“Spare His Life”: Woman Warns Roommate Not To Eat Her Food, Makes Him Learn The Hard Way

Living with a roommate isn’t just about sharing a space—it’s about sharing everything from kitchen essentials to the occasional WiFi struggle. Sometimes, the unspoken rule of borrowing is harmless, like using a plate or a power drill. But when boundaries aren’t respected, things can get messy—literally.

One woman found herself in a frustrating situation with a roommate who constantly stole her food, despite repeated warnings. After weeks of missing meals, she decided enough was enough. Knowing he had a severe nut allergy, she came up with a plan to teach him a lesson. Now, the internet is divided—was she justified in her actions, or did she take it too far? Keep reading to see how this food feud unfolded!

Comment from Dr. Sarah Meehan O’Callaghan

This story is undeniably bizarre. While the roommate’s actions—stealing food repeatedly—are unjustifiable and seem almost pathological, the response, which inflicted grievous potential harm, feels more like an act of revenge than a mere deterrent. Revenge runs deep in the human psyche, and the more powerless we feel in a situation, the more tempting it becomes. Rage and revenge are closely intertwined.

According to Dr Bernard Golden, who wrote for Psychology Today, “A powerful driving force for revenge is the belief that acting out the desire for revenge will provide an emotional release, that it will help us feel better.” Notably, in this article, the person concerned does not ask her roommate to move out, which seems like a better solution than poisoning. – Dr. Sarah Meehan O’Callaghan

Preparing meals in advance is always a smart choice to avoid eating out

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Folks online suggested alternative ways the author could have handled the situation

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Meal planning is essential for individuals with specific dietary requirements

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When it comes to roommates, there are both spoken and unspoken rules. Some roommates share more than just rent—they split groceries, household essentials, and even the occasional takeout order. Then there are those who keep everything separate, down to the last spoon. And while every arrangement is different, one thing should always be clear: boundaries matter.  

Respecting these boundaries is especially important when it comes to food. People carefully plan their meals based on their dietary needs, schedules, and health goals. To get a better understanding of this, we spoke to Saloni Kukreja, a nutritionist based in Germany with over a decade of experience in meal planning and dietary management.  

“I work with many clients who have specific dietary needs,” Saloni shared. “Some have restrictions due to allergies or health conditions, while others want to improve their nutrition, like increasing iron intake or balancing their macros. Meal planning is crucial for them.”  

Many of her clients also lead busy lives and look for quick, easy meal options. “A lot of them don’t have time to cook every day, so they need meals that are healthy, filling, and easy to prepare,” she explained. “That’s why having a structured plan is so important—it ensures they meet their nutritional needs without the stress.”  

One of the first things she advised was getting organized with groceries. “I always suggest making a detailed shopping list for the week,” she said. “That way, you know exactly what to buy, you don’t waste money on unnecessary items, and you can stick to your planned meals.”  

Another key tip is meal prepping. “I recommend setting aside a day—usually on your day off—to prep meals in advance,” she noted. “This way, you don’t have to scramble for food during the week, and you can make sure each meal has the right nutrients.”  

Beyond basic meal planning, Saloni also works with clients who struggle with eating disorders. “Food can be a complicated and emotional subject,” she shared. “For some, eating isn’t just about nutrition—it’s tied to deep-rooted anxieties. We need to approach it with patience and understanding.”  

It’s always helpful to communicate your eating disorders with loved ones so they can provide the support you need on your journey

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She encourages taking small steps toward healthier habits. “If someone has an unhealthy relationship with food, I never push drastic changes,” she said. “Instead, we work on gradual progress, so they don’t feel overwhelmed.”  

Support from loved ones also plays a crucial role. “When someone is trying to establish a better routine with food, having people around them who respect and support their choices makes a huge difference,” she emphasized. “It’s important to communicate your needs clearly and set firm boundaries.”  

At the end of the day, Saloni finds immense pride in seeing her clients reach their goals. “It’s rewarding to see people build healthier relationships with food,” she said. “When someone tells me they feel better, have more energy, or finally enjoy eating without stress, it reminds me why I love what I do.”  

In this particular case, the roommate should have been more mindful before stealing food—especially considering his allergy. What do you think? Have you ever dealt with a roommate who didn’t respect boundaries? Let us know!

Many believed the author’s actions were justified given her roommate’s behavior

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Others online felt she shouldn’t have put her roommate’s life at risk this way

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