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‘Religious’ Workplace Reveals Its True Nature When Boss Won’t Grant A Grieving Woman More Time Off
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‘Religious’ Workplace Reveals Its True Nature When Boss Won’t Grant A Grieving Woman More Time Off

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Losing a family member is a dreadfully painful affair, and every person is entitled to grieve for as long as they need. However, it seems that not everybody agrees. 

Take this Redditor, for instance. When the woman lost her beloved grandmother, she was only granted three days of unpaid leave – so instead of complying, she went to a walk-in clinic and got a doctor’s note for a two-week leave. 

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This woman went back to her hometown to say goodbye to her sick grandmother

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When she passed away, her “religious” workplace only allowed 3 days of unpaid leave

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Image source: u/Sea_Somewhere2297

Religious workplace wouldn’t give me time off for my grandma’s death” – this internet user took to one of Reddit’s most popular communities to tell its members a tale of how she maliciously complied with her work’s demand and got a 2-week leave to grieve her late grandmother. The post managed to garner nearly 7K upvotes as well as 347 comments discussing the situation. 

Now, it’s no big secret that employment is somewhat of a gamble. I mean, you either get a company that puts the well-being of their subordinates first or one that couldn’t give a hoot about that stuff.

Either way, we are all required to take a leave of absence at some point or another – and it’s not always as easy as it perhaps should be.

Vacations, medical reasons, maternity/paternity leave, mental health, educational pursuits, religious observances, personal days, jury duty, childcare needs, emergency situations, or, like in today’s story, bereavement leave – life is an unpredictable thing, and each and every one of us hopes for the place where we spend the majority of our time to have our backs!

In an ideal world, you should be able to have clear and straightforward communication with your boss, which will let both parties reach an agreement that works; however, sadly, that’s not always the case.

If we were to speak about bereavement leave specifically, usually, there’s no limit, but organizations tend to grant around three to five days. It’s a no-brainer that this amount of time is not nearly enough for folks to grieve their loved ones – but if your boss is not a coldhearted tyrant, there shouldn’t be a problem in getting as much time off as you need.

In worst-case scenarios, you can always get unpaid leave covered by the FMLA (Family and Medical Leave Act), which allows workers to take up to 12 weeks, or find a loophole and go to your walk-in clinic and get a sick note – however, again, why should you have to?

So she went to a walk-in clinic and got a sick note for 2 weeks from her doctor

Image credits: Mehmet Turgut Kirkgoz (not the actual photo)

The author of today’s post, u/Sea_Somewhere2297, knowing that her grandmother’s health was declining, informed her workplace beforehand and said that soon she might need some time off to go and say her goodbyes. The woman got a phone call just a couple of weeks later and headed to her hometown, where her grandmother passed away shortly thereafter.

Needless to say, the Redditor took it very hard – however, she was only granted three unpaid days and was told that she must return immediately after. The OP was taken aback by such a request as she works at a childcare company that is said to value religion and family, but instead of wasting her time, she decided to maliciously comply and head to a walk-in clinic to get a note from a doctor. 

The doc in question was also puzzled, and instead of giving the woman a week off, wrote her a note for a 2-week leave. 

What do you think about this story, Pandas? Have you ever had to deal with a similar situation? 

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I am a visual editor here. In my free time I enjoy the vibrant worlds of art galleries, exhibitions, and soulful concerts. Yet, amidst life's hustle and bustle, I find solace in nature's embrace, cherishing tranquil moments with beloved friends. Deep within, I hold a dream close - to embark on a global journey in an RV, accompanied by my faithful canine companion. Together, we'll wander through diverse cultures, weaving precious memories under the starry night sky, fulfilling the wanderlust that stirs my soul.

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Helena
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every business I've ever dealt with that revels in their religion (fish on the bumper, "christian" worked somewhere into the advertising), never fails that they're horrible and you will be screwed over.

Sathe Wesker
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Man, I told my work that I would need time off soon due to my father being terminally ill and very much on his death bed. When the time came, I got the call while at work. I went to the two owners (brother in laws) and they immediately told me to go home and wiped my schedule for two weeks, no questions asked but lots of condolences. They were good guys (happened in Canada for the record, I honestly don’t know what bereavement leave is like here but they just did what they felt was right I think).

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Helena
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every business I've ever dealt with that revels in their religion (fish on the bumper, "christian" worked somewhere into the advertising), never fails that they're horrible and you will be screwed over.

Sathe Wesker
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Man, I told my work that I would need time off soon due to my father being terminally ill and very much on his death bed. When the time came, I got the call while at work. I went to the two owners (brother in laws) and they immediately told me to go home and wiped my schedule for two weeks, no questions asked but lots of condolences. They were good guys (happened in Canada for the record, I honestly don’t know what bereavement leave is like here but they just did what they felt was right I think).

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