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Trolls Tell ‘Curvy’ Woman She Does Not Deserve A ‘6-Pack’ Husband, And Her Response Is The Best
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Trolls Tell ‘Curvy’ Woman She Does Not Deserve A ‘6-Pack’ Husband, And Her Response Is The Best

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Ever since the dawn of the internet, there have been trolls. These broken, deeply insecure people love nothing more than to bring others down to their level by preying on their insecurities. When Instagrammer and Podcaster Jenna Kutcher was messaged by someone who ‘couldn’t believe’ she had managed to land herself such a hot husband, she decided to neutralize her troll’s power completely by sharing her experience and turning it into an inspiring message of body positivity.

Jenna and her husband Drew have been married for 11 years and are deeply in love. Jenna is a beautiful, healthy and successful woman, and Drew is a loving husband and fitness and health coach. Drew’s honed physique from his days in the gym does, Jenna admits, play on her mind when she looks at herself in the mirror.

“Part of my insecurity with my body has stemmed around being married to Mr. 6-Pack himself. Why should I, a curvy girl get him? She said. “I feel unworthy and when I write narratives in my head that because I am not thin, I don’t deserve him.”

So her troll had managed to find her weakness and ruthlessly exploit it. “I’ll be honest that I was taken aback.”

But instead of letting the troll get to her, she decided to show everybody why love is so much more than skin deep. “This man has embraced every curve, every dimple, pound and pimple for the last ten years and has always me reminded me that I’m beautiful even when my inner dialogue doesn’t match,” she said. “So yes, my thighs kiss, my arms are big, and my bum is bumpy but there is just more of me for him to love and I chose the man that could handle all that (and so much more!).”

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“I am so much more than my body, so is he, and so are you. Double tap if true love doesn’t see size.”

Her frank honestly and positive message has inspired thousands of people who relate to her insecurities. Because for some reason society still has a hang-up about seeing couples of differing sizes together, especially if it is the woman who is heavier.

Put it down to ignorance, jealousy, the constant pushing of body ideals through media and marketing or whatever, but something is not quite right. As one commenter put it: “Let us also take a moment to acknowledge how backwards it is that our world thinks that she is “too fat” to be with him. When did a lovely curvy woman, who is clearly of average size, become a symbol of someone unlovable?! It’s crazy! Love is love is love.”

Scroll down below to check Jenna’s story out for yourself, and let us know what you think in the comments.

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    And her fitness trainer husband of 11 years, Drew

    The couple are deeply in love and share many pictures together online

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    Unfortunately, not everyone has good things to say about them

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    So Jenna decided to open up about the insecurities that her trolls can sometimes touch upon:

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    Her message has inspired many others, who relate to her ‘inner dialogue’

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    Ilona Baliūnaitė

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    Ilona Baliūnaitė

    Ilona Baliūnaitė

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    I'm a Visual Editor at Bored Panda since 2017. I've searched through a multitude of images to create over 2000 diverse posts on a wide range of topics. I love memes, funny, and cute stuff, but I'm also into social issues topics. Despite my background in communication, my heart belongs to visual media, especially photography. When I'm not at my desk, you're likely to find me in the streets with my camera, checking out cool exhibitions, watching a movie at the cinema or just chilling with a coffee in a cozy place

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    athornedrose
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    6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why do people feel the need to c**p all over someone else's life? they're individuals and they get to choose what is important to them, what is beautiful to them, and how they want to live their lives. she is not a bear setting a trap for some "better looking" guy, and he is not a prize to be won at a beauty pageant.

    stellermatt
    Community Member
    6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if you hadn't put the title above the article, I'd have looked at the picture and thought 'ok, cool, nice couple, is this an article about beaches? holidays? cool couples?" but no it's about a damn fine lady having to put up with small minded BS.

    Kjorn
    Community Member
    6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    that's a proof that not all 'hot' guys are douchbag. i'm pretty sure that all of those who trolled her are just envious that she find a pearl in the ocean

    Petra Christovová
    Community Member
    6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would say that all of those who trolled her are just envious period. Most of people who keep dissing anyone just for fun are actually morons with issues.

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    athornedrose
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    6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why do people feel the need to c**p all over someone else's life? they're individuals and they get to choose what is important to them, what is beautiful to them, and how they want to live their lives. she is not a bear setting a trap for some "better looking" guy, and he is not a prize to be won at a beauty pageant.

    stellermatt
    Community Member
    6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if you hadn't put the title above the article, I'd have looked at the picture and thought 'ok, cool, nice couple, is this an article about beaches? holidays? cool couples?" but no it's about a damn fine lady having to put up with small minded BS.

    Kjorn
    Community Member
    6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    that's a proof that not all 'hot' guys are douchbag. i'm pretty sure that all of those who trolled her are just envious that she find a pearl in the ocean

    Petra Christovová
    Community Member
    6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would say that all of those who trolled her are just envious period. Most of people who keep dissing anyone just for fun are actually morons with issues.

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