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“Am I A Jerk For Letting My Roommate Go Hungry Because They Cannot Understand How Food Works?”
When someone brings you a home-cooked meal, it should be enjoyed and appreciated, not thrown away in one swift motion. If the latter happens, food waste might not be the only problem.
Redditor u/ZealousidealFan8906 told the AITA community about falling out with their roommate because of such a situation. The roomie repeatedly asked for leftovers only to dispose of them soon after. The OP eventually refused to give any more food, but started to wonder if they’re a jerk for doing so, as the roommate said they were letting them starve.
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This person repeatedly shared leftovers with their roommate, but refused to do so after seeing what they did with them
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People waste billions of tons of food every year in countries all over the world
The OP was understandably upset about Tammy throwing away the leftovers. They spent time, money, and effort cooking the meal, and the roommate sent it all down the drain. (Well, into the trash can, in this case.) By doing that, she disrespected the cook and definitely didn’t make the situation with food waste any better.
As a matter of fact, as much as one third of the food in the world is wasted. An astonishing 1.3 billion tons of it would have been suitable for human consumption. To put matters into perspective, it is the equivalent of nearly 1,500 Golden Gate Bridges (887,000 tons each) combined. The situation in the US is no better than the global one—40% of food in the country ends up not being used.
To make matters worse, 14% of it is wasted after harvesting before even reaching the shelves. Another 17% is disposed of in homes, stores, and restaurants. Solving this global problem could help alleviate the issue of world hunger, which currently affects nearly 10% of our population.
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Such waste negatively affects the humankind as well as the planet, therefore, certain management strategies are created
More saddening statistics reveal that food waste has a strong negative impact not only on the human race, but on the planet as well. The quantity of CO2 it emits would be enough to make it the third largest emitter of greenhouse gasses, right after the US and China, if it was a country. In addition to that, it leads to wasting large amounts of water each year as well.
In order to tackle this problem, organizations are taking action to scale down the amounts they misuse or discard. Some of the ways to do that include reducing the surplus of generated food, donating it, and diverting scraps to animal feed or composting it.
Each person can contribute to minimizing such waste on their end. Steps as simple as planning your meals, storing the produce wisely, and paying attention to the food labeling can be enough to make a difference in the household. Trying to reduce it can also help to save money, which was one of the reasons the OP was so sensible about their food.
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People in the comments were unanimous about whether the OP is a jerk in the situation
What do you think ?
N Miller 1 year ago
Believe it or not, there's actually at least one "YTA" vote because OP gets money from their parents that they don't really "need". Sometimes it's fun to sort the AITA comments by "controversial" and see the trolls at work. (I'd vote NTA, for the record, it doesn't matter if OP has money to spare, wasting food, especially in the current climate - this was posted 3 days ago to Reddit - is criminal)
Trillian 1 year ago
Who gets to decide if she "needs" the money and even if the doesn't, she is in no way obligated to provide for a roommate.
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Fat Harry 1 year ago
Absolutely NTA. I *hate* seeing food wasted, particularly after I've spent a good amount of time preparing it.
Marilyn Russell 1 year ago
I agree. We were raised to finish what was on our plates. I had a nephew come over and went to throw out 3/4 of an expensive ribeye steak. I stopped him before it hit the garbage, telling him that could make another meal, like a steak sandwich. Besides, that’s part of an animal that gave its life for us to eat well. We must respect that. Not sure if he learned anything until there’s a day when he has to earn the money to feed himself and the time comes when funds are short…
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Scrolling Panda 1 year ago
Tell everyone she complains to that she's bitching that you won't let her take your lunch for tomorrow and pitch the whole meal into the garbage, which is what she did the last 2 times you agreed to let her have your lunch. Their opinion of her will change in an instant.
Rahul Pawa 1 year ago (edited)
I think OP will find that anyone who buys her BS won't change their opinion so easily.
Load More Replies... N Miller 1 year ago
Believe it or not, there's actually at least one "YTA" vote because OP gets money from their parents that they don't really "need". Sometimes it's fun to sort the AITA comments by "controversial" and see the trolls at work. (I'd vote NTA, for the record, it doesn't matter if OP has money to spare, wasting food, especially in the current climate - this was posted 3 days ago to Reddit - is criminal)
Trillian 1 year ago
Who gets to decide if she "needs" the money and even if the doesn't, she is in no way obligated to provide for a roommate.
Load More Replies... Fat Harry 1 year ago
Absolutely NTA. I *hate* seeing food wasted, particularly after I've spent a good amount of time preparing it.
Marilyn Russell 1 year ago
I agree. We were raised to finish what was on our plates. I had a nephew come over and went to throw out 3/4 of an expensive ribeye steak. I stopped him before it hit the garbage, telling him that could make another meal, like a steak sandwich. Besides, that’s part of an animal that gave its life for us to eat well. We must respect that. Not sure if he learned anything until there’s a day when he has to earn the money to feed himself and the time comes when funds are short…
Load More Replies... Scrolling Panda 1 year ago
Tell everyone she complains to that she's bitching that you won't let her take your lunch for tomorrow and pitch the whole meal into the garbage, which is what she did the last 2 times you agreed to let her have your lunch. Their opinion of her will change in an instant.
Rahul Pawa 1 year ago (edited)
I think OP will find that anyone who buys her BS won't change their opinion so easily.
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