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If there's anything that unites people online instead of pitting them against each other, it's memes. Even moms and dads who might have vastly different approaches to raising children can find common ground through this universal language. And the Instagram account 'Death by Diapers' is an excellent example of this.

Run by a self-described "geriatric Millennial with 5 young kids, using memes to cope with this beautifully tragic thing called parenthood," it strikes to the very core of what this journey is all about and has already earned itself 67.2K followers, proving that some victories, defeats, and challenges are simply universal.

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Whether on the internet or in real life, moms and dads benefit from each other's support and camaraderie. Vicki Broadbent, the woman behind the acclaimed family lifestyle blog Honest Mum, believes that parents need other parents so they don't feel so alone.

But that said, "I only mix with parents I would hang out with even if we weren't parents," she explained to Bored Panda. "Being moms, for example, is not enough to make us compatible as friends. We need to share values first and foremost, but also interests too, outside of our kids in order to bond and enjoy one another's company."

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"Ultimately friendship is about coming together and having fun, it's about feeling comfortable in one another's company and it involves building trust which usually occurs over time," Broadbent added.

"I cherish my friends who are parents because they're non-judgmental, kind, and supportive. They're all super funny too!"

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These relationships can indeed be valuable. For example, according to a recent survey by the Pew Research Center, American parents are more likely to say they feel judged by family members than by their friends, other parents in their community, or people they interact with online.

However, while about half or fewer parents say they regularly feel judged by different groups, a majority of them (57%) report there might be some truth to it, as they believe their children's successes and failures reflect a great deal or a fair amount on the job they're doing as parents.

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"Horses for courses though right, not every friend needs to meet your every need, and some friends will be more of an acquaintance, others will be your 'ride or dies,'" Vicki of Honest Mum added.

"Keep your circle small though and find out if they have your back before telling them your most intimate secrets!"

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At the end of the day, the mom believes it all comes down to trust and what feels comfortable. "Some feel it's easier to open up candidly to those they don't know that well. Others, like myself, have to have known friends for years to be fully vulnerable. Follow your heart, but be cautious too; it's hard to ascertain people's intentions when you've only just met them," she suggested. So if memes are enough for you, that's good too!

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Kat Lyle
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

they shared a BODY for several months (not all pregnancies are equal) - you think a bit of saliva is worrying?

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Curry on...
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The first time I saw the backwash in my drink left by I kid, I vowed never to eat or drink behind either of them/

Catharina Geerts
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would not be able to do that. Even as a toddler, I refused to eat anything left by a sibling, even if they had taken just one bite, or licked it. Ew

CD Mills
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, no. I don't eat or drink after anyone, not even my kids. Nope!

Almost sunny
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always ate the left overs to save food waste. Was easier than cooking myself something.

StrangeOne
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sometimes that was the meal I got lol. Felt a bit awkward doing that when we'd be out. People staring, thinking I'm eating all her food and starving her.

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Alexandra
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No way I'm eating my kid's scraps! He's eating mine! His scraps will go to the birds, tortoise or will go on the compost heap.

Kim Lorton
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11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Mom and dad said there was enough lunch meat for sandwiches for dinner, make sure they eat a salad also! Babysitter says .. sure! Dinner time comes, kid one eats 2 sandwiches extra everything, except the crusts..kid number 2, 1/2 sandwich and feeds the dog the other half. No more sandwich stuff left for babysitter, grocery run tomorrow is why kids are eating sandwiches. Babysitter finds secret stash of goodies and eats all of it leaving crumbs and a note in the bag,,, your kids eat lots… i found your oreos and chips! They were great for my dinner. Next time please shop before I come to sit for you or I will charge for food!!

My O My
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never did so. But there are days were you can eat this or nothing as a parent.

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