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Celebrities Respond To 9-Year-Old Quaden Who Was Bullied Over His Dwarfism So Bad, He Wanted To Die
Interview With Expert
Bullying leads to pain, sorrow, and can even make people lose their will to live. A heartbreaking video is going viral and it once again brought the topic of bullying to the forefront of most people’s minds.
In the video filmed by his mother Yarraka Bayles, 9-year-old Quaden cries and says he wants to take his own life because he gets bullied over having Achondroplasia, a form of Dwarfism, every single day.
The video even spurred some celebrities to lend Quaden a helping hand, including comedian Brad Williams who also has Dwarfism: he raised over 175k Australian dollars (and counting) to send the child and his mother to Disneyland in California. You can support the GoFundMe campaign right here. Bored Panda spoke with Dr. Tracy Vaillancourt from the University of Ottawa, an expert in children’s mental health and violence prevention, about Quaden’s case. Scroll down for the full interview.
We must warn you, Yarraka’s video of Quaden is very emotional and you should watch it at your discretion.
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9-year-old Quaden gets bullied every day at school because of his Dwarfism
Image credits: Yarraka Bayles
His mother uploaded a heartbreaking video of her child in distress to show the effects of bullying
Image credits: Yarraka Bayles
Image credits: Yarraka Bayles
Image credits: Yarraka Bayles
Image credits: Yarraka Bayles
Image credits: Yarraka Bayles
According to Dr. Vaillancourt, “The situation is now fairly unique because of the tremendous outpouring of support Quaden has received.”
“I am happy to see this reaction and I believe that Quaden and his mother will benefit from knowing that there are many people in their corner,” she told Bored Panda.
The professor added: “What is also needed, however, is the children and educators in Quaden’s immediate environment to also show their support for him and other children who are being bullied.”
Dr. Vaillancourt pointed out that those people who believe that Quaden might have an anger issue are mistaken. “The people who think Quaden has an anger issue are pathologizing a normal reaction to bullying, and this is wrong. When children and adults are bullied they either get mad or they get sad. Protesting poor treatment by peers is appropriate.”
You can watch the full emotional video right here
“What is not appropriate is watching someone get bullied and doing nothing about it. Quaden’s reaction may seem extreme in isolation, but against the backdrop of being tormented for years, it makes sense. In fact, his reaction is one that I have seen far too often,” the expert explained.
“There is evidence that some targets of bullying go on to be perpetrators of bullying. We published a longitudinal study of children and youth showing this (Haltigan and Vaillancourt, 2014). The way to resolve this cycle of abuse is to prioritize the reduction of bullying. This requires a cultural shift in which bystanders actively dissuade the abuse of power,” Vaillancourt said.
She also noted that being the target of bullying is “so hurtful” that people will “try anything” to avoid this type of abuse.”
“But herein lies the problem. It’s not targets of bullying who need to change, it perpetrators. Indeed, every child has a fundamental, democratic right to be spared from abuse and humiliation.”
Members of Australia’s National Rugby League are supporting the 9-year-old as best they can
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Australia’s National Rugby League invited Quaden to lead out the Indigenous team before the All Stars game against the Maori team.
Yarraka and Quaden both live in Brisbane in Australia. The 9-year-old’s mother was so desperate for help that she uploaded a video of her son at his low-point on Facebook. The video has over 17 million views at the time of writing and it raised the issue of what the devastating effects of bullying are.
“I’ve just picked my son up from school, witnessed a bullying episode, rang the principal, and I want people to know—parents, educators, teachers—this is the effect that bullying has,” the boy’s mother said in the video. Meanwhile, Quaden talked about taking his own life in the video because he couldn’t stand the amount of bullying he received at school. According to his mother, he has tried to take his own life before.
While most people sent their love and support to the boy and his mother, some internet users were skeptical and wondered whether Quaden has anger issues, perhaps, as a result of being bullied.
Even Hugh Jackman sent a message to Quaden
Quaden – you’ve got a friend in me. #BeKind @LokelaniHiga https://t.co/8dr3j2z8Sy pic.twitter.com/jyqtZYC953
— Hugh Jackman (@RealHughJackman) February 20, 2020
Comedian Brad Williams is raising money to send the boy and his mother to Disneyland in California
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Quaden has some advice for people who are being bullied
“If you get bullied just stand up for yourself.” 9-year-old Murri boy, Quaden tackles bullying head-on and receives an outstanding community response. #EXCLUSIVE #QuadenBayles pic.twitter.com/UEJBPiP1Js
— NITV (@NITV) February 21, 2020
Lots of people showed their support and demanded that bullying should be stopped
Some internet users were skeptical about the situation…
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…while others thought that Quaden was just trying to fit in because of how much he was being bullied
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Leigh Ann Poston 4 years ago
Bullying is awful, yes. This kid may have bigger problems than bullies. His mom films him instead of hugging him and teaching him to ignore bullies. And the gun pic?!?!
Agnes Jekyll 4 years ago
Telling your child to ignore bullies never works. She has hugged him, she has gone to see teachers, she has spoken to parents, and nothing has worked before she did this.
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I’m Foxxy and I know it 😉 4 years ago
This is so heartbreaking. Teen suicide is at record highs even though schools claim they have anti bullying policies and supposedly have zero tolerance. Schools can only do so much because of all the red tape and rules etc but it’s getting beyond a joke. My daughter was having severe suicidal thoughts last year and even started cutting because of bullying. She had someone telling her to do everyone a favour and go kill yourself, I wish you mum and dad killed themselves and you jump off head first into the concrete and die etc. We went to the police to make a report and there is no actual law where I live against someone telling someone else to go kill themselves. Bullies need to be held accountable and if they are responsible for a suicide they should be charged with manslaughter at the least. Parents also need to show a better example and speak to their kids.
Kate Kyffin 4 years ago
So sorry to read your story. Hope she is feeling better about herself now, I can understand the depression it causes and sometimes the future looks bleak. But - bullies are ultimately cowards, your daughter is not. Hope the sun is shining now in your lives.
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Stille20 4 years ago
This should not be posted by his mother and frankly I think Board Panda should avoid picking stuff up like this. Especially not with his name. I think that is irresponsible. This will haunt this kid into adulthood.
Christina Uhlir 4 years ago
Bored Panda should avoid picking stuff up like this, and worse, the stories of people who crave attention of the world and post "Poor me" accounts about their "suffering", but BP will pick up stories like that, because, believe it or not, many, many people enjoy seeing others in pain and distress, it just makes their day, of course nobody will admit it. But think about how popular violent shows and films are.
Load More Replies... Leigh Ann Poston 4 years ago
Bullying is awful, yes. This kid may have bigger problems than bullies. His mom films him instead of hugging him and teaching him to ignore bullies. And the gun pic?!?!
Agnes Jekyll 4 years ago
Telling your child to ignore bullies never works. She has hugged him, she has gone to see teachers, she has spoken to parents, and nothing has worked before she did this.
Load More Replies... I’m Foxxy and I know it 😉 4 years ago
This is so heartbreaking. Teen suicide is at record highs even though schools claim they have anti bullying policies and supposedly have zero tolerance. Schools can only do so much because of all the red tape and rules etc but it’s getting beyond a joke. My daughter was having severe suicidal thoughts last year and even started cutting because of bullying. She had someone telling her to do everyone a favour and go kill yourself, I wish you mum and dad killed themselves and you jump off head first into the concrete and die etc. We went to the police to make a report and there is no actual law where I live against someone telling someone else to go kill themselves. Bullies need to be held accountable and if they are responsible for a suicide they should be charged with manslaughter at the least. Parents also need to show a better example and speak to their kids.
Kate Kyffin 4 years ago
So sorry to read your story. Hope she is feeling better about herself now, I can understand the depression it causes and sometimes the future looks bleak. But - bullies are ultimately cowards, your daughter is not. Hope the sun is shining now in your lives.
Load More Replies... Stille20 4 years ago
This should not be posted by his mother and frankly I think Board Panda should avoid picking stuff up like this. Especially not with his name. I think that is irresponsible. This will haunt this kid into adulthood.
Christina Uhlir 4 years ago
Bored Panda should avoid picking stuff up like this, and worse, the stories of people who crave attention of the world and post "Poor me" accounts about their "suffering", but BP will pick up stories like that, because, believe it or not, many, many people enjoy seeing others in pain and distress, it just makes their day, of course nobody will admit it. But think about how popular violent shows and films are.
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