I understand and respect that not all women want or are meant to be mothers, but I don't think that losing your figure should hold you back - if that's the only reason you don't want children. I was also concerned about my postpartum body when I was pregnant but I bounced back pretty fast. Looks will eventually fade and there's only so much any of us can do about it. Holding your child in your arms and hearing him say "I love you mummy" is priceless and I wouldn't trade it for the best figure in the world.

Contrary to the others who commented on your post, I think it's a perfectly normal reason to not want children because of your body, and it's nice to call someone " silly " because of their personal choice! I think if you have a strong reason to not want children, be it your body or anything else, that's alright! That just means you have more important things in your life than having a child. I wonder when will we arrive at a point where it's considered normal and OKAY to have more important things than having children, as a woman. I am just a bit tired of most people trying to pressure other women into having children by saying their reason is not good enough to not have any. Every reason is good enough, since it's your choice, it's your body. It's okay to not have children! There is no harm in not having children! I think there is more harm in having children that you don't truly want.

You do realize that it can be turned back to its original state by several months of training, right?

same here, nope to that kind of belly, never going to have kids. they are disaster to your body

I just thought exactly the same.

If you don't want children just be upfront and admit it. To say this is one of the reasons you do not want them is rather silly. I wouldn't want to admit that I was too hung up on my body to have children.

Seriously?! If hat is your viewpoint, please keep your word. If you can't recognize the beauty of carrying another life, then refrain.

All women who have scars are beautiful. We bring life into the Earth. We can do it without a man present, so you aren't needed. You are mean.