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“I Warned Them Multiple Times”: Person Called Out For Petty Revenge Against Friends
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“I Warned Them Multiple Times”: Person Called Out For Petty Revenge Against Friends

Interview With Expert “I Warned Them Multiple Times”: Person Called Out For Petty Revenge Against FriendsFriend With Large Umbrella Refuses To Share, Leaving Companions Drenched To Make A PointFriend Refuses To Share Umbrella That “Could Easily Fit 2 People” Just To Prove A PointPerson Refuses To Buy An Umbrella, Friend Keeps Reminding Them They Are Not SharingPerson Refuses To Share Umbrella After Repeatedly Warning Friend To Get One“I Warned Them”: Travelers Get Drenched In Japan After Stubborn Friend Won’t Share UmbrellaPerson Leaves Friends Soaked Despite Having Large Enough Umbrella To Fit Them AllPerson Refuses To Share Umbrella With Friend Who Underestimated The Weather In JapanUmbrella-Gate: Person Asks If They Went Too Far Teaching Friends A Lesson In Weather
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As Northern Europeans love to say, “There’s no such thing as bad weather, only bad clothing.” This adage can be a great reminder to always pack a raincoat, an extra pair of socks, a jacket even when it’s warm and a hat, just in case! But when you’re traveling, making sure you’re well equipped for the elements can be a bit more complicated.

One person warned their friends multiple times to buy umbrellas while visiting Japan, as they knew rain was on the horizon. But when the friends ignored their suggestion, they decided to ignore the fact that they would end up soaking wet. Below, you’ll find the full story that was posted in the “Am I the [Jerk]?” community, as well as conversations with the team at Japan Wonder Travel and Andres Zuleta from Boutique Japan!

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    After warning their friends to buy umbrellas, this person refused to share when the downpour finally came

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    “The weather is usually pretty steady, with days being consistently sunny or cloudy, but rain can be quite unpredictable”

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    To find out more about the weather in Japan and how to prepare for a visit to this beautiful country, we reached out to the team at Japan Wonder Travel. They were kind enough to have a chat with Bored Panda and provide more insight into their country’s climate.

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    “Weather in Japan right now is quite unique, as we are currently in the middle of the ‘rainy season,’” they shared. “The weather is usually pretty steady, with days being consistently sunny or cloudy, but rain can be quite unpredictable. Rain is typically quite light, but we do have heavier downpours on occasion.”

    We were also lucky enough to get in touch with Andres Zuleta, Founder of Boutique Japan, to hear even more about the weather in Japan from a local. “As Japan is an island nation, the weather is often unpredictable. In other words, it can rain at any time,” Andres says.

    “There are particular times of year when rain is to be expected. For example, in early summer we have the tsuyu (or plum rains), a rainy season that begins around early to mid June every year. Similarly, there can be typhoons anytime from around May to October,” the expert explained. “But even apart from this, it can rain in any season, so we always recommend that travelers be aware of this.”

    “If you see locals carrying umbrellas, it’s safe to assume rain is in the forecast”

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    As for how locals prepare for the rain, Japan Wonder Travel shared that they “typically use umbrellas and only really wear jackets when they are riding bicycles or if the rain is especially heavy.”

    “Umbrellas are ubiquitous in Japan, and the most common way to be prepared for the rain,” Andres added. “Whenever rain is forecast, you tend to see people carrying umbrellas around in preparation. Basically, if you see locals carrying umbrellas, it’s safe to assume rain is in the forecast.”

    He also noted that many hotels have a stock of umbrellas that guests can use for convenience on rainy days. “It’s also very easy to purchase an umbrella at any conbini (convenience store), and the cost is generally quite reasonable,” Andres shared. “As in other countries, some people also wear raincoats, but umbrellas are the most widespread way people in Japan keep themselves dry when it rains.”

    We were also curious about what visitors should bring along with them to help prepare for the weather in Japan. “Absolutely bring some kind of water-resistant footwear,” the Japan Wonder Travel team shared. “It will make a world of difference. Especially if you are a tourist, something that is water-resistant and good for walking would be best. It ruins a good day of sightseeing if you have wet socks all day.”

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    “One benefit of exploring when it’s rainy out is that you’re likely to encounter fewer fellow tourists”

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    “Accept that it may rain during your trip, whether you’re visiting during rainy season or not,” Andres noted. “We always recommend packing good walking shoes for rainy weather, just in case. It’s not really necessary to bring one’s own umbrella, though some travelers may choose to bring a small, packable umbrella. However, as noted above, most hotels stock umbrellas for their guests to use, and it’s also easy to purchase one while out and about exploring.”

    “One benefit of exploring when it’s rainy out is that you’re likely to encounter fewer fellow tourists, so make the most of it!” Andres added.

    But rain isn’t the only thing that travelers should be aware of before making their way to Japan. “Outside of the rain, this time of year is quite hot and humid. If you are in Japan around July-September, please be prepared for the heat,” the Japan Wonder Travel team shared. “Bring light clothing and have pocket money in order to buy drinks to stay hydrated.”

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    We would love to hear your thoughts on this story in the comments below, pandas. Then, if you’re interested in checking out another Bored Panda piece discussing travel drama between friends, we recommend reading this article next!

    Many readers called out the author’s petty behavior, noting that a good friend would have been willing to share

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    However, some took the author’s side and agreed that they weren’t obligated to share

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    Aelin Wildfire
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If umbrellas are so common to find/buy there, then why didn't they just stop to buy another one (or two)? Walking for 30 minutes in the rain because you don't want to stop to get yourself an umbrella is a lot different from doing so because your friend doesn't want to share...

    rullyman
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For real, you can buy an umbrella for 500 yen at any convenience store. In a normal built up area, they would have been close to many convenience stores- maybe not right on the route, but certainly nearby.

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    Space Invader
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    4 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can picture the OP standing at a japanese bus stop in the pouring rain when suddenly he notices a big, furry presence beside him. He glances over at the mysterious creature, then at his umbrella, and then back at the huge thing beside him before shouting "Get your own f***ing umbrella, Totoro!"

    Cyril Sneer
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This "correct response is not to acknowledge rain" thing is complete BS. The correct response is to put on a raincoat or use an umbrella ajd then go to the pub for a pint an complain about the weather. Umbrellas are very easy to come by in Japan. If they were anywhere urban during shop opening hours, it seems odd they couldn't get an umbrella. Anyway, I highly recommend an umbrella and waterproof shoes when traveling in Japan and rain is forecast. In England the rain tends to come in flurries or the air is just wet, so a raincoat usually does the job. Take your cue from the locals. Umbrellas are really common in Japan,l. In England l, still common but much less so.

    Magazine
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I carry a bottle of water with me at all times, especially in the summer. I had a friend who didn't want to carry the weight, but demanded to drink from my bottle when she was thirsty. She even told me once "I won't carry water because I know you do". Keyword here is "I HAD a friend"

    UpupaEpops
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did this once. Never again. I was hiking on a fairly elevated route. Estimated to need about 6 - 8 hours so packed water and food accordingly. My climbing partner decided to wing it. About half an hour after we've reached the snow line, he asks for a bite of my sandwich and a sip of water. Decides to eat half of the said sandwich and drinks an entire bottle of water. Then proceeds to turn around because he's too tired to continue. I was strongly contemplating kicking him down a ravine.

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    Apatheist Account2
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is nonsense. I'm English and used to carry an umbrella everywhere, and have one in the car. It's different when on holiday perhaps, but the British way isn't just to let your friends get wet. I call BS.

    CanadianDimes
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah same. I live in London and if OP thinks British people don’t talk about the rain, they’ve never interacted with anyone living in the UK.

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    G A
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Clearly BS. No British person said that ever. Someone making stuff up based on the old trope it always rains in the UK. We are going through a heatwave currently, and it is very humid, so I have a coat and sunglasses in my Backpack to cover all eventualities. Can't use an umbrella as I walk with a stick.

    Jenny Mason
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It definitely isn't a heatwave here in NW England. It's been around 15C for several days and it rained non-stop for the last two. I have my heating on.

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    Jenny Mason
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm English and I really don't understand what they are saying about not acknowledging rain. We most definitely do. One of our favourite pastimes is whinging about the weather.

    MR
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We seem to be missing the part where the friends ask or expect to be protected. The friends need to be taking ownership of their own needs, including protecting themselves from the elements. And I sincerely doubt in those 30 minutes there weren't multiple opportunities to for them to purchase an umbrella of their own. If they refused to do so under some misguided belief OP should give up their umbrella for the two of them, we'll, that's foolish.

    Gavin Johnson
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are times in life when we have learning opportunities, we choose whether or not we embrace them. Is it your job to force it upon your friends at their expense? In this case I’d argue that sharing an umbrella is the better learning opportunity, they will be aware that they SHOULD have bought an umbrella but they’ve also learnt that their friend has a heart and will share in times of need. They aren’t toddlers being taught right and wrong, they are adults.

    John Harrison
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All of the YTA's on this thread are the kind who dont listen/prepare and then whine when no one fixes the problem for them. Enjoy getting soaked, YTA's, I'm comfy under my umbrella. 😁

    Laura Slade
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rubbish, of course we acknowledge the rain! I lived in Manchester for 4 years, you couldn't ignore it !!!!

    Natalia
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We most definitely DO mention the rain in England. The weather is one of our most talked about subjects!

    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How are they from England and don't know how to prepare for rain? The not sharing because I told you so and I'd rather see my friends suffering than being slightly inconvenienced is in line with every experience I've had with English abroad.

    IndigoViolent
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would you buy an umbrella big enough for two people if you weren't going to share? That alone is a d!ck move.

    Tobias Reaper
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this is fake I think for one simple reason the part about we are from England where we don't acknowledge the rain. Any brit or person who has lived here long enough knows that is a great British past time complaining about the weather.

    Kyra Heiker
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm German, I have five umbrellas including the one I leave at work. As we say here, if you don't like the weather wait 5 minutes.

    MidnightProphecy
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Since when do we not acknowledge the rain? Are we just robots who let themselves get wet? Weirdo

    George D
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Technically NTA due to the countless warnings and heads up, however, I think the lesson learned after a minute or two in the downpour and then invite her under the umbrella would have been a good compromise. This brings up a larger issue, some people just cannot look ahead and consider eventualities that would/could ruin an otherwise good experience. My wife is this way EVERY SINGLE TIME with her shoes. She'll wear the wrong type for the occasion and downplay what could unfold. Next thing you know it, blister on the back of the foot or cramp in the pinky toe, etc. My friend's wives are with us and they don't have any issues. Ever. The irony is she's smarter than all of them. Blows my mind.

    Ge Po
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First time, I would have let them get soaked a little, then help out. If they do not prepare next time after being warned, they're on their own.

    Alison M.
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder if they are still friends... 4 years later. Do they still talk about their trip to Japan? Did the friends learn from their mistake or are they still getting drenched in the UK rain?

    Verena
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just pack an emergeny rain cape that requires next to zero space, if even a "Knirps" (this is a special type of collapsible umbrella of decent size) is too much of a hassle. Checking on the weather and prepare accordingly is a basic action. I live at the Dutch coast, tourists ask on Fb "what shall we pack for July/August?". Answer: Hot-weather and beach clothing AND at least 1 raincoat/storm-safe umbrella, 1 set of warm sweater&trousers/pants&socks&watertight, high ankle shoes. Temperature can plummet from 30 to 15 within minutes, and rain is to be expected daily. But ... why does OP feels the urge to take this to the internet? If your friend is constantly expecting that you drag all stuff along to cater for his needs, despite advice, NTA. If it was a one/off: That was not nice, even if understandable. OP knows that and does not need the world to point that out.

    Livingwithcfs
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She made an AH move, but I can't blame her, she told them, they where aware of the forecast and for God sake, they are english, they know about rain, of course they should have been prepared. Basically it serves them right - yip she's the AH but they deserved it by being deliberately stupid

    intermezzono1
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    gotta love people insulting the author and in the same breath saying how unkind they are. you could have gotten an unbrella - you didnt. you could have listened to your friend - you didnt. sharing an umbrella always slows down a group and never fully covers two people. So its fine.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ESH. Listen to the resident if they warn. Don't be a d1ck when proved right.

    Anne Nielsen
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had this happen to me in Italy. It looked like rain. I took a light weight Shaw and bought an umbrella. My travel companion REFUSED to consider either. She did not want to CARRY them. But when it started raining, she whined do much I have her my umbrella keeping the shawl. She whined excessively. A gave in and gave my shawl over too. Then she got angry when I dropped on the floor at our hotel!

    Milena B. G. Rosa
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would say YTA, but... If she relented immediatly, the friends would not learn anything. If she gave in after, all it would do was end up with Her soaked too, because sharing an umbrella, evento one big, will end with both persons wet

    Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
    Community Member
    4 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Both of tou had a strange hill to die on imo. Also who in England doesn't acknowledge rain?? No clue what OP means

    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    4 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one mentioned the fact that when you share an umbrella, you keep bumping into each other and you end up getting wet besides. But everyone here is an 🫏🕳️: her for not telling them upfront that when it rains, she’s not gonna share (because bumping/getting wet), and the friends for being dopes who don’t grab themselves a cheap umbrella and instead count on her bail them out and to hafta deal with bumping/getting wet because they didn’t plan ahead and were too cheap to spend the buck (er, yen).

    Joanne Earle
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I lived in the PNW and we ignored the rain too. I had a raincoat but there was a saying up there that only the weak and tourists used umbrellas. That said, I would never deny a friend space under the bumbershoot even after warning them. The OP is the AH.

    DC
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't get it. If they were opposing that YOU buy one, NTA. If you just refused, just because, YTA.

    Sea Squirrel
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's right. They're stupid. For believing she's their friend.

    lwolf1952
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it's hilarious, they got what they deserved for being so clueless even after being warned multiple times. It's not like they were going to die from getting wet. If I had six umbrellas I wouldn't let any of you "YTA" types borrow one.

    Aelin Wildfire
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If umbrellas are so common to find/buy there, then why didn't they just stop to buy another one (or two)? Walking for 30 minutes in the rain because you don't want to stop to get yourself an umbrella is a lot different from doing so because your friend doesn't want to share...

    rullyman
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For real, you can buy an umbrella for 500 yen at any convenience store. In a normal built up area, they would have been close to many convenience stores- maybe not right on the route, but certainly nearby.

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    Space Invader
    Community Member
    4 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can picture the OP standing at a japanese bus stop in the pouring rain when suddenly he notices a big, furry presence beside him. He glances over at the mysterious creature, then at his umbrella, and then back at the huge thing beside him before shouting "Get your own f***ing umbrella, Totoro!"

    Cyril Sneer
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This "correct response is not to acknowledge rain" thing is complete BS. The correct response is to put on a raincoat or use an umbrella ajd then go to the pub for a pint an complain about the weather. Umbrellas are very easy to come by in Japan. If they were anywhere urban during shop opening hours, it seems odd they couldn't get an umbrella. Anyway, I highly recommend an umbrella and waterproof shoes when traveling in Japan and rain is forecast. In England the rain tends to come in flurries or the air is just wet, so a raincoat usually does the job. Take your cue from the locals. Umbrellas are really common in Japan,l. In England l, still common but much less so.

    Magazine
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I carry a bottle of water with me at all times, especially in the summer. I had a friend who didn't want to carry the weight, but demanded to drink from my bottle when she was thirsty. She even told me once "I won't carry water because I know you do". Keyword here is "I HAD a friend"

    UpupaEpops
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did this once. Never again. I was hiking on a fairly elevated route. Estimated to need about 6 - 8 hours so packed water and food accordingly. My climbing partner decided to wing it. About half an hour after we've reached the snow line, he asks for a bite of my sandwich and a sip of water. Decides to eat half of the said sandwich and drinks an entire bottle of water. Then proceeds to turn around because he's too tired to continue. I was strongly contemplating kicking him down a ravine.

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    Apatheist Account2
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is nonsense. I'm English and used to carry an umbrella everywhere, and have one in the car. It's different when on holiday perhaps, but the British way isn't just to let your friends get wet. I call BS.

    CanadianDimes
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah same. I live in London and if OP thinks British people don’t talk about the rain, they’ve never interacted with anyone living in the UK.

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    G A
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Clearly BS. No British person said that ever. Someone making stuff up based on the old trope it always rains in the UK. We are going through a heatwave currently, and it is very humid, so I have a coat and sunglasses in my Backpack to cover all eventualities. Can't use an umbrella as I walk with a stick.

    Jenny Mason
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It definitely isn't a heatwave here in NW England. It's been around 15C for several days and it rained non-stop for the last two. I have my heating on.

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    Jenny Mason
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm English and I really don't understand what they are saying about not acknowledging rain. We most definitely do. One of our favourite pastimes is whinging about the weather.

    MR
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We seem to be missing the part where the friends ask or expect to be protected. The friends need to be taking ownership of their own needs, including protecting themselves from the elements. And I sincerely doubt in those 30 minutes there weren't multiple opportunities to for them to purchase an umbrella of their own. If they refused to do so under some misguided belief OP should give up their umbrella for the two of them, we'll, that's foolish.

    Gavin Johnson
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are times in life when we have learning opportunities, we choose whether or not we embrace them. Is it your job to force it upon your friends at their expense? In this case I’d argue that sharing an umbrella is the better learning opportunity, they will be aware that they SHOULD have bought an umbrella but they’ve also learnt that their friend has a heart and will share in times of need. They aren’t toddlers being taught right and wrong, they are adults.

    John Harrison
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All of the YTA's on this thread are the kind who dont listen/prepare and then whine when no one fixes the problem for them. Enjoy getting soaked, YTA's, I'm comfy under my umbrella. 😁

    Laura Slade
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rubbish, of course we acknowledge the rain! I lived in Manchester for 4 years, you couldn't ignore it !!!!

    Natalia
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We most definitely DO mention the rain in England. The weather is one of our most talked about subjects!

    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How are they from England and don't know how to prepare for rain? The not sharing because I told you so and I'd rather see my friends suffering than being slightly inconvenienced is in line with every experience I've had with English abroad.

    IndigoViolent
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would you buy an umbrella big enough for two people if you weren't going to share? That alone is a d!ck move.

    Tobias Reaper
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this is fake I think for one simple reason the part about we are from England where we don't acknowledge the rain. Any brit or person who has lived here long enough knows that is a great British past time complaining about the weather.

    Kyra Heiker
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm German, I have five umbrellas including the one I leave at work. As we say here, if you don't like the weather wait 5 minutes.

    MidnightProphecy
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Since when do we not acknowledge the rain? Are we just robots who let themselves get wet? Weirdo

    George D
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Technically NTA due to the countless warnings and heads up, however, I think the lesson learned after a minute or two in the downpour and then invite her under the umbrella would have been a good compromise. This brings up a larger issue, some people just cannot look ahead and consider eventualities that would/could ruin an otherwise good experience. My wife is this way EVERY SINGLE TIME with her shoes. She'll wear the wrong type for the occasion and downplay what could unfold. Next thing you know it, blister on the back of the foot or cramp in the pinky toe, etc. My friend's wives are with us and they don't have any issues. Ever. The irony is she's smarter than all of them. Blows my mind.

    Ge Po
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First time, I would have let them get soaked a little, then help out. If they do not prepare next time after being warned, they're on their own.

    Alison M.
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder if they are still friends... 4 years later. Do they still talk about their trip to Japan? Did the friends learn from their mistake or are they still getting drenched in the UK rain?

    Verena
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just pack an emergeny rain cape that requires next to zero space, if even a "Knirps" (this is a special type of collapsible umbrella of decent size) is too much of a hassle. Checking on the weather and prepare accordingly is a basic action. I live at the Dutch coast, tourists ask on Fb "what shall we pack for July/August?". Answer: Hot-weather and beach clothing AND at least 1 raincoat/storm-safe umbrella, 1 set of warm sweater&trousers/pants&socks&watertight, high ankle shoes. Temperature can plummet from 30 to 15 within minutes, and rain is to be expected daily. But ... why does OP feels the urge to take this to the internet? If your friend is constantly expecting that you drag all stuff along to cater for his needs, despite advice, NTA. If it was a one/off: That was not nice, even if understandable. OP knows that and does not need the world to point that out.

    Livingwithcfs
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She made an AH move, but I can't blame her, she told them, they where aware of the forecast and for God sake, they are english, they know about rain, of course they should have been prepared. Basically it serves them right - yip she's the AH but they deserved it by being deliberately stupid

    intermezzono1
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    gotta love people insulting the author and in the same breath saying how unkind they are. you could have gotten an unbrella - you didnt. you could have listened to your friend - you didnt. sharing an umbrella always slows down a group and never fully covers two people. So its fine.

    KatSaidWhat
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ESH. Listen to the resident if they warn. Don't be a d1ck when proved right.

    Anne Nielsen
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had this happen to me in Italy. It looked like rain. I took a light weight Shaw and bought an umbrella. My travel companion REFUSED to consider either. She did not want to CARRY them. But when it started raining, she whined do much I have her my umbrella keeping the shawl. She whined excessively. A gave in and gave my shawl over too. Then she got angry when I dropped on the floor at our hotel!

    Milena B. G. Rosa
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would say YTA, but... If she relented immediatly, the friends would not learn anything. If she gave in after, all it would do was end up with Her soaked too, because sharing an umbrella, evento one big, will end with both persons wet

    Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
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    4 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Both of tou had a strange hill to die on imo. Also who in England doesn't acknowledge rain?? No clue what OP means

    Binky Melnik
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    4 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one mentioned the fact that when you share an umbrella, you keep bumping into each other and you end up getting wet besides. But everyone here is an 🫏🕳️: her for not telling them upfront that when it rains, she’s not gonna share (because bumping/getting wet), and the friends for being dopes who don’t grab themselves a cheap umbrella and instead count on her bail them out and to hafta deal with bumping/getting wet because they didn’t plan ahead and were too cheap to spend the buck (er, yen).

    Joanne Earle
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I lived in the PNW and we ignored the rain too. I had a raincoat but there was a saying up there that only the weak and tourists used umbrellas. That said, I would never deny a friend space under the bumbershoot even after warning them. The OP is the AH.

    DC
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't get it. If they were opposing that YOU buy one, NTA. If you just refused, just because, YTA.

    Sea Squirrel
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's right. They're stupid. For believing she's their friend.

    lwolf1952
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it's hilarious, they got what they deserved for being so clueless even after being warned multiple times. It's not like they were going to die from getting wet. If I had six umbrellas I wouldn't let any of you "YTA" types borrow one.

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