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Have you ever met a "know-it-all"? That one person who has an opinion about everything, regardless of their actual expertise. They're the ones who'll suddenly drop historical tidbits that seem to come from a parallel universe where facts take a backseat.

They’re the ones who’ll correct your pronunciation of quinoa at every party, followed by a lecture on its nutritional values. But you know what’s more fun than listening to them interject every conversation with an air of authority?

Witnessing someone humble them. Especially when it’s done in a savage manner. Just like these posts where people are roasting individuals for their ignorant opinions.

Wanting to understand the reason behind a "know-it-all" persona, Bored Panda spoke to Gurpal Kaur, a Counseling Psychologist at Shridhar Life School, “A 'know it all' attitude often arises from a deep need for validation or control, stemming from underlying insecurities.”

She said, “Individuals may use their perceived knowledge to assert superiority or shield themselves from feeling inadequate. Past experiences of praise for intelligence can also reinforce this behavior. Understanding the complex motivations behind this persona requires a thorough examination of the individual's personal history and social dynamics.”

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    The batteries are the problem (both for houses and E-Cars), not the damn panels, because of unethical cobalt mining. That's what causes toxic chemicals to be spilled into nature, and child labor. However, the problem isn't the cobalt, it is the way it is mined - and nobody's fixing it because money.

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    Kaur, who is also a couples therapist, emphasized how such an attitude can significantly impact relationships. “Firstly, they can create feelings of resentment or frustration in others, as individuals may feel invalidated or belittled by the constant need for one-upmanship. This can lead to communication breakdowns and a lack of mutual respect within the relationship.”

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    “Moreover, such attitudes can hinder genuine collaboration and problem-solving, as the 'know it all' individual may be less open to considering alternative perspectives or solutions. This can lead to a sense of disconnection and alienation within the relationship, as the other person may feel undervalued or marginalized.”

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    And his credentials are suspect if "MS" stands for "Master's in Science." Besides, it is sort of cringe to put a master's degree after your name rather than waiting until you get your Ph.D. or M.D.

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    First the earthquake, now this.. Those devil worshiping liberals must be behind it! 😆

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    Such individuals may prioritize being right over building emotional connection. “This can create a dynamic of power imbalance and undermine the foundation of the relationship. Overall, 'know it all' attitudes can strain relationships by fostering feelings of resentment, undermining effective communication, and eroding trust and intimacy. Addressing these attitudes requires a willingness to cultivate humility, empathy, and openness to others' perspectives.”

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    Dealing with know-it-alls can be tricky but patience is the key, Kaur said, “One approach is to listen patiently, acknowledge their knowledge, but politely offer your perspective or ask questions to steer the conversation in a more collaborative direction. If that doesn't work, sometimes it's best to simply let them have their moment and move on.”

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    “Know-it-alls often seek validation and recognition to compensate for underlying insecurities. Understanding this, you can approach them with empathy and patience, validating their knowledge while gently redirecting the conversation to promote mutual learning and collaboration. Additionally, setting boundaries and assertively expressing your own expertise can help establish a balanced dynamic.”

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    If their behavior sometimes triggers feelings of frustration or inadequacy, it's important to recognize and address them constructively. “One approach is to focus on internal validation rather than seeking approval from others. Remind yourself of your own worth and expertise, and don't let the know-it-all's behavior undermine your confidence. Additionally, practicing mindfulness techniques such as deep breathing or visualization can help manage stress and maintain a sense of calm during interactions with know-it-alls.”

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    8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If anyone's interested, Korea and the coast of China were mainly affected by Japan colonizing it. However, we should not turn our noses too high about judging that, because our own people are no better. As the entire existence of the USA proves, the Spanish and Portuguese influence in all countries that are nowadays seen as part of Latin America, great Britain causing half of the world to celebrate an independence day from them, and that almost the entirety of Western Europe gobbled up land in Africa at the time. Humans can be really uuuurgh ... The important part is to learn from it so history doesn't repeat.

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    It’s especially challenging to deal with such individuals in an office setting. Imagine someone providing you with inaccurate information at work. This could result in errors and miscommunications that affect company projects. A know-it-all person can hinder the team's ability to work together towards common goals. 

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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Indeed, correlation does not mean causation. Could be that people who were already at high risk for heart disease tried out fasting to be more healthy. That being said, I do intermittent fasting within reason and it has been very beneficial for me to not eat all the time, especially after dinner.

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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Release the egg laying bunnies into all the cathedrals!

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    When dealing with a know-it-all coworker, it's wise to choose which conversations are worth engaging in. Rather than getting into a debate, a simple reply like "Thank you for the information" ensures you avoid unnecessary conflict. Not only does this help maintain professionalism, it also keeps the focus on productive interactions.

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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, how dare Mike to steal the thoughts of black people with his Filipino brain! /S

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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Curious about the date of this post. Doesn’t make it less inaccurate; I’m just curious

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    While pitching ideas or attending meetings with such colleagues, you should be prepared with solid facts. Always double-check your sources and ensure your information is accurate. For instance, you can bring statistics to support your points. The more prepared you are, the less opportunity they will have to challenge you.

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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...also those pesky $3 mil that I'd need... let me quickly check in my cupboard if I have that much "change" lying around... 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️

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    Does passive fentanyl smoke hurt you? I have no knowledge whatsoever about the stuff, sorry. I assume the guy who smokes it will eventually die just like a crackhead would tho.

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    8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The real problem is when people blame their shîtty behavior on ADHD (or autism by that matter) so they can claim they're disabled and you can't say anything bad about them - instead of just standing straight for the fact that they are just an aśshole. Mental illness has nothing to do with wether you're a decent human or not.

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    Nancy Collamer, a career coach and author, was quoted saying, "If 'Mr. Know-it-all' tries to dominate the conversation, you'll have documented evidence to share with the group. Being well-prepared minimizes the chance of the know-it-all taking over the discussion." This proactive approach guarantees that everyone's contributions are valued.

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    I think I understand what the OP was trying to say. By "feeding", he means like when a mother breastfeeds her child: selflessly and without compensation. Farmers don't feed people, they sell them food. The response did not refute the claim.

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    According to studies, people who receive feedback are 12.5% more productive than those who don’t receive any feedback. It's important to understand that people may be unaware of the impact their behavior has on others. In such cases, offering constructive feedback is beneficial. However, pointing this out during a private discussion is better than doing it in public.

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    THIS IS NOT CLICK BAIT IF YOU PRESS THE UPVOTE BUTTON IT TURBS INTO A ROCKET AND FLYS OFF YOUR SCREEN

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    Whether it's a party or a family gathering, there's a know-it-all everywhere you go. Thankfully, you can often find ways to avoid them. Unfortunately, this is not the case in the office. While we need to interact with colleagues in a civilized manner, there are people who give savage responses to others for their less-than-informed opinions.

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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most countries involved in that war did some pretty bad things. Japan did some horrible things to people. As for USA - the nukes are bad (and famous) but we may have killed a lot more people in total with the fire bombing campaigns. Plenty of shame to go around in that war.

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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this requires a little context for it to fully make sense. This Nick guy has been hit with multiple community notes before for things he has said, and now he and the community noters are going at each other

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    Girls SHOULDN'T use each other's underwear because of hygiene, but that doesn't mean they don't do it. As a teenage girl, me and my friends/nieces would definitely borrow each others underwear at sleepovers or holidays if you forgot to bring enough and someone else had spares. Me and my mom would wear each other's underwear if laundry was late. And borrowing someone else's bikini, including the bottom part, was super super common amongst girls, I think every girl my generation did that regularly. Granted, this was in the 90s and 00s, it might be different now. It's a unwise thing to do, yes, but to say that no girls do it and that it must be a fetish, is completely ridiculous.

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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The catholic church sent thousands to bonfires, has sexual and pædophilia-related scandals, dark financial practices, had the crusades, and turned their face off the Jews in WWII so I don't think a fake hand-breaking apparatus could make their reputation worse.

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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, you don't really need to make anti-Catholic propaganda. They do a better job of it than you ever will.

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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One should think that the Witchhammer and other real historical texts and leftover devices would be enough to show how brutal religion ruled back then (and still does in some places) without making up fake props.

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    "The book was condemned by top theologians of the Inquisition at the Faculty of Cologne for recommending unethical and illegal procedures, and for being inconsistent with Catholic doctrines of demonology." -- Wikipedia.

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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The "iron maiden" is another such totally made-up device, but popular in the imagination.

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    Nope. I've seen them play live. They are definitely real! ;)

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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Catholic Church is doing a bang-up job ruining (upholding?) their own reputation. Fake torture devices need not apply.

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    The Catholics might not have used this particular instrument of torture, but they sure as hell weren't afraid to use other horrific forms of torture and death on so-called heretics. That church was founded on violence and abuse.

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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is no need for anti-Catholic propaganda. Their behaviour makes people turn against them. Said by someone educated by nuns at a Catholic Convent who didn't like a little 'w0g' as they so sweetly called me as well as making my life a misery.

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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Called "putting the screws on someone". . .? There was a lot worse done and depicted in their various "torture" manuscripts of those times.

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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    WTF? they already have the "pear of anguish"! they don't need to break hands. pear-of-an...a59a4f.jpg pear-of-anguish-661cd67a59a4f.jpg

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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I literally cannot imagine living in the times where people were stoned to death and set on fire and hanged in the square. Most of that was done for different beliefs and not even real crimes like punishment for murder.

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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is nobody going to point out that without any wormgear or similar, this is just a salad spinner in a cowbell on each hand?

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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well it is true that torture devices have been used by priests in the past; the Spanish Inquisition used to tie people to racks (washing up racks from memory)

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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do we really need anything 'fake' when it comes to talking about horrible things done by the Catholic church? Seems like the real stuff is plenty.

    Adrian
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Catholic Church is just plain evil. Make them pay taxes and abide by laws, like not raping children...

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