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More and more people these days are becoming childfree by choice, in turn celebrating time, freedom, and opportunities they have reserved for themselves. Meanwhile, economists have pointed to the fact that the fertility rate has fallen every year since 2007, as the Great Recession made millennials put off child-rearing for years.

But in order to get a glimpse of what childfree life is really like, you have to look at what people who opt out of having babies have to say about it. So we looked at the corner of Reddit “Childfree,” which is a place for discussion of the childfree lifestyle.

With a whopping 1.4M members, it surely has a lot to say on this matter, so let’s see some arguments on living with no kids right below. Also, after you’re done, be sure to check out part 1 of the post right here.

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What Could Be More Important Than Creating Life?

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To find out what people who choose not to have kids have to say about the childfree lifestyle, Bored Panda reached out to Amy Blackstone, professor of sociology at the University of Maine and the author of “Childlfree by Choice: The Movement Redefining Family & Creating a New Age of Independence.

When asked if such a lifestyle is getting more popular nowadays, which it certainly feels like it, Amy said that it’s certainly more popular “in the sense that more people are aware of it as an option than ever before.”

According to the professor and book author, “That is largely thanks to the willingness of childfree people to speak out about their choice and of course to the decades-long work of reproductive justice advocates. Whether more people than in the past will ultimately remain childfree for their lifetimes remains to be seen.”

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“Certainly more millennials are currently childfree than were previous generations at their age, but there hasn't been a dramatic increase in lifetime childlessness,” she said and added that only “time will tell whether today's millennials are opting out of parenthood altogether or simply delaying it.”

There's a common misconception that parenthood defines us unlike anything else. Amy said that there are “good reasons that this misconception is so common. Almost from the moment we are born, we are taught that becoming a parent is one of the most important milestones of adulthood. For this reason, it makes sense that folks might think that parenthood is the be all, end all experience.”

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However, “we know from all kinds of social science research that having kids is not required for living a complete, happy, and fulfilling life,” the professor explained and recommended everyone looking for the answers to read her illuminating book “Childfree By Choice.

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Just A Nice Quote I Read And Felt Like Sharing

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Letter From An 85 Year Widow: My Childfree Experience And A Few Humble Opinions

Letter From An 85 Year Widow: My Childfree Experience And A Few Humble Opinions

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It’s hard to say whether opting not to have kids will stay popular with future generations. According to Amy, “it depends on what we mean by 'popular' but if what you're referring to is whether the idea that having—or not having—children is a choice, I'd say that yes, our awareness of that reality will continue to grow.”

It’s just that more and more people are speaking out about their choice not to have kids. “And thanks to their bravery in speaking out, we now know that parenthood is simply one of many paths available to us,” she concluded.

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The Double Standards Are Wild

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I Think Someone Working In This Store Is Childfree

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GF Wanted A Dog, I Didn’t. What Happens? We Got A Dog. Then GF Wants Kids, I Don’t

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"Without Kids, Your Christmas Must Have Been So Boring"- My Sil

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When Being Child Free Gets You Extra 40 Hours/Week Of Work

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Is Anyone Else Thrilled To Not Have Kids Whenever They See/Hear One?

Is Anyone Else Thrilled To Not Have Kids Whenever They See/Hear One?

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Stephanie IV
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Other people’s kids are a nuisance. Your own children are nice. Nevertheless, don’t have them.

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Laura Würker
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have these moments too. I mean I like to spend time with my niece and my nephew but I am forever greatful that I don't have to care fulltime for them. I like kids but I don't want to have them on my one.

Zedrapazia
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I usually leave a place when seeing a kid because it triggers me so much that they are so loud

Honu
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I told my husband that if I ever got hormonal and thought I wanted one, to take me to Ikea on a Saturday. That'll shrivel your ovaries right quick.

Dark.JuKo
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I made the decission to not want to have kids. It was a hard one for me, but especially since I´m in the homeoffice because of Corona and the kids (and also the mother) above us annoy the **** out of me, I am soooooooo happy I made this decission. But still I think...it´s not the kids to blame, it´s the parents.

John Montgomery
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a nephew who will be four in June. He shares my birthday. I recently found out he does like seeing me and my wife, and he talks about us quite a bit. It made me feel great to hear it, but that still doesn't make us want kids.

Luna Lovebug
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't have to see and/of hear them to feel a sense of relief. Just thinking about baby's and kids is enough. It's like when I was little and the news showed a bit about tornadoes which freaked me out. My dad would reassure me that there aren't F5 tornadoes in our area. Which made me feel better and keep away the nightmares. Knowing that I can no longer have kids due to a medical issue has been a great relief. I would not have been fit to raising kids. All that crap about "it's different when it's your own kid" is nonsense. Some people aren't meant to become parents. It's not for them and they're not up for the job. I'm just happy I knew this early on. And not after becoming a mom. If you really dislike kids having one of your own doesn't always magically change that. And I'm not willing to take the risk.

Irene Theressa
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And people think I smile because I love watching kids having a 'good' time

Celtic Pirate Queen
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Background: My husband is 63 & I'm 58. He has 3 adult children & I have 2. We are both grandparents. Having a discussion in an Uber with my sister. She just can't believe we've lived in San Diego for 8 years and never been to Disney Land (we're HUGE Disney/Pixar fans). I was like, "Ewww. You're aware it's full of children, right?". The driver started cracking up!

Diandra “Mss Didi” Blackthorn
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes. As I attempt to block out the incessant whining of the brat downstairs, outside of my window...

Wonderful
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband and I always quietly say to each other “reason number 3,463 (or any number really) why we don’t have kids.” Then we giggle like kids ourselves and get as far away from the annoyance as possible.

Isabel Care
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anyone who doesn't really want kids, but might be caving due to family pressure...go to any supermarket on a Saturday. That'll remind you why you decided against spawning

ERIN W.
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes always and that's what I say to myself this is exactly why I didn't have children!

Kelly Hartle
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My great nieces and nephews are wonderful, but I’m still very happy to bring them back to their mom when I’m done with them.

Happy Panda
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yessss! I have a niece & nephews (6, 5, and 4) and I love them but they make me so grateful that I never had kids. It would have been miserable for everyone.

ГЛАЗ
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"nothing like the scream of a dissatisfied toddler to remind me that i never want kids."

Chenandoa
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm am continually amazed, and pleased when I walk into my local amish owned store, and compare mainstream families with amish and mennonite...the 4 year olds of the latter are better behaved than the 10 year olds of the former!

A U T O P H O B I A
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I saw a child slap a girls butt and the mother didn't do anything about it. Yeah, it's bad parenting but like wtf..?

Nikki Owens
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Having kids is what matures you past this developmental stage of self-centeredness.

Sammi Unni
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

THIS IS ME OMG I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE and then I feel like a prick when I want to express my elated feels

Angeline Shalyn
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have one child but this is SO me lol, weird right ? The only child in the world I have ever loved/will love is my own, the worst ever is when people feel the need to post 12747382 pictures of their kids everyday on social media it makes me gag

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I Have A Lot Of Reasons For Not Wanting Kids, And The World Being On Fire Is Definitely Among Them

I Have A Lot Of Reasons For Not Wanting Kids, And The World Being On Fire Is Definitely Among Them

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I'm 53. My Wife Is 60. We've Always Been Staunchly Childfree. Can I Tell You... It Only Gets Better

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