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#1
I’m not proud to admit this but I actually cut myself on purpose because I was having a mental breakdown. And now I feel like I want to do it again, but I made a promise to my boyfriend that I wouldn’t do that again.
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Bantam_Wyvern (she/her) 1 year ago
I’m sorry that happened. Now. I’m no therapist, but just remember that there are always people out there who want you to be happy, ok? Here to talk if you wish 👍
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#2
I’ve been acting immature for far too long, it’s time to finally grow up and stop acting like a child. It’s time to be more responsible and accountable. No more pranks, no more toilet humour, and definitely no more throwing tantrums like a toddler.
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Bantam_Wyvern (she/her) 1 year ago (edited)
All in all, pranks and toilet humor are fine among the right people, and the other two can be helped in a variety of ways (I’d recommend talking, over text if you find it too awkward when face to face). Please read these posts bottom to top, I’ve posted them funny. Also sorry about the rambling. Hope this helps (: have a nice day! (Also, congratulations on being engaged!) And sorry that i not only ramble but also talk like a chat bot :p
Bantam_Wyvern (she/her) 1 year ago
Sometimes when I get overly stressed, angry, or sad, it’s because I’m hungry. If you feel more tense than you should (and there’s no good reason, like a presentation or something) then make sure you’ve had enough food/water. Pranks and toilet humor are okay as long as you have someone to do them with! (There are people out there, I’m sure of it) Talking it out can be good as well, it can be anyone you trust, your boyfriend, a different friend, the school counselor (if you go to school) etc. However, if it starts getting really bad and hurting you or other people, be sure to get the advice of a professional and not just some random internet chicken like me!
Bantam_Wyvern (she/her) 1 year ago
Hmm. I think it’s fine to be childish, as long as you know when to (and can) stop at the right times. As you get older, being responsible and keeping your cool should get easier, and if it doesn’t, there are plenty of books/activities/people to help with that, that liking going on a quick walk when you feel yourself start to get mad, or walking away and taking a few breaths if there’s no time for a walk.
#3
a bit of a rant here sorry lol So since around last week I've fallen into the damning hole called writers block. for NO REASON at all, my brain has decided THIS is what throws me into endless procrastination, increased anxiety, and just heightened emotions so I'm tired and pissed for no reason every. single. day. I want to write soooo badly and I need to learn how to write poetry for poetry slam next Tuesday. I really just can't do ANYTHING right now and it's increasing my anxiety as all of my tests are coming up: Core Subject Finals, Poetry slam, Shark tank pitch (mock shark tank for social studies), a French trip to assess oral skills (im really glad that my school got us some student discount/group discount on this because I probably couldn't have gone otherwise), ABRSM piano practical, mock art exhibition for art class... im reaaaaally sorry that this was such a rant, I just needed to get this off my chest. To everybody and anybody else who is struggling with anything at all, whether its a really small or really big thing: you are loved and I support you! Have a lovely day everyone.
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Bantam_Wyvern (she/her) 1 year ago
Hello! I’ve seen you around this site before I made an account, and I’m just gonna say you’re probably in the top 5 best people I’ve ever met, in real life and online :D Ok but as for actual advice, for the writers block, have you tried haiku? Any form of it, doesn’t matter whether it’s ‘proper’ or not, can help with that because it’s quite short but still has some guidelines. For the other things: for things that require studying (like core classes and maybe French) I personally use flash cards, but there are tons of other ways as well, like studying with friends or with study websites like Blooket or Quizlet. And for projects + piano (as well as studying) I’d recommend making a schedule for your free time with studying and practicing/working on projects but with lots of small breaks in which you do stuff you love and see your friends.
me myself and i (she/her) (Submission author) 1 year ago
Hey!! I’ve seen you here a little bit too, and omg thank you, you seem like a really awesome person as well! Tysm for the advice I can’t believe I haven’t thought of using flash cards for French this will save my life 😭. I’m pretty bad at scheduling but I’ll definitely try to make time for haikus—it helps that my teacher says it doesn’t rhyme. Seriously though this has been so helpful thank you sooo much have a lovely day x!
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My advice for procrastination: when you have a chunk of free time, go somewhere with as few distractions as possible (bringing stuff you need) and once you manage to start studying, it should be easier to ‘stay with the flow’ and keep going. Remember to take breaks, drink lots of water, try not to skip meals, take walks outside if needed, and know that it’ll all be over soon + people love you! I really hope you see this and that it helps! Have a nice day!
me myself and i (she/her) (Submission author) 1 year ago
Ooh I almost missed this. I’m glad that I impulsively clicked the more comments button now. I’ll definitely try this at school with the library or just in my room at home! I’m a professional procrastinator tho so it’ll b good for taking breaks but probably not good for my schedule—every little helps though, I guess. Thanks for reminding me to drink water lol, I’m on my way to school and just realized I didn’t drink any this morning. I might have to put that on my schedule lmao. It’s really good to know that I’m making some difference, even if it’s just w a couple of pandas here. Thank you again so much for the advice and have a lovely day! You’ve earned it for being a lovely person :)
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This is kind of random but am I the only person who feels bad/corrects myself when I misgender someone in my head? And who seems to say tons more words in my internal monologue than out loud? 🫠
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me myself and i (she/her) 1 year ago
Omg no ur not I always feel terrible and I’m like nooo quietly in my head. I don’t really have an internal monologue tho bc I talk a lot. Maybe if I do it’s the same speed as I talk…?
Bantam_Wyvern (she/her) (Submission author) 1 year ago
Lol I’m kind of the opposite. I don’t talk much to many people (I usually talk a lot to those few), but my ‘inner voice’ goes on like Donkey from Shrek but on a few too many espressos. I do text a lot at a time though, to the people who respond. Maybe it’s just less awkward to type than talk? (For me anyway) 🤷♀️
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