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Internet detectives are never asleep and will continue to expose people sharing what they thought applied to others, yet in reality, unknowingly described themselves. Whether the subject matter touches on politics, human rights, or any topic in between, these posts haven’t gone unnoticed and were shared on the subreddit r/SelfAwarewolves.

Today, we have collected examples of people confidently sharing their thoughts, only to be humbled by the users in this online community. Or worse, stay ignorant of their mistakes. Either way, let us know your opinions on these claims and which ones made your eyes roll the most.

To learn more about self-awareness, Bored Panda reached out to Dr. Kinga Mnich, a social psychologist, who kindly answered our questions. Read the full interview below.

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So, So Close

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Bernd Herbert
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why would you need to fly out to another country for medical treatment when you already live in the greatest country in the world?

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    You Had The Chance Dumba*s

    You Had The Chance Dumba*s

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    flower petals
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think, in every country, taking care of war veterans and their families when they need help should be considered a given. If we’re sending people to the hell that is war, it’s our damn responsibility to take care of the human consequences of that war. I think helping vets should be considered a part of the cost waging war. Shame on politicians -in any country- who use the soldiers when it suits them, and then kick vets to the curb when they’re not ‘useful’ anymore.

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    Nowadays, there are more self-aware people than ever before, making it easier to spot those who are clueless. Dr. Kinga Mnich has shared her thoughts on the significance of self-awareness.

    “Self-awareness is a central concept in social psychology, referring to the ability to recognize and understand one's thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Self-awareness involves reflecting on one's motivations, beliefs, and values, and being mindful of how one's actions may affect oneself and others. This is especially important in the context of online interactions, where the dynamics of virtual communication are quite different from face-to-face conversations. The lack of self-awareness in online interactions often enables people to bluntly attack others without being aware of the consequences. Sometimes content can be internalized as one's own belief system due to exposure without reflection.”

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    #4

    Gee, Why Hasn’t Anyone Ever Thought Of This?

    Gee, Why Hasn’t Anyone Ever Thought Of This?

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    Snazzy Smurf
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If independent research had been done on Planned Parenthood, I don't think all of those people would have been so eager to try and get it shut down. Texas was hit hard and not surprisingly, STI rates are up, teen pregnancies are up, kinda like everything went haywire because a safety net was taken away.

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    MaximumKarmaSaint
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like how did this person think up to this point? "Why do you choose not to do things with me when I ask you to? Must be a woman thing."

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    Why Are Only Pastors Being Arrested, And Not Drag Queens? The Op Nearly Got It

    Why Are Only Pastors Being Arrested, And Not Drag Queens? The Op Nearly Got It

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    Now, knowing that we cannot evolve further as people in life without at least a bit of self-awareness, we asked how people can develop and maintain mindfulness. Dr. Kinga Mnich replied: “Self-awareness is about understanding oneself, one’s strengths, weaknesses, and motivations. It involves looking inward to understand better how you can improve yourself and your relationships with others. The easiest way to start becoming self-aware is by taking more breaks before responding to something and asking yourself questions such as: Why am I thinking this? Am I really feeling this? What am I feeling? How is this connected to my values and beliefs?”

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    Also, to learn more about the differences between self-awareness and narcissism, feel free to read Dr. Kinga Mnich’s blog post.

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    So Close Yet So Far

    So Close Yet So Far

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    PeTeH
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those people change their mind the instant they are in the situation...

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    #8

    Huh, That’s An Odd Coincidence

    Huh, That’s An Odd Coincidence

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    Bernd Herbert
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sigh....antivaxxers. If there were Aliens observing us, they surely would have taken some of them for studies about stupidity.

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    It can be funny, sad, or even infuriating to see people so unaware of their actions that they manage to project on other people. Dr. Kinga Mnich sheds light on the causes behind such behavior.

    “There are several psychological mechanisms and biases that cause people to unconsciously project their own traits or behaviors onto others while remaining unaware of their own actions. One such mechanism is projection bias, where individuals attribute their own thoughts, feelings, or motives to others without realizing it. This happens because people tend to assume that others think and feel the same way they do. Unfortunately, this bias can also lead to intolerance and discrimination because personal thoughts and beliefs are being understood as the only reality and truth.

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    Another contributing factor is cognitive dissonance, which occurs when individuals feel uneasy due to holding conflicting beliefs or attitudes. To reduce this discomfort, they may project their own undesirable traits onto others to maintain a sense of consistency in their self-image.”

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    They’ve Finally Come Around Full Circle!

    They’ve Finally Come Around Full Circle!

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    Almost Like Your Political Side Is Against This Very Idea

    Almost Like Your Political Side Is Against This Very Idea

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    flower petals
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not all starving kids starve because their parents are jerks, many starve because so do the parents!

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    So Close

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    Snazzy Smurf
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    8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But, in many Red states you can have a kid as young as 10 regardless of the circumstances. Also, if it is after 6 weeks or 1864 when you find out, you are really S.O.L. ( I was referencing the 10 y/o little girl who had to travel out of state for treatment. Then, they want to prosecute the doctor for trying to bring some kindness to that child's life.)

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    And lastly, Dr. Kinga Mnich shared how the phenomenon of being "called out" or "exposed" for lacking self-awareness influences people's behavior or attitudes toward self-reflection: “It can go either way. It can lead to a moment of awakening and desire to learn more about themselves. Or it can increase the subsequent behavior because someone feels shamed and pressured.”

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    #13

    Dad Who Fought To Have Lgbtq Books Removed From School Arrested For Child Molestation

    Dad Who Fought To Have Lgbtq Books Removed From School Arrested For Child Molestation

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    flower petals
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is not uncommon at all, that the self proclaimed morality police turn out to be the creeps.. 🤢

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    Inject It Straight Into My F**king Veins

    Inject It Straight Into My F**king Veins

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    flower petals
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Politicians making decisions about increased aviation safety didn’t receive massive donations/bribes from the airlines, while politicians opposing common sense gun reform (which the majority of Americans support) have received massive donations from the weapons industry, the NRA, Putin’s Russia et c. Like somebody put it, dead kids don’t pay. Priorities, people. 🤢

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    Cancel Them All!

    Cancel Them All!

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    Jerome Lenovo
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    hey ! stop pointing out inconsistency in maga people's behavior. Its un-amerikkkan

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    Lol Yup He Nailed It

    Lol Yup He Nailed It

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    Conservative Accidentally Works Out Why "Ant-Gun Liberals" Want Gun Control

    Conservative Accidentally Works Out Why "Ant-Gun Liberals" Want Gun Control

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    A Curriculum Only A Mother Could Love

    A Curriculum Only A Mother Could Love

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    Pittsburgh rare
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Homeschooling is such an alien concept. Can ANYONE teach their kids? Does ANYONE control what they're teaching?

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    Now You're Getting It

    Now You're Getting It

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    Luis Hernandez Dauajare
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who would have thought that the Federal Bureau of Investigation of the United States could have federal power to investigate anyone in the United States?

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    Twitter User Complains About Wife’s Green Card Marriage. Meanwhile At The Border

    Twitter User Complains About Wife’s Green Card Marriage. Meanwhile At The Border

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    Blue Mar
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hypocrite - everything is ok when I can do it, but no others

    Krd
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Welcome to (modern) conservatism! Not a single policy/position they won't flip on if it currently suits their needs. What do you think J. McCarthy would say if he saw how much the current GOP is defending Russia?

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    Mark Ward
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Way too many people like this out there. My in-laws come to mind. They live in a small mid-west town where there was a street called noose lane, named as such because many years ago 3 African American guys were hung on that very street.. A few years ago there was a petition to rename the street. My FIL was outraged as it is deleting the history of his beloved town. For context, this man has two mixed grandchildren and so far 3 mixed great grandchildren. Same guy giving me a tour of the town was telling me how everything was all once mom and pop owned businesses until the Mexicans came. His wife of over 50 years is full blooded Mexican. I'm pointing my big wtf finger at you Glen!!

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    Sue User
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The op is not married to an illegal immigrant. Op's wife is following the process. OP is simply pointing ojt thst sometimes people following the process are treated worse than people who circumvent the process. I believe people should be given a legitimate path to citizenship, but still have to go through the process. I am not against immigration, and believe usa could do better. I dont like what happening at the border because i view it as a humanitarian crisis.

    WFH Forever
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am married to an immigrant who came here legally, followed all the rules and YES he can and does work and YES leave the country and come back after visiting his family. Not sure what visa this guy's wife has.....

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    BoredPamda
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not commenting on the stupidity of the post, but I worked in US immigration until a few months ago and I assure you, there are A LOT of scenarios where the situation with OPs wife can come up. When I left, work visas for spouses of US citizens were taking up to 14 months to process; travel documents were around 12. The whole process is pretty obtuse and the timelines are not always well known, so it's entirely possible that her original work/travel documents expired and she's waiting for new ones. In the meantime, she's pretty much stuck.

    Hey!
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your wife is not exactly following process if she wants to travel without a passport...

    Matthew Savestheworld
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He is an idiot but if his wife has a green card then she is by definition a legal immigrant. It sounds like she just needs to get a passport from her home country. I am in his situation as my wife has a green card but not citizenship.. A couple of years ago her passport expired because frankly we forgot about it. It was a collosal mess to get worked out. But has no bearing on refugees arriving at the border.

    Don Flynn
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    7 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There’s a lack of self awareness here that is just 🤦‍♂️ugh. Combine that and a total lack of empathy for anyone other than anyone directly connected with themselves and we have maga morons…

    PeePeePooPoo
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do I understand this correctly - He's pissed his wife cannot go out of the country - USA - to go work in another country, like Italy for exampe, Chile, whatever, because she doesn't have a passport?

    The.Butterfly.Effect.530
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Immagrants poison our blood."- splotchy orange 4x indicted w 91 criminal charges who is married to immigrants and had kids w them.

    Nitka Tsar
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just for understanding…. If she is married to him… then she isn‘t illegal, is she?

    Kathleen McGann
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You still have to apply for residency. Your reason is family unification. Without legal residency documents you are undocumented/illegal.

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    I Wonder Why

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    8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because they do not act for the good of the people but in their own interest. Monetary that is

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    Do You Read What You Write Before You Post It?

    Do You Read What You Write Before You Post It?

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    Christian Homophobe Complaining About "Lgbt Propaganda" Asks How We'd Feel About Christians Pushing Their Religion On Others Unasked

    Christian Homophobe Complaining About "Lgbt Propaganda" Asks How We'd Feel About Christians Pushing Their Religion On Others Unasked

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    Alewa
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never had any LGBT propoganda shoved in my face. Religious propaganda, yes.

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    “Race Is Not Skin Deep.”

    “Race Is Not Skin Deep.”

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    Bernd Herbert
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People getting worked up over the look of Fantasy characters is something I will never understand

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    Yes, We Should

    Yes, We Should

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    I Don't Even Have Words For This Level Of Stupid

    I Don't Even Have Words For This Level Of Stupid

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    This Speaks For Itself Really

    This Speaks For Itself Really

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    You Are So Close

    You Are So Close

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    Pittsburgh rare
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In all fairness, you weren't mature enough to be deployed in Fallujah either.

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    Conservatives React To "Lightyear" Being Banned In Saudi Arabia

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    Why Are People So Mean?

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    Anti-Trans Campaigner Is Made To Feel Unwelcomed By Symbols Of Inclusivity

    Anti-Trans Campaigner Is Made To Feel Unwelcomed By Symbols Of Inclusivity

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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Unwelcomed, second class citizen, uncomfortable and on edge". Jeeez, I wonder how trans people must have felt during all these years? 🙄

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    “Everyone Else’s Money Made My Life Possible. I, Of Course, Oppose This For Everyone Else”

    “Everyone Else’s Money Made My Life Possible. I, Of Course, Oppose This For Everyone Else”

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    The "Facts Don't Care About Your Feelings" Crowd Being On Brand Af

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    Why Aren’t The Gop Leftist?

    Why Aren’t The Gop Leftist?

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    Bernd Herbert
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    8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about start voting in your interest and not against it? How about voting for actual politics and not politicians?

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    One Of The Uvalde Officers Via An Interview With People Magazine

    One Of The Uvalde Officers Via An Interview With People Magazine

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    John Mosley
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, you had your police training, equipment and opportunity. Only thing missing was courage and the morality to value the lives of a large group of children over your own. Yeah, you were a coward.

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    #37

    Yeah Conservatives Never Censor Anyone They Disagree With, They Aren't Snowflakes!

    Yeah Conservatives Never Censor Anyone They Disagree With, They Aren't Snowflakes!

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    They're The Same Picture

    They're The Same Picture

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    An All Too Real Metaphor

    An All Too Real Metaphor

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