Server Reveals “Everything You Wish You Didn’t Know About Restaurants”
InterviewWe’d say that ignorance is bliss when it comes to uncomfortable truths, but at the end of the day, knowing the harsh reality is better than staying naive, surrounded by illusions. If you’re a fan of dining out, you might be shocked by how low the hygiene standards are in some places.
TikToker @hazel_gm, who has plenty of experience working as a server in many different restaurants, went viral after spilling the tea about “the ugly truth” about the industry. Some of the things she shed light on might make you think about what the situation is like in your own local restaurants. Scroll down for the full story. Bored Panda reached out to Hazel for a friendly chat about her viral video, the restaurant industry, as well as her passion for creating videos. You’ll find our full interview with the content creator below! And if you enjoyed her video, be sure to follow her on TikTok.
Restaurant staff don’t always maintain the high standards that they should. One employee spilled the beans about the entire industry in a TikTok video
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“Here’s what you need to know about restaurants from someone who worked in multiple restaurants”
Image credits: hazel_gm
“The kitchen is not clean, it is not up to your standards, and it is not as clean as you would like it to be”
“I’m sorry, but that’s just the truth. Your server has not washed her hands for the entire shift. If you’re lucky, she washed her hands when she came in the building. But it’s like a 50/50 chance that that happened. Unless your server was me. If your server was me, you had the cleanest person in the building. Okay, I guarantee you. And I’m not saying that to be braggy. I’m just saying it because it’s the truth. They used to make fun of me because of how much I washed my hands.”
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“Like the dishwasher once told me like, you come back here a lot and wash your hands. Like, what’s going on? And I was just like, that’s just what I do. See, when I have other people’s food on my hands, I go wash them. I don’t want to be walking around with like, mashed potatoes on my hands. So yeah, I’m gonna wash them. I’ve watched servers clear a dirty table, turn right around, and make you your salad with their bare hands. Yeah, I’ve seen it a lot, believe it or not.”
“And you know, that’s the risk you take when you go to a restaurant”
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“The ice is not as clean as you would like it to be. That ice is pretty nasty”
“The reason why is that no one cleans the containers that the ice is in. Usually, we’re transporting ice from the icemaker to the drink machine. So whatever container we’re using probably hasn’t been cleaned in years. Same thing with the ice chest. Yeah, we just keep dumping new ice in there. No one’s like draining the entire thing and then wiping it down. No one does that. Like, sometimes I did, just to be like, a good person. But like, even I didn’t do it as much as I should have. Because it’s just too much work. It’s too hard.”
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“Different restaurants have different ways of cleaning their tables”
“If it’s corporate-run, they probably have like, a sanitation station. So like, it’s a bucket of pre-mixed sanitizing liquid that you then dip your rag in, you go to the table and you wipe it down. But let me tell you, no one is changing out those buckets as often as they should be. Yeah, I watched servers who have an ice-cold bucket of sanitizing solution from like, this morning. And it’s now evening. And they’ve got food particles floating in there and no one’s changing it. No one is. I don’t know why.
I was. My sanitizing bucket was always fresh and hot. Just so you know. The first thing I did, I come onto the floor, and check the bucket. And sure enough, it’s disgusting. So I go change that out, get some fresh cleaner in there. Okay. And then I go and wipe down my tables so that they’re actually clean. Other restaurants literally just like spray on a disinfectant and you wipe it down. But like, no one lets that sit long enough for it to actually be disinfecting. If you just spray and wipe, you’ve pretty much-done nothing except, like, get the actual crumbs off of the table.”
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“And last but not least, nighttime cooks are better than daytime cooks. I don’t know why. Is it some unknown phenomenon? Perhaps?”
“Maybe it’s just because we know we’re going to be busier at night than we are during the day. So we want to have a better cook on for the night time. Who knows. But when it comes to restaurant staff, you want to go in the evening, okay? That’s when you’re going to have the best servers, that’s when you’re going to have the best dishwasher. That’s when you’re going to have the best cook.
See, because the people the people that are working until like, midnight, and then like, sleeping through the day, you know how like, they’re all a little bit messed up? They’re all like, alcoholics and they all like, smoke, like a chimney. For some reason, though, they make the best restaurant staff. So if you’re going to eat at a restaurant, do it at night, don’t do it during the day, you’re just going to have a better cook, you’re going to have a better server. They’re like, they’ve already drunk their Red Bull for the day. They’re ready to go. For some reason, the night cooks will always be better than the day cooks. And that is everything you wish you didn’t know about restaurants.”
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Hazel’s 4-minute video got over 51.5k views (and counting) on TikTok at the time of writing. A lot of the video-sharing platform’s users could relate to the server’s experiences because they themselves have worked in the restaurant business before. And if we’re being very honest, it hurts us to learn how low the hygiene standards are in so many places.
We were interested to get Hazel’s take on why her TikTok was as popular as it was. According to her, the topic was very relatable. “Nearly everyone eats restaurant food on a regular basis and when I said I was going to tell the ‘ugly truth,’ I think it’s natural that people got curious and continued watching, whether they got grossed out or not,” she shared with Bored Panda via email.
“Curiosity always wins. I enjoy sharing my personal experiences and past restaurant videos have received good engagement. If I notice there’s a certain topic on my channel that gets engagement, I try to continue to deliver on that topic,” she said.
“My advice for anyone new to the industry is to handle the food the way you’d want your own food handled”
Bored Panda was curious how the content creator would motivate restaurant employees to value hygiene more. “You might be able to motivate staff to improve hygiene by offering monetary bonuses for excellent work. However, I think the lack of better hygiene is due to understaffing and, in a few cases, pure laziness. How can an employee constantly glove-up when handling food or wash their hands for 20 seconds if they have the job of two people resting on their shoulders? If they don’t have enough support to keep things running smoothly, they will cut corners,” Hazel pointed out that changes need to be made on a larger scale at these restaurants.
“And some employees simply don’t care. They might have time to wash their hands, but instead, they check their phone. The attitude seems to be: ‘Well, I’M not eating the food, so I don’t care how it was made’ or ‘I don’t get paid enough to keep everything clean.’ And those people are the worst employees to have. My advice for anyone new to the industry is to handle the food the way you’d want your own food handled. Try to keep things as sanitary as you’d want them to be if you were the customer.”
Lastly, we wanted to hear about what keeps Hazel passionate about filming videos for TikTok. “I was the kid that put on performances in my family’s living room, joined musical theatre, and aced any college projects related to creative writing or presentations. I thrive on entertaining others and as a stay-at-home mom, making TikToks has become a creative outlet and helps me escape the mundane,” she told Bored Panda.
The content creator noted that she’s only speaking from her own experience as an employee and a customer. “I’ve seen some very sanitary restaurants but in my opinion, dirty restaurants far outnumber clean ones.”
You can watch Hazel’s video in full right over here
@hazel_gm #restaurant #server #serverlife #truths #theuglytruth #restaurantsecrets #cook #waitstaff #restaurantreview #heresmystory #shockingtruth #nightshift #dayshift #industrysecrets #waitressing ♬ original sound – Hazel
If the staff think that basic hygiene is a joke, then there’s either an issue with how they were trained, how they’re motivated in the workplace, or what perspective they have on their customers. Ideally, you want to have an employee who’s taken well to being trained, is incentivized to follow proper cleanliness protocols, and deeply cares about the people they serve or cook food for.
On the flip side, workers who don’t give a rat’s behind about hygiene standards can land the entire business into hot water. If the servers never wash their hands and if the kitchen’s a dump, then sooner or later, your customers will get ill.
Not only does that put someone’s life at stake, but it also makes the restaurant vulnerable to getting sued or even shut down if it doesn’t meet food safety standards. And the next thing you know, everyone’s out of a job. In short, ignoring common sense hygiene and safety standards is a very short-sighted way to work that will eventually backfire.
Not only that, it portrays an utter lack of respect for oneself, as well as others. And that’s no way to go through life. Yes, employees ought to have a proper manager who trains and motivates them to do their jobs well, but the other side of the coin is taking personal responsibility for basic things like washing your hands.
It is imperative that the kitchen staff store the ingredients properly. Leaving some food items on the counter for a while might not have any negative effects while doing the same with others would spoil them. That’s because microorganisms, bacteria, fungi, and viruses thrive in some ingredients more than in others, and it comes down to how much moisture they have and how acidic they are.
Staff members need to know how to properly store and utilize different ingredients
So, for instance, nasties thrive in seafood, raw chicken, raw eggs, raw flour, and unpasteurized milk. You have to take extra care when handling and storing these ingredients, otherwise, you’re risking someone’s health and life. Meanwhile, there’s more flexibility if you’re working with items like lemons, pickles, and crackers, which don’t have to be utilized as quickly.
Every establishment likely has its own checklist of all the things that need to be cleaned every single day, every week, and month. And while a little bit of variation is inevitable, what truly matters is that the protocols get followed and that they meet the local food safety standards. The Canadian Institute of Food Safety urges food industry employees to clean the food prep areas and sinks, alongside mopping the floors, storage areas, and walk-in fridges, every single day.
Other common daily hygiene tasks include taking out the trash, cleaning the inside and outside of the garbage cans, and cleaning the appliances: from the grills, fryers, and toasters to the microwaves, coffee makers, and beverage machines.
Meanwhile, the kitchen staff ought to manually clean the floor drains, ovens, deep fryers, and floor mats once a week. And, once a month, the employees should manually clean the walls, ceilings, vent hoods, and behind the hotline, as well as empty the grease traps.
It’s a ton of work and the staff needs to understand why it’s so important to follow through. Good managers will find ways to motivate them to stick to the established protocols to keep the quality of the restaurant’s service top-notch. But a part of being a good leader involves enforcing boundaries, not just setting them. If someone’s playing at being a server or cook without understanding why hygiene is so important, they need to become aware of the consequences of their actions.
The content creator’s followers had a lot to say after watching the clip
I like, had to stop reading after like, two paragraphs. I wish these articles weren't posted, like, verbatim.
For a summer during college (2000?) I worked as a hostess in a very popular restaurant in Chicago known for their pizza, and the kitchen was power washed every night. So…. I guess this comment amounts to…. “Not all restaurants”… Errr…
This person must work in a dump full of crappy employees. I've been a cook and chef for 21 years and none of this is the case. You've got to have everything tits because the health department LOVES surprise inspections. If they walked into the restaurant this person is describing it would be shut down.
Yet another tiktoker wanting to go *viral* who thinks they know everything about everything based on limited exposure. Most kitchens are fairly clean. Otherwise the health dept would shut them down. Lunch can be much better for dining as it is typically cheaper and the chef and staff are there prepping for the dinner. Bored, stop giving an audience to these wanna-be-know-it-alls.
it frustrates me that shes saying the nighttime staff are all “alcoholics” and “a little messed up”
I've been (mainly) a closer in the service industry for 20 years. Literally every team I've worked on has had at least one alcoholic, usually more. My current store has three employees. The closer is an alcoholic.
Load More Replies...I remember working for about 2 weeks at a Pizza Hut in 1988 when I graduated high school, and something was wrong with the dishwasher and those weird red cups would come out all greasy feeling and with bits of food on them. I actually rewashed ones for my chintzy tipping customers. Nobody didn’t seem to care. Never got a break the whole time I worked there and the manager would try to give me pizzas at the end of a shift in “compensation.” Finally quit after I slipped on some c**p left on the floor and hurt my wrist enough I had to buy my own brace. Once again, nobody seemed to care.
It is true that a lot of waitresses do not wash your hands like they're supposed to. They will bush your table and then go run your food. When I was Is a waitress, Trust and believe, I watch my hands exactly like I was supposed to. Being a manager, I make sure everybody washed her hands when they were supposed to. I am a**l when it comes to that. Most things I am laid back in life. I do not tolerate or accept behavior that could harm somebody. Not washing your hands not only harmed you, But also those around you. Some waitresses will definitely touch your lemons. They will dip cups into the ice. Do not get ice anywhere unless it is a smoothie shop to where you see the make it. Is touching money and then touching a cup to go into the ice Is disgusting. I'm talking about you fast food workers, and restaurant staff.
Way back when I had a summer job as a server at a restaurant, I got fired for taking too long to wash the dishes. I was raised in a household that would yell at you if the dishes weren't clean when you did the washing up, but I did attempt to do it faster to please the manager. No, he would have prefered that I leave a few dishes with food residue still on them so I could keep up with the very fast cook.
She obviously worked at s**t places. What she stated is what she has experienced and the outlier. Health departments inspections always check to make sure the ice machine is clean. If you’re a breakfast joint you have your strong guys at breakfast, if you’re a lunch joint then strong guys at lunch and the same for dinner.
so many things. (i worked in restaurants when i was around late teens/early 20s). the most egregious was, in my opinion, the fact that these lemons are FILTHY on their outsides. few people thoroughly wash them....they get cut, which spreads the bacteria, put in a tub together, and then your server uses their filthy fingers to put the lemon on or in your drink. ewwwww
Load More Replies...I can't get OP talking about the sanitation liquid bucket with cold dirty liquid and food particals floating around in it, out of my head. You'd think that would be gross for the busser to put their hands into with the rag and wringing out the liquid in that state. I'd have to have clean liquid, I couldn't keep putting my hands in that mess 😩 😫. Like the comment above that mentioned Kitchen Nightmares, so many of us know that things like this and so much worse are happening all the time in kitchens everyday, thanks to all of the shows of Ramsey breaking down these disgusting issues on the show. The ill maintained ice machines and lack of proper hand washing are the leading causes of hepatitis A outbreaks in restaurant, causing illnesses in so many customers. Several of our family and friends who have worked in restaurants never have ice in their drinks, lol.
I've worked in a kitchen in a fine Italian dining establishment called Arturo's in Dupont, PA and that kitchen is so damned clean you could eat off the floor. I love to cook and am proud to say that I've never known anyone to have ever got sick from my dishes. But I'm a total a*****e about my food handling and storage.
I’ve worked in all types of restaurants - entry level to Michelin star - and yeah, you do see some stuff. The reality is that most FOH staff really don’t wash their hands enough. I’ve got OCD, so hand washing is something I HAVE to do after clearing every table. Kitchens vary in standards, but in the UK we have inspections, which if you fail badly, usually go public, so it’s not common to have dangerously dirty kitchens. Best tip for customers - the fussier and more demanding you are, the less time staff have to maintain standards. Some people treat you like you’re their personal servant for the evening, when you might have lots of other tables! Be. Ready. To. Order! Small venues with small menus are usually safe. FYI, in my experience, cleanliness of toilets has NEVER been an indication of how clean a kitchen is.
Ok maybe in places she worked but around here out health department does regular inspections.
I've worked at a bunch of restaurants and I call bullsh!t. With the exception of one, where I didn't work long, things are absolutely kept clean. All I could hear when reading this is, "Like, you know, everybody sucks but me. I'm, like, the only one who did everything right."
I wish these tiktok posts would stop. This one was pretty dull. Just stuff everyone already knows, but now we get to look up someone's nostrils while they whine about it.
Popeyes chicken restaurant near me has kitchen staff handling chicken without hairnets or gloves. Not eating there anymore.
Popeyes Chicken restaurant had staff not wearing gloves or hairnets while handling food. Not eating there anyone
I worked as a server in Italy and I can guarantee you that Italy is not like that.
In the UK, restaurants are inspected annually, and are given a score, 1-5, 5 is the highest. They have to show the score on the door. So I'm surprised.
Load More Replies...I like, had to stop reading after like, two paragraphs. I wish these articles weren't posted, like, verbatim.
For a summer during college (2000?) I worked as a hostess in a very popular restaurant in Chicago known for their pizza, and the kitchen was power washed every night. So…. I guess this comment amounts to…. “Not all restaurants”… Errr…
This person must work in a dump full of crappy employees. I've been a cook and chef for 21 years and none of this is the case. You've got to have everything tits because the health department LOVES surprise inspections. If they walked into the restaurant this person is describing it would be shut down.
Yet another tiktoker wanting to go *viral* who thinks they know everything about everything based on limited exposure. Most kitchens are fairly clean. Otherwise the health dept would shut them down. Lunch can be much better for dining as it is typically cheaper and the chef and staff are there prepping for the dinner. Bored, stop giving an audience to these wanna-be-know-it-alls.
it frustrates me that shes saying the nighttime staff are all “alcoholics” and “a little messed up”
I've been (mainly) a closer in the service industry for 20 years. Literally every team I've worked on has had at least one alcoholic, usually more. My current store has three employees. The closer is an alcoholic.
Load More Replies...I remember working for about 2 weeks at a Pizza Hut in 1988 when I graduated high school, and something was wrong with the dishwasher and those weird red cups would come out all greasy feeling and with bits of food on them. I actually rewashed ones for my chintzy tipping customers. Nobody didn’t seem to care. Never got a break the whole time I worked there and the manager would try to give me pizzas at the end of a shift in “compensation.” Finally quit after I slipped on some c**p left on the floor and hurt my wrist enough I had to buy my own brace. Once again, nobody seemed to care.
It is true that a lot of waitresses do not wash your hands like they're supposed to. They will bush your table and then go run your food. When I was Is a waitress, Trust and believe, I watch my hands exactly like I was supposed to. Being a manager, I make sure everybody washed her hands when they were supposed to. I am a**l when it comes to that. Most things I am laid back in life. I do not tolerate or accept behavior that could harm somebody. Not washing your hands not only harmed you, But also those around you. Some waitresses will definitely touch your lemons. They will dip cups into the ice. Do not get ice anywhere unless it is a smoothie shop to where you see the make it. Is touching money and then touching a cup to go into the ice Is disgusting. I'm talking about you fast food workers, and restaurant staff.
Way back when I had a summer job as a server at a restaurant, I got fired for taking too long to wash the dishes. I was raised in a household that would yell at you if the dishes weren't clean when you did the washing up, but I did attempt to do it faster to please the manager. No, he would have prefered that I leave a few dishes with food residue still on them so I could keep up with the very fast cook.
She obviously worked at s**t places. What she stated is what she has experienced and the outlier. Health departments inspections always check to make sure the ice machine is clean. If you’re a breakfast joint you have your strong guys at breakfast, if you’re a lunch joint then strong guys at lunch and the same for dinner.
so many things. (i worked in restaurants when i was around late teens/early 20s). the most egregious was, in my opinion, the fact that these lemons are FILTHY on their outsides. few people thoroughly wash them....they get cut, which spreads the bacteria, put in a tub together, and then your server uses their filthy fingers to put the lemon on or in your drink. ewwwww
Load More Replies...I can't get OP talking about the sanitation liquid bucket with cold dirty liquid and food particals floating around in it, out of my head. You'd think that would be gross for the busser to put their hands into with the rag and wringing out the liquid in that state. I'd have to have clean liquid, I couldn't keep putting my hands in that mess 😩 😫. Like the comment above that mentioned Kitchen Nightmares, so many of us know that things like this and so much worse are happening all the time in kitchens everyday, thanks to all of the shows of Ramsey breaking down these disgusting issues on the show. The ill maintained ice machines and lack of proper hand washing are the leading causes of hepatitis A outbreaks in restaurant, causing illnesses in so many customers. Several of our family and friends who have worked in restaurants never have ice in their drinks, lol.
I've worked in a kitchen in a fine Italian dining establishment called Arturo's in Dupont, PA and that kitchen is so damned clean you could eat off the floor. I love to cook and am proud to say that I've never known anyone to have ever got sick from my dishes. But I'm a total a*****e about my food handling and storage.
I’ve worked in all types of restaurants - entry level to Michelin star - and yeah, you do see some stuff. The reality is that most FOH staff really don’t wash their hands enough. I’ve got OCD, so hand washing is something I HAVE to do after clearing every table. Kitchens vary in standards, but in the UK we have inspections, which if you fail badly, usually go public, so it’s not common to have dangerously dirty kitchens. Best tip for customers - the fussier and more demanding you are, the less time staff have to maintain standards. Some people treat you like you’re their personal servant for the evening, when you might have lots of other tables! Be. Ready. To. Order! Small venues with small menus are usually safe. FYI, in my experience, cleanliness of toilets has NEVER been an indication of how clean a kitchen is.
Ok maybe in places she worked but around here out health department does regular inspections.
I've worked at a bunch of restaurants and I call bullsh!t. With the exception of one, where I didn't work long, things are absolutely kept clean. All I could hear when reading this is, "Like, you know, everybody sucks but me. I'm, like, the only one who did everything right."
I wish these tiktok posts would stop. This one was pretty dull. Just stuff everyone already knows, but now we get to look up someone's nostrils while they whine about it.
Popeyes chicken restaurant near me has kitchen staff handling chicken without hairnets or gloves. Not eating there anymore.
Popeyes Chicken restaurant had staff not wearing gloves or hairnets while handling food. Not eating there anyone
I worked as a server in Italy and I can guarantee you that Italy is not like that.
In the UK, restaurants are inspected annually, and are given a score, 1-5, 5 is the highest. They have to show the score on the door. So I'm surprised.
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