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Girl Shares Therapist’s Advice To Draw On Her Body Instead Of Cutting
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Girl Shares Therapist’s Advice To Draw On Her Body Instead Of Cutting

Person That Used To Self-Harm Shares Zentangle Technique That Helped Them StopWoman Shares Technique That Helped Her Stop Self-Harm And People Are Thanking HerWoman Uses Popular Drawing Technique Called 'Zentangle' To Stop Self-Harming, Says It WorksWoman Doodles On Her Leg To Distract From Self-Harming, Says This Technique Totally WorksWoman Doodles On Her Leg To Stop Self-Harming, Reccomends The Zentangle Technique To Everyone Suffering From ItTherapist Tells Girl To Draw Where She Wants To Cut, Instead Of Self-Harming, And It Loooks Like ZentangleGirl Draws Zentangle-Like Designs Instead Of Self-Harming As A Form Of TherapyGirl Shares Therapist's Advice To Draw On Her Body Instead Of CuttingGirl Shares How 'Zentangle' Has Helped Her Cope With Self-Harm Tendencies, Explains What It IsGirl Shares Her Therapist's Advice About How To Avoid Self-Harming And It Looks Clever And Powerful
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Mental health issues are not discussed enough – but often when they are, it’s after a devastating event such as suicide. Cutting or non-suicidal self-harm is an issue that can fly below the radar because people might not even notice this psychological disorder happening. This mental issue is defined as deliberate, self-inflicted destruction of body tissue and affects almost one in five people worldwide.

Unlike people who commit suicide, cutters aren’t trying to kill themselves. By contrast, they often self-harm to feel alive, rather than numb because the act releases endorphins. This mental disorder is very dangerous, and you can easily end up in the hospital, which is why someone took to the internet to share their coping and mental therapy strategy – art.

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Someone who used to self-harm took to the internet to share how she overcame the habit with art

Someone else saw the post and added that the easy-to-draw pattern method of Zentangle could be particularly helpful

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Zentangle therapy sessions are non-representational and unplanned so you can focus on each stroke and not worry about the result. There is no up or down to Zentangle art. If fact, you can most easily create Zentangle art by rotating your tile as you tangle — always keeping your hand in a relaxed position. You don’t need to know what a tangle is going to look like to draw it. You just need to know the steps. The result is a delightful surprise – both relaxing and sometimes masking self-harm scars if that’s what you seek,” writes their website.

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Aramis Starfish
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

thank you for sharing. This technique has helped me too. eventually I have tattooed the places I found most pleasing to cut. Not to cover the scars. but because it shifts the mid set. I tend to be in a dissociative state when self harming so drawing on my skin or tracing the tattoos is calming and grounds me back to me. it does not produce the endorphins but also not the subsequent guilt and shame. so are helpful tools to try. Xox

Zori the degu
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It doesn't just help with depression. It helps you exercise a new-found talent(everyone is born an artist, to some extent)! I think it's a win indeed!

Joy Robinson
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I recently relapsed with self harm and have been feeling like s**t because of it. This post, seeing others who are also struggling and finding ingeniously healthy ways to cope are my inspiration. Next time I'm at the store, I'm going to buy some markers to keep with me in case I feel the urge again.

Miriam L
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Way to go! I'm sorry to hear that you've relapsed but I'm really happy that this might help you. Go buy some markers, pens, eyeliner (it's meant for skin, stays for a long time but cleans up easy, and I know of some amazing cheap ones in ink, felt tip, proper pencil or soft pencil that's amazing) or whatever inspires you. Stash a few everywhere. I believe in you. Internet hugs

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Derian Syah
Community Member
5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

hello, I need to write my first comment here. After I read this, I also have similar drawing just like this pattern for past 5 years that I posted on my instagram that unfortunately already delete all my post last year and trying to repost it again now. I do have some depressing situation and also self-harm and even a suicidal thought, but every time I feeling down I trying to draw it on a paper with similar pattern and it always makes me feels better when I drew that. So I think it's a great Idea if you try to draw something rather than self-harm your body, hope if you do this also makes you feel better, doesn't matter if your drawing good or bad, as long as it can makes you feel much better.

Miriam L
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good luck on your journey towards healing. I personally struggle with mental health challenges and severe depression at times. I'm doing a lot better right now - it's actually a long story that I'm willing to share but it's probably not relatable to most people. Self harm was not usually my survival method of choice, so I don't have anything specific to say to help. Just know that I'm rooting for you. Seek out every person and resource that can bring health and stability into your life, because you deserve it. Sending internet hugs. I'm not at all trained in anything, but I am a night owl so if you ever just need someone to talk to, I might be around. Or call one of the hotlines, they're actually really great in my limited experience. I hope none of this was painful or offensive - I don't want anyone else to feel alone in their struggle and I'm not trying to be patronising or annoying

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Pacer Three
Community Member
5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OMG! I can not believe this! when my grandson was in his teens he began cutting himself, this went on for a very long time. however it did stop and when it stopped I noticed that he was doing these elaborate doddles all over his arms. we actually photographed a few, but never did I ever see a connection to his cutting but it makes sense. today at 25 he travels the United States as a poet and a teacher.

Lemon Garnished Potato
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As someone who has this habit, drawing really does help. I draw people mostly, but sometimes I draw designs on myself.

Jo Choto
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My daughter started doing this when she was in her teens. It completely refocused her attention. She ended up doing all kinds of "sharpie tattoos" for herself and friends. Now she is grown, she has designed all her own tattoos (and mine) and has lots of lovely permanent art on her body.

EVERLEIGH
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm so glad that you found something to help you in place of harming. Good for you girl! Keep up the great work and congrats on your clean days! Yay!!! If I was there, I would give you a huge hug! Btw, sounds like you have a great therapist!! 👍❤

Gesine Marwedel
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

thanks for this post! i am an art therapist and wrote a book about bodypainting in therapeutic context (in german), but didnt think of this aspect. should add it in the next edition.

Bunzilla
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love this. I've never struggled with this myself, though there are some times where my depression gets bad enough where it seems somewhat tempting. If I ever do, I'll use this method instead of hurting myself with blades. My suggestion; find a marker in a colour that appeals to you.

Lsai Aeon
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm a cutter as well. I cut because it's easier to deal with the outside pain than it is the inside pain. I find, if I can afford it, a new tattoo fills this "need"

Miriam L
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope that you can find something that helps you, in this article or somewhere else. Internet hugs

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Roberta Maben
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The therapist who told her to do that thank you you got into her mind and her brain to make her think she did not deserve all the bad things that happened to her and that's what we have to do as women ask women before you answer for women that's the abortion issue 2

Victor Perez
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i need some help getting my story out because when i went for help to the police they put me in a mental institution for 9 days when the story i am telling is true and i have pictures that will prove me rite and clear my name. im victor t perez from san Antonio Texas

okpkpkp
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to cut myself decades and decades ago. My mother thought I wore long-sleeved shirts to hide the tracks from shooting heroin. I was thirteen. Congrats on your success.

The Frog
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As this is nothing new.. my number of mental health nurses have also said about using my body as a canvas but to use a red marker not a razor or red ball point.. this was maybe 15 years ago now, I still haven't done it, as I didn't need to.

Cindy Richter
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I will try next time, if I am able to remember. I don't cut anymore, I got tattoos over my scars, so I wont destroy the pretty picture, but I still feel the urge to cut and feel like drowning in emotions.

Leo H
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not sure how this would actually help...people cut to basically feel something, it's a subtle cry out for help...drawing on your leg is just art and doesn't address the underlying mental health issues of self harm

Tricia Evans
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The person is already in therapy for it. So they are trying to come up with alternatives for when she feels like cutting. It’s kind of like a smoker who develops a mouth obsession sucking on lollipops when they are craving a cigarette. No it doesn’t give the same effect, but it focuses the attention away from the impulse until it passes.

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Russian Otaku
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I could never cut myself... I find adding pain to my life is counterintuitive. Personally I'd rather cut others... very specific pompous douchebag others

madcow 3417
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Other suggestions: Candle wax leaves no scars. Paper trimmer blades are short enough to not risk any real damage, aka no one can pretend it's a suicide thing. Working out to the point of sore muscles is more socially acceptable and helps with depression. Same thing with physically demanding potentially dangerous jobs, like construction or some factory work.

Miriam L
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel like you mean well but this still seems potentially dangerous and unhealthy to me. Healthy levels of exercise are good, and technically pain with no long term damage is better than pain that leaves scars or can send you to the ER, but it's still seeking pain and some of those things can be dangerous. This article shows a way that the need for expressing that pain was turned into something healthy that promotes healing of mind and body. Your suggestions might be good if they're followed under the guidance of a mental health professional working with a specific person

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porcupine
Community Member
5 years ago

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Oh, so all I had to do was read this post and I’m fixed?! Lookout world; there will be no more Baker Acts or treatment centers for us! This is b******t. This girl either wanted to show off her body or her drawings... A cutter’s legs do not look all pristine like that. Telling someone to draw instead of cut is like telling an alcoholic to drink water instead of alcohol. I find it impossible to listen to anything else a therapist has to say if they offer this advice as they obviously don’t know what they’re talking about or have any insight into what’s going on.

porcupine
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Downvote all you want, but I’m telling you as a person with f*****g experience THIS S**T DOES NOT WORK. The problem needs to be addressed, and this girl is taking advantage of a real problem to showcase her doodles. I’ll pm pictures of my own legs from 2 years ago to whomever asks, and I challenge you to tell me what’s different.

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Jen Love
Community Member
5 years ago

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the rest of us kept doing art and just got into BDSM. safe sane and consensual.

comboplush
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But not every BDSM enthusiast comes from a background of self harm. Just felt like I should mention it, since BDSM = self-harm is such a widely spread stereotype, especially after Secretary.

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Just.a.Potato
Community Member
5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please give it a chance, other people deal with self harm, and this is their alternative outlet. It might not seem like much to you, but for others, being just a few days clean is a huge milestone. If this technique helps someone than it’s all worth it. Remember, sometimes it takes tiny steps to reach a big goal. :)

Load More Replies...
Aramis Starfish
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

thank you for sharing. This technique has helped me too. eventually I have tattooed the places I found most pleasing to cut. Not to cover the scars. but because it shifts the mid set. I tend to be in a dissociative state when self harming so drawing on my skin or tracing the tattoos is calming and grounds me back to me. it does not produce the endorphins but also not the subsequent guilt and shame. so are helpful tools to try. Xox

Zori the degu
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It doesn't just help with depression. It helps you exercise a new-found talent(everyone is born an artist, to some extent)! I think it's a win indeed!

Joy Robinson
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I recently relapsed with self harm and have been feeling like s**t because of it. This post, seeing others who are also struggling and finding ingeniously healthy ways to cope are my inspiration. Next time I'm at the store, I'm going to buy some markers to keep with me in case I feel the urge again.

Miriam L
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Way to go! I'm sorry to hear that you've relapsed but I'm really happy that this might help you. Go buy some markers, pens, eyeliner (it's meant for skin, stays for a long time but cleans up easy, and I know of some amazing cheap ones in ink, felt tip, proper pencil or soft pencil that's amazing) or whatever inspires you. Stash a few everywhere. I believe in you. Internet hugs

Load More Replies...
Derian Syah
Community Member
5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

hello, I need to write my first comment here. After I read this, I also have similar drawing just like this pattern for past 5 years that I posted on my instagram that unfortunately already delete all my post last year and trying to repost it again now. I do have some depressing situation and also self-harm and even a suicidal thought, but every time I feeling down I trying to draw it on a paper with similar pattern and it always makes me feels better when I drew that. So I think it's a great Idea if you try to draw something rather than self-harm your body, hope if you do this also makes you feel better, doesn't matter if your drawing good or bad, as long as it can makes you feel much better.

Miriam L
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good luck on your journey towards healing. I personally struggle with mental health challenges and severe depression at times. I'm doing a lot better right now - it's actually a long story that I'm willing to share but it's probably not relatable to most people. Self harm was not usually my survival method of choice, so I don't have anything specific to say to help. Just know that I'm rooting for you. Seek out every person and resource that can bring health and stability into your life, because you deserve it. Sending internet hugs. I'm not at all trained in anything, but I am a night owl so if you ever just need someone to talk to, I might be around. Or call one of the hotlines, they're actually really great in my limited experience. I hope none of this was painful or offensive - I don't want anyone else to feel alone in their struggle and I'm not trying to be patronising or annoying

Load More Replies...
Pacer Three
Community Member
5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OMG! I can not believe this! when my grandson was in his teens he began cutting himself, this went on for a very long time. however it did stop and when it stopped I noticed that he was doing these elaborate doddles all over his arms. we actually photographed a few, but never did I ever see a connection to his cutting but it makes sense. today at 25 he travels the United States as a poet and a teacher.

Lemon Garnished Potato
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As someone who has this habit, drawing really does help. I draw people mostly, but sometimes I draw designs on myself.

Jo Choto
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My daughter started doing this when she was in her teens. It completely refocused her attention. She ended up doing all kinds of "sharpie tattoos" for herself and friends. Now she is grown, she has designed all her own tattoos (and mine) and has lots of lovely permanent art on her body.

EVERLEIGH
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm so glad that you found something to help you in place of harming. Good for you girl! Keep up the great work and congrats on your clean days! Yay!!! If I was there, I would give you a huge hug! Btw, sounds like you have a great therapist!! 👍❤

Gesine Marwedel
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

thanks for this post! i am an art therapist and wrote a book about bodypainting in therapeutic context (in german), but didnt think of this aspect. should add it in the next edition.

Bunzilla
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love this. I've never struggled with this myself, though there are some times where my depression gets bad enough where it seems somewhat tempting. If I ever do, I'll use this method instead of hurting myself with blades. My suggestion; find a marker in a colour that appeals to you.

Lsai Aeon
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm a cutter as well. I cut because it's easier to deal with the outside pain than it is the inside pain. I find, if I can afford it, a new tattoo fills this "need"

Miriam L
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope that you can find something that helps you, in this article or somewhere else. Internet hugs

Load More Replies...
Roberta Maben
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The therapist who told her to do that thank you you got into her mind and her brain to make her think she did not deserve all the bad things that happened to her and that's what we have to do as women ask women before you answer for women that's the abortion issue 2

Victor Perez
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i need some help getting my story out because when i went for help to the police they put me in a mental institution for 9 days when the story i am telling is true and i have pictures that will prove me rite and clear my name. im victor t perez from san Antonio Texas

okpkpkp
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to cut myself decades and decades ago. My mother thought I wore long-sleeved shirts to hide the tracks from shooting heroin. I was thirteen. Congrats on your success.

The Frog
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As this is nothing new.. my number of mental health nurses have also said about using my body as a canvas but to use a red marker not a razor or red ball point.. this was maybe 15 years ago now, I still haven't done it, as I didn't need to.

Cindy Richter
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I will try next time, if I am able to remember. I don't cut anymore, I got tattoos over my scars, so I wont destroy the pretty picture, but I still feel the urge to cut and feel like drowning in emotions.

Leo H
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not sure how this would actually help...people cut to basically feel something, it's a subtle cry out for help...drawing on your leg is just art and doesn't address the underlying mental health issues of self harm

Tricia Evans
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The person is already in therapy for it. So they are trying to come up with alternatives for when she feels like cutting. It’s kind of like a smoker who develops a mouth obsession sucking on lollipops when they are craving a cigarette. No it doesn’t give the same effect, but it focuses the attention away from the impulse until it passes.

Load More Replies...
Russian Otaku
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I could never cut myself... I find adding pain to my life is counterintuitive. Personally I'd rather cut others... very specific pompous douchebag others

madcow 3417
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Other suggestions: Candle wax leaves no scars. Paper trimmer blades are short enough to not risk any real damage, aka no one can pretend it's a suicide thing. Working out to the point of sore muscles is more socially acceptable and helps with depression. Same thing with physically demanding potentially dangerous jobs, like construction or some factory work.

Miriam L
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel like you mean well but this still seems potentially dangerous and unhealthy to me. Healthy levels of exercise are good, and technically pain with no long term damage is better than pain that leaves scars or can send you to the ER, but it's still seeking pain and some of those things can be dangerous. This article shows a way that the need for expressing that pain was turned into something healthy that promotes healing of mind and body. Your suggestions might be good if they're followed under the guidance of a mental health professional working with a specific person

Load More Replies...
porcupine
Community Member
5 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

Oh, so all I had to do was read this post and I’m fixed?! Lookout world; there will be no more Baker Acts or treatment centers for us! This is b******t. This girl either wanted to show off her body or her drawings... A cutter’s legs do not look all pristine like that. Telling someone to draw instead of cut is like telling an alcoholic to drink water instead of alcohol. I find it impossible to listen to anything else a therapist has to say if they offer this advice as they obviously don’t know what they’re talking about or have any insight into what’s going on.

porcupine
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Downvote all you want, but I’m telling you as a person with f*****g experience THIS S**T DOES NOT WORK. The problem needs to be addressed, and this girl is taking advantage of a real problem to showcase her doodles. I’ll pm pictures of my own legs from 2 years ago to whomever asks, and I challenge you to tell me what’s different.

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Jen Love
Community Member
5 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

the rest of us kept doing art and just got into BDSM. safe sane and consensual.

comboplush
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But not every BDSM enthusiast comes from a background of self harm. Just felt like I should mention it, since BDSM = self-harm is such a widely spread stereotype, especially after Secretary.

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Just.a.Potato
Community Member
5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please give it a chance, other people deal with self harm, and this is their alternative outlet. It might not seem like much to you, but for others, being just a few days clean is a huge milestone. If this technique helps someone than it’s all worth it. Remember, sometimes it takes tiny steps to reach a big goal. :)

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