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More and more people these days are becoming childfree by choice, in turn celebrating time, freedom, and opportunities they have reserved for themselves. Meanwhile, economists have pointed to the fact that the fertility rate has fallen every year since 2007, as the Great Recession made millennials put off child-rearing for years.

But in order to get a glimpse of what childfree life is really like, you have to look at what people who opt out of having babies have to say about it. So we looked at the corner of Reddit “Childfree,” which is a place for discussion of the childfree lifestyle.

With a whopping 1.4M members, it surely has a lot to say on this matter, so let’s see some arguments on living with no kids right below. Also, after you’re done, be sure to check out part 1 of the post right here.

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What Could Be More Important Than Creating Life?

What Could Be More Important Than Creating Life?

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Family Is What You Make

Family Is What You Make

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I Love Steve Hofstetter. Walter Is His Dog

I Love Steve Hofstetter. Walter Is His Dog

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To find out what people who choose not to have kids have to say about the childfree lifestyle, Bored Panda reached out to Amy Blackstone, professor of sociology at the University of Maine and the author of “Childlfree by Choice: The Movement Redefining Family & Creating a New Age of Independence.

When asked if such a lifestyle is getting more popular nowadays, which it certainly feels like it, Amy said that it’s certainly more popular “in the sense that more people are aware of it as an option than ever before.”

According to the professor and book author, “That is largely thanks to the willingness of childfree people to speak out about their choice and of course to the decades-long work of reproductive justice advocates. Whether more people than in the past will ultimately remain childfree for their lifetimes remains to be seen.”

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Been Waiting 20 Years For A Comeback Like This

Been Waiting 20 Years For A Comeback Like This

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This would be more like “Wendy’s” money... have you seen how much they want for just a burger, I have to take out a second mortgage just to get dinner from them. Hella expensive, but good. 💸💸

Isabel Care
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am so glad that my mum decided that she wanted a life more than she wanted grandchildren. She really just wanted to buy the cute furniture that wasn't around when we were young. None of her children are going to have offspring.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am in my 50s and I've never regretted not getting married and having children I'm very happy the way I am now single and going to stay that way!

KLo
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait what!?! You procreate to get state money? Am I clear on this moronic idea, yikes!

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I Can’t Believe This Is Still Even A Thing

I Can’t Believe This Is Still Even A Thing

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Pug Slide (Found On Facebook)

Pug Slide (Found On Facebook)

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“Certainly more millennials are currently childfree than were previous generations at their age, but there hasn't been a dramatic increase in lifetime childlessness,” she said and added that only “time will tell whether today's millennials are opting out of parenthood altogether or simply delaying it.”

There's a common misconception that parenthood defines us unlike anything else. Amy said that there are “good reasons that this misconception is so common. Almost from the moment we are born, we are taught that becoming a parent is one of the most important milestones of adulthood. For this reason, it makes sense that folks might think that parenthood is the be all, end all experience.”

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Since They're Trying To Ban Abortion...

Since They're Trying To Ban Abortion...

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Child Fees Should Be A Thing And Dogs Should Be Free

Child Fees Should Be A Thing And Dogs Should Be Free

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For The Childfree Motorist

For The Childfree Motorist

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However, “we know from all kinds of social science research that having kids is not required for living a complete, happy, and fulfilling life,” the professor explained and recommended everyone looking for the answers to read her illuminating book “Childfree By Choice.

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Just A Nice Quote I Read And Felt Like Sharing

Just A Nice Quote I Read And Felt Like Sharing

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Letter From An 85 Year Widow: My Childfree Experience And A Few Humble Opinions

Letter From An 85 Year Widow: My Childfree Experience And A Few Humble Opinions

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I Swear

I Swear

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It’s hard to say whether opting not to have kids will stay popular with future generations. According to Amy, “it depends on what we mean by 'popular' but if what you're referring to is whether the idea that having—or not having—children is a choice, I'd say that yes, our awareness of that reality will continue to grow.”

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It’s just that more and more people are speaking out about their choice not to have kids. “And thanks to their bravery in speaking out, we now know that parenthood is simply one of many paths available to us,” she concluded.

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Think I Pissed Off My Obgyn

Think I Pissed Off My Obgyn

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I Wish More People Realized Just How Much A Bad Parent Can Mess Up Their Children

I Wish More People Realized Just How Much A Bad Parent Can Mess Up Their Children

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Welp. There It Is

Welp. There It Is

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Top Notch Product Review

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Imagine That. Maybe One Day

Imagine That. Maybe One Day

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Just One Simple Trick To Save Money

Just One Simple Trick To Save Money

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Saw This Meme And Thought You Guys Would Enjoy It, Too

Saw This Meme And Thought You Guys Would Enjoy It, Too

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Actress Jameela Jamil Celebrates Her Successful Cf Life, Shrugs Off Haters

Actress Jameela Jamil Celebrates Her Successful Cf Life, Shrugs Off Haters

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The Double Standards Are Wild

The Double Standards Are Wild

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I Think Someone Working In This Store Is Childfree

I Think Someone Working In This Store Is Childfree

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GF Wanted A Dog, I Didn’t. What Happens? We Got A Dog. Then GF Wants Kids, I Don’t

GF Wanted A Dog, I Didn’t. What Happens? We Got A Dog. Then GF Wants Kids, I Don’t

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Don't Do That

Don't Do That

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Goals

Goals

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Louder For The People In The Back!

Louder For The People In The Back!

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"Without Kids, Your Christmas Must Have Been So Boring"- My Sil

"Without Kids, Your Christmas Must Have Been So Boring"- My Sil

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Truth Hurts

Truth Hurts

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When Being Child Free Gets You Extra 40 Hours/Week Of Work

When Being Child Free Gets You Extra 40 Hours/Week Of Work

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Wise Words

Wise Words

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Is Anyone Else Thrilled To Not Have Kids Whenever They See/Hear One?

Is Anyone Else Thrilled To Not Have Kids Whenever They See/Hear One?

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Wife Of 7 Years Left Because I Didn't Want Kids

Wife Of 7 Years Left Because I Didn't Want Kids

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I Think We Can All Agree On This Post I Saw Today

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I Got Pregnant After My Tubal Ligation And Doctors Are Treating It Like A Happy Miracle As I Sit Here Horrified

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My Friend Sent This To Me [humor]

My Friend Sent This To Me [humor]

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Happy Birthday

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Everyone: 'Have A Baby!' Me:

Everyone: 'Have A Baby!' Me:

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This. Is. Imporant

This. Is. Imporant

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They Got Me - Had To Slow Down For This One

They Got Me - Had To Slow Down For This One

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I Have A Lot Of Reasons For Not Wanting Kids, And The World Being On Fire Is Definitely Among Them

I Have A Lot Of Reasons For Not Wanting Kids, And The World Being On Fire Is Definitely Among Them

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I Will Never Ever Ever Get Tired Of Silence

I Will Never Ever Ever Get Tired Of Silence

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I'm Going To Print Out A Stack Of These And Hand Them Out To People Who Bingo Me

I'm Going To Print Out A Stack Of These And Hand Them Out To People Who Bingo Me

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"What Could Be Better Than Having Kids Then?"

"What Could Be Better Than Having Kids Then?"

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"Being A Young Woman Without Kids Is A Privilege." No, It's An Active Decision

"Being A Young Woman Without Kids Is A Privilege." No, It's An Active Decision

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Posted By A Friend With A Few Kids On Facebook

Posted By A Friend With A Few Kids On Facebook

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My Bloodline Ends With Me

My Bloodline Ends With Me

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I'm 53. My Wife Is 60. We've Always Been Staunchly Childfree. Can I Tell You... It Only Gets Better

I'm 53. My Wife Is 60. We've Always Been Staunchly Childfree. Can I Tell You... It Only Gets Better

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Life Is Gooooood

Life Is Gooooood

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Great View From Here

Great View From Here

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When You're Cf But Also A Brilliant Troll

When You're Cf But Also A Brilliant Troll

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Clever Girl

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Got Annoyed About A Group Of Men I Don’t Know Bingo-Ing Me, So I Gave Them Something To Be Uncomfortable About

Got Annoyed About A Group Of Men I Don’t Know Bingo-Ing Me, So I Gave Them Something To Be Uncomfortable About

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Only In London

Only In London

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Specially At The Moment

Specially At The Moment

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I Nominate Our Patron Saint To Be Jennifer Barkley Of Parks And Rec:

I Nominate Our Patron Saint To Be Jennifer Barkley Of Parks And Rec:

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This Speaks To Me

This Speaks To Me

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No Thanks, I Like Being A Free Elf

No Thanks, I Like Being A Free Elf

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One Could Also Choose The "God Will Provide" Route As We All Know That Free Money Is A Thing In This World

One Could Also Choose The "God Will Provide" Route As We All Know That Free Money Is A Thing In This World

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My Kinda Joint

My Kinda Joint

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This Came Across My Fb Feed. Yes!

This Came Across My Fb Feed. Yes!

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But Why Imagine It, When You Can Live It For Yourself?

But Why Imagine It, When You Can Live It For Yourself?

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If Nothing Else, At Least I Don’t Have That....

If Nothing Else, At Least I Don’t Have That....

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Haha Not In This Economy!

Haha Not In This Economy!

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Hallelujah

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Gatekeeping Being Tired Is For The Birds

Gatekeeping Being Tired Is For The Birds

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Haven't Heard From...

Haven't Heard From...

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People Who Cannot Afford Children Should Not Have Any. This Is A Hill I Will Die On

People Who Cannot Afford Children Should Not Have Any. This Is A Hill I Will Die On

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6 Hells, 6 Naws

6 Hells, 6 Naws

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The Absolute Horror

The Absolute Horror

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I Hope Memes Are Allowed Here

I Hope Memes Are Allowed Here

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At Least I Don’t Have Kids

At Least I Don’t Have Kids

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Saw This Gem On Twitter

Saw This Gem On Twitter

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A Mombie On Twitter Complained How High Her Hospital Bills Were After Giving Birth And How Expensive Raising A Child Is. She Got This Response:

A Mombie On Twitter Complained How High Her Hospital Bills Were After Giving Birth And How Expensive Raising A Child Is. She Got This Response:

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