Entitled people act as if the world revolves around them. But as annoying as they can be, sometimes these folks — more specifically, their misfortune — entertain us, too. (Just think of a greedy parent who says they can't contribute to raising their kid but when the court takes away their custody, they have to give up $1,750 every month.)
The subreddit '[Jerk] Tax' has plenty of these satisfying examples. According to its 'About' section, the online community is devoted to "stories of customers being charged more, through skipped discounts or other methods, when they have deserved it for infractions such as being rude, demanding, or otherwise a pain."
It also accepts the reverse, cases of the so-called decency discount for when customers pay less because they were not the jerk. But this time, let's focus on the vengeful side of karma. Continue scrolling to see what it looks like and don't miss the talk we had with Srini Pillay, M.D., chief medical officer of Reulay and author of 'Tinker Dabble Doodle Try: Unlock the Power of the Unfocused Mind.'
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Those who treat people poorly may lack empathy. "Broadly speaking, there are two kinds of empathy: cognitive empathy and emotional empathy," Pillay told Bored Panda.
"In the brain, they both involve different sets of anatomical structures. For a person to have empathy, these two brain systems must be able to function, and in people who lack empathy, they do not function well."
"For example, in psychopaths, the emotional empathy system is not activated as much as in people who are not psychopathic," the Harvard-trained psychiatrist and brain researcher explained. "Some regions involved in cognitive empathy (the ability to see things from someone else’s point of view) also do not function well. There is a range of capabilities when it comes to lacking empathy."
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Pillay said that there are no standard therapies for conditions where egoistic behavior is prominent such as antisocial and narcissistic personality disorders.
In such cases, especially when an early developmental trauma led to these conditions, long-term psychotherapy is usually recommended.
"However, there are approaches such as transference-focused psychotherapy and anecdotal use of psychodynamic-based psychotherapies with some success," the brain researcher added. "So, overall, there are therapies that can help this but the treatments are challenging."
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Scrolling through these pictures, you might feel disappointment or even anger toward their villains. But that's perfectly normal. "If you are an empathic person, seeing someone being hurt as a result of a jerk will activate your own mirror neurons, making you feel the pain of the victim," Pillay added.
"Also, we carry impressions of social rules in our brains, and when these are violated, we may even have exaggerated reactions."
"Reactions are partly due to moral emotions but may differ by culture," he said. "For example, one study revealed that reactions to violating someone's autonomy are similar in India and Britain, but Indian participants express more moral outrage than do Britons when there are violations of community."
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However, if you want a more spiritual or philosophical explanation of the pictures, we can look at the idea of karma which originated in Indian religions such as Hinduism and Buddhism. Of course, the notion that good and bad deeds will be rewarded with the same results is widely spread in the West too. The popular saying "What goes around comes around” and the much older proverb “As you sow, so shall you reap” are excellent examples of that.
This line of thought teaches us that everything that happens to us is ultimately due to our own influence—whether intentional or not—and that coincidence is in reality an illusion.
Self-described Buddhist physician Alex Lickerman, M.D., thinks that general causality is something everyone understands and believes, namely that every effect has a cause.
"We may not be able to identify what particular cause is responsible for a particular effect, but it's difficult, if not impossible, to conceive of an effect that has no cause," he wrote. "Buddhism, however, takes this principle of general causality even further. It denotes the principle of cause and effect as a universal law that governs not just the physical universe but our own lives as well."
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Most women had bad encounters with stranger man. If people would randomly slap you on your face, no one would blame you for protecting your face all the time, even if most people don't slap at all. The problem is with the men who give girls hard time and with the other men who blame women that protect themself but don't say a thing to the men we are protecting from.
Depends how he approached. Was it "pardon me," and she reacted before he said anything else or did he say something less innocuous like "yo, babe, I got something for you?" The bad-uns are actually not that common, just seems more common because of how many people they affect. If a guy says something innocuous that anyone might use to get a person's attention give them a moment to see which response is correct. I mean, do you interact briefly then go your separate ways, simply say no thanks, or nuke them from orbit, just to be sure? Depends on what comes after the initial greeting.
Load More Replies...I don't blame girl. They put up with a lot of c**p and tend to have defenses up. I would have taken a second shot at giving her the tickets back.
I DO blme the girl she didn't have to react that way right off the bat. Not every guy wants to f**k every woman and they should respect us as much as we should respect them. Entitlement because you think everyone wants to f**k you is b******t and she recieved what she deserved for being that way.
Load More Replies...To be fair, we don't know how he approached her, nor her past experiences. Imo a lot better lesson would have been to give the tickets back regardless, visibly upset about her reaction: if she has any decency she would have been embarrassed, and maybe even learned something. But now all she knows is just that she lost the tickets, possibly without even regretting her behavior at all.
I think you make a very valid point, but I want to point out she might not have let him. My husband once wanted to give a girl at the shop a coupon back that she lost and she was convinced he tried to gift her that coupon as a way of flirting. And he just said: excuse me miss! You lost something. I had to step in and hand her that thing telling her that yes indeed she lost it to stop her making a scene.
Load More Replies...And they say, "no good deeds go unpunished." I'm sure you had a fantastic time at the game.
Women like her react like this because they have been consistently and relentlessly harassed. Op and the other commenters seems to think she should have telepathically known he wasn’t another harasser or she should always be “nice” just in case one out of twenty of the guys who approach her randomly aren’t harassers. Unfortunately, being “nice” just wastes your time and gets you more harassment.
In that situation telling me that they have a bf hurts me not one iota - I have some empathy for women in the street harassment that they face. I’ve heard from my daughters (13 and 16) the frequent abuse they get on the way to facking school for facks sake. This constant barrage of unwanted attention will obviously strain people’s politeness - saying “I have a bf” is hardly public humiliation to the op. My response might be a simple “No no , you dropped your tickets”, hand over, followed by swift exit - I don’t need effusive thanks for doing the right thing, neither do I need to judge whether the recipient is worthy of my chivalry 🙄
My hope. is that she realized what you were trying to do and felt stupid
Definitely a rude young lady. She deserved what she got & hopefully her boyfriend didn't mind missing the game....
This reminds me of the time I flipped off some idiot who drove up to my car tooting their horn. It was the department head where I volunteered.
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Looks like the game vs Clemson (Watson #4 jersey, orange). So you know that was a good game!
not a karen. as the comments above said, she was most likely horribly harassed. she was just scared.
Load More Replies...Basically, it works like this: everything we say, think, and do serves as a cause that will, at some time in the future, when circumstances are right, manifest an effect.
"In one sense, this seems obvious: if you get angry (cause) you might get punched (effect). But Buddhism takes this even further, arguing that all the causes we make are recorded at some level in our lives as if they were transactions in a bank," Lickerman highlighted.
"Making a good cause would be like depositing money that can be withdrawn at some point in the future while making a bad cause would be like borrowing money that at some point in the future will have to be repaid. So if, for example, you slander someone today, that might result in them slandering you tomorrow (if they hear about it)—or it might result in you breaking your leg."
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However, the lines are often blurry. "The chain of causation that connects original causes (e.g., slander) to their manifest effects (e.g., a broken leg) is simply too sublime to trace from beginning to end, making it difficult, if not impossible, for us to believe such a chain even exists," Lickerman acknowledged.
"In fact, according to Buddhist thought, it requires nothing short of a great awakening—enlightenment itself—for a person to perceive the workings of this law of cause and effect in his or her own life."
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Should have let her walk out if she needed so 😈 EDIT: I know how pressure works, thank you very much.
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However, if we accept the possibility that we ourselves have made the causes of all the effects we currently experience in our lives, does that then mean the woman who suffers abuse at the hands of her husband or boyfriend is to blame for it? Or even worse, deserves it?
"From the Buddhist perspective, we are indeed responsible, but importantly not to blame, for every effect we experience (blame accruing only if we intend to yield a particular effect at the moment we made the cause for it)," Lickerman said.
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"Whether or not you deserved it isn't even a consideration," he explained. "Through the inexorable workings of cause and effect, you received the effect of the cause you made. The law of cause and effect is impartial, impersonal, and strict, just like the law of gravity, requiring no higher power to make it run."
However, the physician thinks there's a silver lining. "It explains how bad things can happen to good people (everyone has made bad causes in the past, and each cause carries with it an effect that must at some point be experienced in the future). It also, most importantly, places the power to change our destiny firmly in our own hands."
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@2WheelTravlr I think people who fear that kind of situation are justified how ever they may react. I mean, we can all cope with a little rudeness surely. I'm just saying that if this girl behaved the way she did maybe we shouldn't be offended by her words, but rather, what made her this way. Now, this is all hypothetical of course, maybe she was just being rude. But likely to have such a strong response, there was more to it. I don't understand why so many people are getting offended by her saying she already has a bf. It's not like she was personally attacking the person!
"we shouldn't be offended by her words, but rather, what made her this way" is a really good point and I 100% agree with that. However, I still have to disagree with the first statement. There's no justice in a rude response to someone who's not at fault. If anything it's just another injustice. While there are explanations for our behaviors, and even bad behaviors can be *understood*, sometimes even excused, we are still responsible for our actions. Bad experiences are an explanation, but not a justification. Our bad experiences don't make our bad behaviors acceptable, only understandable.
Load More Replies...@2WheelTravlr I think people who fear that kind of situation are justified how ever they may react. I mean, we can all cope with a little rudeness surely. I'm just saying that if this girl behaved the way she did maybe we shouldn't be offended by her words, but rather, what made her this way. Now, this is all hypothetical of course, maybe she was just being rude. But likely to have such a strong response, there was more to it. I don't understand why so many people are getting offended by her saying she already has a bf. It's not like she was personally attacking the person!
"we shouldn't be offended by her words, but rather, what made her this way" is a really good point and I 100% agree with that. However, I still have to disagree with the first statement. There's no justice in a rude response to someone who's not at fault. If anything it's just another injustice. While there are explanations for our behaviors, and even bad behaviors can be *understood*, sometimes even excused, we are still responsible for our actions. Bad experiences are an explanation, but not a justification. Our bad experiences don't make our bad behaviors acceptable, only understandable.
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