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There aren’t people who haven’t failed at doing something, but that’s actually a good thing, because now they know how to do it right. Even though it is human to make mistakes, you can significantly reduce them if you try not to repeat your own mistakes and also learn from others’.

This is how advice is born: people just want you to not do the same things that didn’t work out for them. And the best place to look for them is the internet. For example, in this Reddit thread the user prolific_ideas started. It was quite a success with 16k people joining it and almost 77k users liking it. The advice in the thread isn't related to one topic but instead are just the most random tips people got to find out the hard way.

So enjoy learning about life and share your own secrets so others can do the same. Also, don’t forget to upvote the answers that you find the most useful!

More info: Reddit

#1

Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits Don’t take criticism from people you’d never go to for advice.

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Kesam
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't get it. Why would I not take criticism from anyone? I always find it helpful to get feedback from people around me, also from those I wouldn't directly ask for advice.

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Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits Being able to admit you were wrong or made a mistake is respectable

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Ellie Rosser
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is soooooo much easier to admit you made a mistake than spend your life trying to hide it from people.

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#3

Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits If they will cheat with you, they will cheat on you. The same goes for gossip.

jaybird2370 , Ben Stephenson Report

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Mich
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So so true.. I nearly had kids with my guy but something made me reticent. He cheated on me, got the mistress pregnant, married her, had 3 kids, then left her for the new mistress. Marry the mistress, create a new job opening.

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#4

Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits Be comfortable being alone before you get in a relationship. It will keep you from staying in crap relationships just to “not be lonely”

malalala_lala , Pedro Ribeiro Simões Report

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Kanuli
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can relate, but couldn’t do it. Still can’t. But luckily I love my wife and love sharing my life with her. Also I hate myself alot less since we work on ourselves, our relationship and help eachother.

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#5

Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits If it bothers you for more than 24 hours, speak up within 48

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GlassHalfWay
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Great advice. It makes you think before maybe saying something hurtful in the heat of the moment

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#7

Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits Looking back at your past and cringing is good. That means you’ve grown since then.

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#8

Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits If you want a raise, ask what you need to do to earn it. Accomplish those things and ask for the raise. If you get the raise, stay. If you don’t, begin looking for another job. Don’t play games with people who move your goal posts.

Otherwise_Hunt7296 , Seth Werkheiser Report

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Kanuli
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Did that. Worked well so far. First the told me there’s not much more I could do, also everything would take time. I got some offers in for new jobs, told boss. Getting a mini promotion and a raise with it and my work will be responsibilities.

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#9

Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits You spend half your life walking and sleeping. Never buy cheap shoes or a s***ty mattress.

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#10

Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits Watch old episodes of Bob Ross and Crocodile Hunter with your little kids. Get them started on the right path.

mlee0328 , Bob Ross Lives Report

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#11

Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits Always take the time to say I love you and remember tomorrow is never guaranteed.

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Mary Rose Kent
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Friendship is a gift we give to ourselves and each other...cherish it❣️

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Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits If you think your house is haunted and see s**t buy a carbon monoxide alarm might be a leak making you hallucinate.

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Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits When you finish something complicated or pick up a concept from a skill you are learning. Take a moment to be proud of yourself. You don't have anything to prove to anyone. But it feels good to take a sec to enjoy the accomplishment.

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Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits Accept people for who they are, not what you want them to be. If they show that they’re trash people, accept it and cut them loose. They won’t change for you no matter how much you want them too. If they show that they’re genuine, they’re the ones you need to surround yourself with.

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Otter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is true for every kind of human relationship, but especially romantic ones. No, he or she won't change into what you want them to be, and you can't make them.

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#17

Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits Put your keys in the same place every time you come home

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Robert T
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also remember to put your brain back into your head in the morning. It's not going to help you if you leave it under your pillow!

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#18

Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits Always Thank people. Don’t just say thank you, mean it.

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Otter
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was never awful to retail workers, but the pandemic has made m genuinely grateful for the work they do, and I make much more of an effort to be nice. I can't tip most of them, but I can express genuine gratitude for their help and hard work.

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#19

Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits Put compassion before anger, before jealously, before fear. You never know what other people are going through.

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Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits Read to your kids Every. Single. Day. From 1 day old until they graduate high school.

minipenguz , Quinn Dombrowski Report

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Mary Rose Kent
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Children who are read to become readers themselves. I grew up in a family where there were bookcases all over the place, and the one on the second-floor landing had a big overstuffed chair right there. I never saw my parents reading because they both had full time jobs and five children to care for, but I can remember being snuggled in the crook of my grandfather’s arm as he read to me as a wee child.

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#21

Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits Never invest more than you can afford to lose.

Not financial advice.

Ec1ipse14 , Gunnar Wrobel Report

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#22

Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits Buy a plunger before you need a plunger.

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Otter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a separate plunger for the kitchen sink, because you can get plungers at the dollar store. Splurge on a 2nd plunger!

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#23

Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits Don’t take advice from strangers on the internet

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Scagsy
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This little guy looks pretty honest though. I'd maybe trust him. Yeah. I could trust that little fellow. Everybody else: no. This guy: defo

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#24

Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits Don't live your life regretting the small mistakes you made yesterday. You're not defective, and even though your brain will tell you that you screwed up and because of that you're unworthy of people's time and attention, it's wrong. You are worthy.

NinjaTr33 , James Petts Report

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Mary Rose Kent
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This sounds so wonderful, but clearly this person didn’t grow up with someone who never handed out praise and made a full-time practice of criticizing everything you ever did wrong and then punishing you for it...standing in the corner for an hour was getting off light!

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#25

Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits DONT STAY WITH SOMEONE BECAUSE YOU "JUST CANT EXPLAIN IT. " You'll end up depressed, isolated and feeling stuck.

No_Construction8184 , Cristian Ungureanu Report

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Biba Little
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

True. And at the end, alone, feeling like you lost a decade or more on being miserable in relationship with wrong person.

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#26

Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits Most relationships can be maintained/improved by investing the time and having clear communication. If you can’t have difficult conversations with someone you love and trust, you won’t be successful. This is true for significant others, bosses, your kids, your family, everyone.

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lara
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And the funny thing is the longer you are married the more you are "in sync" with the other person. Gawd in heaven I still love that man, even more than when we got married.

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#27

Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits No one notices that zit or that one hair like you do. You look good homie.

halcyon_n_on_n_on , Anathea Utley Report

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Mary Rose Kent
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And even if they do, no one really cares. And if they do, they’re not really friends.

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#28

Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits Never make any important decisions when either hungry, horny, happy, sad, tired, or angry.

Zayers , Richard Leeming Report

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Scagsy
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Drunk isn't listed sooooo I guess that's a green light, yeah?

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Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits This was a recent lesson learned. When getting a new apartment test both heat and AC. You don't think to check your heater when's it 105 outside on the day you tour the apartment. We never tested our heater. First freeze of the year and our heater is broken. Two weeks for a replacement. If anyone's apartment hunting that's my nugget of wisdom.

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If you're making pancakes from scratch, instead of adding in the egg to the batter as is, separate the yolk and the whites. Add the yolk to the batter, then whip and beat the egg whites till they're nice and foamy, then add them to the batter.

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#31

Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits If you are going through something hard find other people in the same boat. You don’t have to do it alone and you will learn so much from those farther ahead of you. Also f**k shame. Get help you need.

Inthedarksobad , dadblunders Report

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lara
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are three of us who are so close that we might as well have been triplets. A is totally not empathetic or sympathetic, B needs empathy, I am the empathetic/sympathetic one. A thinks that when B calls for "help" she, A, is supposed to "fix" the problem and since she can't she gets really depressed and angry. I, on the other hand, realize that people just need to have someone care enough to listen. I love them both and would never, ever be happy without them in my life. I have been friends with A since 1975. And she introduced me to B in 1982. And they both live close to each other, in California, and I live many, many states away and we are all like sisters.

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#32

Buy the good trash bags and toilet paper.

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Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits Measure twice , cut once

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Chich
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm hopeless. Very much the "measure with a laser, cut with a chainsaw " type

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#34

Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits Take the time to enjoy the little/quiet/every-day moments with your kids. They grow up really fast. It’s easy to remember the big events, milestones and vacations. But those small moments of sharing ice cream on a summer day or sitting outside looking at the stars together…those are magic. Don’t overlook them.

Wyndshear , Mr Seb Report

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Mary Rose Kent
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One of the things I remember most fondly were the nights the whole family would sit at the big dining room table and play games. Card games, board games, Botticelli (also a great game for long road trips). Another good car game is alphabet.

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#35

When you make a plan of any kind, instantly put it on your phone calendar and make an alert to remind you at least an hour or so beforehand

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#36

Be kind, everyone’s putting up a hard fight.

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#37

Go to the funeral or visitation whenever someone remotely known to you passes away. Whenever anyone in your friend’s circle passes away. Make the effort, it means a lot.

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Mary Rose Kent
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And when your friends have a loved one who’s died, send them your condolences.

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Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits If your employer offers a 401(k) match you take it

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Robert T
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Translation: If your employer offers to match your pension contributions, you take it.

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#40

Never fry bacon while naked.

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Ellie
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please tell us how you learned this wonderful tidbit of knowledge

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Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits Pee within 30 minutes after sex.

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Both boys and girls (and non- binary and well, everyone!) A lot of women were taught this, but same goes for men and anyone else. Bacteria get up your urethra while having sex. Also while just using mouths and/or fingers! You want that out before you fall asleep and they get the chance to start new bacteria families with kids, grandkids, greatgrandkids and so on and you find yourself in need of medical help. Men are not affected as much, since they often sort of "clean the tube" at the end, but still, stuff can get left behind. Just go pee. EDIT: just in case it wasn't that obvious, it goes for solo sessions too, especially if toys and lubes and the likes are involved

DC
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I need to pee afterwards anyway. Pretty much every time, now that I think of it.

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Zaza
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The urethra is the tiny tube where pee comes out. It's also where bacteria can come in and give you a UTI (for both men and women) while/after having sex. It mostly affects women, but men are not immune. Peeing after sex flushes out those bacteria before they start large bacteria families in places you don't want them to and do harm to your body This goes for intercourse, but also for hand/finger stuff, oral, use of toys, everything, all of it. Also make sure your/your partners toys get cleaned after every use, uncleaned toys cause lots of nasty infections too. Rinse them with water and use a soft soap. Best is a special toy cleaner but a mild handsoap or mild dish soap works too if there's no specific toy cleaner at hand. EDIT I'm not sure why you got downvoted. Maybe because you posted a questionmark without saying or asking anything. I gave you an upvote, but please ask about what you don't know. With 1 questionmark we can't know what you mean and there's no shame in asking outright

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#42

Everything in moderation, even moderation.

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Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits When tiling a bathroom floor, always ensure to double coat the waterproofing to prevent future leaks.

Sherger_Flerger , Joe Bailey Report

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Mary Rose Kent
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And always install a clawfoot tub when there’s room enough! I’m absolutely serious.

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#44

Sometimes, if there isn't a good reason not to do it, just say yes, you might experience something amazing. That is unless your gut tells you to say no. If in doubt, listen to your gut feeling.

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Joran Quinten
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's how I ended up on a photography assignment three countries away on a canal boat for a three day shoot!

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#45

Nearly 77k People Found This Thread Of Random Advice Useful And These Are 30 Of The Best Bits Increase your property damage on your auto insurance to $300,000. It usually only cost $3 more every 6 months and will keep you from paying out of pocket if you hit a Tesla.

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Robert T
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this is largely irrelevant outside of the US. We don't get a choice on the limits for payouts in the UK, other than choosing a different provider. And the way Tesla owners round here drive, it is much more likely that they will be the ones hitting you!

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#46

Eat more salad

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Paul C.
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

and remember knowledge is knowing a tomato is a fruit and common sense is not putting it in a fruit salad.

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#48

Sharing is caring unless it’s a needle

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lara
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or used TP or worn underwear or unwrapped plastic utensils or dirty glasses.

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