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“Clothes Have No Gender”: This School’s Students Celebrated November 4th ‘Wear A Skirt To School Day’ And The Internet Is Divided
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“Clothes Have No Gender”: This School’s Students Celebrated November 4th ‘Wear A Skirt To School Day’ And The Internet Is Divided

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Who said wearing a skirt should have to be specifically a girl’s thing anyway? This is exactly what part of the world has been asking itself as of late.

Castleview Primary School of Edinburgh, Scotland recently tweeted how their P6 class wanted to take part in supporting the #ClothesHaveNoGender initiative. While there were people who cheered the kids on, the tweet has inevitably sparked a bit of a debate. But let’s start at the beginning…

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Whoever said skirts have to be a girls-only thing? In fact, a fight for equal clothes rights is going on right now

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Back in October of 2020, a Spanish student by the name of Mikel Gomez wore a skirt to school. Because of this, he got expelled—yes, expelled.

In response to this, some of his male teachers decided to flip the school off by wearing skirts to school, thus expressing their support for Mikel and subsequently giving rise for the #ClothesHaveNoGender campaign.

There was a whole TikTok about it and whatnot. Because of all this, there is now a “wear a skirt to school” day that’s celebrated every year on November 4.

A class of students in this Scottish school decided they want to celebrate the Wear A Skirt To School day, and the school was all for it

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So, this year, the Castleview Primary School, located in Edinburgh, Scotland, had a group of its students ask for support for this very initiative. In particular, the school’s leadership team got a request to support #ClothesHaveNoGender (originally, #LaRopaNoTieneGenero), which the school did gladly.

“We promote respect, tolerance and understanding and we want our school to be inclusive and promote equality,” wrote the school in their tweet.

The day aims to celebrate clothing equality after a male student in Spain wore a skirt and got suspended for it

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A mom of a student who attends the school even shared just how dedicated the kids were regarding this. Mother Nicola, with whom Bored Panda got in touch, shared a picture of her son Ethan sporting a skirt, smiling, all thumbs up in support of this equal-rights initiative.

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“The majority of upper school took part, some P6 boys wore their skirts once in school on the Friday too. Less lower school boys took part, but I think that’s because they are still young,” explained Nicola. “The school [and its students were] mostly supportive. Ethan enjoyed taking part as he was happy to show his support.”

Well, unfortunately, not everything is all butterflies and rainbows as, despite there being much support for the students with skirts, the school’s tweet sparked debates and discussions on the topic.

Ethan is one of Castleview Primary’s students who actively expressed support for #ClothesHaveNoGender

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However, the school’s now viral tweet ended up sparking social debates online

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For the most part, some more conservative people were saying that the parents and the school ought to let kids be kids, and not be dragged into social and political commentaries. Others called it a disgrace, a mess and pure lunacy as there have to be boundaries (assuming gender).

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“I think there was push back as some people were using it to fit there own narrative and it wasn’t about most things they were discussing—it was our kids showing support for another child and also the school supporting the kids in there choice,” elaborated Nicola. “The school makes sure the kids feel they have a safe space to express themselves and know that they can express they’re own views and opinions.”

Not everyone was happy about the initiative, claiming that it won’t end well

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But let’s keep it positive, shall we? At the end of the day, the kids are raising awareness and helping those who need support to be themselves. Others also pointed out that nobody really forced the kids to do this—they got inspired and petitioned the school to help out, so this is all them here, ladies and gents.

And, many came to support the class and their fight for clothing equality. The school is empowering these kids, giving them a voice to say what they stand for. If anything, it’s good that it generates debates and discussions and makes people think about these issues.

Others, on the other hand, were all in favor of #ClothesHaveNoGender and thought the students did the right thing

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This bit of news is just one cog in the machine that is a rising movement. There was also one other notable gathering that made the news. Namely, it was a group of boys from Isca Academy in Exeter who decided to protest the no-skirts policy by doing just that—wearing skirts.

And we can’t forget Connor Keaney, the man who set out to prove that clothes have no gender by wearing skirts and dresses. You can read more about Keaney and his endeavor right here on Bored Panda.

“I think it is now part of the curriculum in Britain to cover these topics, and if other schools wanted to show support, they can,” said Nicola. “It’s whether the kids want to do things as they are the ones who choose. The school shows equality and helps kids understand resilience.”

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“I feel that some of the negative comments that have been directed at parents such as myself and others and the school and teachers is disgusting and the vitriolic comments that have been made are vile,” concluded Nicola.

“These people are entitled to there own views and opinions in the subject, but not to personally attack us for what we support our children doing. At the end of the day, we have open communication with our children and with the school to have these important conversations and then support our children in their choices. Isn’t that what it should be about?”

We’d love to hear what you think about all of this. Let us know your thoughts in the comment section below!

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ZAPanda
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

so what fascinates me is that this furore is in scotland... the country where men OFFICIALLY wear skirts in front of the queen no less. AKA kilts. Like really, are you that thick?

Samantha Lomb
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love how people assume really modern gender norms ( pink for girls blue for boys, skirts for girls only etc) are "traditional" and immutable. But its usually a cloak for some kind of phobia ( homophobia, trans phobia, misogyny etc) in my experience.

Pezor Zass
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

men in skirts should totally be commonplace. lots of guys have great legs, for one thing.

Tami
Community Member
3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And if a macho look is desired, just add some gladiator sandals.

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Goth mouse (they/them)
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If girls can choose between a skirt or trousers then all kids should, clothes are clothes! Cant believe someone thought a skirt was ‘stupid and dangerous’ 🤦🏻 I wear ‘girls’ clothes all the time and have never come across a deadly skirt 😂

Mazer
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Men wearing non trouser clothing is done all over the world, has been for centuries. The kilt in Scotland, the sulu in Fiji, in Greece it’s the fustanella, in Burma men wear the paschou, in Butan it’s the Gho, teachers might want to add this to their curriculum

Nikki Sevven
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No one would think it weird if I, a woman, wore a three-piece suit. Or jeans. Or combat boots. Why can't a man wear a skirt?

Samantha Lomb
Community Member
3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm assuming that because in a lot of countries they originated in strongly gendered "traditional" religious schools. And in Spain there is a long ugly history of support for discriminatory measures against groups that violated "Catholic gender norms" ( unwed mothers, LGBTQ) at the hands of the fascists that ruled until the 1970s. People forget fascism in Europe did not go away with the death of Hitler

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Casey McAlister
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I guess something similar was happening when women started wearing trousers. I'm sure some people called it insanity. Now, however, it's absolutely normal(for most people). The same should happen to men in skirts.

Joseph Cheung
Community Member
3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it involves some misogy. Women were not allowed to wear pants because it was associated with work, and it was too "masculine" and rebellious. Basically, women were not good enough to wear pants, but with skirts, its the opposite. Skirts represent to many "traditional femininity" (submissive, less smart, etc) so men (who are suppose to be "masculine") are discouraged from wearing skirts. Same with men in nursing, its like "failed doctor". Explains the "dangerous" comment, "feminization of men" (so cringe) is the fear men will be on the same lower level as women.

D Peterson
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This sh*t must stop. People are people, no matter what color, sexual orientation, race, sex, etc. . . . . .

Random Anon
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm more centrist when it comes to these things and even I think, we the graying folks, need to let the younger generation define societal norms more. We aren't much longer in this world, what would be the point of blocking change because we are uncomfortable with it?

Cassie
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd like to know in what manner that one commenter thinks wearing a skirt is dangerous.

MorgothBauglir
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Everything here should be based on free choice and free will. Do males want to wear a skirt? Sure, go for it. No one else should tell you what you can and cannot wear (outside of your parents).

Stefan
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What if a kid didn't agree with wearing a skirt ? Was he obliged to do it anyway ?

Stephanie IV
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3 years ago (edited)

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Children need to learn to obey rules. Whether wearing gendered clothing is a good rule or not maybe isn’t the real issue. Maybe the issue is disruptive behavior. Wearing a skirt to school is could very easily be done just to provoke and/or to get attention. If we allow pupils to turn school into some kind of audience for their flamboyance, and teachers get suckered into taking sides I think it illustrates exactly why the school didn’t want the boy to ignore gender rules. And just turning a blind eye isn’t such a great idea either. I don’t mind boys wearing skirts. I wouldn’t want pupils to focus on what others and themselves are wearing. If the pupils would shrug the shoulders and go back to their work, skirts for boys aren’t an issue. If the rest of the school is all agog because of it, I’d voice my concern in assembly.

O-man The Human
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3 years ago

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Honestly. I think that it's a little counter productive-- don't draw attention to it, just let students wear whatever. As a bi guy, I honestly think that we need to start just not giving a s**t. Like when I came out my parents were like 'cool. Did you do your homework?' And i want that for pretty much anyone, it's pretty much my best case scenario

Osgood_7
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I see where you're going, and it would be amazing if it were the case for every LGBTQIA person to have that immediate acceptance, but we are very far from that. To gain the kind of acceptance you describe, people first have to accept that those identities exist, and that only happens when they are visible. When you say "don't draw attention", it's very easy for that to become "just don't do it (ie exist) in public", which is really just excluding people from having the same kind of social life afforded to straight/cisgender people. We deserve to exist in public spaces.

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Stefan
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3 years ago

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I don't get why the student wanted to wear a skirt at first place. I don't find the explanation.

Aski Markup
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3 years ago

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The thing with this situation is that alot of the boys didn't want to do it. And it was being enforced. In this day and age, this is unacceptable. If you want to do it, fine. But don't force others to do it.

Got Myself 4 Dwarves
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It wasn't enforced. We have tons of different days to wear something other than uniform - wear pink for cancer, jeans for jeans, pj days, dress as a character etc and they're totally optional

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Bill
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3 years ago

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Is this where US education is putting its focus? While reading and math skills crater.

ZAPanda
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

so what fascinates me is that this furore is in scotland... the country where men OFFICIALLY wear skirts in front of the queen no less. AKA kilts. Like really, are you that thick?

Samantha Lomb
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love how people assume really modern gender norms ( pink for girls blue for boys, skirts for girls only etc) are "traditional" and immutable. But its usually a cloak for some kind of phobia ( homophobia, trans phobia, misogyny etc) in my experience.

Pezor Zass
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

men in skirts should totally be commonplace. lots of guys have great legs, for one thing.

Tami
Community Member
3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And if a macho look is desired, just add some gladiator sandals.

Load More Replies...
Goth mouse (they/them)
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If girls can choose between a skirt or trousers then all kids should, clothes are clothes! Cant believe someone thought a skirt was ‘stupid and dangerous’ 🤦🏻 I wear ‘girls’ clothes all the time and have never come across a deadly skirt 😂

Mazer
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Men wearing non trouser clothing is done all over the world, has been for centuries. The kilt in Scotland, the sulu in Fiji, in Greece it’s the fustanella, in Burma men wear the paschou, in Butan it’s the Gho, teachers might want to add this to their curriculum

Nikki Sevven
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No one would think it weird if I, a woman, wore a three-piece suit. Or jeans. Or combat boots. Why can't a man wear a skirt?

Samantha Lomb
Community Member
3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm assuming that because in a lot of countries they originated in strongly gendered "traditional" religious schools. And in Spain there is a long ugly history of support for discriminatory measures against groups that violated "Catholic gender norms" ( unwed mothers, LGBTQ) at the hands of the fascists that ruled until the 1970s. People forget fascism in Europe did not go away with the death of Hitler

Load More Replies...
Casey McAlister
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I guess something similar was happening when women started wearing trousers. I'm sure some people called it insanity. Now, however, it's absolutely normal(for most people). The same should happen to men in skirts.

Joseph Cheung
Community Member
3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it involves some misogy. Women were not allowed to wear pants because it was associated with work, and it was too "masculine" and rebellious. Basically, women were not good enough to wear pants, but with skirts, its the opposite. Skirts represent to many "traditional femininity" (submissive, less smart, etc) so men (who are suppose to be "masculine") are discouraged from wearing skirts. Same with men in nursing, its like "failed doctor". Explains the "dangerous" comment, "feminization of men" (so cringe) is the fear men will be on the same lower level as women.

D Peterson
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This sh*t must stop. People are people, no matter what color, sexual orientation, race, sex, etc. . . . . .

Random Anon
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm more centrist when it comes to these things and even I think, we the graying folks, need to let the younger generation define societal norms more. We aren't much longer in this world, what would be the point of blocking change because we are uncomfortable with it?

Cassie
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd like to know in what manner that one commenter thinks wearing a skirt is dangerous.

MorgothBauglir
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Everything here should be based on free choice and free will. Do males want to wear a skirt? Sure, go for it. No one else should tell you what you can and cannot wear (outside of your parents).

Stefan
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What if a kid didn't agree with wearing a skirt ? Was he obliged to do it anyway ?

Stephanie IV
Community Member
3 years ago (edited)

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

Children need to learn to obey rules. Whether wearing gendered clothing is a good rule or not maybe isn’t the real issue. Maybe the issue is disruptive behavior. Wearing a skirt to school is could very easily be done just to provoke and/or to get attention. If we allow pupils to turn school into some kind of audience for their flamboyance, and teachers get suckered into taking sides I think it illustrates exactly why the school didn’t want the boy to ignore gender rules. And just turning a blind eye isn’t such a great idea either. I don’t mind boys wearing skirts. I wouldn’t want pupils to focus on what others and themselves are wearing. If the pupils would shrug the shoulders and go back to their work, skirts for boys aren’t an issue. If the rest of the school is all agog because of it, I’d voice my concern in assembly.

O-man The Human
Community Member
3 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

Honestly. I think that it's a little counter productive-- don't draw attention to it, just let students wear whatever. As a bi guy, I honestly think that we need to start just not giving a s**t. Like when I came out my parents were like 'cool. Did you do your homework?' And i want that for pretty much anyone, it's pretty much my best case scenario

Osgood_7
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I see where you're going, and it would be amazing if it were the case for every LGBTQIA person to have that immediate acceptance, but we are very far from that. To gain the kind of acceptance you describe, people first have to accept that those identities exist, and that only happens when they are visible. When you say "don't draw attention", it's very easy for that to become "just don't do it (ie exist) in public", which is really just excluding people from having the same kind of social life afforded to straight/cisgender people. We deserve to exist in public spaces.

Load More Replies...
Stefan
Community Member
3 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

I don't get why the student wanted to wear a skirt at first place. I don't find the explanation.

Aski Markup
Community Member
3 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

The thing with this situation is that alot of the boys didn't want to do it. And it was being enforced. In this day and age, this is unacceptable. If you want to do it, fine. But don't force others to do it.

Got Myself 4 Dwarves
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It wasn't enforced. We have tons of different days to wear something other than uniform - wear pink for cancer, jeans for jeans, pj days, dress as a character etc and they're totally optional

Load More Replies...
Bill
Community Member
3 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

Is this where US education is putting its focus? While reading and math skills crater.

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