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Suzanne, from Northern Illinois University, explained to Bored Panda what makes cult leaders so dangerous. "Cult leaders are master manipulators who are also excellent readers of others—and they truly sense who is a more likely 'follower' aka 'victim' and tend to invest their energy wisely. They don't waste too much time on people they don't think will easily join their ranks," she told Bored Panda that these individuals go for the most vulnerable.

"Cult leaders are narcissistic individuals who use their self-interest and charisma to prey on their followers. This, of course, requires that their followers, or marks, have certain traits that make them more likely to be preyed upon. Research suggests that some of the traits that make people vulnerable to joining a cult include suffering from anxiety or depression or addictions."

Disorders like anxiety or depression can make a person more vulnerable to a cultist who offers them solutions to their problems. "People with addictions need to have something to fill the hole left when they stop using whatever substance/behavior that they are addicted to. Addiction reflects a hunger and cult leaders have an easy time using their powers of persuasion to convince the follower that they and their cult can fill that need," Suzanne stressed that addicts are also potential prey for cult leaders.

45 People Who Escaped From Cults Are Sharing What Their Breaking Points Were Former Jehovah's witness too. The first time I realized something was wrong was when a huge core belief changed in 1995. ( The end will come before the generation that saw the events of 1914 died...changed to.. well it's changed 7 times since then) I was confused and it didn't compute that my entire life's beliefs changed over night. I struggled on awhile until shortly after my then husband beat the s**t out of me and for some reason HE called the elders over to help and the elders told me " Be a better wife so he doesn't get angry" I was done then. DONE.

oldrobotlady , wikipedia Report

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Caro Caro 2 years ago (edited)

This makes me sick. Be a better wife? ... Fu*k that. He should be a better husband!

242points

45 People Who Escaped From Cults Are Sharing What Their Breaking Points Were After watching The Day After in the 80s, I asked my mom if we knew the nukes were coming, who would she rather spend her last moments with me or the cult leader, she choose him. I came up with my own survival plan after that. I was going to skateboard to safety.

19bonkbonk73 Report

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June’s Very Own 2 years ago

“Skateboard to safety” what a gangsta move lol

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"Cult leaders often use the powers of seduction to convince people to follow them—they use flattery of a potential member along with promises of 'belonging' and being 'needed,' so that can be extremely enticing to someone who feels that something important is missing in their life. When someone convinces us that they care more about us than anyone else in our world, we will do whatever they want us to do just to keep their light shining on us," she drew attention to how cults exploit human psychology for their own benefit.

According to the psychology expert, people are brought into cults believing that the leader has all the answers they're seeking. "You are treated like family and you have other cult members who make you feel welcome and work hard to develop that sense of belonging. When nothing else in your life is giving you what you need or satisfying you in important ways, a cult is the perfect setting to feel valued and that you matter," she said that this entraps a person, convincing them to stay. However, that's not to say that it's impossible to get someone out.

45 People Who Escaped From Cults Are Sharing What Their Breaking Points Were This happened to my classmate in the fifth grade. Her family were Jehovah Witnessers. She needed a blood transfusion but the family refused and she died. I don't remember the specifics of her condition but WTF. The whole class cried for weeks. Try wrapping your little 11 year old brain around that.

Pharoacious , Pixabay Report

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Susie Elle 2 years ago

That's punishable by law

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Jehovahs witnesses. When my sister got pregnant out of wedlock, went to the elders (group of old men residing over congregation) to confess and repent. They decided to disfellowship her, meaning all other Jehovahs witnesses had to shun her, even immediate family. When asked why this was the decision, they reinforced to us how they basically communicated with god by spirit and this is what god intended. I knew it was bs. Left very soon after and never had anything else to do with them. All of my immediate family eventually did, one by one and last year I celebrated Christmas with all of them together for the first time since 1999.

wisteria357 Report

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Harrison Miller 2 years ago

Im glad that you all got out

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45 People Who Escaped From Cults Are Sharing What Their Breaking Points Were I got punished for my own sexual assault. I was victim blamed. The abuser was twice my age (I was mid-teens). I was forced to repent. For what, I am not sure as they wouldn’t answer that question.

As I got older and looked back, I realized that everything they’d told me was a lie. If you do everything you’re supposed to, you’re supposed to be blessed. If you break the rules, you have challenges/obstacles/lessons and must repent.

But if Jesus dies for my sins why do I have to repent? And what am I repenting for? I didn’t consent I any of that. Nor could I from a legal standpoint.

The only obvious answer was that it was all bulls**t. Then years later, a widely publicized case with similar circumstances became international news. And the victim’s clergy person stood up on CNN and said she was forgiven. Forgiven. For being raped.

I had noped out years before but when I saw that particular press conference I had to get therapy to deal with all that rage. Guh

Dogzillas_Mom , Elia Pellegrini Report

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June’s Very Own 2 years ago

Disgusting. I feel so bad for you

135points

"To get someone you care about out of the cult, you have to work hard and be available to help them see reason. You have to encourage them to stay involved in activities beyond the cult, to engage in connections with people who are 'outsiders,'" Suzanne explained.

"For some people, the sense of belonging within a cult is worth more than autonomy, wealth, or connections to family or those beyond the cult. That's when interventions by caring others are needed to help that person recognize the truth of their situation."

45 People Who Escaped From Cults Are Sharing What Their Breaking Points Were When we were told that we couldn't go to college. I was about 15 when I realized that we weren't allowed to. The elders said it was because of the end time coming and wasting time, and worry about fellowship in the world. It is because they want to keep us stupid. That was the year I left. That was compounded because the same year my cousin tried to kill herself, and they told us not to visit. I hadn't been baptized yet (you wait until you are old enough to study and consent) so I told the elders that if we weren't allowed to talk to her in her greatest time of need, they could shove it.

Simple-Relief , Nathan Dumlao Report

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Dan 2 years ago

Great job standing up to those ckunts

104points

45 People Who Escaped From Cults Are Sharing What Their Breaking Points Were When the 'Elders' told me that I could no longer speak to my younger sister anymore because she was in 'bad standing' with the organization. She's the only family I have left. They made her out to be this monster just because she wasn't actively going to church. That's when the glass shattered for me

I was one of Jehovah's Witnesses and my sister and I are still close. She's doing great things for herself and I do not regret my decision at all. Dont let someone else make decisions for your life, you'll be much happier!

BananasAnd69 , wikipedia Report

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June’s Very Own 2 years ago (edited)

I’m so glad you and your sister are united together!

79points

45 People Who Escaped From Cults Are Sharing What Their Breaking Points Were When my parents told me they'd let me die rather than allow me to get certain medical procedures.

Schnauzerbutt , Anna Shvets Report

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Michelle M 2 years ago (edited)

Something like this happened about three years ago in Lagos, Nigeria. A family gave birth to a weak baby, that needed quick blood transfusion. Because the family were Jehovah Witnesses, they refused, saying that the baby would be healed and blah blah. The government had to forcefully take the baby from them. If not for the quick intervention, it would have lost its life and the family would have said it was the will of God. That would have been plain homicide. When I asked a mate of mine who was also JW, she said that they believed that blood transfusion transfers sins from a body to another. It was funny, till I realised that many lives would have been lost to that belief. And more would be

128points

According to the BBC, there are as many as 2k suspected cults operating in the United Kingdom at this point in time. Some of them target students to swell their ranks. “Just absolute mind control,” is how Jess, a former student, described her time at the Shincheonji Church of Jesus.

She was recruited on the campus of the University of Salford and said she couldn’t recognize herself anymore while she was with the cult.

Meanwhile, CBS states that there are up to 10k cults in the United States. International cult expert Steve Eichel stressed that most cults are small and deliberately try to stay under the radar.

#10

When I was the one who got shunned for defending a child from a pedophile.

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

What the actual f**k? How can you be in the wrong for this?

101points

#11

45 People Who Escaped From Cults Are Sharing What Their Breaking Points Were When my mom said that I was so bad at housekeeping that if I got abused by my future husband, "he would be within his rights as head of the household".

Fundie cults are the worst

motherofcats04 , Filip Mroz Report

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Tamra Stiffler 2 years ago

Head of the household, my ass.

92points

#12

45 People Who Escaped From Cults Are Sharing What Their Breaking Points Were It's hard to pick a first time but I knew I needed to run when I was taken shopping for a wedding dress at 12 years old.

AtTheEnd777 , PhotoMIX Company Report

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

What country is this from? Is that even legal anywhere? Anymore?

69points

"Unless they commit a crime, unless they do something that draws attention to them—negative attention and criticism to them—we generally don't know about them,” the expert suggested that these groups could be living right under our very noses without anyone realizing that something’s very wrong.

Eichel listed some of the things that make a cult, well, a cult. From deception to being overly secretive, here are the ways to recognize one of these groups.

"Beware of any kind of pressure. That's probably the single most important advice I can give anyone. Any kind of pressure to make a quick decision about becoming involved in any intensive kind of activity or organization,” the cult expert stressed that being rushed to make decisions can be an indication that you’ve been approached by cultists.

#13

When I was pulled out of Sunday school and scolded for asking legit questions about our so called prophet. I was 8 years old and couldn’t wrap my head around how some guy could translate a lost language using a hat and a stone. I used to be a Mormon lmao.

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Hex Gurls 2 years ago

wasn’t the guy who ‘found’ the book also a con man

94points

sanityisnotproven 2 years ago

Yes, but no Mormon is taught that. Nor are you allowed to question the beliefs or read or listen to anything that contradicts those beliefs. Joseph Smith is revered much more than God and, oh btw, God is actually from another planet and was sooooo good they got to be a God after they died and you can too! Yeah, it's mind bending but when you are raised with that in your head it's hard to get it out.

34points

The Scout 2 years ago

According to Wikipedia, Joseph Smith was indeed sentenced for of "troublemaking and imposture" in 1826, later was in jail 1838 - 1839 for treason, wanted 1838 for banking fraud, then again 1844 for abuse of authority (as a mayor, he had the presses and premises of a newspaper destroyed after they had reported unfavourably). That year he was shot by an angry lynchmob while jumping out from a window in order to flee from investigative prison, where he was held for inciting a riot. There were earlier accusations of sexual abuse of an underage servant. So yes, exactly the qualities one would look for in a spiritual leader... (Source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joseph_Smith)

31points

Manners are free 2 years ago

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Troux 2 years ago

Joseph Smith was a known storyteller, L. Ron Hubbard was a published fiction author and Muhammad was a traveling salesman. I really wish God would read the room and choose some more credible individuals to reach out to. I'd love some spiritual and moral guidance, but I'm not willing to bet my life on the word of a 'pregnant virgin', ya feel me?

7points

Tamara Arden 2 years ago

Dumb, dumb, dumb, dumb, dumb. Remember the South park episode about the Mormons?

7points

Dan Paluscsak 2 years ago

Not that I am aware of was Joseph Smith considered a con man. But from my family history, it has been attested that several of his witnesses who shared a common last name were of less than sterling character. No, my branch of the family is not nor ever has been affiliated with the LDS.

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You cant stop the truth 2 years ago

joseph smith, was a prophet, dumdumdumdumdum

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Indy 2 years ago

Lucy Harris, smartsmartsmart

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sanityisnotproven 2 years ago

As another former Mormon I feel you. Not being able to question anything the church elders said was my wake up call as well.

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Manners are free 2 years ago

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LivingTheDream 2 years ago

I have a friend who's son just married a mormon. He converted. She raised him mostly by herself, sacrificed so much for him to be successful, went to all of his games, etc... and he ended up playing in the NFL and just signed a $30 million contract. NOTHING for his mom. no car, no house, no jewelry... nothing. She has struggled financially for a very long time. All of his millions are 'going to the church'. My friend, of course, is just happy he is successful and puts on a smiley face. Personally I think it is a d**k move and the church is predatory.

15points

Louisa Bissette 2 years ago

Why are so many people in denial that Mormonism is a cult. The best thing I did was leave.

9points

sanityisnotproven 2 years ago

From experience I would say it's the forest for the trees kind of thing. You can't really see it until you are out. For at least a year after I left I still denied it was a cult until I did extensive research to find a new church and read up on many religions and only then was I like "damn, it IS a cult".

2points

K- THULU 2 years ago

I may be wrong but didn't he die at the hands of an angry mob?

9points

sanityisnotproven 2 years ago

He did.

8points

Grace Noyes 2 years ago

Read Under the Banner of Heaven, by Jon Krakauer for a fascinating look at Fundamentalist Mormons and history of the Mormon Church. Some crazy s**t.

7points

Mrs. Jan Glass 2 years ago

There are at least 4 dead people in my family because of Mormonism. My cousin tried to leave her drug addicted, abusive husband, and begged her church for help. They told her if she divorced, she would be excommunicated from the church (as was their practice for decades). She went back to him. Four years later, the 7 year old and 5 year old found their father's dead body hanging in the living room. Definitely the "godly" choice and better than divorce, oh yeah. My grandfather's ex-bishop used to follow him home from school yelling abuse at him because his parents had divorced. If every Mormon temple burned to the ground, I'd have a party.

6points

Madelyn Moydell 2 years ago

Raised Mormon. Refused baptism because I figured out at a young age it is all about the men. I wasn’t feeling it…

5points

High Mamii Melo 2 years ago

It feels good to not be on records anymore :) !

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Moxxidude 2 years ago

Come on though, as much as Joseph Smith was a total huckster, look at all he accomplished with that ridiculous gag. I mean really, that’s a prank you start just to see how dumb people in your neighborhood are and when you realize that it’s getting out of hand because almost everyone is borderline r******d, you just keep it going. I don’t even fault him; it’s kind of impressive. I’d keep it up too.

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Jo Rhodes 2 years ago

LOL I had a problem with the with 2nd article of faith " we believe that men will be punished for their own sins and not for Adam's transgression.." But black men couldn't hold "the holy priesthood" because they were descendents of Cain who was curse with dark skin for offing Abel. It's fricken glaring contradiction! Most LDS members are unaware the prophecy of the keys being given to black members was directly do to the IRS threatening to pull their tax exemption PLUS all BYU campuses loosing their accreditation. The church caved... Ugh them and their spending millions on temples vs feeding the poor.

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I'm Kid A 2 years ago

This reminds me of a time when I was volunteering in an intermediate (5th and 6th grade) Sunday school type thing. I've worked with almost every age group, in every setting (church or otherwise)... One time, a boy asked me in a small group setting - 5 or so kids split up with a leader for a discussion segment about what they learned and also life in general. One boy asked me some sort of existential question (don't remember exactly). I answered as well as I could, explained that I don't have all the answers, the answer might be slightly different for everyone, etc. but I also encouraged him and told him it was good to ask these questions and examine his beliefs. After everything was over and the parents started to pick their kids up, he begged me not to tell his mother that he had asked about it. I reassured him that I wouldn't (and I didn't) but it just made me think a lot about why a kid might not feel comfortable asking a genuine and innocent question..

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shodokai 2 years ago

'used to' So glad to hear that. Congratulations on waking up and getting the hell out.

1point

GettheOtis 2 years ago

Dum dum dum dum duuuuuum

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Janet C 2 years ago

dum dum dum dum dum (South Park)

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Timothy Leung 2 years ago

I was baptized when I was a baby. Fast forward to primary 4 when we had bible study classes. The standard textbook is in Q&A form and one of the questions was "Do you believe in God?" The answer was 'Yes' - no explanations, no reasoning etc. That was the moment that put me off religion.

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Rabbit-Of-ill-Portent🇺🇦️ 2 years ago

One of my favorite South Park episodes.

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Rene Simons 2 years ago

Hi ‘found’ and hid it again.

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Braineating Spleen 2 years ago

Joseph Smith. Dum da dum dum dum. Elizabeth Smith. Smart smart smart smart smart

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Shortstuff 2 years ago

At least she used her brain and saw religion for what it is...control.

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Kye 2 years ago

he also "couldn't read or write"... so all those letters from before the BOM were???

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Suze Allyn 2 years ago

One of the worst religions founded on utter crapola.

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S 2 years ago

Good job!!!

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Jennifer Williams 2 years ago

I was sent to a Seventh Day Adventist school, still have no idea why as neither of my parents were of that faith and they were not religious in any way. So when they started telling me all about their beliefs I started to ask questions, I was a kid that if I didn't see something then it wasn't real. I got suspended for asking questions about the flood and got the strap a few times for doing that. I spent 10 years there with these people who because I wasn't one of them, the boys thought I was easy picking and the amount of times I told the teachers what the boys were doing they didn't care. We walked into the science room one lunchtime to find the science teacher giving a 14 year old girl an education on sex, that was amusing. I was an atheist by grade 5 or back then, a non believer. I have lived happily being that and bringing my children up the same.

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Rick Hoppenbrouwer 2 years ago

Moron is a much better name for that group.

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KT 2 years ago

oh yes that one, and how he lost the book etc before he got back to civilization, real convenient

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Sharron Lindsay 2 years ago

Good for you

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No Thankyou 2 years ago

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meepmeep 2 years ago

Mormon until 26. It's more subtle, but yes it is. The "plan of happiness" is a tool of control. The temple is creepy af - everyone I know who has left the church agrees with that. Do you have to confess your sins to a bishop? Did you get asked about masturbation and other sexual "sins" while 12-17 while sitting alone in a room with an adult man? So you have to pay 10% of your income in order to get a temple recommend? Do they give you a calling in order to keep you active? Sure, you have the agency to not do those things, but then you have the fear of not being worthy to go the the celestial kingdom. Do they encourage telling everyone to bear their testimony to others about how they "know" the church is true, when it's not actually knowable? Do they have secret handshakes and secrets names? Have their beliefs about plural marriage, people who are black, and men's and women's roles changed? Did Joseph Smith marry a 14yo while telling her family that if she married him that they would be saved, which goes against the whole foundation of choice and accountability? It's a cult my friend

13points

Mrs. Jan Glass 2 years ago

My family have been Mormons since the founding. It is not only a cult, it is a cesspool of abuse, lies, and stealing. This is not "ridicule" or "persecution," this is what YOUR CHURCH does to people. From forcing teen girls to marry their rapists to insisting said wives remain in abusive marriages, from insisting that women should just crap out kids and that men are on track to be gods of their own planets, all of it us harmful, abusive, disgusting messaging. You literally used your money to pass Prop 8 in CA and take away the rights for gay people to marry, because somehow it's okay to marry a 15 year old, or seven wives, but golly, if two people of the same sex marry, you think you have the right to impose your "values" on that? Mormons suck, and one of these days, when you get the full brunt of Mormon selfishness when you need help, you'll wake the eff up, too, just like half of my family did.

6points

Andie 2 years ago

I'm sorry. But I am going to have to disagree with you. I live in UT "aka Mormonville". I am not Mormon.When I taught in public school, I had LDS parents complain that I dared to drink ice tea and Pepsi in front of their children. I was treated horribly once people found out I was not LDS and had no plans to convert. My best friend was Mormon. She was beaten by her husband so badly, she lost her only child (not able to have kids after the beating). When she went to her "bishop" for comfort and advise, he told her, "what could you have done differently?" and put all the blame on her. She left the church and lost all of her family and friends. They were all encouraged to shun her. Yes there are good Mormons, but there are a TON of holier than thou ones who would rather you stay with the man who almost beat you to death, who DID beat your unborn child to death, instead of leaving him and the church.

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GirlFriday 2 years ago

BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! This is the best piece of satire I have read in a long, long time. Thank you for the laugh and for spouting it so convincingly!!

1point

Robert Thompson 2 years ago

Depends on their definition of "Cult"

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Jean McMahon 2 years ago

All religions are cults.

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Robert Thompson 2 years ago

Thought I was the only one on BP. My LDS views often get Downvotes from other Pandas.

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#14

45 People Who Escaped From Cults Are Sharing What Their Breaking Points Were Scientology. When they took our second house.

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Lola 2 years ago

They’re headquartered in Clearwater, Florida. They basically own all of downtown and then some. Driving through there is such an eerie experience. Some of their high-rise buildings have bars on all windows. Im sure a lot of malicious stuff goes on in there. I don’t understand how in this day and age these things are allowed.

112points

Upvote-for-Cookies , Garon Piceli Report

#15

45 People Who Escaped From Cults Are Sharing What Their Breaking Points Were Every women needed to bear a child with the cult leader. We were given drugged sweets, such as cookies, for food.

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

I know it is easy to say this, not being in that situation, but how does it get this far? This stuff makes Charles Manson seem positively normal.

111points

“Be wary of any leader who proclaims him or herself as having special powers or special insight. And, of course, divinity,” he said. “The group is closed, so in other words, although there may be outside followers, there's usually an inner circle that follows the leader without question, and that maintains a tremendous amount of secrecy."

According to Eichel, cults use deceptive means to recruit new members. Then, they use an “organized program of through reform” (aka brainwashing) to change how these fresh recruits think and operate.

#16

When my youth group leader said that telling poor people about Jesus was more important than feeding them or housing them.

republican-jesus Report

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

What a twatbasket!

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#17

When they kept telling me that only men could be leaders, and women were supposed to be silent, demure, secondary, and subservient. I looked around and saw so many dumb asses I wouldn't trust to lead me out of a burning building without copping a feel and claiming it was something I did that caused them to stumble, such as wear a tank top or pants.

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Procrastinating Panda 2 years ago

"silent, demure, secondary, and subservient." Like that would ever happen.

45points

#18

45 People Who Escaped From Cults Are Sharing What Their Breaking Points Were When the leader kept my mom up for 2 days straight. He was making her cook, clean, be on him hand and foot all while berating her. yelled at her she was an evil woman going to hell, he was too godly for her, etc. 3 am and I hear him screaming at her, all biblical bs, and she’s crying. she broke down and he drove my mom, my sister and I to the ER and said she had to check herself into mental health because she’s psychotic. We are there for 3 hours. They turn her away and she comes out with abuse pamphlets.

dismia , Kat Smith Report

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

Wait, she was the psychotic one? Not the abusive monster religious leader?

89points

"Typically, cults also exploit their members… mostly financially. Within the group, they'll exploit members financially, psychologically, emotionally and, all too often, sexually,” the expert warned.

"A very important aspect of cult is the idea that if you leave the cult, horrible things will happen to you. This is important, and it's important to realize. That people outside of a cult are potential members, so they're not looked upon as negatively as people inside the cult who then leave the cult."

#19

45 People Who Escaped From Cults Are Sharing What Their Breaking Points Were When my brother started asking (politely) how our religion was founded and how our family got involved and generally just questions about life: they don't believe in evolution or kissing before marriage.

And they would bite his head off about it at age 11. It made me realise they were being defensive because they had no answers. If you can't explain why you're in a religion, you get the f**k out.

PurelyAmy , Vanderlei Longo Report

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Patti Vance 2 years ago

yup, i know this tactic. when i would ask priests or nuns a question i would get the "it's a mystery" and shouldn't question. when i asked the rabbis a question and they would search the torah for some answer. sometimes it was found. other times they would just say they didn't know and perhaps in time we may get an answer. i am way more comfortable with 'i don't know' than i am with blind faith.

75points

#20

45 People Who Escaped From Cults Are Sharing What Their Breaking Points Were When I realized that the doors to the 13 story former hotel building we were all living in was locked and you had to sign out to leave.

No one (from children to adults) could leave without an explanation to where they were going and when they'd be back.

g1ngerguitarist , Pixabay Report

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

Crazy controlling cnuts.

75points

#21

45 People Who Escaped From Cults Are Sharing What Their Breaking Points Were Ex-Jehovah’s Witness here.

My first hint that something was wrong was the amount of control exerted in our day to day lives. No beards, no long hair for men, no tattoos or piercings, no shirts with “edgy” artwork like band shirts or shirts with skulls, no entertainment they don’t approve of, etc. Other witnesses are trained to report you to the elders if you’re not following their guidelines, such as if you have a position of respect in the congregation but someone sees that you have a rated R movie, they’ll report you to the elders and you could lose your position and good standing, which will change the way the congregation treats you.

What really tipped it over the edge for me though was their doctrine that all non-witnesses deserve to die at Armageddon by gods hand, simply for not being witnesses. Armageddon is supposed to be urgently imminent, and over 99.9% of the world will die just because they’re not witnesses. That didn’t sit right with me. I had been working in retail for some time, and the people I worked with were every bit as intelligent, compassionate and loving as any witness I knew.

Eventually, these issues became too great for me to bear, and I committed the ultimate sin, researching information that criticizes the religion. We were taught to be terrified of anything that remotely criticizes the religion and it’s leaders. I finally pushed against that fear and did the research. Woke up instantly. Realized why they taught us to fear “apostate” information so much, it’s because they know it’s all true and they don’t want us to see it

excusetheblood , Luan Cabral Report

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Black Pearl 2 years ago

That's horrible that they think everyone who isn't a witness just goes to hell. I didn't really know much about Jehovah's Witnesses before, but I really don't like them. They seem like crappy people being the worst kind of Christian possible.

56points

#22

When I realized that God does not use flaming swords to force little girls to shag old dudes.

When I realized that any of those old dudes could still technically ask for me or my daughter as a “spiritual wife” and we’d have no choice.

When a devout member very seriously told her son that she’d rather have him graduate from the Church’s education program than from high school. (Seminary gives neither credit, nor real world experience—It’s just brainwashing.)

When the same member told me that—though it might be hard—she’d offer her children up like Abraham did with Isaac, in a heartbeat, if the Prophet commanded it.

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

Why do so many of these cults turn out to be paedophile rings? Is it a paedophile that starts a cult? Or is it the power trip the develops from being a cult leader that makes them think they can do what they want?

126points

#23

When I realised that medication and painkillers existed, that other people gave them to their children when they were sick, and that my parents could have helped me when I was suffering but chose not to.
And that watching television doesn't make someone a bad person haha.

crystalviolent Report

Final score:

178points

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Lindsey Williams 2 years ago

That hurts my heart.

39points

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#24

When I found out I was gay and because of that, I would forever burn in hell, regardless the fact I didn't choose to be gay.

Final score:

177points

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Glasia van Duivels 2 years ago

You're off better in hell because there no one harrasses you for being gay.

81points

#25

When they told members to park behind the church to hide their cars so they wouldn’t get reported for gathering during the height of the pandemic.

Then they made the choir sign NDA’s over hymns.

Then got really control-y during online services. They made you angle your camera a specific ways, wear certain clothes, not sit so close to your spouse etc

In a prayer, said they loved the leader of the church more than anyone else.

The pandemic really helped my family and I to step back and really examine the organization we dedicated our lives to

rwainemie Report

Final score:

164points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

How many of them got the Covid?

49points

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#26

I realized it when I was told in order for me to reach the highest level of heaven I would have to participate in "The Blood Atonement" inside of The Mormon temple and that my husband would be required to have multiple wives to reach that same heaven.

I YEETED THE F**KITY F**K OUT!

Final score:

156points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

From Wikipedia "Blood atonement is a disputed doctrine in the history of Mormonism, under which the atonement of Jesus does not redeem an eternal sin. To atone for an eternal sin, the sinner should be killed in a way that allows his blood to be shed upon the ground as a sacrificial offering,..." What the actual f**k?

71points

#27

When my step bro only had to pray for forgiveness after molesting me, no other actions were taken.

RowEmotional2727 Report

Final score:

155points

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Susie Elle 2 years ago

You, on the other hand, supposedly had it coming and will burn in a hell for tempting him, right?

102points

#28

Raised in a cult in ireland knows as dippers ( cooneyites)

It was absolutely crazy and my family are all members and had to disown me and shone me when i came out as gay. The other members within the family discussed it and decided it was necessary to strip me of any inheritance and any relationship with my family and other members of our religion.

An-capall-dorcha Report

Final score:

145points

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Glasia van Duivels 2 years ago

I'd reply: Satan accepts me more than God. How is God good?

91points

#29

When I realized I had been running two versions of "truth" in my head my whole life. One was the empirical, fact-based reality we actually live in - the other was my church's version of that reality. One day, it clicked that both can't be true and I was living a lie.

I left and had to reevaluate how I wanted to live my life, and I found my genuine life.

I was fortunate to have a spouse who was not a member of my church to support me. My family, not so much.

Lurker-DaySaint Report

Final score:

141points

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Procrastinating Panda 2 years ago

It's good that you got out.

20points

#30

My mom being like “we are NOT a cult! I mean sure ex members got hitmen sent after them a couple times but that does NOT define us!” Yeahhh Also the fact that even though me and my siblings repeatedly asked what our religion was, our parents refused to tell us until we were all 16-19 because they didn’t trust us to not look it up or tell other people.

Ok-Fan2331 Report

Final score:

140points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

Totally not a cult.....

72points

#31

Nothing is wrong. Our Supreme leader knows all and loves us all equally. Sure, he only has sex with the cute teenage girls, but that is his right and responsibility as the one true representative of God. May his seed be strong and plentiful.

Slevinkellevra710 Report

Final score:

137points

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Reading-under-Sequoias🫶🇺🇦 2 years ago

I'm getting the weed killer to destroy that "Seed"

26points

#32

45 People Who Escaped From Cults Are Sharing What Their Breaking Points Were I wasn’t supposed to make friends with any other kids unless they went to our church.

super_nice_shark , Pixabay Report

Final score:

134points

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Jon Steensen 2 years ago

ah yeah, isolation is an important tool when you want to brainwash a person, e.i. decide what thoughts are installed in their mind. If you "compete" with someone else on that task, the child may get a more nuanced world view, and realise that better alternatives exists, learn how to think critically and see that they have options, so they might choose not to go with you. All of that is really dangerous when you try to keep them in the herd and make them go in the direction you want them to go in, in order to exploit them.

30points

#33

I was raised in a very strict manner by Church of Christ parents in an extremely legalistic Southern Baptist church. I was extremely sheltered, allowed only one movie (maybe) and one hour of TV a week, ONLY Christian movies, books, TV shows, radio, etc. I never interacted with kids outside of the church bubble, as my parents started a Christian school so that I "wouldn't have to go to the evil public school and be brainwashed."

For me it was when my pastor and my youth pastor took me aside during a church camp and said they were worried about my salvation as I hadn't led anyone in the sinners prayer and didn't go on "visitation," which was door knocking on Sunday afternoons to talk about Jesus. Instead, I played harp as part of the instrumental group every Sunday and Wednesday and sang in the choir when I wasn't playing, which practiced during the same time as visitation.

They basically told me that since I showed most of the other fruits of the spirit like love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, etc., they thought I was Christian but since I openly boycotted visitation and hadn't borne any of the "bringing new sheep into the flock" fruit by leading anyone in the sinners prayer, I couldn't possibly be a full Christian and they wanted me to work on that. I was 15! I never interacted with non-christians and was part of the instrumental group and choir which practiced during visitation! How could I do that if everyone I knew was already Christian??

It led to some serious questions, but I couldn't really do anything until I escaped to college 3 years later.

moldylemming Report

Final score:

134points

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Harrison Miller 2 years ago

im so sorry you had to wait 3 more years

42points

#34

45 People Who Escaped From Cults Are Sharing What Their Breaking Points Were Not in a cult per say, but was in one of those evangelical megachurches. Started as a nice corner church; the piety was genuine.

I dont think that the pastor planned the whole thing - he seemed a genuine preacher until the church grew exponentially. Like went from a few hundred members to 15,000 in less than 2 years. Then his main focus was maintaining (entertaining) the masses, which drove him to do stupid things.

Many weird things started happening. Especially, one day he "had a revelation" that the congregation needs to expand further and members have to, I am serious, give out all the GOLD they were wearing. I know a lady that got into serious trouble with her husband because she gave away her gold wedding band.

My last straw was when he promoted himself to Apostle and renamed himself "Paul". Apostle Paul. Okay.

jetiro_now , Joshua Eckstein Report

Final score:

128points

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Hex Gurls 2 years ago

i hâte megachurches ☹️ they just feel so cold and like they’re just trying to make money

13points

#35

My church made me throw away all of my first edition hard cover Harry Potter books because they were “evil”

I wasn’t even allowed to sell them, so that I wouldn’t cause others to “stumble”

I think about it probably once a week...

nightcheese09 Report

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125points

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Fraxinus excelsior 2 years ago

I bet the church would've welcomed the profits if you could've sold them?

35points

#36

Raised in a very culty Church of Christ congregation. At 13 I realized how judgmental everybody was and that nothing anybody did ever seemed like enough. I began suffering from depression because I realized nothing I do will ever be enough. I tried to be perfect but it was never good enough for the church or for "God." I noticed the gossip and negative attitudes toward one another when backs were turned, but when speaking to each other everybody pretended they weren't just talking s**t about them. I noticed it was unusual that we were not allowed to hang out with anyone other than people who were in our church. Was weirded out when people from church starting arriving at my house unannounced and inviting themselves in to talk about my church attendance recently. Noticing the s**tty attitude and weird social rules of the church was eventually followed by realized none of it made logical sense, either, as I slowly became a lover of science.

PoopsieDoggins Report

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112points

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Rebecca Estep 2 years ago

oh my god you could be describing me

19points

#37

When my other friends came to my church for the first time. Most of my friendships were isolated to church members until middle school.

I started going with my other christian friends to their churches which were all similar to each other. When they came to mine they were uncomfortable and they all started telling me my church was weird.

Around 13 years old a friend's mother asked me a few questions about my church and I had recently gotten the internet so I started asking questions at my church, and the questions were not welcome.

My church was an offshoot, home based, from what is known as "The Way" ministries.

Recently a coworker told me a long story about almost getting indoctrinated to a cult while he was in college. I mentioned how it sounded like "The Way" and his eyes lit up.

kruxader Report

Final score:

108points

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Joyce C 2 years ago

Former member here. Yes they are definitely a cult! This was back in the early 80's when I was a member. My mother was murdered in 1982, and just a few months before that I had decided against going on a year long Word Across the World which entailed going with 2-3 members and living in whatever city they picked for us. After my mothers death, I spoke with my former leader on the phone and he had the audacity to say that had I gone on my year long trip and not shunned the church, my mother would still be alive. I cut off all communications after that horrible insensitive comment!

63points

#38

When I learned that, if a women was going to be raped, it would be better for her to kill herself than risk having her “blood lineage” tainted.

Shakiraoneal101 Report

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107points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

What freaky bullsh!t cult teaches this? And what the eff happens to the rapist? Repent and be forgiven?

42points

#39

When I started attending a school run by my cult after years in public school and it wasn't just the rules that were different, but the social norms.

Example: only allowed to sleep 5 hours a night. Intense bullying for talking to boys after breaking up with my boyfriend. Odd forms of physical/psychological punishment when students broke rules. Being taught that masturbation is unhealthy, that getting piercings put holes in your aura (that can only be filled with diamonds lol), and that sleeping with men puts holes in a woman's arc line (which impacts her ability to bond with her infant).

Most of the things were relatively benign at the beginning. Rumours floating around over the years were always dismissed as people trying to disparage the image of our teacher, or profit financially, or they were 'crazy'. It wasn't until the beginning of last year when the truth about the abuse and corruption in the community started to surface!

eastvankitty Report

Final score:

106points

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Sharron Lindsay 2 years ago

Sorry I'm confused - sleeping with a man affects the mothers ability to bond with the child? How are mothers meant to conceive a child and bond with it?

70points

#40

When I heard myself saying, "I'm so lucky I was born into the right religion."

tenthingsten Report

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97points

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Falling Forward 2 years ago

Good for you. Well done.

18points

#41

The lawsuit-after-lawsuit and Australian Royal Commission into Child Sex Abuse and seeing one of the 'leaders' lying on camera. Made me squirm in my seat watching.

Not to mention the 'no blood transfusions' policy + shunning former members.

(ExJW here~)

Research-ing Report

Final score:

96points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

The more I hear about the JW's the more I am concerned for people trapped in that belief.

62points

#42

45 People Who Escaped From Cults Are Sharing What Their Breaking Points Were When I was told doing independent research on the doctrine would lead to being shunned by my friends and family. i.e. fall in line bitch. Jehovah's Witness.

llgongshowll , Dan Dimmock Report

Final score:

90points

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Clan Leader 2 years ago

JWs got away with this garbage for years. Not so much now

10points

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#43

Recently.

I'm 41 years old and kind of had the blindfold pulled that a lot of the "evangelical" organizations I've worked with in my life have been cults.

In my teens we went to a church that told you who you could hang out with, what you could watch on TV, what movies you could see, and picked who within the church you could be friends with. 99% of the leaders told you how to run your family but had kids who were either teenage pregnancies or a baby daddy, illiterate homeschoolers, high school drop-outs or drug addicts. There were stretches where we went to church two times a day - even during the week. They encouraged people to get their kids out of school for revival meetings, home schoolers postponed their classes - it was consuming. They started arranged marriages, with several families petitioning my parents for me to marry their daughters - they almost went for it but stopped because it seemed "weird".

As I moved off to college they recommended a mega-church they got a lot of their messages and such from. This church did more of the same. They encouraged high school seniors to put off college a year and PAY THE CHURCH $3,000 for an opportunity to work there for year for an internship program that guaranteed ministry work experience. This program micro-managed your life to the hour, included intense hazing for new members that routinely sent students to the hospital and stacked them all into student housing so that you could focus more on the program.

Final score:

88points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

Some of these are blatant money raking criminal enterprises.

32points

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#44

I was raised with the belief that if I followed all the rules and was a good person, I'd feel a confirmation of everything. 7 year old me was well aware that I had yet to feel it, and that was one of the many things that led to becoming depressed at the age of 12. I kept having questions that I had no answer for other than "God works in mysterious ways." Eventually, I found a YouTube channel where the person told about how they left the religion and I realized my whole life was a lie and that I no longer had to try and believe in something that never worked for me.

Just-an-Immortal Report

Final score:

85points

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Carol Emory 2 years ago

The "God works in mysterious ways" is the equivalent of "because I said so." If you can't answer the question, just admit that. If it's a legitimate question with an answer you don't like, admit that too. I'm not sure why so many supposedly Christian groups think it's their business to tell someone what they have to do or how they will be saved. It's between each individual and God. You have no one else to answer to.

36points

#45

My mum was a Jehovah's Witness. She raised me alone, without my father. I was just a kid (around 6-9 yo) and I was not comfortable with everything and everyone. I felt something was wrong, the way they talked, the way they smiled. When she got cancer, at the very beginning she refused some treatments, she even went to a "brother" doctor who claimed he could treat cancer with herbs. When she became very ill, they begin to "let her go" and focus on me. At that time she was at home, with my aunt and my nana with her. When my aunt and my grandma gone crazy about them and forbidden to came at home for me, they just disappeared. The sad side of the story was that she lived in the community for years, so she didn't have other friends than them. Who just dissolved, leaving her alone. She died in 1992.

To answer the question, I think the first time I realized something was wrong was when THEY realized that I realized (sorry for the game of words), the whole community start acting strange, too many attentions, too many smiles, very creepy.

Staminkja Report

Final score:

85points

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madbakes 2 years ago

This one is just too difficult to read and understand

62points

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#46

I was raised as one of Jehovah's witnesses. One of my earlier memories was probably around the age of 6 7-8. I remember thinking that the things I'm learning might not be true, but it's still a better life then outside of the religion.

The biggest thing I found that woke me up was how kind people outside the cult were. I was always raised to believe that they were being influenced by the devil and that you couldn't really trust anyone else. But here I was in high school, and being around the most fantastic and accepting people I had ever known. Completely against what I had been told they were.

TheRagingViolinist Report

Final score:

36points

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#47

After my parents announced their pending divorce, I was suddenly taboo to virtually all my church friends. It occurred to me then that every one of my secular friends were of higher quality than my religious ones. This struck me as strange, considering those of my friends who had "the holy spirit in their hearts" were also all pretty much douchebags. That was when I started re-examining my religious beliefs.

Juxtaposed_Reality Report

Final score:

34points

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Debbie Nicholson Premium 2 years ago

I’m so sorry. I was raised in a very strict cultish church and can feel your pain, but I would have never have disowned a friend whose parents were divorcing even in the church. Not your fault. I went through a lot of my own pain for other reasons but I’m still sorry for yours.

4points

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#48

When I was 12 years old, my classmate from school died in a car accident. We were as close of friends as I was allowed to be with someone who wasn’t in the cult. I asked my mom if I would see my friend in paradise (afterlife) and she said no because her parents weren’t Jehovah’s Witnesses. Then and now, I couldn’t believe that an innocent 12-year-old wouldn’t get a shot at everlasting life because of her parents. It was definitely the biggest crack in my ideology that only grew as I got into my teen years.

Final score:

34points

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#49

Well, where to start. There were always so many things I couldn't grasp about what I was taught growing up. How was the world supposed to be so young? How did they fit so many animals on such a small boat? How come this "faith" stuff never seemed to really work? Why didn't I have autonomy over my own decisions? How come my parent's and the head minister didn't appear to have to follow some of the rules that I did? How was everyone so sure that THIS was the correct theology to be so invested into?

I think the exact moments that really did it for me was when my abusive father-in-law to be as well as my abusive grandfather were both using their book to justify their abusive and manipulative behavior. And then the time my grandfather "prophesied" that I used my brain to much and needed to shut it off.

Those were the catalysts I needed to abandon ship completely and seek actual truth rather than just "believe" and "trust" whatever their book said without answers or proper, convincing evidence and proof. I could not be more happy to finally be out of that terrible time and place.

docpurple5891 Report

Final score:

33points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

"And then the time my grandfather "prophesied" that I used my brain to much and needed to shut it off." Just what? Did you prophesise he should back the f**k away?

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#50

My first time going through an endowment session at the local Mormon temple, and there are parts of the ceremony where you add basically add robes and an apron to what your already wearing. During the second time of everyone in the room standing and adjust robes according to the part of the ritual we were at (aka doing what we're told to an extreme degree) I paused, looked around, and thought, "O! This us why people think we are a cult". I brushed the thought off because I saw the ceremony as an individual spiritual event, ignoring the fact that we were all dressing and sharing secret hand shakes as a group.

It's been 19 years since then, I've had to examine and break down a lot of my life, but I've finally written my resignation letter so as to finally leave the church.

mousemorethanman Report

Final score:

33points

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sanityisnotproven 2 years ago

Ex-Mormon here. Leaving was the best thing in my life. My peace has increased a thousand fold. It took awhile to shake off the mind warp that I was raised in but worth it. YOU are worth it. If you need to talk please message. Support is sooo important!

13points

#51

When my mother ignored my molestation by a member because they were a member, and they would never do anything like that, and even if they did it, they were a member.

bakemama Report

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33points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

How can anyone excuse child molestation?

17points

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#52

Fifth grade when i saw them cutting of camel heads in the street. The were “blessing” their bodies with the blood. They also hit themselves on the head with a sword and i was asking my father about it and the answer of “this is gods orders” didn’t convince me. That’s when I started looking for answers. I lived many years in fear and confusion but it’s all good now, I’m no longer part of that group, I’ve never been.

Picaso- Report

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33points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

What had the camels done wrong?

19points

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#53

So many red flags.

Speaking in tongues, hellfire nonsense. I felt like the only sane person in the room.

Saying Pokemon came from Satan-this is when I stopped believing.

No non Christian media, which became a big fight with my parents. Caused a lot of resentment.

The church did regular book burnings. This was traumatizing, as a nerdy kid who loves to read. This made me hate them.

Saying it was bad to research other religions or what they teach (6k year old earth etc). I realized they had something to hide.

Thank f**k my mom is a hypocrite and had 2 other kids out of wedlock and was excommunicated.

Final score:

32points

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otplus 2 years ago

So pokemons is where the line is drawn, they might be right about thinking of pokemon as their enemy in that case

8points

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#54

I joined in my early 20’s but I was a recovering drug addict and emotionally a child. I essentially grew up in a Japanese Buddhist cult, the Soka Gakkai (SGI). I realised something was up when i couldn’t trace the money. It seemed like every centre was marble floored and worth millions. I couldn’t understand where the money came from and begun asking questions. I found out that I was in a financial cult that had its own political party. Then while travelling I encountered Buddhist ideas as they were taught outside of SGI. These made sense and helped me so much that I left immediately upon returning home.

I’m not in any group now and have a spiritual connection to nature alone.

throwaway4u2021 Report

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31points

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Zedrapazia 2 years ago

I'm glad here's also non-christian stories, I've never heard of Buddhist cults and it's highly interesting. I'll look up more about that.

19points

#55

I approached an Elder about wanting to be baptized. In short, my "eternal life on Paradise Earth" was thrown into jeopardy and I was denied the opportunity to "progress" toward having a saving relationship with God because my hair was too long. This group preaches imminent Armageddon, like any day now, for context. A cosmetic divergence was enough to condemn 14 year old me to destruction until I conformed to their arbitrary grooming standard. Something kind of broke in me right there. I left the Kingdom Hall and never returned.

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30points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

The running theme of this thread seems to be the dress code to get into Heaven is more important than religious leaders molesting children.

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#56

My aunt and uncle joined a radical sect of the 7th Day Adventists. Seventh Day Adventists don't allow dancing, cards, chess, checkers and most board games. They can't go to plays, or partake in anything that isn't "harmless" but it isn't clear what is holy and what is profane. That means that sports and even watching TV are really unacceptable unless somehow religiously-aligned.

My cousins were fascinating. Their parents joined the Global Mission arm and became Missionaries (professional) and lived in Argentina, Thailand and Africa. My cousins would come to North America every so often to see family but were so bizarre because they had no cultural references. They were raised in a cloistered community with little-to-no outside influence, so they didn't know music, arts, or pop-culture. They had never heard most music or even seen a Gilbert & Sullivan play. They would come to us and talk about the Church but there was no way me or my other cousins would give up our lives to live in some quasi-monastic world.

Their parents abandoned the Church after a number of years and became Mainliners, but for a good 7 years, my cousins were like people who had been unfrozen from a glacier and trying to navigate life as interlopers.

Final score:

29points

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Candy 2 years ago

I was raised 7th Day Adventist. No drinking/dancing/piercings/tattoos, even kissing someone who isn't your wife/husband/partner/whatever before saying "I Do" was a sin. My parents (who should never have gotten married in the first place) didn't get divorced (another sin unless it is under one or two specific circumstances) until 30 years later and wreaked havoc on me and my sister's mental and emotional health. Mother refuses to go to therapy because "God is enough"... Noped outta that a few years back!

6points

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#57

When they declared that CHILDREN of gay people couldn’t be baptized. Not just gay people themselves, but their children too.

The cult is Mormonism.

Final score:

29points

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Charles seen manythings 2 years ago

Really? I don’t think that’s correct anymore, as I have had a friend who is the child of two gay people, and they aren’t restricted that I’ve heard of… maybe it’s just my area

4points

#58

When I was five and the leader, who claimed to receive messages directly from God, accused me of doing something I knew I had not done.

RSchlock Report

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28points

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Hex Gurls 2 years ago

five?? is god really messaging a grown man abt something a toddler is doing??

13points

#59

When I read the Bible for myself .

darrenwise883 Report

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28points

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Jessica Wood 2 years ago

I noped out at the verse which says slavery is ok

5points

#60

When a congregation member pointed to a young girl after a service and said "it's dangerous for girls that age to think for themselves"

LogicalEarth Report

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27points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

Independent thought is dangerous for any cult member.

18points

#61

When I realized my cult/religion does not treat women with respect. A man can live in heaven with up to 7 wives (or i forget the specific number), does not allow abortion even if it is rape or will endanger the life of the wife, no premarital sex, no coffee (because of caffeine) but chocolate and soda is ok, does not accept homosexual, forced you to serve the church for two years and prioritize marriage over career and lastly, does not consider black guys as people (this changed tho)

joseph31091 Report

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26points

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sanityisnotproven 2 years ago

Ah, sounds like a fellow ex-Mormon.

10points

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#62

When I read a bedtime story about a little boy who was hit by a car and in the hospital. The boy in the room with him asked if he was Christian. The injured boy says no. The other boy tells him he won't go to heaven unless he's a Christian. So he advises the injured boy to keep his right hand raised to show Jesus that he wanted to be a Christian. The injured boy died during the night but his right arm was propped up by a pillow and 'Jesus understood' and let him into heaven.

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25points

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Hopefulhippo 2 years ago

I read that all the time when I was little from a book of Bible stories at the dentist, it freaked me out. Didn’t like it.

16points

#63

Every year at baptism in my Mennonite church, it's always a bunch of 14-year-olds getting baptized and they each have to give their testimony. 90 percent of them list fear of going to hell as a major reason for their decision to convert. They talk about how wonderful God is for "saving them" from their fear, but they don't realize that their indoctrination into the belief in God is the entire reason they ever had that fear to begin with.

When I was 13 and at a Mennonite-run boys camp for "troubled boys" I was openly not a Christian, and one of the only people in my group to be that way. A guy claims he saw the angel of death look at me at night. The dumbass that I was, I almost converted because of that after breaking down crying. Thankfully, I didn't.

TL;DR Christianity's method of keeping itself alive is indoctrinating young people into believing that they will go to hell if they don't follow the church's beliefs, and without the use of emotional manipulation to gain converts, it would cease to function.

GuitarOwl864 Report

Final score:

25points

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You cant stop the truth 2 years ago

christianity cuts you then sells you a bandage.

11points

#64

When they said people would try to convince us the cult was wrong. But to not even listen because we would end up believing them. Which...is really quite an admission when you think about it. But the consequences would be shunning by everyone you knew and death at Armageddon. So you shove questions like that aside for as long as you can.

Cargo_Vroom Report

Final score:

24points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

If your faith was based on a position of reason and rationality then surely you could withstand questions.

8points

#65

In high school, I had some school friends that I would debate religion with. One day they said we should take turns and go to each other’s church. I told them I wasn’t allowed to do that.

It felt odd that I would ask something of them that I wouldn’t do myself.

Anyway, one of them did come and I was so excited. Afterward she said it was nice but that the “Watchtower study” (a group read of a magazine produced by the religion where the congregation volunteers to answer questions about what was read) was very basic where everyone answered the questions by just repeating the words from the magazine. I had never noticed how rote and mechanical it all was. There was no critical thinking. It was literally like asking a 3rd grader about a book he read.

This led me to realize something wasn’t right. I left the Jehovahs Witnesses shortly after. It’s a cult, a very very boring cult.

crashman80 Report

Final score:

23points

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#66

When I realized that the real reason why they don’t let us do outside research on the church(basically a quick Google search) is to hide the church’s shady history and that beginning at a young age, girls are trained to be submissive and quiet, with the expectation that they’ll get married and have many kids that will repeat the cycle. Also, a lot of hypocrisy going on.

ItzelChoi Report

Final score:

23points

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Magpie 2 years ago

A lot in common with the catholic church there.

0points

#67

I went to the front of my church for help drinking water because as a kid, I hated water but loved soda. Cue pastor putting his hand on my head and pushed me backwards.

Out of shock and not wanting to make a scene, I laid still on the ground, fully aware, and still not wanting to drink water.

I realized at that point everyone was faking it and no one dared challenge the pastor on his bulls**t. I'm an atheist now, go figure.

Final score:

23points

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nooneimportant 2 years ago

Same, At week long overnight church "camp" i stood at the front of the "church house" with hands raised "to the one and only" and waited 20 mins for God to "fix" my wicked F****t ways I decided that if there is something "up there" this aint it.

6points

#68

When it dawned on me that I wont be going to hell for playing on Saturday (the sabbath)or celebrating xmas, painting my nails or loving my gay uncle. I heard it all my life but primarily after my parents divorced (which is a whole other story) and my father side of the family continued with the teachings with a heavy load of guilt. I felt so guilty and cried a lot out of confusion as to why my family made me feel so unsafe now that I didnt follow exactly what the leader of the church said. I was 8 and it continued on for way to long before I said "yall nuts". F**k the world wide church of God.

bobsbuddbarn22 Report

Final score:

23points

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Magpie 2 years ago

Congratulations on getting out.

3points

#69

When it came time for me to leave for my own mental health. I became the villain and when confiding in my college tutor she was horrified to learn even a fraction of what I had grown up with. She was the main encouragement I needed to gtfo when I did

Broken-Sushi Report

Final score:

22points

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Magpie 2 years ago

Yeah there is a reason education is feared by so many cults.

4points

#70

I was born and raised into a not so known buddhist cult (although whether its a cult or not is contested by a lot of people, still) called "SGI". My mum was practicing it when she was still preggos with me. Thus I was considered to be a "fortune baby" as they say lmao. I didnt think too much about it as a kid. We went to our meetings every week and met people but at some point I learnt the religion had a whole political thing going on in Japan and I was so confused. Also, ive had extensive mental health issues and over the last couple of years I realised my mum who has been practicing this religion for 20+ years is still a narcissist who has never shown an inch of wisdom or any kind of forgiveness as our religious text said. Ive slowly moved myself away but its hard because anywhere I move to my mum will always try to "get me connected" to a local member and its a lot

zhdlfrufghs Report

Final score:

22points

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Magpie 2 years ago

Escaping any cult is hard. When it is so large it makes it harder too. A good therapist should be able to help. There are some therapists who will just not be the right fit for you. There are some that will just not have the right experience to help you. When I have found a good one, I call them my teacher, and at different times I have " graduated" from the help one can give. Some time later I might need different help. I'm a survivor of a small cult I never learnt the name of, Alcoholic parents and a pedoVile father. Wishing the very best for you.

0points

#71

45 People Who Escaped From Cults Are Sharing What Their Breaking Points Were It started when I was a kid when I asked my mother why the important people in the church have such so many big houses. All she told me was people donate them... As I grew up and understood real estate value they had like $500k houses in almost all major cities in the US. Most churches solely on tithing and donations but they were doing what the catholic church was doing way back when. Asking for thousands upon thousands of dollars for "spiritual revolutions" and "ancestor liberations". But I will never tell my parents especially my mother what they are doing is wrong because it has revolved around their lives for so long. I do not want to take that away from them. I think they probably know that I do not want to do anything with the "church" at this point but won't outright call me out.

herokie , Daniel Barnes Report

Final score:

22points

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René Studer 2 years ago

As the late great George Carlin once said: „Religion takes in billions of dollars, they pay no taxes and they always need a little more. Talk about a good bulls**t story...Holy Sh**t!“

18points

#72

My entire childhood was spent in a holiness separatist cult. My dad inadvertently became the whistleblower and the cult imploded as I was going into 7th grade. I knew we were different, as I wasn’t allowed to participate in holiday plays or crafts in the classroom, and I wasn’t really allowed to have toys per se, but once we emerged out of it into the real world, I saw what I’d been missing out on. As a kid, I didn’t really know how to self regulate without the heavy handed structure, so once I got into middle school I really floundered academically and otherwise. It takes a long time to learn the life skills that get thwarted or interrupted in childhood.

Highlander1535 Report

Final score:

22points

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#73

When they told me to doubt my doubts before doubting my faith.

pterodactylbros Report

Final score:

20points

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You cant stop the truth 2 years ago

That's like, indoubtion man. You have to go into the doubt, to reach another level of doubt.

8points

#74

When our religion teacher was out sick and the substitute teacher told us the same Bible story from the week before, but with a completely different ending.

Final score:

20points

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Micah 2 years ago

The alternate ending is only included when you buy the Special Edition.

15points

#75

When I was passing the mic down the isle at the watchtower study and the elder at the row seat started rubbing my thigh and trying to go higher. When I moved away he held my leg there and gave me a stare like " Dont you move boy".

Final score:

18points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

To qualify as a church leader to you have to be a certified pederast?

11points

#76

When I asked them how they all can speak in tongues. And one guy was like "Well, you just babble like this..." From then on I hid in the woods every time they came to pick up my family.

AprilDawnBelieves Report

Final score:

18points

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Candia Lee 2 years ago (edited)

Speaking in tongues got me out. We each went to the back of the hall with two members to find Spirit and speak in tongues. My SO had experience, babbled away, and was led back to the flock. The voice in my head was not for their ears, so I uttered nothing, and they wandered off without me. I felt abandoned. (Evangelical Christian)

3points

CoffeeCatsandPixies Report

#77

sitting in shelter at 16 years old, couldn't stay at the shelter because I wasn't an adult, no youth shelter in the county, called the youth pastor at my church trying to find some sort of help. found out that they had all known and encouraged my mother to make me homeless because I was a "blight on her house" because I didn't attend church regularly because of work and cadets obligations.

Final score:

18points

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Magpie 2 years ago

Wow that is harsh. Wishing you all the best.

0points

#78

When I went to college and finally explored my faith personally, and discovered how blatantly, clearly false it was. I didn't realize it was cult even then. That came later, with the social and family ostracism and other inappropriate interference and pressure from the faith, all in the name of truth and righteousness.

voiceafx Report

Final score:

18points

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Magpie 2 years ago

Congrats on getting out. Chalk another one up for education.

0points

#79

Exactly 1 year after I was "Disfellowshipped" as a Jehovah Witness.

Having friends outside the cult really helped me out, and my brother also left with me too.
We both do not speak to my parents anymore. Its been approx 5 years now.

JP_HACK Report

Final score:

16points

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Magpie 2 years ago

Congrats! stay strong.

0points

#80

Ex-jw here

Besides the obvious doctrinal problems of my former religion, the other thing that woke me up was constantly reading about how happy Jehovah’s people are and feeling that I didn’t empathise with the feelings they were basically ordering me to feel. I was sad and depressed.

PrestigiousAd1523 Report

Final score:

15points

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Magpie 2 years ago

Honesty seems to be one of the earliest victims of weird / extreme religions. Wishing you well.

0points

#81

I was already out and living on my own when one of my brothers told me to look up my dad’s organization on wikipedia. The moment I saw the word cult it was like, “of course it is! How could I not have put it together sooner??!”

It just never occurred to me that it could be a cult, even though all the reasons I hated growing up in that environment were basically a high-control group checklist.

actualpolicevideo Report

Final score:

15points

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My O My 2 years ago

We need more information here please

1point

#82

Probably when I was fairly young, maybe 6-8 years old. We'd wake up early on Sundays and bow to a picture of the founder. I was pretty sure my "outside" friends never had to do that, but since most of my friends were inside the "church" and did it too, I didn't think too much on it.

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14points

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#83

When my mom told me about her childhood with it. We split off from it when I was 8 and my parents got divorced, but my grandparents are apart of it.

My mom couldn't have friends who weren't apart of it. She couldn't have sleepovers at all, period. No holidays at all. Her life was helicoptered.

Jehovah's Witnesses. Scary group of people. I will never go back to that again.

UltimateXChoco Report

Final score:

14points

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Magpie 2 years ago

Congrats. Very hard to leave such a big group.

0points

#84

When I saw the adults "speaking in tongues" while waiving their hands to the sky and falling to the floor when the pastor touched them I knew something was wrong, even as a child. It also felt weird when they would march all the kids in front of the congregation to one by one say we accept the teaching of Christ while eating his body and drinking his blood for communion.

I still have the damn pledge to the "Christian flag" memorized 30 years later.

-shabushabu Report

Final score:

12points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

The whole "tongues" thing is nonsense. Gabbling noises is not a language.

14points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

What have we all learned? Rape is the victims fault, paedophilia is fine when it is a church leader committing it. But no watching unapproved films, that is just plain evil.

36points

YHZ 2 years ago

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Susie Elle 2 years ago

Idk to me religion is a tool to keep anyone who can be brainwashed in check and a tool to keep anyone who can't painted off as 'the enemy'. It's a plague on this earth, I'm sad to feel that way as I know it can also be helpful for lots of people.

27points

User# 6 2 years ago

Yup. Also, I find it also hilarious to see christians point and laugh at the 'cults' and their weird beliefs and rituals without realising they're in the same, albeit slightly milder, clubs. The only difference between a religion and a cult is the size.

18points

Leo Domitrix 2 years ago

The difference between a cult and a religion is how many people are in it ----- my gramps.

20points

Troux 2 years ago

Yes, but once they go out of style for a while, both can be finely aged into a 'mythology' for that retro appeal, and they become respectable again.

3points

Nick 2 years ago

At my first communion at about 10. They make you sit up in front of the entire congregation with the priest and repent for your sins. I was like a deer in headlights as he pressed me to confess something. It felt like an excruciatingly long time while everyone was staring at me and the priest was getting visibly annoyed. What the hell does a 10 year old have to repent for? I eventually came up with calling my siblings names so that they would let me go back to my pew. That moment clicked for me that organized religion was terrible. For the next 10 years I still believed in god but was pretty adamant that belief should be personal within everyone and any attempts to gather or organize was a slippery slope back to shaming others. I waffled back and forth for another 10 years about whether I believed in god at all. Finally in my 30's I decided that concepts like Faith, Charity, Forgiveness, and Love were possible without a god.

14points

Magpie 2 years ago

Congrats on getting out. Big religions have some really weird stuff going on. Not just small cults.

4points

Rose the Cook 2 years ago

Okay, so the law in most places allows freedom of religion meaning you can join any nutcase cult if you are silly enough. Why are children automatically considered members? The law should protect them until they are old enough to make an informed decision about whether they want to be part of it. Specially since so many of these organisations seem to be run by pedophiles.

12points

Freya the Wanderer 2 years ago

If people were taught critical thinking at an early age, and not exposed to religion until they were legally adults, religion would soon fade away.

4points

Barbara Forshee 2 years ago

I went to the Church of God of Prophecy. They wouldn't let you wear jewelry even a wedding ring. When my husband cheated on me and divorced me I was thrown out of the church because you couldn't be a member and divorced. I knew then I was better off out of that church.

10points

You cant stop the truth 2 years ago

Cults, religions and fake news all spread the same way: people have a basic lack of critical thinking skills and always believe something said with a confident tone of voice. It's the same for hitler, trump, jim jones, david icke, and anyone else who fools large amounts of people.

10points

Shane S 2 years ago

Isn’t it interesting how religion is all about spirituality and the soul yet somehow these fanatics seem to think “god” has a divine interest in getting them laid? Truly sick. If your religion has any rules that condone non-consensual or underage intercourse, RUN!

9points

Wistiti 2 years ago

When I was very young, around maybe 7 or 8, I asked my dad about religion (I went to him because he never went to any type of church and my mom was out of the country). He said he doesn't like any religion but I could make up my own mind, go to any as long as I never ask him for money to give away. I thought at the time "what religion would ask a child money?" Going to so many, I realised that none of them was for me. Their stories were nice at the beginning but since question is frowned upon once you pass a certain barrier, it got boring very quickly. Other books had so much more interesting things to share than religions.

9points

Tuxedo the Chicken 2 years ago

As a Christian I can say with certainty that Jahova's Witnesses are messed up.

8points

Random Person 2 years ago

Lack of self awareness there mate.

14points

Ally MacMann 2 years ago

As a former Catholic, I'd say Christianity isn't exactly faultless. To put it mildly.

8points

Evan Sloane 2 years ago

I'm an atheist. I'm fine with you and your beliefs... But there comes a point...

1point

lili 2 years ago

I'm late to the party, but mine cam in waves. First was a homily where the priest only spoke about how women weren't good enough or pure enough to be priests. I walked out with many other women. We all walked to the front and then out the side door to show our disapproval. Next, I was depressed and praying for a good day for two months. At two months my great grandmother died. I gave up. I told my mother I would no longer be a Catholic and she was pissed. Didn't care. Then so many times hearing about the rape that has occurred within the church, I'm glad I left. PSA You don't have to be religious to be a good person. Just have morals.

7points

Tamra Stiffler 2 years ago

Yep. The best people I've ever met are, in fact, atheists. Kind, generous, intelligent, thoughtful.

6points

Liz 2 years ago

Raised by a preacher. She'd use 'examples' and tell stories in her sermons that I knew weren't true/had never happened, and the congregation would take it as gospel. There was also a period of time in which her parenting skills took a nosedive and I struggled for it. No cult though, just good old American Christianity

6points

BobTheDeathGripper 2 years ago

Christianity isn't too far from a cult anyway.

4points

Helaina Hinson 2 years ago

WHERE to start? My worth as a woman, human being & Christian is based on what I do/don’t do with my pussy! When my best friend was abducted, tortured & raped they thought the saddest thing was her lost virginity! Men are heads & you don’t go against them EVEN WHEN YOU KNOW he’s wrong because he answers to God, not his wife. My family is still in this fundie Baptist crap, thinks Trump is called by God, and I “have Satan in my hesrt” because “you cannot be a Christian AND a Democrat.”

5points

Jennifer 2 years ago

My former brother in law was the pastor of his own church for twenty years. There was a family that was there for years, husband wife and five young kids. The wife got cancer, which was quite treatable, but (my understanding) the husband convinced her that it was best to trust God and be better, pray harder. Months go by and now the cancer has metastisized and the woman is really suffering with incredible pain. No meds, just "faith". Yeah, she suffered for months and months and is now just dead. Those poor kids lost their mother when they didn't have to and it was probably six months at best before that a-hole was looking for some other woman to take care of those poor kids. Just awful. And in case you were wondering, most everyone else at the church was horrified at this, most of all my BIL pastor. Sometimes it doesn't even take a cult to make someone a cultist.

5points

Jods 2 years ago

I worked with a JW. He happened to bring his family in one day and by some way and the other we found it was his little boys birthday. A colleague gave him a plain balloon. The s**t didn’t half hit the fan!

5points

Al Christensen 2 years ago

I was a Mormon. When I went to the temple the first time for the "sacred, not secret" ceremony they don't talk about, and I saw what we had to wear and the rituals we had to perform, I realized, oh crap, I'm in a cult.

4points

Magpie 2 years ago

Congrats on getting out.

2points

BAWK BAWK BAKAW 2 years ago

this makes me so sad to think about all the people who didn't get to escape, and all the horrible things they endure

4points

Magpie 2 years ago

Yes it is very sad.

1point

webster 2 years ago

I highly recommend checking out The Project by Courtney Summers. It is a great novel that examines the inner workings of a (fictional) cult. Even if it's fiction, it's true to life in a lot of ways.

4points

Anna Andersson 2 years ago

Well, if nothing else i am very happy not to be in JW anymore, i left many years ago and some stuff here i would never have thought to happen in there. personally, i did not fit in there, never regretted leaving when i had the chance

3points

Magpie 2 years ago

Congrats on getting out. I think in some religions there are smaller separate groups doing more extreme things. umm So its like a hidden cult inside a bigger okish group.

2points

Jace 2 years ago

This all just made me more PTSD angry.

3points

Magpie 2 years ago

Hold on Jace. Angry is an appropriate reaction. Ride it out. Wishing you all the best.

0points

Steve Raddish 2 years ago

Every religion started as a cult. They didn't become a "religion" until there were enough people practicing to make it "legit".

3points

Freya the Wanderer 2 years ago

A religion is a cult with political clout and good PR.

1point

whodunnitfan2013 2 years ago (edited)

I try to respect all beliefs, but I'll admit, my tolerance for religion is diminishing. It's frequently just one giant cult.

3points

Nojman 2 years ago

I love how all these cults that claimed to be Christian betrayed the very scripture they claim to preach.

3points

Bill Allen 2 years ago

When I first figured out Jesus Christ. Here are the basics. Jesus Christ = God sent Himself to earth so He could kill Himself in order to save us from the sin He created.

3points

Robert Thompson 2 years ago

That is the problem with the "Trinity." It was invented by people who don't know God, and like a bad excuse, the explanation falls apart rather quickly.

1point

Morgan 2 years ago

9 years ago I was disfellowshipped (excommunicated) (former JW). In hindsight I can say that I was filled with emotional pain, for a molestation I hadn’t really dealt with (as a child), not fitting in with my family (was constantly told it seemed like I was born to the wrong family), my twin sister leaving at 16 (she couldn’t take it anymore), no social life, no friends, chronic depression. I used to cut myself to cope but got in trouble. When I turned 18 I started exploring S&M (NEVER anything sexual because rules) just pain because I promised not to hurt myself, didn’t promise not to let other people hurt me. Well one of those people raped me and I was subsequently disfellowshipped. I literally lost my family overnight. I no longer existed. I was thrust into a world vastly different and omg did I learn what a bubble I grew up in. I tried to go back after 6-8 months and was told I was no where near ready to return so I said f it and started living life. No regrets.

2points

Anjelika 2 years ago

Guys I need some advice now that I have seen this, for those who got out I'm happy ❤ but a friend of mine has sadly been sucked in. He was going through a bad time and met his girlfriend when he was at his lowest, drinking alot etc, well this girl apparently is the daughter of someone important or at least someone that is not "low ranking", he wasn't religious at all before and now suddenly he has seen the light and god found him. The problem isn't that he now believes (catholic/atheist/muslim etc I have no problem), but he cut contact with family and friends and doesn't interact with anyone at all, only with members of the cult/sect. I don't know all the details but apparently those people encourage inbreeding/incest and some other things. Should I leave this to his family to figure out or what can I do to help?

2points

Magpie 2 years ago

When you can: spend healthy and fun time with him. Let him know you will listen if he wants to talk but do Not pressure him to talk. When you can keep in contact with his family. If this is all too hard - get a little advice from a good therapist that can deal with this. It might take a few tries to find a suitable therapist. This specific situation I call therapist "teacher".

2points

Enby.Minecraft.Bee. 2 years ago

I remember in Elementary/Primary school there was a kid that was a Jehovah's Witness and He couldn't be in any of the holiday parties because he was only supposed to worship god and not himself. He couldn't even celebrate his own birthday. I still think about him.

2points

Jessica L 2 years ago

So many of these stories are from ex JW's. I spent 25 years and please believe when I say it is absolutely a cult of the worst magnitude. They are just really really good at covering it up. So glad to see so many people got out and see how bad it really is. We are SURVIVORS.

1point

Izzy Curer 2 years ago (edited)

My parents used to take me to a southern baptist church as a kid, which in itself wasn't really the problem. The problem was that my parents started having marital problems, which drove my mom to 'seek' a deeper connection to god. A friend of hers invited her to start going to a mid-week bible study at a different church across town. I just remember that all of sudden, it was like she changed. She began talking about religion constantly, almost always referring specifically to the guy who led the study. "He says this is how we're supposed to do things." "He told us this is how we're supposed to think". "He's so wise." "He really is the smartest man I know." It was supposed to be the same religion as the church we were already going to, and I know the doctrine was basically the same, except mom started acting so weird about everything. There were all these new rules in the house. She destroyed this ceramic thing that my grandmother had made because it was 'evil'. She would tell me things about how women were supposed to act that have messed me up to this day. It definitely affected my view of our religion, and religions in general. After a few years, the group disbanded, so she stopped going, but even thirty years later, she still brings up that guy from time to time. She was never really the same.

1point

Ja Le Gr 2 years ago

I realized at a young age that religion was not for me. It's not that I don't believe that there could possibly be some form of higher something, I usually just refer to the universe, because it's something I can see and know that it's there. Being gay is part of that, it's not something I chose, but I don't want to be a part of any thing that would condemn me for it. My mom likes to talk about god, and I always ask her, if there are so many versions of God through all these different religions, they can't all be right. How can they all be right? The answer is, they can't, and that's usually a bit of a reminder / wake up call for her. Religion has messed up so many things, caused so many wrongful deaths, it's so sad to watch people get brainwashed or make bad choices because of their religion. It's like a bad drug addiction, although I think it may be harder to get people to quit their religion then to quit using drugs.

1point

Magpie 2 years ago

It can take great courage to leave a cult / religion. The people who have posted the least may be very close to the trauma still. There can be heaps of guilt feelings after. These people are braver than you can know ( unless you are one of them). There can be heaps of fear and isolation and .... just heaps of too much to work through. I am grateful for everyone who could post here. Please know that you are not alone, and this also-a-survivor is barracking for you. I have learnt something from everyone that posted thank you.

1point

Don't Look 2 years ago

I can honestly say I didn’t know until today that JW was a cult. Seriously, didn’t know.

1point

Hugh Donaldson 1 year ago

Quite a few former Jehovah's Witnesses speaking out.

0points

Steph Osma 2 years ago

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0points

YHZ 2 years ago

This list is simply a retelling of this article: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-9581055/People-raised-cults-recall-triggering-moments-want-flee.html

0points

n0_h0p3_l3ft_f0r_m4x 2 years ago

I left Christianity because as I got older, I just started questioning how the events in the bible actually could have happened. Plus the number of racists and homophobes in my church was through the roof.

0points

Display Name 2 years ago

Actress Priyanka Chopra's maternal grandmother was a Jacobite Christian. She got trained as a nurse. She served in another region and married a Hindu, though she changed her name, she always was a practicing Christian and frequently helped her Church. Her only wish was to be buried next to her father, who had also designed the Church (I think her family donated land for burial, though I don't remember where I read it). But the Church straight out refused to bury her for marrying a Hindu. She had spent her whole life in service of people - she was a nurse, a freedom fighter and a legislator. Yet, her final wish was denied by the Church. She was buried at another Church 55 km away.

0points

Jo Rhodes 2 years ago

Religion is hasn't ever been about God. The word church is just another word for government and tithing the samething as taxes. It's all about power and control concern for your soul, like a new law in the name of protecting the people. There is the wonderful image of the shepherd tending his flock, guarding lambs protectioning them from danger. It never works out for the sheep, the shepard, takes the wool for money and slaughters the sheep to eat. Sheep don't need a shepard, they can find food and water themselves. When predators threaten a herd ain't nothing to mess with, they pack a lot of force when they butt, I know because I worked on a family sheep ranch.

0points

Briana Kessler 2 years ago

When they talked about sacrificing an actual goat. I knew something felt weird. They were ALWAYS asking me a ton of questions and wanted me to hang out with them and do church things with them constantly. It was weird.

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D20 Games 2 years ago

I have always been fascinated by other people's fascination with religion, it was why I studied theology in college. I am NOT christian, I am a pagan. I never found christianity to have any answers or guidance, just a lot of judgement. I had friends in JW, LDS, and a few others, I did what I could to help, but it ultimately, was up to them.

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Kuato 2 years ago

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Chris Hardtke 2 years ago

ALL religion is a cult.

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XSpooky_Mint 2 years ago

Very true

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m j m 2 years ago

Why is my comment about science being a religion got me banned temporarily from this site when they allow this??? Free speech only is allowed if they agree with you.

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You cant stop the truth 2 years ago

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

What have we all learned? Rape is the victims fault, paedophilia is fine when it is a church leader committing it. But no watching unapproved films, that is just plain evil.

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YHZ 2 years ago

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Susie Elle 2 years ago

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User# 6 2 years ago

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Leo Domitrix 2 years ago

The difference between a cult and a religion is how many people are in it ----- my gramps.

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Troux 2 years ago

Yes, but once they go out of style for a while, both can be finely aged into a 'mythology' for that retro appeal, and they become respectable again.

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Nick 2 years ago

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Magpie 2 years ago

Congrats on getting out. Big religions have some really weird stuff going on. Not just small cults.

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Rose the Cook 2 years ago

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Freya the Wanderer 2 years ago

If people were taught critical thinking at an early age, and not exposed to religion until they were legally adults, religion would soon fade away.

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Barbara Forshee 2 years ago

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You cant stop the truth 2 years ago

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Shane S 2 years ago

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Wistiti 2 years ago

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Tuxedo the Chicken 2 years ago

As a Christian I can say with certainty that Jahova's Witnesses are messed up.

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Random Person 2 years ago

Lack of self awareness there mate.

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Ally MacMann 2 years ago

As a former Catholic, I'd say Christianity isn't exactly faultless. To put it mildly.

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Evan Sloane 2 years ago

I'm an atheist. I'm fine with you and your beliefs... But there comes a point...

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lili 2 years ago

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Tamra Stiffler 2 years ago

Yep. The best people I've ever met are, in fact, atheists. Kind, generous, intelligent, thoughtful.

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Liz 2 years ago

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BobTheDeathGripper 2 years ago

Christianity isn't too far from a cult anyway.

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Helaina Hinson 2 years ago

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Jennifer 2 years ago

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Jods 2 years ago

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Al Christensen 2 years ago

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Magpie 2 years ago

Congrats on getting out.

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BAWK BAWK BAKAW 2 years ago

this makes me so sad to think about all the people who didn't get to escape, and all the horrible things they endure

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Magpie 2 years ago

Yes it is very sad.

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webster 2 years ago

I highly recommend checking out The Project by Courtney Summers. It is a great novel that examines the inner workings of a (fictional) cult. Even if it's fiction, it's true to life in a lot of ways.

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Anna Andersson 2 years ago

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Magpie 2 years ago

Congrats on getting out. I think in some religions there are smaller separate groups doing more extreme things. umm So its like a hidden cult inside a bigger okish group.

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Jace 2 years ago

This all just made me more PTSD angry.

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Magpie 2 years ago

Hold on Jace. Angry is an appropriate reaction. Ride it out. Wishing you all the best.

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Steve Raddish 2 years ago

Every religion started as a cult. They didn't become a "religion" until there were enough people practicing to make it "legit".

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Freya the Wanderer 2 years ago

A religion is a cult with political clout and good PR.

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whodunnitfan2013 2 years ago (edited)

I try to respect all beliefs, but I'll admit, my tolerance for religion is diminishing. It's frequently just one giant cult.

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Nojman 2 years ago

I love how all these cults that claimed to be Christian betrayed the very scripture they claim to preach.

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Bill Allen 2 years ago

When I first figured out Jesus Christ. Here are the basics. Jesus Christ = God sent Himself to earth so He could kill Himself in order to save us from the sin He created.

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Robert Thompson 2 years ago

That is the problem with the "Trinity." It was invented by people who don't know God, and like a bad excuse, the explanation falls apart rather quickly.

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Morgan 2 years ago

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Magpie 2 years ago

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Enby.Minecraft.Bee. 2 years ago

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Jessica L 2 years ago

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Ja Le Gr 2 years ago

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Magpie 2 years ago

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Don't Look 2 years ago

I can honestly say I didn’t know until today that JW was a cult. Seriously, didn’t know.

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Hugh Donaldson 1 year ago

Quite a few former Jehovah's Witnesses speaking out.

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Steph Osma 2 years ago

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YHZ 2 years ago

This list is simply a retelling of this article: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-9581055/People-raised-cults-recall-triggering-moments-want-flee.html

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D20 Games 2 years ago

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Kuato 2 years ago

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Chris Hardtke 2 years ago

ALL religion is a cult.

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XSpooky_Mint 2 years ago

Very true

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