"m still Ms. M damn it!

    Ozacoter
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We should simply stop with the prefixes. What does my bank or airline care about ny sex? It is only relevant with my partner and a doctor

    Kerstin Fransen
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is mostly an english language thing though. It's not like that in every language.

    Beans
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean that's not entirely true, lots of European languages do something similar. Like frau/fräulein ... There's no male equivalent it's just herr. Lots of others do this too.

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    Leesquee
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Before you claim 'Ms' is a default, look it up. In it's original use, a woman who used Ms was a widow.

    Veerle Dickx
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Have an alternative? Since hardly anyone knows that, for me it has now lost that meaning so I would still prefer Ms.

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    denzoren
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always use Ms. when I'm referring to women in the workplace. I've had numerous people tell me to use Mrs. but I didn't back down, unless the person I'm addressing specifically requests it of course. I can't count how many times I've had to explain why I always address women as Ms.

    Persp Gold
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and if you have an advanced degree, you are still ms unless you correct everyone everytime because somehow people don't want to remember that Dr. can be a female title

    Agnes Jekyll
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ms. was created as status neutral to undo the Miss and Mrs. That's why it exists. It stays the same for your entire life.

    Nightshade1972
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Although the abbreviation (Mr.) stays the same, there is a slight semantic difference. Before a boy turns 18, it's Master. After 18, it's Mister.

    James Heartney
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For a time, "Master" was an honorific used for young men too young to be addressed as "Mister." On Gotham, Alfred refers to young Bruce Wayne as "Master Bruce." In the 19th century this was much more common. It's not a perfect analogue to the "Miss/ Mrs." usage, but similar.

    Daisy
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom goes by mz. And if you call her something else she hits you.

    I I
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my gran and nan always called me " master " in my cards until i turned 18 then it was mr

    Aurelien
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In France the equivalent of "Miss" disapeared a few years ago in all forms (internet and paper) and it's now seen as patronizing to say "Miss".

    Johnnie Hartwell
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually ms is short for miss, like mr is short for master when unmarried and mister for married. Nice try though.

    Unwelcomed Guest
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not entirely true my parents butler still calls me Master even though I am a 40yo independent grown ass man with a family of my own

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    Chris Maloney
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Karen is dead wrong! Mr. is not something a male uses all his life. Males under the age of 18 should be referred to as Master.

    RoseTheMad
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    buy yourself a plot of land in Scotland and go by Lady Surname.

    Lunar Bicycle
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought a science fiction novel, of all things, had an elegant solution. “M.” for all genders. M. Smith, M. Jones, etc. (Dan Simmons’ “Hyperion” series.)

    Kiki
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In France Miss ("Mademoiselle") tends to disappear and when it's still there we, women, mostly chose Ms ("Madame") which was usually for older/married women even if we are younger/not married.

    Suzy the observer
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Québec, only Mr. and Mrs. are allowed (in bureaucracy) after age 18 (adulthood). If you are called out say in a waiting queue, it goes by name only or a number.

    Deborah B
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or just rebel, and use Mx. for yourself, and for all contacts, male and female.

    Giles McArdell
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Perhaps husbands should use Mrs's. ... Good grief, I hope the original of Mrs wasn't Mr's!

    Ambar
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have noticed this since first grade tbh I have always wondered "why do girls can have three 'miss' but boys can only have one 'Mr"?!"

    Hans
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait...is this still used in the US? I have not heard the equivalent of that over here in maybe 20 years.

    maria christine colmenares
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    😅 Personally, I don't mind. I've been called Miss, Mrs, Madam, and it didn't change my personality nor my status. It did not even dictate how I carry myself. If I let every single thing bother me, then I'll be perpetually grumpy😅

    J. F.
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I remember that right from my business english class: The neutral prefix for women is Ms. , the other got diched for that reason like 10ish years ago. (Btw, is there a difference in pronauntion of Miss and Ms. ? )

    Iggy
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Miss has a soft S sound while Ms. has a harder S (like the S in business).

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    Melvin Dragvelk
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So what? All you feminists demanded the prefixes we now use, so why are you bitching about them now?

    Leslie Burleson
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, but you can put whatever you want. It's not a law that you have to put anything at all

    Chloe *Leah* Pheonix
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah I dont get why this is a thing. Is it really that important if everyone knows you're single?

    Aileen Grist
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mr is actually a courtesy term. No man should call himself Mr as it is up to the person speaking to him as to whether they call him Mr or not.

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    Wow talk about over sensitive. Sheesh. And as Amy said you can choose.

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Back in 2017 I bought a house as a single woman, this year I sold it. My and my partner decided to buy a new house together. With the money I made from selling my old house, I put the entire down payment on the new one. The mortgage company, the insurance, home warranty addresses him as the owner of this house and I'm the "co-borrower".

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist A woman with boundaries is selfish, rude, mean, harsh. A man with boundaries is confident, powerful, successful, ambitious.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A woman is 'bossy' a man 'has good leadership skills'. In same vein though women are sensitive & men are soft.

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist When people come up to me and tell me my daughter's really beautiful and that I better watch our for her when she gets older. Like, they're actually expecting our daughters to be sexually assaulted.

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    lunar eclipse
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay. So where I live. We have arranged marriages. I don’t mind. What I do mind is that I’m 17 and our weird neighbour hinted my mom that she thought I was pretty and her son was at marrying age. Ewgh. Creepy old ladies. Edit: Yes my parents shoed her away.

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    “Power To Her means giving the power back to each and every single woman and providing them with the help and resources to live their most authentic life,” they explain.

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Women are forced to take sole responsibility for contraception, when women are only fertile 3-5 days of the year. Men are fertile every single day of the year. The biggest gimmick of all was that it was sold to us as a way of independence.

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    Celeste Grant
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That must mean 3-5 days a month, not a year! Most women have a fertile period every cycle.

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    #8

    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist How male actors like Ryan Gosling or Leonardo DiCaprio can play the main character their entire careers but each time their female co-star/love interest gets younger.

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    Amy Dodds
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't forget the actresses for the 'mums' are often only a few years older than the actors playing their 'son'

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist It's not only normalized but viewed as "cute" when a man can't do the basic parts of parenting. "Oh my husband can't even be with the kids for two hours without calling me haha". "That's nothing, mine won't even touch the dirty diapers." What's funny about only women being expected to know how to take care of their children?

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    If I could I would live under water
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have to say where I come from, that's not true (anymore). When I go on a 3 day trip with my girlfriends, the dads stay with the kids and it's perfectly normal. No problems whatsoever.

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Whenever a girl has an attitude or is in a bad mood, she gets asked if it's her "time of the month".

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist It's so normalized for women to change their last name after getting married. This is the name you got your degree with, the name associated with all your accomplishments. Yet society just expects you to pack it up and change it the second you get married.
    The fact that so many men expect their S/O to change their last name for them is a red flag.
    I understand all the arguments for why you would want to change your last name. To be part of the family and it's easier for the kids and all that. BUT the fact is that the pressure is solely put on women.

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    Mooncat83
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never changed my name. I love my husband, but I'm his wife/partner, not his sister. And I'm quite pissed that my children MUST have my husbands name, why not both surnames?

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist When anything happens to a woman, be a crime or an accident, they're almost always referred to as a wife/mother first on a news broadcast. The fact that she's not reffered by her name first but by her relationship to others is messed up. There's always a difference when men are mentioned. It's always "local man", and then they later mention that he's a husband or a father.

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    Liset Vossen
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the netherlands they recently referred to the royal couple as "The queen and her husband" in a newspaper, fun fact: in this case the husband is actually the monarch of the country i.e. he is the king

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Literally everything about traditional weddings. Your dad gives you away so that you can be passed from one man to another man. You have to wear a white dress, because if you're not a virgin, you're [useless]. It's bad luck for the man to see the bride on the day of the wedding because back when marriages were all arranged, if the guy saw the bride before, sometimes he would want to call it off because he didn't fancy her, and that would bring shame on...the bride. That's also why the veil is a thing. Traditionally, the bride's family pays for the wedding.

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    Random Panda
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This depends on where you live, most of these don't apply to my culture. In my country the bride and groom make their entrance together for both the civil and church marriage ceremonies. There is no giving away of the bride as part of the marriage ceremony itself.

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    #14

    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Shaving. If a woman doesn't shave, it's considered "manly" and "nasty". Makeup is targeted specifically towards women, and when a man uses it, he's considered less of a man.

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    Kelli from Fitness Blender
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I personally like how my legs look when I shave them, which is why I shave them. If someone doesn't like that on themselves or just doesn't want to, they shouldn't be forced to. Same thing for makeup.

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Giving the mothers the custody on Monday-Friday, and giving the dads the weekends where they get to be the fun parent, no school, no pickups, no homework.

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    Eslamala
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Could be avoided if parents behaved like grown ups when splitting up and work things out fairly for them and their children, though... But it seems a lot of people forget their children come first, not their mutual hatred.

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist The way society expects girls to be polite vs the way women expect men to be polite. Women are raised to be overly polite from childhood. This is a huge disservice to women — their conditioning to be polite can be so strong that it can lead to situations that put their safety in danger.

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    If I could I would live under water
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once saw a experiment on TV, where the girl stopped saying "thank you" for a whole day. She wasn't being rude at all, was smiling when she felt like it and talking in a normal tone. Whenever her boyfriend gave her a compliment or something, or did something normal like passing the remote control or just normal relationship stuff, she answered him but didn't thank him. and by the end of the day he was absolutely mad at her, for no "real" reason. I think about this sometimes, because I say "thank you"all the time, even when it's not "my turn" to say it but men don't say "thank you" half as much, and it's totally okay.

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist I carried my baby for 9 months and birthed her, and yet she has my husband's last name.

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Why do we say "grow a pair" or "get some balls" when referring to a situation where someone needs to be strong or tough?

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist If you're a woman and you're walking anywhere, and there's a man coming at you, they'll expect you to move to accommodate them, they won't do it for you. I started playing a little game where I don't move for the man, and the amount of times they've run into me, because they expected me to move, is actually insane.

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    troufaki13
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I call bs. I'm a woman and I've noticed that it's usually the women who won't move

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist It's normalized to ask a woman "when are you expecting to have kids?". Would you ask that if I was a man? When corportations hire women, they usually anticipate that they're going to take a maternity leave and this is considered a due cost for them, and this is something that people use to justify the pay gap.

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    J. F.
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Illegal to ask in Germany - but from a natural perspective logical. Men can work while their partners are pregnant, a woman needs time before birth for savety reasons and recovery time after giving birth.

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Drinking. Everytime I order a whiskey on the rocks, men look at me like "really, you like whiskey?" Where does it say that girls are only allowed to drink wine or sangrias, and if she likes stronger drinks, she's trying to be something that she's not. And even with roles reversed, why are guys not allowed to order fruity drinks, how does that make him less of a man?

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    Eslamala
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who the fck gives this much thought to other people's opinions, anyway? I drink whisky and the one time someone pointed it out, I replied "are we making a list of all the drinks we orderdered?' and that was it.

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist I'd have to say gift giving. Presents from "mom and dad", but the dad has no idea what's in them because mom bought them.

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    Monika Rhodes
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not sexist- your partner is lazy ass if they can't be bothered to shop for their own kids.

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Our fathers walking us down the aisle whenever we get married, because that comes from a time when women were considered property. The father is giving his property away to a new man, because now the woman is supposed to be the husband's property. I feel like that should've been done with when women got rights, it's not cute. I'm not doing that.

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    Kay blue
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have no issue with the idea of my dad walking down the aisle with me. However, I would not include the line "who gives this woman to this man".

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Organizing parties. Not only do women take care of the food, they also clean everything up afterwards. Men are just standing there unbothered.

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    witchling
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gotta say I never cooked a damn thing for thanksgiving dinner. Group of 30. Husband did all of it. I did clean up. We had a house rule. One cooks the other cleans.

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Men playing video games all day. If I were to play video games all day then I'd be neglecting my kid, but when a man does it, it's a good thing that he's home and not out there cheating.

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    Jonathan
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because female gamers are non-existant? How sheltered are these people?

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Girls are raised to be wives and told what they can or can't do in their present for what their future husband might like. You have to keep your "purity" because your future husband might like that, you can't wear that, you can't look this way, you can't post those videos, you have to know how to cook and clean as if those aren't human traits that we all need to know how to do as adults to stay alive. But "boys will be boys" and are allowed to do whatever they want.

    laysieeeb , One Shot Report

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    Eslamala
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In what century were you raised?? This hasn't been the norm for a lot of women in a lot of different countries for at least a few decades...

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    #27

    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Engagement rings. We have a "symbol" on our hand saying we belong to someone else, while men get to go around and do whatever they want, no one knows if they're taken.

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist When a woman decides to propose to a man, she is looked down by society. It's so normalized for only men to propose.

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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's unusual for sure, but are women who do this actually looked down on? I've never met anyone who'd think that.

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    29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Why are ships and cars referred to with the pronouns she/her? The English language doesn't really refer to things as "masculine" or "feminine". The fact that we personify these inanimate objects as women and give them female names, doesn't sit right with me. Research says that this has a variety of reasons, ranging from viewing a vessel as a motherly, womb-like, life sustaining figure, to jokingly likening a ship to a woman who is "expensive" to keep and needs a man to guide her, and a lick of paint to look good.

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    lunar eclipse
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wat. The moon is referred as she. I like that. Grace and elegance

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