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“You Have To Drink It, I Bought It For You”: Dude Learns To Never Push Alcohol Onto A Girl After He Completely Disregards One’s Warnings
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“You Have To Drink It, I Bought It For You”: Dude Learns To Never Push Alcohol Onto A Girl After He Completely Disregards One’s Warnings

“You Have To Drink It, I Bought It For You”: Dude Learns To Never Push Alcohol Onto A Girl After He Completely Disregards One’s Warnings“You Have To Drink It, I Bought It For You”: Woman Gets Back At Date Who Refused To Take ‘No’ For An Answer“If You Don’t Drink It, You’re Going To Make Me Waste Money”: Woman Gets Back At Date Who Refused To Take ‘No’ For An AnswerGuy Learns A Valuable Lesson On Forcing Dates To Drink More Than They Want To After This Woman's Perfect And Messy Revenge“You Have To Drink It, I Bought It For You”: Guy Learns A Valuable Lesson On Forcing Dates To Drink More Than They Want To Pushy Guy Forces Woman To Drink More Than She Wanted, She Gets Revenge When They Get Into His Car, Causing As Much Damage As PossibleWoman Decides To Teach Pushy Date A Lesson After He Keeps Making Her Drink On Their First Date
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A first date that happens to be your only way back home in a foreign country isn’t perhaps the best situation to find oneself in. Particularly when it turns out they are obnoxious, rude, and refuse to take no for an answer. While this does seem like the lead-in to a horror story, it’s instead a tale of well-crafted revenge.

A woman shared the time she got out of an unfortunate predicament and got some revenge at the same time. After a particularly pushy date (and her ride back home) forced her to keep drinking, she concocted a way to make him regret messing with her.

Pushing someone to drink when they don’t want to on a first date is a quick and easy way to make it an only date

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A woman hatched a bit of petty revenge when her date continued to pressure her to drink past her limit

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Alcohol is unfortunately often a tool used by predators

The woman in the story was in a very unfavorable situation, drunk, in a foreign country, and, potentially, without a ride home. Even worse, the only person she knew in the Canadian casino was her date, who seemed very insistent on getting her to drink more and more. If this makes you uneasy, good, as alcohol is still considered the most common “date rape drug” as it’s perfectly legal (assuming people are of age) and most people enjoy it regularly. Even if this particular young man just really wanted to give her free drinks, learning to accept no is a valuable life lesson, and ignoring it paints him as someone who one should avoid dating in the future.

Now, at eighteen, one maybe does not have the best strategizing skills, though her “petty revenge” was not that petty and well executed. It’s easy to imagine being in that situation and not knowing how to get home. In hindsight, if she did live that close to the border, it perhaps would have been possible to find another American to give her a ride back. After all, geographically speaking, there aren’t that many casinos near the northern US border, making the ones in Canada a possible tourist destination.

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Targeting the man’s car was a clever, non-violent solution

The intoxication also has a role to play in the proceedings. It’s clear that partway through the night, OP realized her predicament, while also being, to use her words, “decently drunk,” and had to weigh a variety of options. Picking his car as a target is ingenious, as it does not constitute a real attack on him, while also hurting him pretty deeply. As anyone unfortunate to have had someone vomit in their car can testify, the smell will not wash out if it gets in the right places. Even if it avoided vents or the seats, the smell would likely have lingered for days. Besides causing this particular jerk a headache, it also means he can’t use it for the same purposes for a while. Potential never, if she really coated the interior (sorry for that mental image,) which could have probably helped keep some other girls away from his reach.

In general, from a pushy partner to vomiting, none of these elements come together to make a fun date. This is one of the myriad reasons many young adults are turning to dry dating, which removes alcohol from the mix. It completely cuts off the pressure from one party to drink and also limits the risks. In general, Gen Z is drinking 20% less alcohol than millennials were at their age, perhaps signaling that drinking is no longer the go-to activity for many. While it can be fun, limiting drinking to safe environments and trusted people is a good way to ensure one stays safe out there.

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Some readers wanted more details as the story was a little too perfect

Others expressed their enjoyment at some well-earned revenge and gave some advice in hindsight

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I am a writer at Bored Panda. Despite being born in the US, I ended up spending most of my life in Europe, from Latvia, Austria, and Georgia to finally settling in Lithuania. At Bored Panda, you’ll find me covering topics ranging from the cat meme of the day to red flags in the workplace and really anything else. In my free time, I enjoy hiking, beating other people at board games, cooking, good books, and bad films.

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Justin Sandberg

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I am a writer at Bored Panda. Despite being born in the US, I ended up spending most of my life in Europe, from Latvia, Austria, and Georgia to finally settling in Lithuania. At Bored Panda, you’ll find me covering topics ranging from the cat meme of the day to red flags in the workplace and really anything else. In my free time, I enjoy hiking, beating other people at board games, cooking, good books, and bad films.

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Mindaugas Balčiauskas

Mindaugas Balčiauskas

Author, BoredPanda staff

I'm a visual editor at Bored Panda. I kickstart my day with a mug of coffee bigger than my head, ready to tackle Photoshop. I navigate through the digital jungle with finesse, fueled by bamboo breaks and caffeine kicks. When the workday winds down, you might catch me devouring bamboo snacks while binging on the latest TV show, gaming or I could be out in nature, soaking up the tranquility and communing with my inner panda.

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Pamela24
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So...you were both very drunk and you got in the car with him driving? Like I get it - great revenge - but this scares me so much and makes me mad. Like - the car shouldn't have been on the road at that point with either of them behind the wheel. People could have easily died. OP most likely but even innocent others. This really shouldn't be normalised.

Zoey Rayne
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Agreed. The dude is scary and sounds like a rapist. The best move would have been to walk away and get help from someone at the bar. Getting in a car with guy like this while he is drunk is dangerous on a number of levels. He deserved to be punished, but there are smarter ways she could have done so.

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Rick Seiden
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A guy pushing a drink on a woman at any point is a red flag. Unless you saw it made, and never lost sight of it, any drink you are being told you have to drink should be rejected out of hand.

Tara Raay
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Y’all both dumb. Attention ladies! ANY MAN WHO FORCES ALCOHOL ON YOU IS PROBABLY A RAPIST!

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Pamela24
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So...you were both very drunk and you got in the car with him driving? Like I get it - great revenge - but this scares me so much and makes me mad. Like - the car shouldn't have been on the road at that point with either of them behind the wheel. People could have easily died. OP most likely but even innocent others. This really shouldn't be normalised.

Zoey Rayne
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Agreed. The dude is scary and sounds like a rapist. The best move would have been to walk away and get help from someone at the bar. Getting in a car with guy like this while he is drunk is dangerous on a number of levels. He deserved to be punished, but there are smarter ways she could have done so.

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Rick Seiden
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A guy pushing a drink on a woman at any point is a red flag. Unless you saw it made, and never lost sight of it, any drink you are being told you have to drink should be rejected out of hand.

Tara Raay
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Y’all both dumb. Attention ladies! ANY MAN WHO FORCES ALCOHOL ON YOU IS PROBABLY A RAPIST!

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