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TikTok tends to get a reputation of being filled with fun dance videos, cute animal videos, and silly trends, but the app can also be used for learning. There are many creators who teach their viewers about history, social issues, skills like cooking or playing instruments, and even science. One such TikToker, Adorian Deck or “The Facts Guy”, has a video series titled “Psychology Hacks You Need To Know”, and we thought you pandas might be interested in refreshing or expanding your knowledge of basic psychology.

This list won’t teach you as much as a psychology course in a university would, but it might spark your interest in the field or teach you some tips to implement in your everyday life. Keep reading to also gain some insight on the topic from psychologist and professor Dr. Lynne Kennette, and be sure to upvote the fun facts you find most useful or fascinating. Feel free to share any more psychology “hacks” you know in the comments, and then if you’d like to continue your education, you can find another Bored Panda article on the same topic right here.

TikToker Adorian Deck has been sharing fascinating psychology facts that you might want to implement into your life

Image credits: adoriandeck

You can watch the first video in his "Psychology Hacks You Need To Know" series right here

@adoriandeck Try the whispering one on someone 😂 #facts ♬ Violin - Grooving Gecko

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If someone is trying to make you decide something in a hurry, they're probably giving you a bad deal. Walk away.

adoriandeck , Vitolda Klein Report

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If you're suffering from racing thoughts, use the 333 rule: name three things you see, three things you hear and three parts of your body. This will help center your mind and bring you back to the present.

adoriandeck , Ümit Bulut Report

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If someone is making jokes at your expense, act like you can't hear them and ask them to repeat it a few times. By the time they say it the third or fourth time, nobody's laughing.

adoriandeck , Helena Lopes Report

Having a basic understanding of psychology would be useful to every single one of us. It can help us become more empathetic, understand how to work through our personal issues and learn how to more effectively communicate with others. And while Adorian’s videos are great to learn quick tips and fun facts, the field of psychology is incredibly nuanced, so we wanted to gain some insight about “psychology hacks” from an expert. 

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We reached out to psychologist and professor Dr. Lynne Kennette, who shared with us how she feels about “psychology hacks” circulating online. We asked whether she considers these videos to be a positive, as people are sharing interest in psychology, or if she is wary of the trend, as these types of videos could allow for false information to be spread. “On the one hand, it's great to get people interested in psychology using this type of ‘hack’ or ‘quick facts’; maybe it will lead them to taking a course at a local college or university,” she shared.

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If you're procrastinating right now, stop telling yourself that you have loads of work to do. Instead, just tell yourself you only have to work for five minutes. You will most likely continue to work even after five minutes.

adoriandeck , Andrew Neel Report

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If you can't get a song out of your head, try to listen to it the whole way through while singing. Your brain is treating the song like an unfinished task in your subconscious.

adoriandeck , Lee Campbell Report

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If you think someone is watching you, fake a yawn and then watch them.

adoriandeck , Miikka Luotio Report

But Dr. Kennette also wants to remind viewers that they should still check the facts they hear online. “Anyone can say anything they want on platforms like TikTok, and it isn't necessarily based in science,” she explained. “When psychological scientists publish their research, it is reviewed by other experts to ensure the research was rigorous and that the results/conclusions are valid based on the experimental design.”

“Although I don't know this particular TikTok user or his credentials, I know that most of what he has presented is based on some of the principles taught in an introductory psychology course (e.g., what we know about the science of motivation- Daniel Pink has a great book called Drive which speaks to many of these aspects),” Dr. Kennette added. “So, these types of hacks are entertaining, but before making some major changes in your life, make sure to read peer-reviewed scholarly articles on the topic, because with most topics in psychology, there is evidence to support competing theories/advice.”

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When someone apologizes for something that you don't feel like was that big of a deal to apologize for, they're probably telling you subconsciously what actually bothers them if it was done to them. If they apologize for interrupting you, they probably really just don't like being interrupted themselves.

adoriandeck , Christin Hume Report

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Plan something fun for every Wednesday that you can look forward to. You'll start looking forward to it on Monday and by the time it's here, you’ll already be halfway through the week and you're that much closer to the weekend.

adoriandeck , Jessica Delp Report

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After you've learned something new and you've done it yourself, the fastest and best way to retain that information is to teach somebody else.

adoriandeck , Scott Graham Report

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We were also curious if Dr. Kennette would like to see the average person taking an interest in psychology, even though we can’t all be experts. “Absolutely! One of the things that makes psychology so interesting is that it can be applied to pretty much any aspect of everyday life,” she noted. “For example, the fundamental attribution error shows that we tend to underestimate situational factors when attributing the cause of others' behaviors (but not our own). So when someone cuts you off on the highway, you're more likely to think it's because they're a jerk (internal attribution) rather than because their wife is in labor (situational),” Dr. Kennette explained. “When you cut someone off, it's because you're in a hurry (situational) not because you're a jerk. So being aware of these psychological principles at work in our everyday lives can help us to more accurately evaluate people and situations, and then act in a more appropriate way.”

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When someone in a group of people laughs, they tend to look at the person that they like the most.

adoriandeck , Toa Heftiba Report

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Nervousness and excitement have the same body reaction. So if you're nervous for a speech, try to convince yourself that you're actually excited.

adoriandeck , Nathan Dumlao Report

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Chewing gum can help you when you're nervous because your brain thinks, well, I'm eating, I must not be in danger.

adoriandeck , Gabriel Dalton Report

We also asked Dr. Kennette if she had any “quick psychology facts” to share that she thinks everyone should know. “I think one of the areas that isn’t talked about enough is how unreliable our memory is,” she noted. “It is reconstructive, so it’s not really like a camera, but more like Wikipedia, where other people and external information can change it without us being aware of it.” Dr. Kennette also mentioned that there are some great TEDTalks on this topic by Elizabeth Loftus; if you’re interested, you can find one right here

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Whenever you are introducing a new idea to someone, if you lead with the words “this might not be for you,” it naturally engages the person's interest and makes them feel like it probably is for them.

adoriandeck , LinkedIn Sales Solutions Report

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If someone's starting to have a panic attack, start breathing loudly and regularly. The person that is panicking will subconsciously start breathing with you.

adoriandeck , engin akyurt Report

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If you want to make someone uncomfortable, look at their forehead while you're talking to them.

adoriandeck , Omid Armin Report

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Stardust she/her
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a hard time maintaining eye contact so I start at other parts of the face or behind someone. Had no idea they felt uncomfortable before reading this

Michael Sanders
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would look at boobs or crotches. I mean if you are the kind of person that actually wants to make someone uncomfortable might as well get a better view than some noggin

Izzy Jeanette
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

or do the rule of 3. change where you look from their forhead to the left lower side of their face, and then the right lower side of their face.. and repeat! they may end up asking if they have something on their face

Whitefox
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or, if you are uncomfortable making direct eye contact, looking at their forehead or the space just past their head will give the same effect.

BrownTabby
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There’s a difference between making someone uncomfortable by pointing out an awkward truth and just making someone uncomfortable for the hell of it.

Ed Gomaz
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If someone can look me in the eyes while speaking to me then I can do the same from them.

Littlemiss
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm short so I look at noses, then it gives the impression I'm making eye contact.

Riley Quinn
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you really, really want to make someone uncomfortable, look at their breasts or crotch while you're talking to them.

Mimi M
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you want someone to look away, look right to the side of their eyes.

JL
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is no end to the list of things you can do to make someone uncomfortable. That's low hanging fruit.

Lisa H
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I just look anywhere except towards the person when I'm talking to them. I HATE eye contact. Even this picture is making me uncomfortable.

YetAnotherSarah
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is referring to one on one or small group conversations. If someone is looking you in the eyes, they can see you're looking at their forehead or nose or mouth etc. If you look at one point repeatedly or for a long time, it implies there's a reason you're doing so, something out of the ordinary (dirt? a cut? a boogie???) Hate eye contact, uncomfortable, want to look engaged/calm? Learn what 3-4 seconds feels like. Look at these things for 3-4 seconds at a time, in no particular order: speaker's left eye, right eye, mouth (lip reading a bit is "normal"), other listeners (looking at other people's reactions is "normal"), at nothing/into space/at an object (processing the speaker's words). Nodding periodically, looking contemplative periodically make you appear engaged (and also gives you something to do). The order you look at things has to vary (people will notice a repeated pattern) and the look should usually be sustained— 3-4 secs, work up to 7 sometimes, and mix in glances.

StrangeOne
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That makes people uncomfortable? Well, that explains those failed interviews.

Dee
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm confused... So where am I supposed to look when talking to someone? I always heard that it's good to look at someone's forehead when talking, if you feel uncomfortable with direct eye contact.

rodger coghlan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was taught to look at them just below their eye and switch which eye I look at

Cheese and rice, Moony!
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've seen this. For better specifics, look in between the eyebrows because it's almost eye contact but it's not.

lauralett50
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or,act like they have something on their nose, signal by wiping your nose frequently.

Lene
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I tried this I was the one being uncomfortable. Instead I trained myself to look at the other person's right eye. Nobody notices that I do that and that how I fake finding it natural to look into ppl's eyes. I still hate it. A lot! And still, most of the time I barely even look at ppl's heads when talking to them. I can do grocery shopping and have small conversations with ppl and only when I am walking away fo I realize I never looked at the other person even once. 😬

elsieairhead
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was going to chime in here too. If you're looking just about eye level at the forehead, it gives the appearance of eye contact as far as I was aware?

JinxBox
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nope. That is the opposite, they will see this also as eye contact.

officerripley
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is why I wear bangs (in addition to disliking foreheads, especially my own).

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If you're looking to learn even more psychological facts, Dr. Kennette recommends reading a free open source textbook, such as one found on OpenStax, watching some TED Talks, or signing up for a course (often free on platforms such as Coursera). “At least with these sources (TEDTalks, OpenStax, Coursera), you can be confident that the content is from an expert in the field (typically someone with a PhD),” she noted.

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If you take an extra moment to look at somebody's eye color when meeting them, you'll be giving the perfect amount of eye contact.

adoriandeck , JC Gellidon Report

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Showing the palms of your hands while talking to someone subconsciously communicates that you have nothing to hide and you can be trusted.

Alexander Grey , adoriandeck Report

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Subtly nodding when someone is talking to you indicates to that person that you are genuinely interested in what they have to say and they're going to like you more.

adoriandeck , Mimi Thian Report

“Sometimes psychology is perceived as ‘common sense’,” Dr. Kennette added. “Like, why do we need to study this- it's obvious, but many outcomes of research actually go counter to our intuitive sense of what we think will happen,” she explained. “So it's important to study these topics (and also replicate the results of our studies in different populations and different conditions) to ensure they are ‘true’ representations of our human realities.”

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If you need to remember to do something tomorrow, just put something in your room out of place the next day; you'll see this item out of place and it will remind you of what you associated it with.

adoriandeck , Christopher Jolly Report

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If you ask someone to do a small favor, their subconscious mind will register that they like you because they're doing a favor for you.

adoriandeck , Priscilla Du Preez Report

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If you can get someone to contribute to the idea, they are more likely to accept it.

adoriandeck , Dylan Gillis Report

Have you learned anything new about yourself or others from this list? We hope you’re feeling inspired to start doing a bit more research about psychology on your own time. Keep upvoting the tips from Adorian that you plan to implement into your life, and feel free to share any more psychology “hacks” in the comments down below. Then, if you’re looking to learn even more about psychology, you can find a few more Bored Panda articles on similar topics right here, here and here

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If you want somebody to open up to you more, ask them a question and if they only partially answer it, keep eye contact and stay silent. It will pressure them to talk more.

adoriandeck , Priscilla Du Preez Report

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If you want to be more persuasive, try and lose the words “I think” and “I believe.”

adoriandeck , Jessica Da Rosa Report

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When someone remembers you, they are most likely to think about the first time and the last time that they saw you. So make sure to leave a good last impression as well.

adoriandeck , Priscilla Du Preez Report

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If there is a mirror behind somewhere where you're ordering, it is less likely that you're going to be rude because nobody wants to see themselves as rude.

adoriandeck , Tuva Mathilde Løland Report

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If you whisper to someone, it's likely that they'll whisper back even when they have no reason to keep their voice down.

adoriandeck , Annie Spratt Report

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If you're trying to get over a breakup, do not use fictional scenarios. Imagining your person with someone new is only going to make you more angry and sad about something that's not even real.

adoriandeck , Christian Lue Report

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People who are lying normally blink more than usual, hide the palms of their hands, mess with their hair or appearance and use either abnormally long or short sentences.

adoriandeck , Kelly Sikkema Report

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If you walk up to a group of people and they turn their feet towards you, you are welcome. If they have their feet turned away from you, even if their body and head is turned towards you, they are uncomfortable with you approaching them.

adoriandeck , adrianna geo Report

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When someone is touched on their shoulder or their knees, it creates a stronger emotional and physical bond with the person touching.

adoriandeck , Gita Krishnamurti Report

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If you buy the first picture at the bar with your friends, you'd be surprised how far you could go by saying I bought the first one.

adoriandeck , Fred Moon Report

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If you want to create a deeper connection with someone you're interested in, ask them these two questions. What do you think we have in common and what do you like most about me?

adoriandeck , Korney Violin Report