Women Claim That If Men Do These 42 Things, They Are Bad People

i think this generally applies to any person regardless of gender

What kind of passive aggressive bullsh!t is the title Bored Panda have given this "article"?? Just say you don't believe a fu*king word women say and get it over with

My ex-husband was like this. He loved nothing more than playing pranks on people and humiliating them but if anybody played a joke on him and made him look a fool, he would go crazy with rage

This is not a small indicator at all. It's a glaring red flag. I've also been trying to teach my kids, there's a subtle difference between "ribbing" somebody and being disrespectful. For instance, if I joke with my daughter when she puts a toy in the fridge because she's distracted, there are mean and silly ways of doing that. For instance, saying "it's a good thing you put that in the fridge, so I can save it for dinner tomorrow" is being silly. But saying "that was a stupid thing to do" is being disrespectful. It's important to know the difference. And this applies to adult humor as well. I'll give an example as a reply.

"It's only funny if it's not you"

I once saw a guy beat up his (expensive) car because he lost a tennis match. He broke his racket on it before getting some tools from the boot and continuing to lay into the car (causing thousands of pounds of damage to the body work and lights). It was scary to watch as his neighbour, so I can understand how someone would not want to be around someone like that.

Holes in the walls. Had I had any sense I would have run .

And when they say, "You made me do that." Err, no. At what point did I point a gun at your head and force you to smash up my possessions? (Ex-husband again)

Not just men, my mother did this while we were younger. This is the reason we do not have family photos nor any of her 'nick knacks'.

If you see this in any gender, everyone should avoid this person. Not sure why this is just women ve afraid of men that show violence. Everyone be afraid of violent people

Yep this one is a red flag! Run away!

I'm dealing with this right now. A friend has a new BF and he doesn't want her talking to me anymore. So she doesn't because she doesn't want to upset him. So I lost a friend. It feels like someone died.

Reddest flag. Being harmful towards those who can't defend themselves, regardless of who and why. That's just evil, no discussion, no place for them in my life.

I'll add something to this. I think even if an animal is disturbed by a new person being around, how that person reacts to that situation says a lot about them. If they change their behavior to be less intimidating and have patience for the animal to adjust it shows empathy and maturity, in my opinion. If this happens....

Always trust animals and small children they can sense when someone doesn't have good intentions.

So much this.

Nope! Maybe is the pet (dog?) that ends acting like their owner...

Oh! quick Story! Me & a friend sitting at a small local bar hanging. Dude and chick sit down a chair away and introduce themselves to each other. Clearly first date type stuff. 30-40 min later I still eavesdropping cuz clearly she began to be not interested and he ain't getting it. Not sure exactly how it came up, but she put a coaster over her drink and he goes, "Ohh come on, I'm not one of those guys, you don't have to do that." And she goes, "The reason it's on there is because you..." Watching the realization that he's the creep was glorious lol

Why would you continue to spend time with someone you're scared of, if you don't have to?

There's a book called 'The Gift of Fear-Survival Signals That Protect Us From Violence' by Gavin de Becker, which is all about trusting your gut instincts.

Some people don't realise it's fear that they're feeling - they think it's excitement and dive deeper into the relationship

ALWAYS go with your gut, always. You pick things up that you're not consciously aware of but, at the back of your mind, you know something is 'off'

When you try to establish boundaries but they say "So? Who cares!" or "I don't care." Run.

Treat people in the same way that you want to be treated

Which means he's the common denominator. I've often asked, "Wow, I'd love to hear her side of the story. Would your stories match?" Cue that deep silence that he's guilty and lying. That's all you need to know, then just walk away.

Did they become crazy before or after they met you?

Or, some people just have a type.

If all of his ex's are crazy, the common denominator is him, not them.

The violence comes with the subtitle "That wall ciuld as easily have been you face"

And if they gets overwhelmed it will be your fault, as will any damage he causes during the meltdown.

Extreme political ideology on either side as well. Life is too short to idolise politicians.

Dangerous political mindset to live in. Not so much the dating right wing people aspect, that I get. Moderate is very vague term and encompasses people who are adamantly for trans rights. Up to the person, I suppose, though. I'd be worried about living in an echo-chamber, myself.

I guess it is not about politics. Who rules the world?...

Or interrupting you in a disagreement and shouting you down so you are drowned out. He's not even interested in your perspective, it's all about him.