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Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) The way people treat animals. I'm an Indian I have seen my fair share of abuse of street dogs and other domestic animals. The way people care for their pets or in general any animal. If I have a pack of biscuits and I see a stray puppy that's looking at me, I'll always empty out the packet for it to eat. What I mean to say is, acts of compassion and kindness towards animals does tell a lot about the humanity of the person.

ChattyBot7 Report

Final score:

523points

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TJay 3 years ago

I totally judge people by how they treat animals...animal abusers suck

31points

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) People who litter. Scum of the earth

r0ll3rsk8 , John Cameron Report

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518points

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lunar eclipse 3 years ago

I wanna throw that garbage in their house so bad.

61points

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) How they treat servers, waitstaff, or hotel clerks. Nothing irritates me more than grown-ass adults who think service professionals are somehow beneath them or that they're somehow indentured servants. And how they treat janitors/custodial staff, and whether people leave more of a mess than they should because 'it’s their job to clean up after [them]

Linux4ever_Leo , Egor Gordeev Report

Final score:

488points

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BetterBitterButter 3 years ago

This. I have seen people with very high educational qualifications misbehaving and treating cleaners, waiters, gatekeepers etc and treating them like they are not humans. No matter how much schooling such people have done they are not educated.

62points

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) People who use their speakerphone for music or conversations in public places. I hate it

Billy_MacC , Aaron Goodwin Report

Final score:

477points

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Marianne 3 years ago

Rule #1: If the conversation is on speaker, it is allowed to join the conversation and ask for details.

23points

Environmental-Bit177 , Sara Kurfeß Report

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Not wearing masks properly. My job the last year has involved making sure people wear masks properly. I don’t understand people who wear it but under their nose or chin. Like what is the point?

Final score:

431points

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Hermien Greeff 3 years ago

This should be higher. Someone with the mask under the nose irritates me even more than someone with no masks. Just do it right, it is so so easy. Or people with masks that are clearly too big or loose so they have to pull it back up every 5 seconds.

68points

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Cheating. Apparently this is an unpopular opinion in the world now, but I have a severe fear of being cheated on. I think it’s horrible. So whenever I hear one of my friends talk/almost brag about cheating on their partner, I automatically lose a lot of respect for them.

Sea_Cover7486 , pixabay Report

Final score:

387points

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Giovanna 3 years ago (edited)

Well, honestly what kind of person brags about cheating on their partner?

151points

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Not liking animals. It’s one thing not to want a pet — they’re a lot of time and money. But people who say, 'I don’t like animals' get a hard side-eye from me.

Sad-Outside-7260 , PEXELS Report

Final score:

385points

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AnnaBanana 3 years ago

I don't trust ANYONE who doesn't like animals. I get it that some people prefer not to be jumped on by dogs, or having a demanding cat want to jump in their lap, but to outright say you "hate" animals is a massive warning for me that there's something not right about that person.

126points

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Not washing hands after using the toilet

vvalkir , Danny Greenberg Report

Final score:

380points

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

That's just disgusting. Judge away.

79points

#10

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) How their kids behave and their parenting choices. When the parents think a tantrum is funny or cute. I was watching a little girl throw a huge fit at a store the other day, and the mom and grandma were both giggling about how 'sassy' she was

mwalker324 , pixabay Report

Final score:

339points

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Renee Letkiewicz 3 years ago

Don't judge too much... being a parent is hard and sometimes kids can be assholes. Lol

24points

#11

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) People who have to try and dominate every discussion or have to one-up every other person who contributes to the discussion.

HealthHappy9890 , Mimi Thian Report

Final score:

322points

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Lauren Caswell 3 years ago

I was taught that sharing similar stories was a way to talk to people: with time I have learned that this is dangerously close to above behaviour of one-upping, and always try to watch myself when chatting so i dont do this reflex when im nervous. It comes across as selfish to people sometimes i think, but there was a difference in my mind anyway between one upping, or listening and letting them tell you how it felt, and sometimes sharing an experience in return, like a show of solidarity? I just don't know nowadays maybe I am coming across rude to all, not just some?

93points

I want cake 3 years ago (edited)

Apparently it's common for people with adhd to relate to people like that. I was diagnosed at 29 and it's one of the things that caused a lot of tension in y friendships growing up. I try to not do it now, or at least frame it better "Having experienced 'x' I think I can reasonably say that I have some understanding of what you're going through, if you ever want to just unload I'm here". It's hard though because to me it's the most genuine way of expressing a shared emotion or experience.

24points

Ronna Stefan 3 years ago

Same here. As a pre-teen/young teen, I was very shy and found it hard to have conversations with people who weren't already close friends. I read several articles in magazines that said to show understanding by sharing a similar experience or feeling, but I know now that some people think of that as one-upping. It is hard to change after 30 years of thinking I am showing empathy.

15points

Mrs. Jan Glass 3 years ago

Sharing stories isn't the same as one-upping, and yes, so many of us were taught that it is a way of connecting and empathizing. Interestingly, the people in my work community I know complaining that the only response to a story is to "shut up and listen" are also fond of countering everyone else's stories and legitimate concerns with "You think THAT'S bad? Try being a ___ in ____!"

13points

Mia Smith 3 years ago

I know exactly what you mean; empathy can sometimes come across as inserting your issues into the conversation in an attempt to one-up the other person. I'm always conscious of that so I mostly overcorrect the other way haha, like "yeah I totally know what you're saying, when it happened to me it wasn't nearly as bad but..." It diffuses the situation somewhat.

7points

Sarah 3 years ago

I find I do the same thing, and that sometimes my SO doesn't understand that I'm trying to show empathy by doing so, so I'm trying to do it less. To me it means, "I'm on your side," but to others it may mean, "I've got a better story than you." Personally, I find that being overly sensitive, though I may be in the wrong--but with the best of intentions.

3points

Naomi Cline 3 years ago

It’s HOW you share your experience in the conversation. I struggle with this too.

2points

AzKhaleesi 3 years ago

Trust me we know the difference of nerves and trying to join a conversation as opposed to trying to one up someone.

2points

Eslamala 3 years ago

There's a very fine line, and most of us have missed it

1point

Mona Vine 1 year ago

I have this same problem, it is hard not to look as if you are trying to one up someone who has a broken wrist or something when you have broken everything at one time or another including your neck, and still carried on going to school or work.oops I may have done it again :)

0points

Susan Egan 3 years ago

Sharing a similar story is a way to keep a conversation going. Dominating a conversation is different'. That person will interrupt your story or talk over you. They might try to edit your story or compare what you've said to a different story of theirs. One upping is like this; lets say you bought a TV for $50. a great deal. They will have gotten a "better" TV at a "better" price. In my opinion one upping is very different than telling a similar story.

0points

Derek Clark 3 years ago

Some don't do that on purpose, people with ADD and ADHD aren't aware of what they're doing. If you know somebody who has that and is dominating the discussions often to your annoyance, just talk to them about it. I always ask people to tell me if it happens, since i'm not aware of it.

5points

Erica Cochrane 3 years ago

knew a girl in HS who always had to one up you on anything, especially medical or sadness related. eventually i decided not to bother with her any more after I ran into her and told her that I'd just been at my grandfathers funeral. her response was 'THAT'S NOTHING! my grandfather is in hospital dying of cancer.' i feel like dead grandpa is higher up that dying grandpa... i said nothing and just never spoke to her again.

1point

Rain WhiteBuffalo 3 years ago

I know these people

1point

Celtic Pirate Queen 3 years ago

This is classic narcissistic behavior and also shows a serious level of insecurity. I no longer speak to my sister because of this. I finally realized that I hadn't been allowed to finish a sentence without her interrupting me in years. Obviously, nothing I had to say was of interest and it was all about her. Not even sorry.

0points

MarsFKA 3 years ago

My sister-in-law doesn't know how to conduct a conversation – she just loudly bulldozes right over the top of anyone who is talking. She is a good woman, with a heart of gold, but when I'm in the same room as her, I abandon any thought of a conversation with her.

0points

Question everything 3 years ago

After reading the comments above and yours, maybe you want to check if your SIL has ADHD. If she is a nice person, she is not bulldozing over for selfish reasons.

0points

Mo Poppins 3 years ago

Insecure & narcissistic. Self-unaware & overcompensating.

0points

Elizabeth Stewart 3 years ago

One uping drives me crazy. Not everything has to be a contest!

0points

Anon 3 years ago

Tbf I have a lot to say lol

0points

Lyn Moffett 3 years ago

Or. Two people have the EXACT same dining table bought in the EXACT same store yet one cost hundreds of pounds more!!! Piss off artists

0points

Coffeecat 3 years ago

My sister does this ALL THE TIME

0points

Red Hair Blue Soul 3 years ago

UGH. My FIL!!

0points

blue 3 years ago (edited)

My mother does this. Whenever you have a problem and are discussing it she will interupt and say What about me and make any conversation about her. I just stopped sharing

0points

SuperChicken 3 years ago

I couldn't stand those type of people.

0points

BlackPearltheSeaWing/NightWing 3 years ago

My little sister. She's always trying to one up a story of mine and sometimes makes something up to do such. It's so annoying.

0points

Canadian potato 3 years ago

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ISwBsj6eQqE

0points

Benjamin Thor Collier V 3 years ago

I especially "enjoy" those folks that -if they've truly done everything they said they've done in their lifetimes- they'd be 137 years old. C'mon, man....

0points

RadiatorAnkleSpider 3 years ago

Penelope from SNL

0points

Dre Mosley 3 years ago

I knew someone like this. A constant one-upper. I distanced myself from them.

0points

Mazer 3 years ago

I have tried to include myself in a conversation with personal experience I’ve just been shut down so screw it if you don’t want to hear what I have to say fine I’ll go elsewhere

0points

Simzabandz 3 years ago

This I hate. Like did you take your mouth and put it on your *ss to keep rudely farting on conversations with people and took your mouth to your *ss. because truly speaking, manners maketh man/woman!!! i hate this

0points

Miocha 3 years ago

Yap.

0points

Maxime Jaccon 3 years ago

I can relate. One person just speaks over everyone and says, "I was talking."

0points

Casey Marie 3 years ago

This is why I dismiss almost every coworker I’ve ever been around. You don’t need to be center of attention especially when you make basically minimum wage. Why don’t you spend more time listening and learning than telling people about your remedial life and embarrassing made up drama.

-1point

#12

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Leaving cigarette butts everywhere. Bonus judgement if it's still "fired up" and they don't care where it lands.

snikinail , janekszy46 Report

Final score:

318points

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AnnaBanana 3 years ago

I'm a smoker and I never put butts anywhere they're not supposed to go. Living in Australia and seeing catastrophic fires started by some loser flicking a lit butt out a car window makes you pretty careful!

77points

sneakertotheizm , Marie-Michèle Bouchard Report

#13

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Volume of their voice

Final score:

316points

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Donkey boi 3 years ago

My cousin talks so loud it's almost shouting. He's deaf in one ear as a result of a lightning strike. Unless someone tells him, he doesn't realise he's being so loud. So maybe don't judge...

118points

#14

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Not putting their shopping cart back. My first job was to collect carts and bag groceries. If I can put my cart away with two small children in tow, so can you!

eeznutz066 , David Clarke Report

Final score:

300points

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Giovanna 3 years ago (edited)

We have to put a coin in the carts in order to unlock them and use them. The coin gets returned when you put the cart back. I honestly have never seen carts not put back.

61points

#15

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) When the kids boss the parents around

maddiewithgoals , Jose Ibarra Report

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289points

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Giovanna 3 years ago

I can't stand it too.

47points

#16

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) The background wallpaper on their phone. Especially when it's a picture of themselves. Who puts a photo of themselves as the background photo on their phone? Weird!

floralboi , Dmitriy Tyukov Report

Final score:

268points

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Mihai Mara 3 years ago

Why are you staring in other people's phones? :D

77points

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#17

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) If you have a new phone or fancy nails and your kid has worn out shoes, I will judge the [hell] out of you.

Final score:

254points

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Martin Řezáč 3 years ago

you probably dont have kids

30points

#18

I’ve come to realize that I find negative comments about personal appearance vulgar (joking about a person’s weight, face, how old they look, etc.).
Anybody who thinks it’s funny to repeatedly joke about how ugly so-and-so is, or how fat, or how bald? UGH. It really makes the commenter seem mean and unsophisticated to me.

toonist212 Report

Final score:

251points

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JennyLaRue 3 years ago

This is why I struggle to watch any Adam Sandler movie - he always has characters there solely to insult on a personal level. It doesn't even add anything to the story

49points

#19

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Spelling . You don't know how to write 'anaerobic'? No worries mate, it's a rare word and who needs to use it anyway? But if you're unable to use their/they're/there properly, which you have literally seen being used correctly a thousand times, then I can't guarantee I will ever consider you a bright person.

Dicska , pixabay Report

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250points

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Thomas Price 3 years ago

One challenge to this is that the person may have dyslexia and therefore have difficulty with this. Got to remember you will never know what someone else’s challenges are so don’t be too quick to judge

91points

#20

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) People who gossip to me about other people. I always wonder what they say about me behind my back.

oskoMondaricci , hnd Report

Final score:

245points

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Mazer 3 years ago

I have asked people to stop I’m not interested and I will just walk away

24points

#21

How snobbish a person is about someone else's situation (information about wage, job, family situation, living situation, etc., and making a comment on it). They should try working on their feet for 10 hours in a hot, greasy kitchen before criticizing someone for 'flipping burgers

ScreechPrimus Report

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240points

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J. F. 3 years ago (edited)

Never got that attitude. Truckdrivers, cleaning personal or garbage disposal get treated like they're at the end of the career food chain. But if they would stop working the modern society would collapse within a month

77points

#22

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Bad table manners. If I’ve ever shared a meal with you and you chewed with your mouth open or made food noises, I promise that during the entire meal, I’ve fantasized about your death.

Toadie9622 , Matt Seymour Report

Final score:

234points

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Ueda 3 years ago

Don't ever go to Korea then. I used to live there and would go eating out with my colleagues very frequently. It took time getting used to the table manners there, as making a lot of noise when eating is pretty common over there. Almost everyone does it; from the teenage girl to the old man. It's just how it is.

27points

#23

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) People who constantly film their kids at recitals and things like that. Take a few pictures, then put ur devices down and actually watch it. No point in filming a 20 minute video that you’re never gonna watch again.

Also, people who go to firework shows…AND FILM THE FIREWORKS, for more than 4 seconds. That’s something you are REALLY never gonna watch again. Just live in the moment, take a couple pics, and move on

junkymonkey123 Report

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206points

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Le Vi Nguyen 3 years ago

I mean this could really depend. The parents might want to film their kids and send it to the grandparents. Some families live across the globe from each other and they would want to share special moments with their love ones.

108points

#24

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) What part of their life are they posting on social media. Especially when they post every tiny problem in a relationship on social media

evilislive13 , Kate Torline Report

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185points

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I want cake 3 years ago

I firmly believe in the theory that a healthy relationship is barely apparent on social media, because the people in it don't crave the validation to make them feel good about it. Relationships that are splashed all over social media, particularly with gushing captions about how perfect it is always give me the impression of two people trying to convince themselves.

51points

#25

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) The behavior of their dog. There are of course allowances for dogs that were adopted/rescued that weren’t trained for a period of their lives, and some dogs have reactive behavior that’s difficult to overcome even with diligent work. However, if the only reason your dog is a little [jerk] is because you don’t care enough to train them right, I’m sitting here in judgment.

EndoShota , James Barker Report

Final score:

184points

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Magpie 3 years ago

It is fine to love a pet, but for crying out loud get yourself educated on how to handle them correctly. How to make sure *their* needs are met.

48points

Dutch Swimmer Goes Viral For Super Revealing Trunks During 2024 Olympics: “Is This Legal?”

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#26

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Craving for attention. As an introvert, people who do that are very easy to notice and very annoying.

hoscct , Jessica Da Rosa Report

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172points

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Julie C Rose 3 years ago

This possibly sounds reasonable without context, but spend some time on /r/unpopularopinion and you’ll learn that a lot of Redditors have a pathological hatred of anyone who reaches out in even the most benign ways. I’ve seen them call cancer patients “attention seekers”. Multiple times.

34points

#27

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) When they talk badly about people they were acting nice towards

InternationalFace457 , naassomz1 Report

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169points

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Dynein 3 years ago

Grey area. Are we talking about being polite to strangers, then sharing what was weird about them when they are gone? Talking badly about a weird relative or friend's friend you don't like but can't avoid? There are plenty of times when you're expected to be courteous to people you don't get along with for whatever reasons, which can be exhausting so I think it's fine to vent afterwards! What crosses the line IMO is when it delves into gossip and/or when you act like outright friends with them. Thought the line can be difficult to define across personal and cultural differences.

29points

#28

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) How open they are to differing opinions. There are certain people who immediately get defensive or shut down the whole discussion when they disagree with something, instead of having an actual conversation about it.

crazy_cosmonaut , jamesoladujoye Report

Final score:

166points

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AnnaBanana 3 years ago

People who think in black and white drive me nuts!

23points

#29

How you prioritize your money. Not how you spend it as I couldn’t care less if you can afford it, but if you’re the type of person who’s tight on money and spending it willy nilly or spending out of your means and justifying it, then your ceiling for being a bright person drops significantly. One of my exes said they had $40 in their bank account during the peak of the pandemic. She had no job and she thought she earned going to get a manicure and blowing even more than what she could afford since I think she needed to borrow money to make up for the cost. I told her that was a stupid purchase and she kept trying to justify it by saying it’s been too long and that she felt like she earned herself a treat. No. If you have $40, your treat could potentially be a McFlurry from the drive thru. Not a manicure

I want to clarify again it’s not like getting a manicure is bad, but prioritizing it when you have $40 to your name is freaking moronic

PillsburyToasters Report

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164points

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Giovanna 3 years ago

I agree with you. It's an incredibly childish behaviour.

44points

Woman Put A Water Fountain With A Camera In Her Yard, Here Are 24 Photos Of Regular Visitors (New Pics)

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#30

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) People who are involved with MLMs I think they are untrustworthy or somewhat dumb.

newstart3385 , pixabay Report

Final score:

160points

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Monday 3 years ago

MLM - mulit-level marketing. Companies like Avon or Herbalife that encourage their employees to recruit people below them in order to make money. You make more money tricking others into signing up as a seller than you do from actually selling the product. It's essentially a pyramid scheme that has somehow managed to stay in the legal grey zone.

50points

#31

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Parents who try to convince me to let their kid in a ride when they’re not big enough. Even when I tell them it’s for their own safety and the restraints aren’t designed for smaller people. It’s like they don’t care if their kid gets majorly hurt.

Also parents who force their kids on rides they don’t want to get on. Traumatizing them and making them fear rides in general, but also not realizing that kids OFTEN try to climb out if rides they’re scared of, which is very dangerous!

mpmwrites , josepons28 Report

Final score:

159points

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J. F. 3 years ago (edited)

I remember the times I was forced to get into rollercoasters, totally not a horror ride for children with a fear of heights

23points

#32

If you speed up to block someone with their turn signal on, you will be judged.

Ennion Report

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148points

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Karl Baxter 3 years ago

Good road manners and consideration for one’s fellow motorist tends to cause a positive ripple effect as the person you let into the traffic flow/cross lanes/give way for, etc is likely (in the name of good karma) to extend the same courtesy to another motorist and so on and so forth. Of course some drivers will always be selfish idiots but they’re the exception.

4points

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#33

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) How they treat their coworkers

Seam0re , tumisu Report

Final score:

148points

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J. F. 3 years ago

Always take a look on how people treat the janitor and/or the cleaning staff.

39points

SquilliamFancySon95 , Eden, Janine and Jim Report

#34

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) If I go to use the bathroom in their house and it's crusty, dusty, and covered in hair and God knows what else.

Final score:

142points

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N G 3 years ago

Ew Ew Ew Ew!

19points

#35

Taking video/FaceTime calls walking around the grocery store. Generally any public speaker phone/broadcast of their private sh*t like conversations and music. What the f**k have we come to with the combo of disregard for others and the narcissism?

Coffeedemon Report

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138points

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TK 421 3 years ago

I do the FaceTime thing when I’m sent on a mission by my wife for some weird grocery item and have no clue what I’m looking for. Typically, I’m in the wrong store, and I am fairly certain that she does that to me on purpose.

45points

#36

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) What they say about their kids in social media. I get that being a parent is hard, and it’s okay to talk/vent/be real about that online, but sometimes people cross the line and talk about their kids as if they’re not real people, just because they’re not grown and don’t have a Facebook account. People should imagine what their kids would think if they were all grown up and reading your internet history. If you think they would be hurt by what you said, don’t post it

adamislolz , Vitolda Klein Report

Final score:

132points

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Giovanna 3 years ago

To me, in general, would be posting your children's pictures on Facebook or Instagram. Some people use their kids to get followers. I think this is borderline criminal.

42points

Woman Moves Out Of Parents' Home After They Asked Her To Give Her Space To Brother, They Freak Out

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#37

People who act like the "anti-hero" in their own story. It seems more people I see these days dont want to be the hero in their own lives but want to be the "complex dark villain with a tragic past and stone cold appearance, but have a heart of gold" it's like no. Dave with your 4 bedroom 2 story house that your parents helped buy after you graduated university, and you now live in with your 2 kids and loving wife, are not an anti-hero and posting things like, "I'm a calm man but mess with me and I will break your bones" does not make you cool or complex.

Character-Fail-6542 Report

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131points

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albernistuff 4sale 3 years ago

We are all the protagonist in our own lives. We grow up seeing ourselves as the good guy in order to delude ourselves that we haven't REALLY hurt anyone. Later in life, when you reflect on your behaviour, it is then you find your were the villain in someone else's story

4points

#38

People who can’t get another person’s name right in an email conversation. It’s literally right there in my signature; there’s no excuse for calling me by the wrong name. Drives me crazy. I can sign off with my first name and have it in my signature, and people still reply, 'Hi, [Surname.]' [Screw] those guys. It’s not even a surname that could be mistaken for a first name. It just looks a wee bit foreign, so their brain stops working

s_oam Report

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120points

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Hermien Greeff 3 years ago

I got an email this weekend from a copywriter, and she spelled my name completely wrong. Guess who did not get the job.

40points

Woman Refuses To Chip In For Babysitting Because She Doesn’t Even Have Kids, Asks If She’s A Jerk

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#39

I have an acquaintance who posts things about herself In the third person via inspirational memes. For example ( one of ten a week): “ She weathered the storm and trudged through the lightening because the electricity of the pain only ignited her fuel to accomplish more” ( I made that up but you get the picture). I judge this. I think it’s pathetic.

chafingbuttcheex Report

Final score:

108points

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Nat Hedley 3 years ago

I judge people who link up with people they clearly don't like on social media just to get the +1 to their friends count.

36points

harperthehomemaker , Nathan Dumlao Report

#40

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) What they name their kids.

Final score:

102points

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Kat 3 years ago

I think it isn't anyone's business what I name my kids. Even when these names are weird (which they are not, just noting that).

28points

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#41

When they curse at their children or pets. I curse a whole lot but never at children or animals.

_TallulahShark Report

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48points

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AnnaBanana 3 years ago

I'll admit I swear at my dog very occasionally. He doesn't know what I'm saying.

15points

#42

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) What the inside of their car looks like.

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48points

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Chich 3 years ago

It just takes your ass from point A to point B. As long as it isn't a moving trash bin its OK. People who obsess over their vehicles, that is a worry

22points

#43

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) How often they complain

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47points

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Giovanna 3 years ago

I am particularly annoyed by people who complain and do nothing to change the situation. It's like they dont want to be better or improve things, they just want a reason to complain, commiserate themselves and have a justification to say "oh poor me".

25points

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#44

If they used to drink and then stop and then cant shut up about how evil alcohol is

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47points

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AnnaBanana 3 years ago

Nothing worse than a reformed anything!

27points

#45

Their driving

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36points

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Boudewijn van der Mik 3 years ago

Tssss, according to the Autoweek magazine, more than 90 % of the motorists believe they are much better drivers then the average.

1point

#46

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Men with unkept fingernails. If you intentionally have long nails that are manicured or styled that’s super chill. I’m talking about men who just do not cut their fingernails. It leads me to assumptions or st least questions about overall hygiene.

seeoharewhy13 · Report

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33points

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

Nope, sorry, don't agree with this one. Quite often men who work in the building industry, car industry etc will end up with crappy hands including nails. My hubby has awful nails, and he literally scrubs his hands and nails, but the concrete does cause damage and gloves only protect so much. My brother also has crappy hands and nails working in the car industry. None of these have anything to do with hygiene.

56points

#47

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Wearing sunglasses inside

daddyshakespear , pixabay Report

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26points

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Elin Noller 3 years ago

Some ppl have very sensitive eyes.

33points

#48

People posting their grades online

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14points

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H Moore 3 years ago

People who post lists of criticisms about other peoples behaviour and appearance on websites

23points

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ivan bolitekurac 3 years ago

When people walk dogs without a leash and then say "my dog is harmless" while the dog is braking or growling.There are people out there who are afraid of dogs but the asshole owners think that every inch of the outside world is theirs

22points

WildHoneyPie 3 years ago

Yes and the "my dog's friendly" crowd. Well mine isn't! There's a reason I have her sit down at your approach and turn my back to you and your friendly dog. Don't blame us if she makes her (very) anti-social feelings known at that point.

1point

Kristen Bellefeuille 3 years ago

My mom got bit by a dog who's owner said oh it's okay to pass she's mouthy but harmless...yea the 25 stitches and rabies shot say otherwise.

0points

Vicky Z 3 years ago

I also judge these idiots spambots!! Enough with this s**t

0points

MonsterMum 3 years ago

I bumped into an old friend who mentioned in conversation that 'foreign people smell'. I judged and haven't kept in touch. They wouldn't consider themselves racist!

15points

Tim Pillinger 3 years ago

Everyone smells. We just don't notice people who smells we are used to.

4points

J Farr 3 years ago

People who worship QAnon and Trump like a religion. Jesus forgave those that put him on the cross. Trump wants only glory and power for himself. He will not look out or care for anyone unless there is something in it for him.

10points

L Johnson 1 year ago

Trumps latest comments, he makes himself sound like a savior...no people, he's a nazi and has quoted Hitler at length. Wake up people!!!

0points

Coleby G 3 years ago

A lot of these don’t bother me because I don’t care what people do with there lives as long as they aren’t hurting anyone. You guys and gals should try it out sometime

7points

s. vitkovitsky 3 years ago

But then, how will BP readers be able to feel superior??

1point

Jen Perea 3 years ago

Overall, I judge people who judge people. Any kind of a blanket or absolute statement about "this kind of person".... I can't get behind any of it. I'm sure that there are people in the world who have a reason to have an absolute but I personally cannot think of any situation where I can't be open to at least the other person HAVING a side of the story. So I always assume their side of the story is very strong and positive. I'd rather know why someone gets behind am idea so I can understand their values than judge them based on mine.

7points

Getthepopcornout 3 years ago

Wish I could upvote this more. Everyone makes flash judgements (it's natural) but if you then do not have the reasoning or ability to challenge this assumption then you need to take a look at yourself. There are ALWAYS exceptions and often reasons we cannot see or even comprehend.

1point

Kyle D 3 years ago

People but mostly coworkers who curse WAY too much. I'm not a complete prude. I curse when I'm alone, mostly in my car, but in a work setting certainly, someone who uses them in every sentence, I get ocular pain from the eye rolling.

6points

Memere 3 years ago

I've actually thrown books in the recycling bin due to nonstop swearing in them! And when people say "oh, my cursing doesn't mean anything", I tell them "then everything you say has no meaning" and walk away.

0points

Radek Suski 3 years ago

people using "u" and "ur" instead of "You" and "Your". I get where it comes from but these days there is no valid reason for it. Plus I always have to think about "urine"

6points

Sergio Bicerra 3 years ago

Yeah, I get u.

16points

Mrs. Jan Glass 3 years ago

I will 100% judge for textspeak, especially in non-text situations. If you are not Prince, stop using U and UR!

1point

Jen Perea 3 years ago

Wouldn't "ur" actually be "you're"?

1point

Ueda 3 years ago

I judge people who judge others based on a single personality trait.

5points

Sakeena 3 years ago

Lying is a single personality trait, and I absolutely judge people who lie. all. the. time.

2points

Sergio Bicerra 3 years ago

When they call you and cry a river about their partner, and the minute you hang up they've posted about how striong, independant, and loving to be single. Ffs, nobody believes you.

4points

Natalie Oleander 3 years ago

Umm a lot of these are not actually "secrets."

2points

GirlFriday 3 years ago

I judge people who smoke in non-smoking areas - we have a designated outdoor smoking area at work so the smoke doesn't blow back into the buildings and we always have one or two people that think they are too cool to walk over there. I judge them so hard.

2points

Memere 3 years ago

I'm a smoker & I always make sure I'm in the smoking area - the jerks who won't walk an extra 10 feet or so are the ones who get the smoking areas moved farther away or removed entirely!

0points

Nat Jones 3 years ago (edited)

When parents let kids squealing or screaming! Nails on a chalkboard for me. Totally unnecessary...😱 P.S. I don't mind if they're yelling or shouting...🙂

1point

Tam StaR 3 years ago

People who don't use a turn signal when driving.

1point

Ekate 3 years ago

Thank you! This is what I needed, one more aggressively judging post for me to realise I need to quit this awful site! It used to be uplifting, light, funny or inspiring - now it is just this horrible backbiting crap. Easy fix, though! Account = DEACTIVATE!

1point

Jessica Aubé 3 years ago

I have to stop reading these articles … everytime I’m like wow people judge me on this ??? Honestly the human race is such a miserable collection of unhappy people and I would prefer to live in my happy bubble of assuming no one is judging me just because I don’t measure up to their bullshit expectations

1point

Memere 3 years ago

I try to not be judgmental, but when I see people commenting "I SEEN this on sale & couldn't resist", or "I SEEN the cutest little ______ at the park today" it makes me want to scream! NO, you SAW the item on sale, or you SAW the cute thing at the park...grrrrr

1point

Diana 3 years ago

People who take the mbti personalities way too seriously

1point

cassiushumanmother 3 years ago

Like "i'm an a$$hole but the mbti test i took said so, so i won't change" ?

0points

mutzolina 3 years ago

When people have fat kids. I think its child abuse, if you feed your kid just fast-food and other junk. Makes me always so angry at the parents!

1point

Jessica Aubé 3 years ago

For me I have a few grey areas with this .. I have a son who was like insanely skinny for years and suddenly he blew up almost over night . I was so worried . Turns out he was hitting a growth spurt and he’s thinning out again . For me it depends on the age of the child , a teenager or almost teenager is hard to monitor .. but yes I struggle with this a lot .. I have a friend who’s child has been morbidly obese since he was about three and is now eight and I secretly judge the s**t out of her and I feel bad because she’s a genuinely lovely person .. but with the exception of some disabilities or metabolic disorders or a growth spurt etc young kids who are obese infuriate me .. it’s absolutely child abuse

1point

anarkzie 3 years ago

People that swear at their kids.

1point

Dude! 3 years ago

I had a family friend that swore at her kids. She was very upset when her son started flipping her off. Monkey see, monkey do!

3points

John L 3 years ago

My personal one, black fingernail polish. For some reason, it grosses me out.

1point

H.L.Lewis 3 years ago

Tongue studs and other facial piercings. But you know it's their body. I don't have to date them. But yes I am grossed out by them. I see it as self mutilation.

0points

Q B F T 3 years ago

Self-described and proud "grammar Nazis". They are usually able to use language proficiently themselves, but tend to have zero actual knowledge *about* language. I've never met a grammar nazi who has studied language at master's level or above - once they get to a certain level, linguists tend to be pretty zen about "mistakes". So, if you complain about "literally" vs "figuratively" or whatever, it marks you out in my eyes as an amateur.

1point

Joyce Blodgett 1 year ago

This is probably a one-off, but people who judge the death of one's child as being "most likely suicide," when it absolutely was not. My son died in a hunting accident 15 1/2 years ago when his gun misfired and ended his life. He did NOT commit suicide; he loved life, he loved his family, he had two great jobs that brought him a lot of joy. But there have been those who have said, "OH, sure! He just "accidentally" shot himself...riiiighht!" as if they knew him. They know nothing, and it adds immensely to the grief and pain of losing him. So now I feel like I'm lying when I say he died in an accident, and leave out the GSW part of it. DON'T JUDGE SOMEONE'S DEATH!

0points

Nat Jones 3 years ago

People who are intolerate of other people's cultures....& The Dutch! I'm kidding! 😆♥️

0points

Nat Jones 3 years ago

Parents scrolling on mobile phones whilst their kids are at the park, playground or swimming pool. I find this heartbreaking when a child achieves something they find great & look to see if their parent noticed...no. Too busy to smile, clap, thumbs up or engage with their child's childhood. They are only little once! 😔🚸🎠🏞️

0points

Abby Parker 3 years ago

Fireworks in the daytime o_o

0points

mutzolina 3 years ago

I agree, some kids are just chubby, and thats perfectly ok. I mean parents who feed their kids just fastfood, sweets and other junk and make their kids morbidly obese. As parents, we choose what comes on the table. If you are already feeding your toddler french fries, you are already setting them down on a very dangerous and unhealthy road.

0points

Jan Jansen 3 years ago

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0points

Kevin Hickey 3 years ago

People who say "These days....blah blah blah..." or "Back in the old days....this and that..." You're not special. You don't live in special times. Old people said the same things about your generation when you were young. Same as it ever was, same as it ever was.

0points

William Teach 3 years ago

People who manufacture problems/turn ant hills into mountains so they can then play The Victim. People these days want to be The Victim.

0points

Piet Puk 3 years ago

How religious people are, I mean, come on, you should know better.

-2points

Jen Perea 3 years ago

Should know better? That's a big statement. I'm not super religious, idc what people believe or how they convince themselves that getting up today is, ya know, worth it. But what is the better you speak of? As far as I know, there is no concrete knowledge that completely DISPROVES ALL religions. Some controversy, sure. Some overlap, definitely. Where is this knowledge you have that so 100% infallible that you can disprove the existence of a concept that predates civilization?

0points

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ivan bolitekurac 3 years ago

22points

WildHoneyPie 3 years ago

1point

Kristen Bellefeuille 3 years ago

My mom got bit by a dog who's owner said oh it's okay to pass she's mouthy but harmless...yea the 25 stitches and rabies shot say otherwise.

0points

Vicky Z 3 years ago

I also judge these idiots spambots!! Enough with this s**t

0points

MonsterMum 3 years ago

I bumped into an old friend who mentioned in conversation that 'foreign people smell'. I judged and haven't kept in touch. They wouldn't consider themselves racist!

15points

Tim Pillinger 3 years ago

Everyone smells. We just don't notice people who smells we are used to.

4points

J Farr 3 years ago

10points

L Johnson 1 year ago

Trumps latest comments, he makes himself sound like a savior...no people, he's a nazi and has quoted Hitler at length. Wake up people!!!

0points

Coleby G 3 years ago

A lot of these don’t bother me because I don’t care what people do with there lives as long as they aren’t hurting anyone. You guys and gals should try it out sometime

7points

s. vitkovitsky 3 years ago

But then, how will BP readers be able to feel superior??

1point

Jen Perea 3 years ago

7points

Getthepopcornout 3 years ago

1point

Kyle D 3 years ago

6points

Memere 3 years ago

0points

Radek Suski 3 years ago

people using "u" and "ur" instead of "You" and "Your". I get where it comes from but these days there is no valid reason for it. Plus I always have to think about "urine"

6points

Sergio Bicerra 3 years ago

Yeah, I get u.

16points

Mrs. Jan Glass 3 years ago

I will 100% judge for textspeak, especially in non-text situations. If you are not Prince, stop using U and UR!

1point

Jen Perea 3 years ago

Wouldn't "ur" actually be "you're"?

1point

Ueda 3 years ago

I judge people who judge others based on a single personality trait.

5points

Sakeena 3 years ago

Lying is a single personality trait, and I absolutely judge people who lie. all. the. time.

2points

Sergio Bicerra 3 years ago

When they call you and cry a river about their partner, and the minute you hang up they've posted about how striong, independant, and loving to be single. Ffs, nobody believes you.

4points

Natalie Oleander 3 years ago

Umm a lot of these are not actually "secrets."

2points

GirlFriday 3 years ago

2points

Memere 3 years ago

I'm a smoker & I always make sure I'm in the smoking area - the jerks who won't walk an extra 10 feet or so are the ones who get the smoking areas moved farther away or removed entirely!

0points

Nat Jones 3 years ago (edited)

When parents let kids squealing or screaming! Nails on a chalkboard for me. Totally unnecessary...😱 P.S. I don't mind if they're yelling or shouting...🙂

1point

Tam StaR 3 years ago

People who don't use a turn signal when driving.

1point

Ekate 3 years ago

1point

Jessica Aubé 3 years ago

1point

Memere 3 years ago

1point

Diana 3 years ago

People who take the mbti personalities way too seriously

1point

cassiushumanmother 3 years ago

Like "i'm an a$$hole but the mbti test i took said so, so i won't change" ?

0points

mutzolina 3 years ago

When people have fat kids. I think its child abuse, if you feed your kid just fast-food and other junk. Makes me always so angry at the parents!

1point

Jessica Aubé 3 years ago

1point

anarkzie 3 years ago

People that swear at their kids.

1point

Dude! 3 years ago

I had a family friend that swore at her kids. She was very upset when her son started flipping her off. Monkey see, monkey do!

3points

John L 3 years ago

My personal one, black fingernail polish. For some reason, it grosses me out.

1point

H.L.Lewis 3 years ago

Tongue studs and other facial piercings. But you know it's their body. I don't have to date them. But yes I am grossed out by them. I see it as self mutilation.

0points

Q B F T 3 years ago

1point

Joyce Blodgett 1 year ago

0points

Nat Jones 3 years ago

People who are intolerate of other people's cultures....& The Dutch! I'm kidding! 😆♥️

0points

Nat Jones 3 years ago

0points

Abby Parker 3 years ago

Fireworks in the daytime o_o

0points

mutzolina 3 years ago

0points

Jan Jansen 3 years ago

This comment has been deleted.

0points

Kevin Hickey 3 years ago

0points

William Teach 3 years ago

People who manufacture problems/turn ant hills into mountains so they can then play The Victim. People these days want to be The Victim.

0points

Piet Puk 3 years ago

How religious people are, I mean, come on, you should know better.

-2points

Jen Perea 3 years ago

0points