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Women Are Encouraging #SexStrike To Protest Abortion Laws And People Are Divided
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Women Are Encouraging #SexStrike To Protest Abortion Laws And People Are Divided

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In today’s society, we are currently facing a battle between human rights, liberty to choose for yourself, and laws that are constructed by ideologies and based on moral questions that nobody can have a correct answer to. So there is no surprise that people are constantly looking for ways to stand up for themselves and their freedom to choose the life they want to live. This debate seems rather simple in theory but when it comes to unborn children, motherhood, and women’s right to abortions, it always gets messy.

Recently, Georgia joined Kentucky, Mississippi and a few other states that recently outlawed abortion at roughly six weeks calling it a “heartbeat” bill. This law has caused a massive outrage with many celebrities joining in.

Alyssa Milano, an actress who is mostly known for her role in Charmed has recently been very active when it comes to women’s rights

She has taken part in spreading the #metoo movement, she also spoke at the 2018 Women’s March. This year, she took her activism to a new level by encouraging women to participate in a new strike.

She has taken to Twitter to protest the bill outlawing abortions at roughly 6 weeks

One of the biggest factors when it comes to protesting this law is the fact that the majority of women don’t even know they are pregnant at this stage of their pregnancy.

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While some women totally agreed with this strike and decided to participate

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Others believe this is only a step towards preaching conservative ideas and promoting abstinence over pro-choice

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Others were disappointed since this strike only devalues women even more (edited)

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Tracee Jeen
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think her point is that legislators need to get the f#*k out of our bedrooms. Gov't can't/shouldnt legislate morality, and when they do, it's often to distract Americans from other BS they are up to. Yeah, in a perfect world, we all wear rubbers.

Full Name
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In a perfect world, we'd have a breeding time of year and there'd be no diseases and for the non fertile times we could just have at it with no consequences. Your idea of perfect is different from mine it seems ;-P

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SirWriteALot
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stupid. The only one they're "hurting" is their partner, who (if they picked them right) should be on board with their agendas. Also it reinforces the idea that women have no joy in sex which is far from the truth.

Dysania
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So her idea is to bribe men for equal rights? Just feeding the old narrative that women are providers of sex and men are consumers.

Christina Sersif
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

100% of unwanted pregnancies are caused by men. Yet we don't see men being shamed for knocking a girl up the woman gets shamed instead.

Daria B
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not sure about the 100% statistics, since life is too complicated to point fingers. But I think men are less shamed when it happens because for them it's easier to hide it. I mean, they don't get the baby belly.

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Nia Loves Art
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unless the wives and mistresses of pro life legislators participate, which they won’t, the strike will be completely pointless and just reinforce the idea that women have to be abstinent, which is what the pro life movement wants.

mild anxiety! at the disco
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Welp time to scroll through comments to see the shitstorm of arguments and downvotes..

Wil Vanderheijden
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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Usually it's better to fight the cause instead of the symptoms. Sadly with abortion this isn't the case. Women don't choose to get raped and become pregnant. Any lawmaker that is prohibiting victims of rape to have the pregnancy terminated under safe medical conditions is a monster. There are enough reasons for a woman to decide to have an abortion, which she even shouldn't have to explain. Lawmakers have no right to declare these women murderers by reinstating medieval laws. Luckily there's a lot of medication available on the internet to end pregnancies.

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A "sex strike" won't change abortion laws. Use logic and facts, not WE WONT HAVE SEX WITH YOU UNLESS YOU CHANGE THIS. Because as a woman, it feels insulting to hear that. I don't owe you sex, so not having sex changes nothing if that's the case. This sounds as if we owe men sex and that it's something they need. SMH

Shelly Knope
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I vote for men to get a vasectomy until both side are ready and agrees to have babies. No need to ask them, sperm is life! so they're not entitled to decide over their bodies as long as they're holding life inside of them

mild anxiety! at the disco
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5 years ago

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um...........you ever heard of birth control? An easy, buy-it-at-the-CVS method? "Nope, just spend thousands of dollars on surgery that leaves a scar and takes weeks to recover from. Then, juts spend thousands more on reversing it and causing more discomfort and pain!! Easy!!"

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Owl Payson
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Rape and conteseptive failure, both uncontrollable by the woman and often result in a woman forced to go through expenses they can’t afford, immense pain and restrictions, and they are born into a unprepared family

Stille20
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is problematic from a relationship stand point. You should not be punishing your significant by withhold sex (or really punishing them at all). I also agree that it makes it seem like sex is for men.

Scott
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If your only bargaining chip in your relationship is sex because that all the power they allow you to have, my hat is off for the women who clutch that power over their partner. Sex is a gift, not an obligation.

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Whatshername
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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Seriously considering switching to the word 'sexstrike' from now on. Sounds way better than all things we called it the last couple of years 🤔 #lousymarriage #justkidding #youneedtorelaxnow

Hans
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow... Abstinence as the solutions. The ultra conservative peolple will rejoyce.

Kim Heckman Beasley
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is so degrading to women!! WTH was she thinking?! We don't have to barter sex to get anybody to do anything!! Sex is an intimate loving act between 2 people.....not a piece of business to be sold, traded or bartered. What a DF.

Rosie Hamilton
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not saying this is a good thing, but if you don't know that sex is frequently sold, traded or bartered you are really out of touch with reality.

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anarkzie
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not triggered and I'm supportive of gender equality and abortion rights but this is stupid, the line between pro life/choice is not determined by your gender. My girlfriend refusing to have sex with me, someone who is pro-choice is not going to change the mind of Ben Shapiro types it's also unlikely his wife who more than likely is also pro life is going to refuse him sex in order to achieve something she does not believe in. When you actually consider the argument they're making, that abortion is murder performed by the state you got ask yourself is a sex ban going to make them change their minds if they consider the stakes so high, it would be like my GF trying to convince me to support the rights of the south to keep slaves by withholding sex it's just too important a topic.

Random Panda
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I understand what she's trying to do, but she's going the wrong way about it. The spending strike suggestion seems a more effective option.

Ellie Ragsdale
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree with the twitter user in the article who said that we should have a #spendingstrike. I'm pretty sure that would have a bigger impact than abstaining from sex. Besides, what about those who haven't had sex yet (or in a long time)? Are they automatically participating in a sex strike?

Stephanie Bladyak
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Okay, but the sex strike isn't really going to work if you get pregnant from rape...which is the reason I'm pro choice to begin with.

William Teach
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had this whole thing I was going to write, and then said "no. Not getting into politics here. I'd rather just view posts with funny animals and cool places and stuff." That's why I come to Bored Panda. If I want politics I'll go to a political site. This political stuff is driving people away.

Full Name
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I agree totally, except this specific post was actually done quite well and wasn't the usual biased SJW clickbait style.

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David Fox
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why not take a stand against not murdering the countless innocent and learn about the many countless types of contraception maybe all these women doing the sex strike is good put the d**k dow n until you and your partner or partners can both protect your selfs and each other baby's don't asked to be made to don't choose to be so called accidents. In my opinion a baby is the nicest thing you can get from having unprotected sex it's the only thing that can't kill you and dog your body in side.

Clever Fool
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This sort of "sex strike" is actually known as a Lysistrata Gambit.

George Hall
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would like everyone who agrees to this person's strike to traditional marriage morals

KMB
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Punishing yourself trying to make a point is ridiculous.

Monika Soffronow
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WHATEVER can get people discussing women's right to decide over their own bodies gets an OK from me. America is going backwards at an alarming pace, and the militant far-right Christians behind most of this are also doing their damnedest to spread their toxic gospel across the globe. I honestly suspect that much of this is silently kept on the burner by corporatist interests in order to keep the simple people occupied with highly emotional pseudy ethical issues while inb the background Big Money gets to lay the groundwork for even more actual power. That sorry excuse for a president that presently is at the helm in the US has been lauded for his amazing ability to distract from the serious issues. Follow the money! Some 15 million children live in households below the poverty line - that is a little more than one child out of every five - and they want women to bear unwanted children?

John Smith
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Monika used to be an unwanted child. But look at her now! Go Monika go!

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Casey McAlister
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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For most women sex is not work, currency, bargaining chip, commodity to be consumed by men or political statement. The idea to withhold sex to get some sorts of concessions s preposterous. Too bad in her desperate attempts to stay relevant Milano chose the way of ridiculous misplaced "activism".

grace koncsicsv
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i think she means well but that's not the right way to go about it. abortion should be very very rare i think. i am a woman and a proud one too but i don't think that every abortion law goes against my rights as a woman.

Random Panda
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You make abortions rarer with sex education, affordable birth control and more support for single mothers (and parents in general). Not by denying women their bodily autonomy and reducing them to incubators.

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Crouching_Penn_Hidden_Teller@yahoo.com
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If she hates sex enough to willingly give it up that's her and whoever her partner is problem. I can't even have sex and it wasn't my choice!

Daria B
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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"While some women totally agreed with this strike and decided to participate", "Others believe this is only a step towards preaching conservative ideas and promoting abstinence over pro-choice", "Others were disappointed since this strike only devalues women even more" And.... Nobody concerned a strike like this would encourage potential rapists for a rampage? Maybe I'm being just a little over drammatic. But the initial idea behind this protest kind of makes sense. I don't think it looks like we have sex for men, it's more of a call out for men to team up, so we can all enjoy.

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Abortions should only be used In certain situations. Like, for example, rape, incest, teen pregnancies, when the mother cannot afford to have a child, when the pregnancy is dangerous for the mother and/or child. That's why I consider myself pro choice. Abortions are bad, yes, because something that could grow to be a human being is killed, but sometimes, it's needed.

Ava Ford
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not having sex can still give you a baby. Look at Mary! Btw was she married if not then Jesus was born without abstinence so ha to all christians!

Lyla Biggs
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5 years ago

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Casey McAlister
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5 years ago

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Dana Dara
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well this is a great way to let natural selection run it’s course

Full Name
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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, the top write-up paragraph was very well done. I'm impressed. This is the first time I've seen a Social Justice post on BP that was reasonably down the middle and presented both sides and was rather objective. Please keep this approach.

Full Name
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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Now people are downvoting me for praising an article? I think it's just triggered NPC's who see my name and click downvote like Pavlovian dogs. I'm also the guy who was so awful that someone made an actual troll account dedicated specifically to downvoting and yelling at me, so there's that.

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Amaranthim Talon
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She's a raging idiot who has zero relevance anymore and will do anything to call attention to her pitiful existence. If she can even find someone from whom to withdraw sex- then go for it honey buns- I'm not one to let washed-up hasbeens dictate my sex life...

Amberly Middlemiss
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5 years ago (edited)

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as a conservative christian I fully support this sex strike. After all, abstinence is the best way to prevent unwanted pregnancies. Women have the right to control their bodies, just not the separate body inside of them. (the only problem with the sex strike is that it treats sex as a favour women do for men.)

Random Panda
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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm just going to copy/paste this: It is a woman's right to choose if she will use HER body to create another person. No one has the right to use another person's body for their benefit without consent and to the person's detriment (as pregnancy takes a toll on the body and carries great risk). Besides, abortions are generally allowed before the foetus has developed a nervous system and a brain. Clinical death is declared when a person's brain has stopped functioning, not their heart. It should be the same with pregnancy - if it doesn't have a brain yet, it's not a baby.

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grace koncsicsv
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i am a woman and a proud one and i don't think my body and rights as a human or woman are being ignored or violated when a law about abortion happens. i think abortion should much rarer than it is now but that a safe and legal option is open for extreme cases. not all woman get abortions cause they are just selfish or hate kids :P but i do think they should be rarer.

Nia Loves Art
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The way to make it rarer is through sex education and affordable birth control, not restrictive laws.

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Eel Music
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5 years ago

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Babies are alive before they are born - leave 'em alone.

Eel Music
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Babies are alive before they are born - don't kill them.

Shireen
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Alyssa Milano has completely lost her damn mind... she has become completely crazy after Trump was elected President. But thinking about it, maybe this sex strike is a good thing - no sex = no abortions and I'm all down for that. Abortion should not be legal, you are killing an innocent child and most people are not doing it because of health, they are doing it because having the child would be inconvenient. Aboriton should only be legal in extreme circumstances.

N S
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Another one of those has beens looking to stay "relevant", laughable.

Eel Music
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Control over HER body? SInce when does a body have two hearts, two sets of eyes, etc.?

Random Panda
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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is a woman's right to choose if she will use HER body to create another person. No one has the right to use another person's body for their benefit without consent and to the person's detriment (as pregnancy takes a toll on the body and carries great risk). Besides, abortions are generally allowed before the foetus has developed a nervous system and a brain. Clinical death is declared when a person's brain has stopped functioning, not their heart. It should be the same with pregnancy - if it doesn't have a brain yet, it's not a baby.

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caleb
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well you could always idk wear a condom or take birth control?

LaDonna Hulcy
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

if everyone had access to real sex education, free and easily obtainable birth control it probably would be rare. maybe only in the case of rape and incest. but that's not the case.

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Tracee Jeen
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think her point is that legislators need to get the f#*k out of our bedrooms. Gov't can't/shouldnt legislate morality, and when they do, it's often to distract Americans from other BS they are up to. Yeah, in a perfect world, we all wear rubbers.

Full Name
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In a perfect world, we'd have a breeding time of year and there'd be no diseases and for the non fertile times we could just have at it with no consequences. Your idea of perfect is different from mine it seems ;-P

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SirWriteALot
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stupid. The only one they're "hurting" is their partner, who (if they picked them right) should be on board with their agendas. Also it reinforces the idea that women have no joy in sex which is far from the truth.

Dysania
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So her idea is to bribe men for equal rights? Just feeding the old narrative that women are providers of sex and men are consumers.

Christina Sersif
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

100% of unwanted pregnancies are caused by men. Yet we don't see men being shamed for knocking a girl up the woman gets shamed instead.

Daria B
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not sure about the 100% statistics, since life is too complicated to point fingers. But I think men are less shamed when it happens because for them it's easier to hide it. I mean, they don't get the baby belly.

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Nia Loves Art
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unless the wives and mistresses of pro life legislators participate, which they won’t, the strike will be completely pointless and just reinforce the idea that women have to be abstinent, which is what the pro life movement wants.

mild anxiety! at the disco
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Welp time to scroll through comments to see the shitstorm of arguments and downvotes..

Wil Vanderheijden
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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Usually it's better to fight the cause instead of the symptoms. Sadly with abortion this isn't the case. Women don't choose to get raped and become pregnant. Any lawmaker that is prohibiting victims of rape to have the pregnancy terminated under safe medical conditions is a monster. There are enough reasons for a woman to decide to have an abortion, which she even shouldn't have to explain. Lawmakers have no right to declare these women murderers by reinstating medieval laws. Luckily there's a lot of medication available on the internet to end pregnancies.

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A "sex strike" won't change abortion laws. Use logic and facts, not WE WONT HAVE SEX WITH YOU UNLESS YOU CHANGE THIS. Because as a woman, it feels insulting to hear that. I don't owe you sex, so not having sex changes nothing if that's the case. This sounds as if we owe men sex and that it's something they need. SMH

Shelly Knope
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I vote for men to get a vasectomy until both side are ready and agrees to have babies. No need to ask them, sperm is life! so they're not entitled to decide over their bodies as long as they're holding life inside of them

mild anxiety! at the disco
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um...........you ever heard of birth control? An easy, buy-it-at-the-CVS method? "Nope, just spend thousands of dollars on surgery that leaves a scar and takes weeks to recover from. Then, juts spend thousands more on reversing it and causing more discomfort and pain!! Easy!!"

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Owl Payson
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Rape and conteseptive failure, both uncontrollable by the woman and often result in a woman forced to go through expenses they can’t afford, immense pain and restrictions, and they are born into a unprepared family

Stille20
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is problematic from a relationship stand point. You should not be punishing your significant by withhold sex (or really punishing them at all). I also agree that it makes it seem like sex is for men.

Scott
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If your only bargaining chip in your relationship is sex because that all the power they allow you to have, my hat is off for the women who clutch that power over their partner. Sex is a gift, not an obligation.

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Whatshername
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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Seriously considering switching to the word 'sexstrike' from now on. Sounds way better than all things we called it the last couple of years 🤔 #lousymarriage #justkidding #youneedtorelaxnow

Hans
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow... Abstinence as the solutions. The ultra conservative peolple will rejoyce.

Kim Heckman Beasley
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is so degrading to women!! WTH was she thinking?! We don't have to barter sex to get anybody to do anything!! Sex is an intimate loving act between 2 people.....not a piece of business to be sold, traded or bartered. What a DF.

Rosie Hamilton
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not saying this is a good thing, but if you don't know that sex is frequently sold, traded or bartered you are really out of touch with reality.

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anarkzie
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not triggered and I'm supportive of gender equality and abortion rights but this is stupid, the line between pro life/choice is not determined by your gender. My girlfriend refusing to have sex with me, someone who is pro-choice is not going to change the mind of Ben Shapiro types it's also unlikely his wife who more than likely is also pro life is going to refuse him sex in order to achieve something she does not believe in. When you actually consider the argument they're making, that abortion is murder performed by the state you got ask yourself is a sex ban going to make them change their minds if they consider the stakes so high, it would be like my GF trying to convince me to support the rights of the south to keep slaves by withholding sex it's just too important a topic.

Random Panda
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I understand what she's trying to do, but she's going the wrong way about it. The spending strike suggestion seems a more effective option.

Ellie Ragsdale
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree with the twitter user in the article who said that we should have a #spendingstrike. I'm pretty sure that would have a bigger impact than abstaining from sex. Besides, what about those who haven't had sex yet (or in a long time)? Are they automatically participating in a sex strike?

Stephanie Bladyak
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Okay, but the sex strike isn't really going to work if you get pregnant from rape...which is the reason I'm pro choice to begin with.

William Teach
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had this whole thing I was going to write, and then said "no. Not getting into politics here. I'd rather just view posts with funny animals and cool places and stuff." That's why I come to Bored Panda. If I want politics I'll go to a political site. This political stuff is driving people away.

Full Name
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5 years ago

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I agree totally, except this specific post was actually done quite well and wasn't the usual biased SJW clickbait style.

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David Fox
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why not take a stand against not murdering the countless innocent and learn about the many countless types of contraception maybe all these women doing the sex strike is good put the d**k dow n until you and your partner or partners can both protect your selfs and each other baby's don't asked to be made to don't choose to be so called accidents. In my opinion a baby is the nicest thing you can get from having unprotected sex it's the only thing that can't kill you and dog your body in side.

Clever Fool
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This sort of "sex strike" is actually known as a Lysistrata Gambit.

George Hall
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would like everyone who agrees to this person's strike to traditional marriage morals

KMB
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Punishing yourself trying to make a point is ridiculous.

Monika Soffronow
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WHATEVER can get people discussing women's right to decide over their own bodies gets an OK from me. America is going backwards at an alarming pace, and the militant far-right Christians behind most of this are also doing their damnedest to spread their toxic gospel across the globe. I honestly suspect that much of this is silently kept on the burner by corporatist interests in order to keep the simple people occupied with highly emotional pseudy ethical issues while inb the background Big Money gets to lay the groundwork for even more actual power. That sorry excuse for a president that presently is at the helm in the US has been lauded for his amazing ability to distract from the serious issues. Follow the money! Some 15 million children live in households below the poverty line - that is a little more than one child out of every five - and they want women to bear unwanted children?

John Smith
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Monika used to be an unwanted child. But look at her now! Go Monika go!

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Casey McAlister
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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For most women sex is not work, currency, bargaining chip, commodity to be consumed by men or political statement. The idea to withhold sex to get some sorts of concessions s preposterous. Too bad in her desperate attempts to stay relevant Milano chose the way of ridiculous misplaced "activism".

grace koncsicsv
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i think she means well but that's not the right way to go about it. abortion should be very very rare i think. i am a woman and a proud one too but i don't think that every abortion law goes against my rights as a woman.

Random Panda
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You make abortions rarer with sex education, affordable birth control and more support for single mothers (and parents in general). Not by denying women their bodily autonomy and reducing them to incubators.

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Crouching_Penn_Hidden_Teller@yahoo.com
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If she hates sex enough to willingly give it up that's her and whoever her partner is problem. I can't even have sex and it wasn't my choice!

Daria B
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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"While some women totally agreed with this strike and decided to participate", "Others believe this is only a step towards preaching conservative ideas and promoting abstinence over pro-choice", "Others were disappointed since this strike only devalues women even more" And.... Nobody concerned a strike like this would encourage potential rapists for a rampage? Maybe I'm being just a little over drammatic. But the initial idea behind this protest kind of makes sense. I don't think it looks like we have sex for men, it's more of a call out for men to team up, so we can all enjoy.

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Abortions should only be used In certain situations. Like, for example, rape, incest, teen pregnancies, when the mother cannot afford to have a child, when the pregnancy is dangerous for the mother and/or child. That's why I consider myself pro choice. Abortions are bad, yes, because something that could grow to be a human being is killed, but sometimes, it's needed.

Ava Ford
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not having sex can still give you a baby. Look at Mary! Btw was she married if not then Jesus was born without abstinence so ha to all christians!

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5 years ago

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5 years ago

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Dana Dara
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well this is a great way to let natural selection run it’s course

Full Name
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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, the top write-up paragraph was very well done. I'm impressed. This is the first time I've seen a Social Justice post on BP that was reasonably down the middle and presented both sides and was rather objective. Please keep this approach.

Full Name
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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Now people are downvoting me for praising an article? I think it's just triggered NPC's who see my name and click downvote like Pavlovian dogs. I'm also the guy who was so awful that someone made an actual troll account dedicated specifically to downvoting and yelling at me, so there's that.

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Amaranthim Talon
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She's a raging idiot who has zero relevance anymore and will do anything to call attention to her pitiful existence. If she can even find someone from whom to withdraw sex- then go for it honey buns- I'm not one to let washed-up hasbeens dictate my sex life...

Amberly Middlemiss
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5 years ago (edited)

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as a conservative christian I fully support this sex strike. After all, abstinence is the best way to prevent unwanted pregnancies. Women have the right to control their bodies, just not the separate body inside of them. (the only problem with the sex strike is that it treats sex as a favour women do for men.)

Random Panda
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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm just going to copy/paste this: It is a woman's right to choose if she will use HER body to create another person. No one has the right to use another person's body for their benefit without consent and to the person's detriment (as pregnancy takes a toll on the body and carries great risk). Besides, abortions are generally allowed before the foetus has developed a nervous system and a brain. Clinical death is declared when a person's brain has stopped functioning, not their heart. It should be the same with pregnancy - if it doesn't have a brain yet, it's not a baby.

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grace koncsicsv
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5 years ago

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i am a woman and a proud one and i don't think my body and rights as a human or woman are being ignored or violated when a law about abortion happens. i think abortion should much rarer than it is now but that a safe and legal option is open for extreme cases. not all woman get abortions cause they are just selfish or hate kids :P but i do think they should be rarer.

Nia Loves Art
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The way to make it rarer is through sex education and affordable birth control, not restrictive laws.

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Eel Music
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5 years ago

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Babies are alive before they are born - leave 'em alone.

Eel Music
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5 years ago

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Babies are alive before they are born - don't kill them.

Shireen
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5 years ago

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Alyssa Milano has completely lost her damn mind... she has become completely crazy after Trump was elected President. But thinking about it, maybe this sex strike is a good thing - no sex = no abortions and I'm all down for that. Abortion should not be legal, you are killing an innocent child and most people are not doing it because of health, they are doing it because having the child would be inconvenient. Aboriton should only be legal in extreme circumstances.

N S
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5 years ago

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Another one of those has beens looking to stay "relevant", laughable.

Eel Music
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5 years ago

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Control over HER body? SInce when does a body have two hearts, two sets of eyes, etc.?

Random Panda
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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is a woman's right to choose if she will use HER body to create another person. No one has the right to use another person's body for their benefit without consent and to the person's detriment (as pregnancy takes a toll on the body and carries great risk). Besides, abortions are generally allowed before the foetus has developed a nervous system and a brain. Clinical death is declared when a person's brain has stopped functioning, not their heart. It should be the same with pregnancy - if it doesn't have a brain yet, it's not a baby.

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caleb
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5 years ago (edited)

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well you could always idk wear a condom or take birth control?

LaDonna Hulcy
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

if everyone had access to real sex education, free and easily obtainable birth control it probably would be rare. maybe only in the case of rape and incest. but that's not the case.

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