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Estate Agent Allows Buyer’s Dog Into Family Home, Security Footage Exposes The Truth
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Estate Agent Allows Buyer’s Dog Into Family Home, Security Footage Exposes The Truth

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Even though there are over 65.1 million dog lovers in the US alone, this doesn’t mean that everyone wants to welcome a furry friend into their home. Unless it’s a doggie party or another occasion that involves them, the person who’s visiting should always ask if it’s okay that their adorable pooch tags along. 

Unfortunately, these potential home buyers didn’t do that and brought their dog to a house viewing unannounced. After finding this out through security cameras, the owner became extremely upset, confronting the estate agent.

Scroll down to find the full story and a conversation with etiquette expert, trainer, and author of Don’t Burp in the Boardroom: Your Guide to Handling Uncommonly Common Workplace Dilemmas, Rosalinda Oropeza Randall, and Arden Clise, president of Clise Etiquette and author of Spinach in Your Boss’s Teeth: Etiquette Essentials for Professional Success, who kindly agreed to tell us more about bringing one’s dog to someone’s house.

Not everyone appreciates others bringing pets into their home

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Just like this woman, who confronted an estate agent for allowing potential buyers to bring a dog into her home

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“It is never acceptable to assume that you can bring your dog to someone’s home or event”

“It is never acceptable to assume that you can bring your dog to someone’s home or event. Even if it was okay the last time you visited,” says etiquette expert and trainer Rosalinda Oropeza Randall. President and founder of Clise Etiquette, Arden Clise, agrees that it’s not okay for the furry friend to tag along without getting permission first. “And, I would add, if the person you’re visiting isn’t a dog person I wouldn’t even ask.”

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In addition, according to Randall, the homeowner may feel hesitant about having dogs in their home because they have a new pet that doesn’t play well with other animals or a child or someone with allergies. Moreover, the gathering they’re hosting may be a more formal one, or they might not want any pet accidents on the new flooring or carpet they installed.

Since nowadays many people bring their dogs wherever they go, the chance of a person dropping by with their adorable pooch unannounced is high. When that happens, Clise recommends being kind. “But if you are uncomfortable having the dog in your home, ask your guest to keep the dog in their car or ask that it stay outside if you have a fenced yard,” she says.

In case of an event, Randall suggests that a host consider having a designated area for dogs if a guest brings one unannounced or includes a no-pet policy in an invitation. “If you know that one of your guests always travels with their dog, contact them directly and explain why their dog cannot attend or under what circumstances they can. If the circumstances or environment cannot accommodate a dog, empathetically explain why Fido can’t stay,” she adds.

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“Never assume the same freedoms apply in someone else’s home”

When a homeowner feels comfortable with welcoming a doggie into their humble abode, Clise reminds people bringing the pets to make sure that they’re clean and don’t have a smell. “Don’t allow it to get on the furniture, even if it’s allowed to get on your furniture at home. Keep the dog from bothering others. It’s best to have it lay down near you so it’s not wandering the house and bothering people who may not be dog people. Also, your attention should be on the people you’re visiting, not your dog.”

“If your dog is welcome into someone’s home, be sure to apply behavioral strategies,” seconds Randall. “Never assume the same freedoms apply in someone else’s home. Similarly, our quirky or carefree behaviors are best kept in the privacy of our own homes.”

Some other things to be aware of include honoring a dog’s designated area if there is one and asking what the allowed parameters are. It’s also important to always keep an eye on the furry companions. “Don’t assume, because your dog has made themselves cozy on a guest’s lap, that the guest likes it. They may be too polite to say anything,” adds Randall.

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Lastly, she concludes by saying, “Being invited to someone’s home is like receiving a gift. In return, we express gratitude, whether we liked the gift or not. As guests, we respect the host’s house rules, whether we like them or not. Don’t speak unkindly about the host if they do not want a dog in their home. It’s their preference. Avoid taking it personally.”

Commenters agreed that it’s not okay to bring a dog into someone else’s home without asking

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CD King
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The whole bring your dog everywhere with you has gotten way out of control. There are many people who are not comfortable around dogs or have allergies. The Gaul of bringing your dog into a strangers house - and the estate agent being fine with it - without permission is not cool.

Scott Rackley
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So the real estate agent lied to their face. This is the person you're trusting with a 6 figure transaction. I'm finding another agent.

MisterE
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The balls on these people. One commenter's name is mum2jenny. Look, I am a dog peraon but they are not kids. They don't need to come with to "check the place out." These are super entitled twats.

Spocks's Mom
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Spocks disagrees with the "they are not kids" part of your statement. 😏😉

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Nitka Tsar
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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It‘s the crib thing for me. Forget the dog being inside, on the carpets and whatever. But WHAT THE HELL does the dog need to sniff the inside of the crib for??? What?

Tabitha
Community Member
1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would be annoyed, and I’m a huge lifelong animal lover. I don’t blame the animals, I blame their humans. Most people like the ones in the article don’t bother to train their fur babies, and I don’t want to end up with their dog’s p**s and s**t on my floors and carpets, or my furniture chewed, or their “baby” to drop fleas that will then hop onto MY pets! Not your house, not your decision. If I was viewing a house to maybe buy it and saw that same behavior out of the seller, I would walk right out and tell the agent why. I actually prefer looking at unoccupied houses anyway, as having the sellers there can be awkward, like I’m intruding on their privacy, whether they feel that way or not.

Jane Jayne Jain Jeign Jein
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is no different from expecting you could smoke in someone's house during a viewing. And the comment about the "7 figure property" - what an A-hole. Typical rich person thinking that being wealthy means you don't need to show common decency towards fellow human beings.

Petunia Petal
Community Member
1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd be livid if this happened. My son has asthma and dog hair and dander can exacerbate his symptoms. I would take the house off the market and find a new estate agent. I don't like the whole, 'bring your dogs everywhere' thing. Our local shopping centre now allows dogs inside and it feels like it's not the best environment for them to be in.

Amelia Jade
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Our local store always seems to have elderly people with small dogs--almost always a chihuahua--in their carts. It's always the same--the poor dog always looks terrified and is trembling. Or they growl at anyone who comes even close to the cart. I don't get it. Why bring a a terrified dog to the store with you. Surely, they're more comfortable being left at home.

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jburgh
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I worked in real estate in the US and this pisses me off. There is no excuse for allowing a potential buyer to bring their dogs inside. I would fire that agent immediately, and insist that the seller’s contract (if there is one,) be voided. Then speak to the manager of the brokerage and ask for the representation be transferred to another broker.

dremetrius
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can do you one better, I was once involved in a real estate transaction where the whole thing got REAL messy two days before closing... because the buyers went to look at the house again through the windows one evening (not creepy, it was a new house), and caught the realtor camping in the living room... with two dogs. I will preface this by saying that I worked with many excellent realtors in my time...but oh my god, does realty somehow manage to attract the most batshit oblivious narcissistic buttheads.

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Mireille Oosterhof
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I mean, I wouldnt make a huge fuss about it there and then, in the US people walk with their shoes on inside as well (where the children play...). the dog will not make a big difference imo. But 1. it is REALLY weird behavior to bring the dog along to something like that and 2. your agent should not lie.

Glen Ellyn
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A line was crossed here. We don't know if the seller has allergies or not. People who don't own pets have the right to say "no pets allowed," and the same is true for those who have them! I'd fire the agent immediately, lie or no lie.

Happy
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ask the agent if you want to bring a dog. The agent is a total AH.

Jenny Mason
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have 2 very nervous cats who would be very distressed if someone brought a dog into their space.

Adam Jeff
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The only problem here is the estate agent. I think it's perfectly reasonable to bring the dog, provided you ask before bringing it in, which it sounds like they did. Some owners would be fine with it and some wouldn't, both of which are ok, it's their choice. The estate agent was too lazy to call the owner and check so just let them in with the dog, creating the issue.

Melissa Harris
Community Member
1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Get a new estate agent. Clearly indicate to the new agent that you don't want potential buyers to bring their dogs into your home unless it's a legitimate service animal.

Daya Meyer
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We are looking for a new place to live right now. Yes, we have a dog and she has been with us to see apartments and houses. BUT we always ask the owners or estate agents if we are allowed to bring her with us. Yes, we go everywhere with her when we can. If there is a 'no', it is okay and we leave her with our neighbours or we don't go at all. Not everyone likes dogs, some are allergic and that is okay with us. But asking if our dog is invited is a question you are allowed to ask.

UpupaEpops
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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would have a problem with them not asking beforehand and the lying to OP. However, I, too, would want to take my dog to view the house we are looking to buy/rent. The last time I rented, I was reassured that the fence was dog-proof. The place looked OK. Not five minutes after arrival, my dog found a gap in the wall under a bush and took off. Had I been able to take him to the viewing, I would have asked them to have the fence fixed on their own money before we moved in. I didn't even care about the height of the fence being completely inadequate because, as a retired SAR dog, my dog is trained to find ways that people can't see, and he literally climbs trees as a hobby. He could climb that wall while being asleep. He just didn't because he knew he's not supposed to. But the hole was just too much of a temptation.

Beth Wheeler
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You do not take your dog to somebody's house without asking, otherwise it's just very rude. Years ago I was talking to my cousin as I was ony way home from the vet with my puppy at the time and she was ok with her being in the carrier because she doesn't really like cats or dogs especially inside. If the dog had been older I wouldn't have gone there.

James016
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fanlover1122 seems to be very entitled. Their flex is not what they think it is.

BrownEyedPanda
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I, personally, have no problem with pets (have lap, will travel). But bringing your pet to a house without the owner's permission? Beyond tacky. Placing it over a baby's crib? Psychotic. The realtor lying about it? Game over. Fire the realtor, take the house off the market, and find a realtor that respects your boundaries. And tell that potential "buyer" to pìss off. What if her precious pooch had decided to leave a biohazard "present" in the baby's room? Most likely, the realtor would have lied about that as well. I wouldn't trust them to take out the trash.

ZestyBison
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

While *I'm* okay with somebody bringing their dog into my home, it's not common procedure unless that's somebody you know really well or you've asked ahead of time. In what universe do you need to bring a dog to a viewing, and then the realtor will defend the potential buyer? No ma'm.

G Bono
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a (service) dog who comes everywhere with me. When I go into anyone's house (or restaurants) he's in a stroller and he never touches any floors. Legally, no one can say a word and he has the right to walk where I do, but not everyone likes dogs and, in these situations, I don't care about the law because, again, some people don't like dogs or they do and just don't want them around. I don't trust people who don't like dogs, but I don't believe in imposing my views on anyone else. That realtor should be immediately fired as their agent and possibly lose his/her job for lying

Thanos'Fingers
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'll bet my left foot you DONT have a (service) dog that you're walking around with IN A STROLLER. People generally aren't complete idiots, and I genuinely cannot think of one single good reason to keep a working dog in a stroller unable to navigate or work. If there is one and I'm an idiot, please let me know, but you sort of just seem exactly like this person who CANNOT manage to leave your cute fluffy alone a minute. $10 also says if a realtor told you no to bringing the fluffy cart into a strangers home you'd be at volume 10 in seconds. My buddy with a service dog has had it with stroller pets (or retractable leashes) with Amazon vests that lose their s**t and try to attack his working dog. He says it's happened like 10 times this year alone.

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Nikki Angulo
Community Member
3 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

An artist who use to be local (we both moved, lol) is having an open house for her new studio on Saturday. It is on the property she lives on, and she’s posted things like tour the studio, take a nature walk, etc. She has a dog and is fostering another dog. It would be a 2+ hour drive for me to go there and another 2+ to come back, so I posted ASKING if I could bring my dog, saying she would stay on her leash and could stay outside as long as there was a place for me to tie her up on her leash (it’s a long leash, and I’d only go inside long enough to see the studio, so a few minutes. Plus she LOVES being outside! 🤦‍♀️🤣.) Waiting for a response, if she says no, that’s ok, I’ll say that I get it and say enjoy your open house, hope it goes well! Her house (studio) her rules! Plus she knows her animals well, maybe her new dog isn’t great with other dogs. What if the OP had cats? (I guess they wouldn’t be there for the open house, but they’d come back to a house that smelled like dog!)

CanadianDimes
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“If the seller wants me to view their property…” presumably the potential buyer is the one choosing which properties to view rather than having the seller demand they come around to view!

KatSaidWhat
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If the estate agent had just been honest and apologies, might have let it slide. But they lied, and so they would be cancelled.

Mary Gibson
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What's worse are people that ignore no pets allowed(grocery stores) and bring them in. The stores aren't allowed to say anything. They don't have regulation service dog vests on. Businesses should be allowed to see certification papers on the dog!

Taffy Renee
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If they are selling the house and the dog didn't make a mess, why care? They not dog lovers?? No word on any allergies.

BrownEyedPanda
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But dogs DO carry fleas and ticks. Also, it turns out that some of them are not as housebroken as the owner would have you believe. The last thing a seller wants to do is hire an exterminator and cleaning service because some looky-loo brought her pwecious baby to a house viewing.

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Noya Bynes
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would not buy a house unless my dog viewed the home and liked it. He is there more than we are. I would ask first and view the home myself first but if he was denied access on a subsequent visit where we were very seriously considering buying the home, or if he didn't like the home, we wouldn't buy it. He's my child and has a vote in this family!

Hey!
Community Member
1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My daughter's BF bought her a dog while she was still at home. I had 3 pneumonias in 6 months. The doctor asked what changed in my life. The dog. So we sat down with her (edit: her = my daughter) and said she either get rid of the dog and stays home or leave. She left, not without a lot of crying mind you. She came back to visit a while later and the dog stayed outside. I would be more than annoyed if someone, a stranger no less, brought any kind of pet into my home, especially without me knowing in advance. The answer would still be no.

Cee Cee
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unbelievable that these people whinge on social media. You know what you need to do so do it and stop seeking validation/attention.

Thanos'Fingers
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Patti Golden
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are overreacting. Get a grip, it's not going to be your house for much longer.

Jonas Fisher
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What in the world is the big deal? If there hadn't been cameras, would OP have had any way of knowing the dog had ever been there? Selling a house is a completely different thing than having friends over. You EXPECT potential buyers to do a ton of things that guests will not. Beyond that, OP's issue was that a dog's paws touched the floor?

Thanos'Fingers
Community Member
1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes. You aren't my goddamned guest, you're a POTENTIAL buyer of MY home. Leave your dog at home, or leave your own disrespectful a*s at home with the dog if you can't manage it. Some people have allergies to dogs. What would happen if dog had s**t on the carpet while unattended in OPs home? Bet $50 the owner would leave, the realtor would "try" to clean it but do a half-assed job, giant permanent s**t stain in the carpet of the house you're selling. No offer ever comes from gross dog lady. Now what? (The answer is you have to clean the s**t up yourself. In your own home, from someone else's dog).

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Kerry Fletcher
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Omg it walked on the carpet! Ate you allergic or the kids? No? Nothing bad happened afterwards? No? Move on. It's annoying yes but suck it up. Nothing happened so just move on

person (i think)
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok, but what if they are bringing their dog around to check for ghosts before buying?

CD King
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The whole bring your dog everywhere with you has gotten way out of control. There are many people who are not comfortable around dogs or have allergies. The Gaul of bringing your dog into a strangers house - and the estate agent being fine with it - without permission is not cool.

Scott Rackley
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So the real estate agent lied to their face. This is the person you're trusting with a 6 figure transaction. I'm finding another agent.

MisterE
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The balls on these people. One commenter's name is mum2jenny. Look, I am a dog peraon but they are not kids. They don't need to come with to "check the place out." These are super entitled twats.

Spocks's Mom
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Spocks disagrees with the "they are not kids" part of your statement. 😏😉

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Nitka Tsar
Community Member
1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It‘s the crib thing for me. Forget the dog being inside, on the carpets and whatever. But WHAT THE HELL does the dog need to sniff the inside of the crib for??? What?

Tabitha
Community Member
1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would be annoyed, and I’m a huge lifelong animal lover. I don’t blame the animals, I blame their humans. Most people like the ones in the article don’t bother to train their fur babies, and I don’t want to end up with their dog’s p**s and s**t on my floors and carpets, or my furniture chewed, or their “baby” to drop fleas that will then hop onto MY pets! Not your house, not your decision. If I was viewing a house to maybe buy it and saw that same behavior out of the seller, I would walk right out and tell the agent why. I actually prefer looking at unoccupied houses anyway, as having the sellers there can be awkward, like I’m intruding on their privacy, whether they feel that way or not.

Jane Jayne Jain Jeign Jein
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is no different from expecting you could smoke in someone's house during a viewing. And the comment about the "7 figure property" - what an A-hole. Typical rich person thinking that being wealthy means you don't need to show common decency towards fellow human beings.

Petunia Petal
Community Member
1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd be livid if this happened. My son has asthma and dog hair and dander can exacerbate his symptoms. I would take the house off the market and find a new estate agent. I don't like the whole, 'bring your dogs everywhere' thing. Our local shopping centre now allows dogs inside and it feels like it's not the best environment for them to be in.

Amelia Jade
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Our local store always seems to have elderly people with small dogs--almost always a chihuahua--in their carts. It's always the same--the poor dog always looks terrified and is trembling. Or they growl at anyone who comes even close to the cart. I don't get it. Why bring a a terrified dog to the store with you. Surely, they're more comfortable being left at home.

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jburgh
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I worked in real estate in the US and this pisses me off. There is no excuse for allowing a potential buyer to bring their dogs inside. I would fire that agent immediately, and insist that the seller’s contract (if there is one,) be voided. Then speak to the manager of the brokerage and ask for the representation be transferred to another broker.

dremetrius
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can do you one better, I was once involved in a real estate transaction where the whole thing got REAL messy two days before closing... because the buyers went to look at the house again through the windows one evening (not creepy, it was a new house), and caught the realtor camping in the living room... with two dogs. I will preface this by saying that I worked with many excellent realtors in my time...but oh my god, does realty somehow manage to attract the most batshit oblivious narcissistic buttheads.

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Mireille Oosterhof
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I mean, I wouldnt make a huge fuss about it there and then, in the US people walk with their shoes on inside as well (where the children play...). the dog will not make a big difference imo. But 1. it is REALLY weird behavior to bring the dog along to something like that and 2. your agent should not lie.

Glen Ellyn
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A line was crossed here. We don't know if the seller has allergies or not. People who don't own pets have the right to say "no pets allowed," and the same is true for those who have them! I'd fire the agent immediately, lie or no lie.

Happy
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ask the agent if you want to bring a dog. The agent is a total AH.

Jenny Mason
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have 2 very nervous cats who would be very distressed if someone brought a dog into their space.

Adam Jeff
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The only problem here is the estate agent. I think it's perfectly reasonable to bring the dog, provided you ask before bringing it in, which it sounds like they did. Some owners would be fine with it and some wouldn't, both of which are ok, it's their choice. The estate agent was too lazy to call the owner and check so just let them in with the dog, creating the issue.

Melissa Harris
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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Get a new estate agent. Clearly indicate to the new agent that you don't want potential buyers to bring their dogs into your home unless it's a legitimate service animal.

Daya Meyer
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We are looking for a new place to live right now. Yes, we have a dog and she has been with us to see apartments and houses. BUT we always ask the owners or estate agents if we are allowed to bring her with us. Yes, we go everywhere with her when we can. If there is a 'no', it is okay and we leave her with our neighbours or we don't go at all. Not everyone likes dogs, some are allergic and that is okay with us. But asking if our dog is invited is a question you are allowed to ask.

UpupaEpops
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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would have a problem with them not asking beforehand and the lying to OP. However, I, too, would want to take my dog to view the house we are looking to buy/rent. The last time I rented, I was reassured that the fence was dog-proof. The place looked OK. Not five minutes after arrival, my dog found a gap in the wall under a bush and took off. Had I been able to take him to the viewing, I would have asked them to have the fence fixed on their own money before we moved in. I didn't even care about the height of the fence being completely inadequate because, as a retired SAR dog, my dog is trained to find ways that people can't see, and he literally climbs trees as a hobby. He could climb that wall while being asleep. He just didn't because he knew he's not supposed to. But the hole was just too much of a temptation.

Beth Wheeler
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You do not take your dog to somebody's house without asking, otherwise it's just very rude. Years ago I was talking to my cousin as I was ony way home from the vet with my puppy at the time and she was ok with her being in the carrier because she doesn't really like cats or dogs especially inside. If the dog had been older I wouldn't have gone there.

James016
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fanlover1122 seems to be very entitled. Their flex is not what they think it is.

BrownEyedPanda
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I, personally, have no problem with pets (have lap, will travel). But bringing your pet to a house without the owner's permission? Beyond tacky. Placing it over a baby's crib? Psychotic. The realtor lying about it? Game over. Fire the realtor, take the house off the market, and find a realtor that respects your boundaries. And tell that potential "buyer" to pìss off. What if her precious pooch had decided to leave a biohazard "present" in the baby's room? Most likely, the realtor would have lied about that as well. I wouldn't trust them to take out the trash.

ZestyBison
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

While *I'm* okay with somebody bringing their dog into my home, it's not common procedure unless that's somebody you know really well or you've asked ahead of time. In what universe do you need to bring a dog to a viewing, and then the realtor will defend the potential buyer? No ma'm.

G Bono
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a (service) dog who comes everywhere with me. When I go into anyone's house (or restaurants) he's in a stroller and he never touches any floors. Legally, no one can say a word and he has the right to walk where I do, but not everyone likes dogs and, in these situations, I don't care about the law because, again, some people don't like dogs or they do and just don't want them around. I don't trust people who don't like dogs, but I don't believe in imposing my views on anyone else. That realtor should be immediately fired as their agent and possibly lose his/her job for lying

Thanos'Fingers
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'll bet my left foot you DONT have a (service) dog that you're walking around with IN A STROLLER. People generally aren't complete idiots, and I genuinely cannot think of one single good reason to keep a working dog in a stroller unable to navigate or work. If there is one and I'm an idiot, please let me know, but you sort of just seem exactly like this person who CANNOT manage to leave your cute fluffy alone a minute. $10 also says if a realtor told you no to bringing the fluffy cart into a strangers home you'd be at volume 10 in seconds. My buddy with a service dog has had it with stroller pets (or retractable leashes) with Amazon vests that lose their s**t and try to attack his working dog. He says it's happened like 10 times this year alone.

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Nikki Angulo
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3 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

An artist who use to be local (we both moved, lol) is having an open house for her new studio on Saturday. It is on the property she lives on, and she’s posted things like tour the studio, take a nature walk, etc. She has a dog and is fostering another dog. It would be a 2+ hour drive for me to go there and another 2+ to come back, so I posted ASKING if I could bring my dog, saying she would stay on her leash and could stay outside as long as there was a place for me to tie her up on her leash (it’s a long leash, and I’d only go inside long enough to see the studio, so a few minutes. Plus she LOVES being outside! 🤦‍♀️🤣.) Waiting for a response, if she says no, that’s ok, I’ll say that I get it and say enjoy your open house, hope it goes well! Her house (studio) her rules! Plus she knows her animals well, maybe her new dog isn’t great with other dogs. What if the OP had cats? (I guess they wouldn’t be there for the open house, but they’d come back to a house that smelled like dog!)

CanadianDimes
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“If the seller wants me to view their property…” presumably the potential buyer is the one choosing which properties to view rather than having the seller demand they come around to view!

KatSaidWhat
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If the estate agent had just been honest and apologies, might have let it slide. But they lied, and so they would be cancelled.

Mary Gibson
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What's worse are people that ignore no pets allowed(grocery stores) and bring them in. The stores aren't allowed to say anything. They don't have regulation service dog vests on. Businesses should be allowed to see certification papers on the dog!

Taffy Renee
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If they are selling the house and the dog didn't make a mess, why care? They not dog lovers?? No word on any allergies.

BrownEyedPanda
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But dogs DO carry fleas and ticks. Also, it turns out that some of them are not as housebroken as the owner would have you believe. The last thing a seller wants to do is hire an exterminator and cleaning service because some looky-loo brought her pwecious baby to a house viewing.

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Noya Bynes
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would not buy a house unless my dog viewed the home and liked it. He is there more than we are. I would ask first and view the home myself first but if he was denied access on a subsequent visit where we were very seriously considering buying the home, or if he didn't like the home, we wouldn't buy it. He's my child and has a vote in this family!

Hey!
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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My daughter's BF bought her a dog while she was still at home. I had 3 pneumonias in 6 months. The doctor asked what changed in my life. The dog. So we sat down with her (edit: her = my daughter) and said she either get rid of the dog and stays home or leave. She left, not without a lot of crying mind you. She came back to visit a while later and the dog stayed outside. I would be more than annoyed if someone, a stranger no less, brought any kind of pet into my home, especially without me knowing in advance. The answer would still be no.

Cee Cee
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unbelievable that these people whinge on social media. You know what you need to do so do it and stop seeking validation/attention.

Thanos'Fingers
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Patti Golden
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are overreacting. Get a grip, it's not going to be your house for much longer.

Jonas Fisher
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What in the world is the big deal? If there hadn't been cameras, would OP have had any way of knowing the dog had ever been there? Selling a house is a completely different thing than having friends over. You EXPECT potential buyers to do a ton of things that guests will not. Beyond that, OP's issue was that a dog's paws touched the floor?

Thanos'Fingers
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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes. You aren't my goddamned guest, you're a POTENTIAL buyer of MY home. Leave your dog at home, or leave your own disrespectful a*s at home with the dog if you can't manage it. Some people have allergies to dogs. What would happen if dog had s**t on the carpet while unattended in OPs home? Bet $50 the owner would leave, the realtor would "try" to clean it but do a half-assed job, giant permanent s**t stain in the carpet of the house you're selling. No offer ever comes from gross dog lady. Now what? (The answer is you have to clean the s**t up yourself. In your own home, from someone else's dog).

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Kerry Fletcher
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Omg it walked on the carpet! Ate you allergic or the kids? No? Nothing bad happened afterwards? No? Move on. It's annoying yes but suck it up. Nothing happened so just move on

person (i think)
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok, but what if they are bringing their dog around to check for ghosts before buying?

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