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Internet detectives are never asleep and will continue to expose people sharing what they thought applied to others, yet in reality, unknowingly described themselves. Whether the subject matter touches on politics, human rights, or any topic in between, these posts haven’t gone unnoticed and were shared on the subreddit r/SelfAwarewolves.

Today, we have collected examples of people confidently sharing their thoughts, only to be humbled by the users in this online community. Or worse, stay ignorant of their mistakes. Either way, let us know your opinions on these claims and which ones made your eyes roll the most.

To learn more about self-awareness, Bored Panda reached out to Dr. Kinga Mnich, a social psychologist, who kindly answered our questions. Read the full interview below.

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So, So Close

So, So Close

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Bernd Herbert
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why would you need to fly out to another country for medical treatment when you already live in the greatest country in the world?

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You Had The Chance Dumba*s

You Had The Chance Dumba*s

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flower petals
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think, in every country, taking care of war veterans and their families when they need help should be considered a given. If we’re sending people to the hell that is war, it’s our damn responsibility to take care of the human consequences of that war. I think helping vets should be considered a part of the cost waging war. Shame on politicians -in any country- who use the soldiers when it suits them, and then kick vets to the curb when they’re not ‘useful’ anymore.

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Nowadays, there are more self-aware people than ever before, making it easier to spot those who are clueless. Dr. Kinga Mnich has shared her thoughts on the significance of self-awareness.

“Self-awareness is a central concept in social psychology, referring to the ability to recognize and understand one's thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Self-awareness involves reflecting on one's motivations, beliefs, and values, and being mindful of how one's actions may affect oneself and others. This is especially important in the context of online interactions, where the dynamics of virtual communication are quite different from face-to-face conversations. The lack of self-awareness in online interactions often enables people to bluntly attack others without being aware of the consequences. Sometimes content can be internalized as one's own belief system due to exposure without reflection.”

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#4

Gee, Why Hasn’t Anyone Ever Thought Of This?

Gee, Why Hasn’t Anyone Ever Thought Of This?

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Snazzy Smurf
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If independent research had been done on Planned Parenthood, I don't think all of those people would have been so eager to try and get it shut down. Texas was hit hard and not surprisingly, STI rates are up, teen pregnancies are up, kinda like everything went haywire because a safety net was taken away.

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So Close

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MaximumKarmaSaint
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Like how did this person think up to this point? "Why do you choose not to do things with me when I ask you to? Must be a woman thing."

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Why Are Only Pastors Being Arrested, And Not Drag Queens? The Op Nearly Got It

Why Are Only Pastors Being Arrested, And Not Drag Queens? The Op Nearly Got It

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Now, knowing that we cannot evolve further as people in life without at least a bit of self-awareness, we asked how people can develop and maintain mindfulness. Dr. Kinga Mnich replied: “Self-awareness is about understanding oneself, one’s strengths, weaknesses, and motivations. It involves looking inward to understand better how you can improve yourself and your relationships with others. The easiest way to start becoming self-aware is by taking more breaks before responding to something and asking yourself questions such as: Why am I thinking this? Am I really feeling this? What am I feeling? How is this connected to my values and beliefs?”

Also, to learn more about the differences between self-awareness and narcissism, feel free to read Dr. Kinga Mnich’s blog post.

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#7

So Close Yet So Far

So Close Yet So Far

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PeTeH
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Those people change their mind the instant they are in the situation...

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#8

Huh, That’s An Odd Coincidence

Huh, That’s An Odd Coincidence

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Bernd Herbert
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sigh....antivaxxers. If there were Aliens observing us, they surely would have taken some of them for studies about stupidity.

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It can be funny, sad, or even infuriating to see people so unaware of their actions that they manage to project on other people. Dr. Kinga Mnich sheds light on the causes behind such behavior.

“There are several psychological mechanisms and biases that cause people to unconsciously project their own traits or behaviors onto others while remaining unaware of their own actions. One such mechanism is projection bias, where individuals attribute their own thoughts, feelings, or motives to others without realizing it. This happens because people tend to assume that others think and feel the same way they do. Unfortunately, this bias can also lead to intolerance and discrimination because personal thoughts and beliefs are being understood as the only reality and truth.

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Another contributing factor is cognitive dissonance, which occurs when individuals feel uneasy due to holding conflicting beliefs or attitudes. To reduce this discomfort, they may project their own undesirable traits onto others to maintain a sense of consistency in their self-image.”

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They’ve Finally Come Around Full Circle!

They’ve Finally Come Around Full Circle!

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#11

Almost Like Your Political Side Is Against This Very Idea

Almost Like Your Political Side Is Against This Very Idea

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flower petals
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not all starving kids starve because their parents are jerks, many starve because so do the parents!

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So Close

So Close

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Snazzy Smurf
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6 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But, in many Red states you can have a kid as young as 10 regardless of the circumstances. Also, if it is after 6 weeks or 1864 when you find out, you are really S.O.L. ( I was referencing the 10 y/o little girl who had to travel out of state for treatment. Then, they want to prosecute the doctor for trying to bring some kindness to that child's life.)

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And lastly, Dr. Kinga Mnich shared how the phenomenon of being "called out" or "exposed" for lacking self-awareness influences people's behavior or attitudes toward self-reflection: “It can go either way. It can lead to a moment of awakening and desire to learn more about themselves. Or it can increase the subsequent behavior because someone feels shamed and pressured.”

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Dad Who Fought To Have Lgbtq Books Removed From School Arrested For Child Molestation

Dad Who Fought To Have Lgbtq Books Removed From School Arrested For Child Molestation

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flower petals
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is not uncommon at all, that the self proclaimed morality police turn out to be the creeps.. 🤢

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#14

Inject It Straight Into My F**king Veins

Inject It Straight Into My F**king Veins

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flower petals
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Politicians making decisions about increased aviation safety didn’t receive massive donations/bribes from the airlines, while politicians opposing common sense gun reform (which the majority of Americans support) have received massive donations from the weapons industry, the NRA, Putin’s Russia et c. Like somebody put it, dead kids don’t pay. Priorities, people. 🤢

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Cancel Them All!

Cancel Them All!

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Jerome Lenovo
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

hey ! stop pointing out inconsistency in maga people's behavior. Its un-amerikkkan

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Lol Yup He Nailed It

Lol Yup He Nailed It

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Conservative Accidentally Works Out Why "Ant-Gun Liberals" Want Gun Control

Conservative Accidentally Works Out Why "Ant-Gun Liberals" Want Gun Control

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#18

A Curriculum Only A Mother Could Love

A Curriculum Only A Mother Could Love

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Pittsburgh rare
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Homeschooling is such an alien concept. Can ANYONE teach their kids? Does ANYONE control what they're teaching?

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#19

Now You're Getting It

Now You're Getting It

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Luis Hernandez Dauajare
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who would have thought that the Federal Bureau of Investigation of the United States could have federal power to investigate anyone in the United States?

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#20

Twitter User Complains About Wife’s Green Card Marriage. Meanwhile At The Border

Twitter User Complains About Wife’s Green Card Marriage. Meanwhile At The Border

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I Wonder Why

I Wonder Why

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Bernd Herbert
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6 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because they do not act for the good of the people but in their own interest. Monetary that is

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#22

Do You Read What You Write Before You Post It?

Do You Read What You Write Before You Post It?

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Christian Homophobe Complaining About "Lgbt Propaganda" Asks How We'd Feel About Christians Pushing Their Religion On Others Unasked

Christian Homophobe Complaining About "Lgbt Propaganda" Asks How We'd Feel About Christians Pushing Their Religion On Others Unasked

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Alewa
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've never had any LGBT propoganda shoved in my face. Religious propaganda, yes.

Kathleen McGann
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

LGBTQ+ people don't come to my campus and stand outside the train station and try to force themselves on you. Not even once. But JWs.... About once a month we have to report them to the police for solicitation.

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The Other Guest
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"...demanding a whole month of respect to (christians)" They do, it's called "December," when people get their knickers in a twist if a coffee shop's holiday cups aren't Jesus-y enough, or someone dares to say "happy holidays" instead of "merry Christmas.

Andy Pandy
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never had LGBTQ peeps turn up at my door tryna convince me to change my views, plenty Mormons though

GhostlySnail (she/her)
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

DEmaNdiNg A wHoLE mOnTh oF ReSPeCt!!! *gasp* it’s almost like you should respect people *checks notes* ALL the time?!?! Outrageous.

Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And pride is when we get the least respect but its so worth it overall. Cant wait for june :)

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James016
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Where I live it's only the religious lot standing on the street handing out pamphlets or reading bible verses into a megaphone.

Sky Render
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ironically the only demand for "respect" I've ever seen from the LGBTQ+ community at large is respect for everyone's right to decide for themselves who they are (including not persecuting them for being different), only intervening when they become a threat to the actual safety of others. Is that really such a horrible thing?

David Martin
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One of my favorite quotes I've heard is "Religion is like a p***s; If you have one that you're proud of, that's perfectly okay, but maybe people don't want it shoved down their throat"

UpQuarkDownQuark (he/him)
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One side says, “I would like to do what I feel is right for me.” The other says, “I would like you do what I feel is right for you.”

SDLT010
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I went to Sunday school when I was little and decided to be an atheist after a while of that.

Gwyn
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The entire Republican party does this, trying to force the rest of the country to live by their religion

Rob D
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6 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Grew up steeped in it. It's vile, objectively nonsensical b******t. How people of faith don't get self conscious about how objectively stupid having an imaginary friend is is beyond me.

Doofnuts
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Excuse me sir, do you know Jesus? Of course I do, heck of a gardner.

Celtic Pirate Queen
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Huh. Wasn't aware the LGBTQ community had a recruitment agenda. On the other hand, almost every "Christian" I have ever met has tried to "recuit" me. I ended a friendship with a woman because of this very thing. Every f*cking time I saw her she tried to talk to me about Jesus. I told her REPEATEDLY that not only was I not interested, I didn't buy the bullsh*t that believing in one guy was the road to heaven, and did she realize there are THOUSANDS of organized religions on this planet, the majority of which do not pray to him? The last time she brought it up, I just asked her to pull over and let me out. I told her right then that our friendship was over. Because of Jesus? No, because you have no respect for MY beliefs or MY boundaries.

Jaguarundi
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Theists get more than a month! From before October 31st to after January 1st I defy you to avoid theist propaganda!

flower petals
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For all those in the back: IT DOES!! And it’s an around the year thing, too.

Cass Malone
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So what IS lgbtq+ propaganda? And you can say rainbow cuz those happen naturally

Ąåřţđęşịɠŋȿ
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6 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Like the "right" is trying to do in schools and government? Just as a "For instance"...

Comedy Clumbers
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's just an average Sunday out shopping accidentally after the Churches of Self-righteous hypocrites have let out.

ERMAHGERD DINOSAURS
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6 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

🤯 What in the world did I just read? Edited to correct censored word that would be unclear with 3 asterisks

JustABored1
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No one from the LGBTQ community has ever knocked on my door and asked if I wanted to learn more about their "religion"! 😅

Cassie
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've moved around a lot and never once had anybody from the LGBTQ+ community knock on my door to proselytize or hand me their literature literally everywhere I go.

axle f
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

...you have to love how these people out themselves...

Louis Wright
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Those propagating the Gospel should follow the Bible's instructions on how to do that without making enemies. Those who "shove it down people's throats" make it much harder for us who try to follow the Bible's methods. On the other hand, Satan's people will, always, blame everything on us and follow their own evil desires. They are angry at Christians because our very presence highlights their sin.

Lee
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have seen a LOT of lgbt propaganda. Especially around Pride.

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My ex-wife spread propaganda to any guy she met. "Propaganda" is what she called her v4gina.

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I don't think this person is serious. Wokes are worst at getting sarcasm.

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#24

“Race Is Not Skin Deep.”

“Race Is Not Skin Deep.”

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Bernd Herbert
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People getting worked up over the look of Fantasy characters is something I will never understand

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Yes, We Should

Yes, We Should

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I Don't Even Have Words For This Level Of Stupid

I Don't Even Have Words For This Level Of Stupid

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This Speaks For Itself Really

This Speaks For Itself Really

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You Are So Close

You Are So Close

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Pittsburgh rare
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In all fairness, you weren't mature enough to be deployed in Fallujah either.

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#30

Conservatives React To "Lightyear" Being Banned In Saudi Arabia

Conservatives React To "Lightyear" Being Banned In Saudi Arabia

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Why Are People So Mean?

Why Are People So Mean?

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Anti-Trans Campaigner Is Made To Feel Unwelcomed By Symbols Of Inclusivity

Anti-Trans Campaigner Is Made To Feel Unwelcomed By Symbols Of Inclusivity

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Anna Ekberg
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Unwelcomed, second class citizen, uncomfortable and on edge". Jeeez, I wonder how trans people must have felt during all these years? 🙄

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“Everyone Else’s Money Made My Life Possible. I, Of Course, Oppose This For Everyone Else”

“Everyone Else’s Money Made My Life Possible. I, Of Course, Oppose This For Everyone Else”

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The "Facts Don't Care About Your Feelings" Crowd Being On Brand Af

The "Facts Don't Care About Your Feelings" Crowd Being On Brand Af

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Why Aren’t The Gop Leftist?

Why Aren’t The Gop Leftist?

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Bernd Herbert
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6 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How about start voting in your interest and not against it? How about voting for actual politics and not politicians?

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