Please don't mess with food though... Read somewhere some people working at a restaurant just ignored any special orders (remove x ingredient because of allergy etc) and left the ingredients in... That can kill someone if they're really allergic. I get that it's super frustrating and a lot of work when people fake allergies because they just don't like some things. also pretty annoying for people who actually are allergic. (I'm allergic to some things too, I just choose food that doesn't have any of those ingredients)

I wholeheartedly agree. Went to family dinner in a restaurant with a relative who was very rude and cannot control her temper because the food was late. I lost all apetite afraid of what the servers might have done to our food. You really cannot choose relatives and unfortunately family get -togethers are sometimes mandatory in a close knit Asian family. So embarrassing.

I handle your food as the cook

It can be fun if you're working with a good crew, but it takes a special kind of crazy to do it long term.