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I find it interesting how many people still think this type of behavior is sexual. It's a disrespectful, controlling power act over woman.

You are absolutely correct. Thank you for addressing this. ❤️ These hideous violations are equally disrespectful acts of asserting dominance, power, & control over the victim, when perpetrated on men, by women. And, when perpetrated by women, on other women. And, when perpetrated by men on other men. Perpetrators come in all sexes & genders (& other demographics). Victims come in all sexes & genders (& other demographics). It is the same twisted, depraved dynamic & crime, no matter whom the perpetrator & no matter whom the victim. 💔

Ummmmmmm I think he would.

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@Walking just because you fantasize about those things doesn't mean everyone else does. You're a disgusting, chauvinistic pig.

Asad Hafeez-- Dressing provocatively IS NOT "HARASSMENT", NOR DOES IT MAKE *ANYONE* "AN OFFENDER". That is a very depraved & disgusting attitude. You sound like an INCEL. Given your comment, I believe that I can safely assure you that you are "getting no attention/validation" & "living a lifetime of loneliness" because of YOUR OWN ATTITUDES & ACTIONS. You sound like a misogynist, possible perp, & VICTIM-BLAMER, to me. Look inside for the source of your "problems" & get some professional help. Please. For the sake of the women & girls whom you encounter, for the sake of society, & for the sake of YOUR OWN happiness & well-being. INCELS will never have Loving, close, intimate relationships because they hate women, & look at us as property & "manipulators". Lose the attitude & nonsense "philosophy" & the crazies with whom I suspect you have surrounded yourself (mostly on-line, I'm sure). Get some professional help, develop yourself, get out more, & you will probably be fine.

Then you have plenty to learn my friend. You may be moreso innocent/naive rather than a bad person. And no, I'm not a perpetrator. I have however, been a victim of one lol. Also, ever wonder why harrasment/rape/assault and other sex crimes like pedophilia is "seemingly" far moreso a male offense than a female? Why is this so? Women commit little to none? Men report little to none or don't complain as much? Or both? Besides, I hope you're not implying that this is exclusively a male issue: There are many (probably even more) female incels (femcels) out in the 🌎. After all, the term "INCEL" was 1st coined by a woman anyway. The difference? (obviously there is one) I think women overall are more clever, secretive and less straight-fwd than men, all maybe so that they could keep their "girls rule, boys drool" narrative intact. My clever little cuties 😔 🥰. I wish I could cuddle them and pet them all like kittens 🤣. Poor little girls getting harassed 😔. You think I like hearing this? This hurts me deeply and if anything... it affects men moreso than women. Our reputation has long been tarnished and contributes to double standards and male sexuality being villified/demonized, probably all due to certain men themselves. And certain women do not help. I'm not sure how many think like this, but I've heard some of the harshest things regarding men from certain women, which sometimes has brought tears to my eyes, especially knowing a guy would never say certain things regarding women (e.g. castration jokes, complaining about erections regarding pedophilia — even though women have erections as well that are hidden, pedo/creep-shaming, etc.) If I'm totally correct, life as a guy (in terms of narratives, stereotypes and reality) sucks. Women never have to deal with the "creepy, stalkerish, loser, rapist, pedophilic, perverted, sex-obssesed "stereotypes" and the aforementioned issues that men have to endure, even though there may be just as many women out there with such minds and just as many men that don't. I end by asking: whom would you rather be (in terms of both narrative and reality)? The rapist or the rape victim? The stalker or the stalked? The creeper or the creeped out? The sex-obssesed or the sex-recessed? Choose your poison, but we all know the answer to that stupid question. You should be grateful to be a woman. After all (just like everything else), I think part of life is about being grateful anyway, and less about equality.

I don't know a single woman in my life that hasn't been sexually assaulted or abused either. It seems to me that men who question this statement may well be guilty of it themselves.

When the me too movement started that was when every woman I knew came out talking about their experiences. I was surprised cause it isn't talked about, so you think you are the only one. I worked in a male dominated industry, turns out this is very normal behavior in male type of industries. From my experience, the so called happily married men with children are the worst.

And excuse it by saying it's a joke or banter then berate woman for having no sense of humour

Yes. That "banter" thing is garbage!!! And, no one finds assault & harassment to be something "humourous" , except perpetrators. Victims never do. 💔

Kathleen King-- If you mean that questioning that *ALL MEN* do this makes anyone a perpetrator, you are wrong. I am a woman, & survivor, & had to work hard to get out of the misogynist, patriarchal religious cult in which I was raised. I KNOW that NOT *ALL MEN* are predators. If you mean questioning that all of the women some people know have been harassed & assaulted, then that's a different story.

I said I don't know one woman that has not been affected by this. I did NOT say ALL MEN do it.

I don't think it's the sexism that's worse, so much as it is the way men act upon it. I think when I was younger people were a little more, rigid? for lack of a better word. And for what it's worth, it kept them in check a bit. Mind you I grew up in a fairly small community, and maybe the knowledge that their behavior could get back to their families might have played into it.