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There are certain things that, if we value peace and quiet, we don’t talk about. Namely the holy trinity of topics which are musical taste, politics, and religion. But here we are, talking about religion.

But instead of preaching, the lovely people of Reddit are sharing stories of experiences that made them drastically rethink the whole concept of faith, losing it in the process.

In particular, this thread has been going viral lately after someone asked folks to share what exactly ruined religion for people, and getting over 48,600 upvotes with nearly 39,000 comments along the way.

So, sit back, relax, and read through the frustration that is losing one’s religion in our curated list of the best answers below. And while you’re at it, poke that upvote button, comment your own opinions and stories and whatnot, and consider checking out any other question from Reddit that we’ve discussed here.

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#1

30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group As a kid, it was boring. As a teen, it brought nothing into my life. As an adult, it's hard to ignore all the corruption, greed, sexual improprieties and contradiction.

Ultimately, if there was a god, this is the best it can do? I'm not impressed.

Goldy84 , elPadawan Report

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DennyS (denzoren)
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have to agree with your sentiments. I always wonder the same....especially like, why are babies born with diseases and pain? They did nothing to deserve that....why are children being killed daily? They have done nothing wrong.

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group People using it to justify their hate.

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Bazinga
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's a serious issue. In no place in the bible does it say that being homosexual is a sin, but many people look for excuses for their biases

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group So many things but the final straw for me was my church asking a homeless man to leave and not come back. He would sit and listen to the sermons never bothered anyone and always sat in the very back. I confronted my youth group leader and she defended the preacher.

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Nathaniel
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Do they think Jesus was against helping the homeless?

Chich
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If jesus (who was a dark skinned middle east Jew) came back and sat in a church they would be calling 911 about a terrorist in the building

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DennyS (denzoren)
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow...this defeats the whole purpose of religion and it's teachings.

natie marie
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not religious, but my grandmother was. And she often told the story of a man at her church when she was young who was a bit of a drunk and had shabby clothes. And the congregation protested him being there and the pastor basically told them all off and that he had every right to be there. Always liked that story.

Huddo's sister
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So he should have- he probably should have added an extra sermon about Jesus accepting the poor etc as well :)

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Mermaid Elle-Jaye
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s sickening, sad, despicable and so not what Jesus would have done

Kathryn Baylis
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m not religious, but know there are stories on the Bible about Jesus going among the keepers, who were outcasts from society, and being kind to them (plus a little magic about healing them to enhance his image). If kindness to the outcasts was no biggie to Jesus, how can that church’s congregation call themselves Christians? This is the kind of religious hypocrisy that sickens me. The basic ideas of most religions appeal to me as great rules to live by. But it’s when you get people involved, especially when they organize themselves, that turn those ideas into something sinister, evil, violent, and sickening.

Marissa Taylor
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i agree with you on everything(me beingchristain) excpet for one. There ws no magaic in his healsings. it was power that God himself had. It healed people,not to make himelf look good(other wise him being there would be pointless) but becasue he hated seeing other's in pain and suffring and wanted people to know that God loves them like a father would his children. We blame God for not helping out with problems in the world.But humans forget that God gave us the gift of free will so that means that He can't very well help if no one really wants him to,and sometimes even if there is hope and prey God will still sometimes say no ,its saddening,but as he knows more ;ws more about things then we humans in our short lives will evr know, we have to just trust that he know's what the hell he is doing, like when you trust someone who's older then you and ho loves you.

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Rosie Cat
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This made me angry. I'm not religious at all, that man was just looking for some hope, inspiration and love. He was in dire straits, and this should have been the ONE place he could feel peace. Disgusting behaviour.

Huddo's sister
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree. Jesus would have been the first person to welcome him, but these people chose to go against that and judge and demean him instead. They not only give Christians a bad name, but humans as well.

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Procrastinating Panda
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know anything about church, but isn't the belief to help people or something like that?

The Scout
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Heart a "christian" man protesting a soup kitchen once: "If god wants them to starve, we don't have the right to save them!" Some will take every excuse to demostrate their total lack of empathy...

Freya the Wanderer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If protesting soup kitchens is Christian, then Martin Luther King, Jr. was a devil worshipper.

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Hex Gurls
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

isn’t- isn’t the whole point of jesus and the church and whatever to help the poor and needy?? (or at least not make their lives worse)

Chich
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe it is the point of the religon but the point of the church is to make and keep leaders privledged.

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Nadine G
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Being real honest about where that "community" collection goes, huh?

Jae
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The homeless guys in our church usually sit right in front. One of them asks the most insightful questions. Sometimes he's only there for the potluck, but he is always welcome. He's welcomed along with the guys and girls from AA and NA, along with the damaged kids and families on the edge of social services, along with all those struggling with mental illness, and along with the rest of us sinners. Not all churches live down to your expectations.

Suzi Q
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My church is in a neighborhood where a lot of homeless people live. Many times a homeless person will wander in. Nobody complains, they have a right to be there unless they are being disruptive (once a homeless woman plugged every single toilet and trashed the bathroom.) Usually the pastor will talk with them after the service to see if they needed food, clothes or other help. That's how Jesus would treat them. I'm proud of my church.

M Rob
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Actually that is the profacy... They truly are the anti Christ look at the church and what it now preaches.

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Teresa Ezzell
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would leave that church , quickly. He that doith to any of his like this homeless man is doing it to Jesus and God. He needs to be taught, but not let him talk to anyone else like that,and go find that man and invite him to continue to come. A lot of old people alone don't know how to get the benefits they need. Did any of you think to ask him what was his situation? Jesus would have. Don't use talk but do the walk. It is not laying down much to help him if you can.

GoddessOdd
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was a child, my father, the deacon in our church, abandoned my hearing impaired mom and 3 kids. My mom hadn't worked in 20 years, and because she couldn't answer phones because of her hearing, jobs for her were few. We were about to become homeless, and as we'd been faithful and active church members forever, my mom asked the preacher if we could use a house the church owned... a little decrepit house that had been sitting empty for at least a year. He said no. Not even for 30 days, so we became homeless. I've not been back to church since. Even though I was a little kid, I knew this was a rotten thing. Many Christians are of the "i've got mine" variety.

Yesica Aragon
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This happened at a church I used to go to. It was a megachurch and a homeless man came to listen to the preaching and ask if there was any assistance he could receive. He was dressed in a Sunday suit, clean-shaven and sober, but fell on hard times. The church staff asked him to leave and come back AFTER the service to see if they could help. It was a night service and I sat with him waiting until midnight to see who would come out to help. They locked up the church and turned off the lights and just left us there. I was disgusted to say the least and offered whatever help I could manage in the moment.

Huddo's sister
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's despicable! At my church we would have welcomed them, given them something to eat and drink, left the bathroom open for them and made sure they had food vouchers! I mean, even if he didn't want any of that, he was at the service to get some good from worship and he was denied it!

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Faith Love-robertson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes - so this strikes a chord. Wasn't Jesus himself a homeless person? I don't recall any Bible stories originating chez Jesus.

Ayub Chege
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Jesus in disguise... who would tell if the rugged homeless man was sent there the same way as Jesus? Actually, wasn't Jesus also homeless at birth in a manger, had to emigrate to Egypt to escape Herod's execution, and Jesus Himself said of *foxes have dens, birds have nests, but the son of man had nowhere to lay His head* to imply our hearts should open to welcome Him?

KimTx🇨🇱🤜🤛🇺🇦
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Someone in the church needs to re-read their Scripture and focus on the red letter parts.

lakitha tolbert
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are far too many people in this world calling themselves Christian because they think it makes them look good. Such people don't do a single damn thing to make life comfortable for anyone other than themselves.

Huddo's sister
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well we know who wasn't listening to the bible. Jesus would have welcomed him with open arms. We had a homeless guy who hung around our church for a while. He occasionally listened to the services, but mostly didn't. We still gave him access to the bathroom when he was staying there and made sure he had enough food vouchers. We would have done more to help if he wanted to accept it. We wouldn't be very good Christians if we had done anything less.

Glenn McHenry
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Like Joel Osteen not opening his doors to hurricane victims......

Michelle Taylor
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me and my friend walked into a church to have a look at it because it was beautiful and the priest came flying down the aisle in a rage because my friend was wearing a hat. He quickly took his hat off and said sorry and the priest continued to yell at him so we quickly left. But yeah, so much for welcoming people into the church. I'm not sure how much Jesus cared about hats?

Huddo's sister
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm so sorry that happened! Not all churches are like that. I remember one person being surprised that the minister opened the church for her because she was interested in the architecture. It was such a little thing to help her feel welcome and I'm so glad he did it.

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Valerie Witter
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am Catholic. I no longer attend Church because of so many hypocritical things they do, but I still pray and believe. I consider many of the Church rules or practices non-Christian. Some of the other “Christians” I know act so “good” on Sundays but will curse people out for their driving, make fun of people with disabilities, hurt people of the LGBTQ community, abuse their wives and kids, and so much more. You would never think these Christians were religious at all. Be kind to everyone. Who knows? It could be contagious!

Huddo's sister
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It doesn't matter if you don't attend church, you still have your faith. You see what Jesus would have wanted, to treat others with respect and love. I hope that the negative experiences don't turn you off from all contact with other believers- not everyone puts the 'church' above the actual teachings and shows such bigotry. As you say be kind and it may help others do the same.

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Rene Simons
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Their church is the purpose, not the means. To hell with them.

Asher Tye
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What do they think they get all that money for? Private jets?

Carol Emory
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They need to watch the Star of Jacob episode of Father Brown. You never know who might be visiting.

Sarah Kathrin Matsoukis
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

isn't that the opposite of what Christians are supposed to do ? Who even has the GALL to ask a homeless person to leave ? you could pay me to do it, but for so much money I could buy homeless dude + me a house.

Don't Look
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is why I like my childhood church and my parents current one. They both would just let the man be and the after the service help him out as much as possible.

Rosemary Probert
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I married an Anglican vicar. He served in a lot of churches where the congregation looked down on people they didn't consider fit to belong to "their" church. One of the most revealing events was when he was considering a move and went to be part of the congregation at a church to get a feel for it. He came home saying he felt it was like getting frostbite. He turned up in jeans and a tea shirt. Clean, but not a suit and tie. A week later he went to the interview and the representatives were horrified to hear he had been the "strange person sitting alone". They said he should have introduced himself as a candidate and then they would have treated him differently. "That's why I came incognito," he said as he told them he was withdrawing his application. "I don't think Jesus would have been welcome unless he came looking like you".

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Ozymandias73
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So now the word of God is picky as to whom can listen to it. This after killing thousands if they didn't drop their own holy beliefs and convert

Rosemary Probert
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No, the word of God and the love of God are freely available to ALL who want them. It's the so-called Christians who make it otherwise, and they will be called to account for it one day. "Not everyone who calls me "Lord, Lord" will enter the Kingdom of Heaven, but only those who obey the will of my Father" Matthew ch 7.

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Jennifer Norton
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They didn't want him there because he couldn't pay..... it's all about the money

shark172
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think things like this prompted the creation of the Salvation Army.

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#4

30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group When I was 6 years old, the pastor gave a letter to my aunt to give to my mom saying that we were not donating enough money to the church. So we stopped going, and I have never been to church since.

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group The expectations for women to be subservient to men and have no further aspirations than “wife and mother”.

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Nathaniel
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Religion really screws with women's rights. I was told once, by a chauvinist Christian that women have different rights, but they are still equal rights.

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group I worked at a restaurant near a church on Sundays. Rudest bunch of people ever.

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group It quickly became evident that many people who call themselves religious, only do so to feel morally superior to others around them, and then use that superiority to try to control everything they can.

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Nikki Sevven
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Which is morally superior, though? Subsuming morals that have been imposed on you by a church, or developing your own morals based on the idea that you should treat others the way you would like to be treated in similar circumstances? The latter actually requires self-reflection and thought, and can be modified as the times change. The former merely requires blind obedience and, apparently, judgment of others.

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group As a kid, someone explaining to me that my dog that just passed away wouldn't be in heaven. I'd never see him again. Because dogs can't accept Jesus Christ as their personal savior. So he was going to hell.

Pretty much done with it after that.

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Jelena
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For me, it was a claim that animals have no soul. and I am absolutely sure that they have it, both reason and soul, and more than some people.

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group Being told it was gods plan after my mother suffered through chemotherapy, and still passed away. I have no interest in a god who’s plan includes cancer

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MarmotArchivist
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sayings something like this to someone who lost their mother. This makes me want to punch them in the face.

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group When I realized the Bible wasn't written by God/Jesus and it was written by man and was written like 200 years after Jesus's death. Like I can't even 100% trust the word of a good friend who heard something from someone else in 2022, let alone some game telephone from 2000 years ago.

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Nikki Sevven
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also, rules that would have made perfect sense for the protection of a tribe in the Bronze Age (most of Leviticus) make absolutely no sense in the modern world. We can eat shellfish now, because we have freezers. We can get tattoos and piercings, because we have autoclaves. And so on.

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group There’s a short period of time where most of the religion started. Everything prior is mythology and everything after is a cult. Hmm, how convenient.

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Ozacoter
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is one of the biggest problem with traditional religions. They originate in ancient times, brutal, violent and sexist. How is it logical to follow rules that were developed thousands of years ago in a very different society? I dont need bronze and iron age people to tell me how to behave, how to dress, what to eat or whom to love.

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group Going to a megachurch.

They received over 1 mil in donations every weekend and spent it on elaborate props and videos rather than helping the community in any meaningful way.

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Kona Pake
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Do the elaborate props and videos include the Learjet, the Bentley and the weeklong retreat at European resorts?

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group The lack of compassion and rejection of science

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Nathaniel
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have noticed science is only accepted if it supports the religious worldview in some way. Any other science is to be dismissed.

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group I was 6 years old in a Saudi elementary school. There was this one Christian Bosnian kid whose dad was a butcher, he was incredibly kind and often gave me delicious smoked meat sandwiches.

The thought of him going to Hell as a non-Muslim was illogical, and made me question religion for the first time.

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Jamie Sterling
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was 12, I was told you had to believe in Jesus to go to heaven. I asked what about the other people in other countries that never even heard about Jesus. I was told they weren't going to heaven. My God wouldn't keep good people out of heaven just because they didn't know about Jesus. Goodness and kindness get you into heaven, not Jesus or religion in my belief system. I'm a nurse.

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group The non-answers to all my questions as a kid. "You just have to have faith" is a dumb way to respond to an inquisitive mind.

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group I started caring about what is actually true.

All the contradictions of every religion melt away when you can simply acknowledge all religions are man-made.

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group Religious people.

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Enlee Jones
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some of the most vile and bigoted people I have known would call themselves “good Christians” with a straight face. It seems like half the people I went to high school with wound up being ultra right-wing zealots who believe everything they read on Breibart.

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group My dad had cancer for 10 years and then he passed away when I was 14 years old. I thought I was having a good heart to heart with my small group leader about it.

She asked if my dad was "a man of God" because she wanted to make sure he isn't "burning in Hell"

Who the f**k says that to a grieving child? So completely insensitive. It took me several months to fully realize the weight of that conversation with her before I left religion altogether.

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Izzy Curer
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Setting aside the obvious reasons for why this was terrible, what, exactly, was the mf point in asking this? Let's assume for a moment that hell exists. What could be done about anything at that point? What could the kid do? What could the group person do? Nothing.

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group My mother. She instilled some serious shame into me under the guise of God. Some things she said:

-Not allowed to believe in Santa because that takes credit away from God. Santa was actually a hand of Satan trying to corrupt me

-Not allowed to believe in the Easter Bunny because it was also a hand of Satan trying to corrupt me away from Jesus.

-I wasn't allowed to feel pride in my accomplishments because it's a sin

-I was a d**khead because my dad got me fully vaccinated as a child and that is against God's plan

-Hollywood is operated by Satan so I wasn't allowed to watch movies or shows (especially Disney)

-Harry Potter was an absolute no because witchcraft is an affront to God

-Scientists should not be trusted under any circumstances

-My rare genetic condition was part of God's plan and I'd understand some day

-Not allowed to say "damn" because it's an affront to God

-etc

That combined with her regular, not religious abuse has left me struggling a lot with my religiosity.

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group Sermons alternated between asking for money, telling us LGBT people were bad, or telling us we were all worthless sinners without God.

Left church every Sunday feeling like s**t. One week, I just decided I'm not going back.

I don't miss it.

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group I was like 15 and playing an instrument in the “worship band” for the most popular “youth group” in the area (which is a verrry Christian area). At one point the pastor dude was praying and the musicians were behind him waiting to play when he was done. The whole room (200+) had their heads bowed as dude was praying. Then his prayer went into the whole “here’s what you pray if you want to become a Christian right now” yada yada yada.. then at the end he says

“Ok everyone keep your heads bowed, eyes closed. Now if you just prayed that prayer with me I want you to look up - everyone else keep your heads bowed- but if you just now gave your life to Jesus look up at me or raise your hand so I can see you”

I’m behind him, and facing the crowd who have their eyes closed so I decide it’s safe to take a peek. I discreetly look up and notice that exactly ZERO people in the crowd are looking up at him. Every single person still has their head bowed, eyes closed. (Which is fine, I mean maybe they were all already Christians?) However, as I’m looking at nobody responding, Mr Pastor starts saying “ok I see you there”, “oh I see another over there, Amen” “and you back there, praise god”. “Yes I see you over there, amen come find me afterwards”. It was perplexing to see him lie to so many people like that. And this wasn’t some nobody youth pastor, he was like quite legit having written books and being mentioned in national articles and stuff
TLDR; an acclaimed youth pastor tried to make it seem like his prayer had converted several people, when I could clearly see it had not

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Nikki Sevven
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always get a chuckle when I see Christian tattoos, since Leviticus strictly forbids them.

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group The fact that there are multiple but I was taught that only ONE is correct

Delicious_Toe_8104 , Adrian Scottow Report

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Nathaniel
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fun fact. All religions cannot be right. However all religions can be wrong.

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group The fact that if you're not in my religion, you're kinda f**ked in the afterlife. I didn't choose my religion, so what makes me so special?

Final_Ad_6862 , Ángel M. Felicísimo Report

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K- THULU
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Of course condemning a non believer to hell is pretty well the same as condemning them to narnia or the magical world of oz. I'm not really scared of a made up destination...

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group My parents pulling an exorcist on me. On their own. Screaming at me that I wasn’t their son but that there was a demon inside of me...

And more but that is the main thing tbh that has made me more an ant-theist than just an atheist

Mere-Thoughts , Daniel Borman Report

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Nathaniel
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What had the child done to make the parents think an exorcism is needed?

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group Honestly having to go to church as a little kid. Felt like an endurance test every Sunday to just get through it. Like, dude I’m 6 I wanna play with my action figures or be outside or game. I don’t wanna fight the fidgets in the pew listening to adults breathy sing to tired hymns while I just want it to end so I can go be a kid on the weekend. Then as I got older all the obvious reasons you see everywhere, the contradictions, violence, stupidity etc

_BluLeaf , Amanda Slater Report

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They did make it really tough on children. Some Churches had fun Sunday School or catechism classes but then you had to sit through Mass afterward. It felt like the worst punishment to sit still and be quiet for so long.

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#26

30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group There was never an answer.

I wanted to believe desperately.

I wanted to and I begged God to allow me to be doubtless. I tried and tried and tried to make it work. To make it fit.

I asked questions. I wondered. I pondered. I just got to a point where there were no more answers. No one had an answer that made sense.

Nothing that the next person couldn’t alter or contradict. Nothing that was ‘set’ or ‘fixed.’ It was all up in the air and I just needed more faith.

I tried. I really did. But my mind just won’t allow it anymore.

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Foxxy (The Original)
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's exactly how I feel. I ask a question, get answers but the answers end up giving me more questions. It just goes on and on and a lot of the time the answers don't make sense or just not logical etc.

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#27

30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group Being told I was going to rot in hell every time I made a simple mistake

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group Having to confess my “sins” as a 10 year old.

jk10102 , flowizm Report

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M O'Connell
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Didn't you just make up random s**t? That's what I did. The penance was always the same, which made it even more funny.

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#29

30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group Religious leaders ruined religion for me

Formal-Bat-6714 , Henry Burrows Report

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Ozacoter
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly. Like the new Pope pretending to be modern as a way to gain followers but then refusing that women get any power in the catholic church (f*****g sexism) and calling people that have no children selfish.

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30 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group former catholic, current atheist here. i am fortunate enough to not have had any severely traumatic experiences involving the church. but, i grew up in the church and i used to love to sing the hymns. as i got older i started to realize what the words i was singing meant. i really didn’t like how some of the hymns/songs called us as people “nothing” compared to god. i don’t really agree with devaluing and trivializing ourselves and our problems as part of worship. that is what really did it.

g_miller13 , denisbin Report

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Florence
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i agree, telling me i’m a worthless sinner compared to ThE lOvInG jEsUs ChRiSt really f****d with my already bad mental health

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