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“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers)

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Some people may think of psychology as less of a science than physics or biology, because they might consider it subjective and don’t believe in personality types. But as any other science, psychology has a question, then a hypothesis and ways to confirm or deny it through experiments. It also can apply the results for problem solving.

You can even test out some of the things yourself. While there are a lot of myths about what works and doesn’t work, people on Reddit have already done the work themselves and witnessed the desirable results without anyone even knowing they were deliberately manipulating someone.

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#1

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) If someone is bothering you at your desk too often, continue the conversation but get up and walk them back to their desk.

Had a boss who was a guru at this. You'd be back at your desk wondering how the f**k you got there.

FrozenBanana46 , Polina Zimmerman Report

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#2

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) People start to believe something if they're told it over and over and over. Even if it goes against everything they know.

That's why the news is so important to pretty much every government on earth. They get to decide what we hear over and over.

Morvack , Ono Kosuki Report

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#3

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) My boss likes having meetings after 5pm and even though I technically can be there for it, I don’t want to. So I tell him I have an important class I’m going to at exactly 5:45. I show up for about 5-10 minutes of the meeting then leave. He thinks I’m an amazing team player for going out of my way to hop on for just a few minutes. When in reality, I have no class to attend and I hate those meetings.

Morosa3 , Dylan Gillis Report

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#4

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) Not really a dark trick but one that I've found effective, when someone's being rude to you stay completely silent and stare at them. It'll make them feel incredibly uncomfortable and they'll usually act civilly after a few moments.

EDIT: **DISCLAIMER**Do not do this to people who are exhibiting aggressive behaviour, and / or whilst in an unsafe non public environment. This will not work on the local thug in the street, and will likely cause you harm. This is a tactic meant to be used on otherwise mature adults in safe environments.

Natasha_JB , Keira Burton Report

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#5

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) Silence. If you want to know something, ask the question then wait. People want to fill the silence and will talk and talk.

stormbrewing_ , Andrea Piacquadio Report

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#6

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) If someone doesn't want to give you specific information, like tuition costs, or hours expected, give them an example that's completely unreasonable. They will usually immediately give you an exact number and feel embarrassed for pretending not to know.

Example:
Me: How much does your C++ course cost?

Them: It really depends on what your goals are.

Me: Don't you have a beginner's course? Can you give me a price range?

Them: We can work with you to fit your individual needs.

Me: Okay, fine. So is it, like, $10 for access to all your courses, or...

Them: Oh, no. We have a subscription for $99 a month, it you can buy the beginner's course for $120.

Not useful very often, but it works every time.

Ender367 , Sora Shimazaki Report

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248points

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#7

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) If someone is incorrect (like you know 100% they are) but the correction would have little or no bearing on the conversation, argument, etc., just keep it to yourself. It's not worth embarrassing or belittling them and halting the conversation. (I'M LOOKING AT YOU MOTHER-IN-LAW)

akw314 , Priscilla Du Preez Report

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#8

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) It's not really dark but every mistake I make at work I go out of my way to admitting to. For some reason that makes me more trustworthy.

Freaksenius , Alex Green Report

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#9

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) Talk good behind people back, It’ll get to them trust me, It’ll get to everybody

__Jane___ , cottonbro studio Report

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#10

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) Whenever I want to help someone with something but I know their pride gets in the way or they don't want to impose, I ask them for a favor first even if I don't really need it.

Examples would be like asking a peer how they arrived at a solution for xyz, and then "repaying" the favor by going, "You wanna see something cool I learned recently?" and showing them how to do something more efficiently/correctly. Or when you know your parents' heater is broken but they insist on calling a repairman instead of troubling you, and suddenly you need to borrow sugar but while you're over there, might as well check out that heater.

People like to feel helpful and I like to give unsolicited advice, it works out

tetsujo , Dave Ang Report

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223points

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#11

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) Certified hypnotist here; you wanted dark, here you go:

Leading a topic by stating something you know the subject will agree with.

Transition into a re-statement of whatever it is they agreed with and alter it slightly; end with a rhetorical question leaning towards agreement. (Isn't that right?)

If you're slow and careful about this, you can get people to concede or agree to nearly anything without even noticing.

Number two, this one is incredibly f*****g simple: consistently thanking somebody for very very basic things; things you might not even thank someone for. Think moving out of the way for you, or handing you your water bottle from a few feet away.

Once you make the interaction consistent enough, they will be used enough to the praise that it will be missed. Then, *don't* thank them for one or two things, and they will very frequently go out of their way in order to earn your thanks.

Spookwagen_II , Kevin Butz Report

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#12

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) One thing that my dad does, that he may be completely unaware of, is when you give him good news he always exaggerates it back to you, thus forcing you to downplay your own accomplishment. I honestly don’t think he’s consciously doing it, but it drives me absolutely crazy.

“Hey I have amazing news! I got promoted to vice president.”

“That’s great! Wow, so senior vice president?”

“No, just a vice president.”

“Oh, well that’s still good.”

And now the wind is all out of my sails.

RawbM07 , Jack Dorsey Report

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#13

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) When walking in a crowded area look where you’re going and not at the other people. They will naturally move out of your line of sight making it quicker to move around.

Danger_Dee , Uriel Mont Report

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#14

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) The power of suggestion is incredibly potent. Most people underestimate how this tool can affect others.

For example, I had a sociology class in high school (it was that or health) and we had to build, conduct an (psychology/sociology) experiment and write a report on our findings. We were in groups of four. We had free reign to do what we wanted but it could not be immoral or unethical but being the group of antisocial rebellious teens we decided to do an experiment on suggestion. It was relatively simple we picked three "subjects" and chose a positive and negative suggestion and the third was our control. Now we picked three people one popular, one not so popular and someone in the middle (control) these subjects were picked so each one of the group members would have an interaction every class period for one whole day. For the popular girl (Subject A) we decided to simply ask her if she was feeling alright because she looked pale.

Unpopular male (Subject B) was asked why they didn't speak up more in class and they should do it. We chose suggestions that would be counter to their personalities

Control (Subject C) was simply asked how their day was going.

By the end of the day (experiment) Subject A had gone home sick after three class periods Subject B had an overall increase in participation that lasted several days after the conclusion of the experiment and Subject C showed baseline behavior.

Now we did get into trouble because what we did was unethical but the teacher was so impressed with our report that he let us slide and made us apologize to the participants.

BaloothaBear85 , Sam Balye Report

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167points

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#15

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) People will be more favourable to your idea if they think it's THEIR idea.

SteveJones313 , fauxels Report

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#16

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) If you want to be an effective liar, build a reputation of being honest. The more you are known as being reliable, the easier it is to deceive and manipulate. Not terribly complex, I know.

The-Great-Clod , Helena Lopes Report

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#17

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) Staring at peoples forehead irritates them quite a lot.

Equivalent-Wealth-39 , cottonbro studio Report

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#18

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) It depends on what you hand them. Working retail, I've learned that if you hand someone something while they are talking, they will take it, put it in their pocket/purse/etc and then have no recollection of you ever giving them something. It has worked on every person I have tried it with

EDIT: lol no, I didn't make anyone shoplift. It was usually their receipts, pens or the credit card slips, etc. Then after them talking, they'll ask for it and I tell them they pocketed it. But I learned this is a real psychological trick and also to wait until they are done talking to hand them something.

SkyKitten387 , Ron Lach Report

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#19

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) Sunk cost. Basically any time or effort or money that has already been expended or spent tends to be factored into decision making even though it shouldn’t. When I met my wife, she would always finish her drinks even if she didn’t like them because she paid for them. I asked her, if you already paid for them then the money is already gone. Why suffer through a drink you don’t like if there is literally no change in outcome as opposed to not drinking it… except not enjoying it.

That is why buying a car takes so long. You have spent so much time already that you almost feel like you have to buy it. You have INVESTED time and need to get something for that investment. And oh my gosh I do not want to go through this again!

Aerotank2099 , Annie Spratt Report

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#20

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) Don’t react when somebody is getting unnecessarily angry. Drives them crazy

Breadfruit77 , Ricardo Esquivel Report

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#21

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) Change the perspective from I to we and people will automatically align themselves with you

fckmelifemate , fauxels Report

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#22

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) If you want someone to like you, ask them to do small favors for you and be very appreciative when they comply. Positive reinforcements for tasks, just like training a dog

I_drink_your_mshake , https://www.pexels.com/photo/crop-faceless-woman-walking-on-zebra-6280913/ Report

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#23

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) Not dark psychology, but if you experience trauma, retelling the story over and over in present tense past tense being “he pulled the gun out” vs present tense “he is pulling out a gun” will move the memory from your amygdala and engaged your pre-frontal cortex, making the memory more of a historical retelling rather than an emotional one. I probably got the brain parts wrong, but my therapist taught me this one.

spookyskelley , Headway Report

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#24

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) Giving the wrong answer online to get the correct one. Also the Kubrick stare, with the head forward just a little, really makes people leave you the hell alone.

beretta_926 , Victor Freitas Report

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104points

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#25

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) Having a heated argument… Ask the other person if they are okay because they’re breathing really hard. They will stop arguing and try to pay attention to their breathing. Resulting in the end of that discussion.

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#26

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) Waiting several seconds or up to minute to say something after someone has given you an offer or asked you for something will make what you say next high likely to be agreed with. Most people hate uncomfortable silence especially sales people.

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#27

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) Next time you get in an elevator face towards the rear the whole ride. It freaks the other people out and makes me laugh. It's the same principle behind stopping on the sidewalk and staring up. Sooner or later somebody else is going to stop and look to see what you're gawking at.

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97points

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#28

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) Nodding your head up & down slightly when you want someone to agree with what you are saying

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#29

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) Mirroring is incredible... if you can pull it off from a simple swinging of a chair or a gentle smile... you can actually control their presence.

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#30

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) People want to be acknowledged, accepted, and appreciated. It takes almost nothing to give them that, but empires have risen and fell because of it. People will be so happy that you've given it, even if they know they're being manipulated, they'll ignore the manipulation for the sake of what you're giving them.

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#31

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) the wording of the questions often influences the answers.

For example, to the question “how fast were the cars going when they crashed”, people give, on average, an estimated speed that is faster than when the question is formulated as: “how fast were the cars going when they collided”

(English is not my first language sorry if there's any mistake)

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25points

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#32

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) If you make a favor seem bigger than it is before asking it, the person on the receiving end is much more likely to help.

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#33

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) I was a gymnast in college. When the younger hotshots were warming up for competition, just before warmups end and it all gets real, one of us would say, “Wow, that’s a great trick. One question, when you’re doing that insane maneuver on the apparatus, *when do you breathe?”* Screws them up every time.

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#34

If you want to emphasise a point, no matter how small, change your vocabulary. For example, instead of saying "I've been doing that for 8 years", say "I've been doing this for almost a decade".

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#35

I used to lead people to bathroom. Telling them I gotta go to get them outta my office. If they followed me into the bathroom. Id go into the stall and pretend to take a dump. 🤣

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#36

Asking someone to do you a favor makes them like you more. Seems wrong on the surface but shown to be true. So, ask your boss for small personal favors every now and again.

also, if you want someone who has no opinion of you to think well of you, you can try this psychotic move…. Act rude towards them (not overly, just some small transgression), then seek them out the next day and apologize for your behavior stating you had a bad day and later regretted *whatever you did*. now that they know you, wave high when you see them. They will end up with a positive opinion of you.

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#37

If you want to extract agreement from someone you know reasonably well begin the conversation by talking about occasions in the past when you have cooperated to achieve a common goal. One or two examples is enough. This primes them to go along with your current proposal.

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#38

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) In a competitive environment if you notice that your opponent is a beginner or showing signs of anxiety, ask them *"Are you nervous?"* while trying to act as nonchalant as possible (I'll even yawn if I can). This **always** gets in people's heads at Street Fighter if they aren't mentally strong to begin with.

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#39

“What Are Some Dark Psychology Tricks That Actually Work?” (30 Answers) When someone says the correct answer, ask “are you sure” and watch the self doubt rip their soul out.

Former school teacher here 🥳

Think_of_the , cottonbro studio Report

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Jurgita Dominauskaitė

Having started as a content creator that made articles for Bored Panda from scratch I climbed my way up to being and editor and then had team lead responsibilities added as well. So it was a pretty natural transition from writing articles and titles as well as preparing the visual part for the articles to making sure others are doing those same tasks as I did before well, answering their questions and guiding them when needed. Eventually I realized editing gives me the most enjoyment and I'm focusing only on that right now.

Having started as a content creator that made articles for Bored Panda from scratch I climbed my way up to being and editor and then had team lead responsibilities added as well. So it was a pretty natural transition from writing articles and titles as well as preparing the visual part for the articles to making sure others are doing those same tasks as I did before well, answering their questions and guiding them when needed. Eventually I realized editing gives me the most enjoyment and I'm focusing only on that right now.

Monika Pašukonytė

I am a visual editor here. In my free time I enjoy the vibrant worlds of art galleries, exhibitions, and soulful concerts. Yet, amidst life's hustle and bustle, I find solace in nature's embrace, cherishing tranquil moments with beloved friends. Deep within, I hold a dream close - to embark on a global journey in an RV, accompanied by my faithful canine companion. Together, we'll wander through diverse cultures, weaving precious memories under the starry night sky, fulfilling the wanderlust that stirs my soul.

I am a visual editor here. In my free time I enjoy the vibrant worlds of art galleries, exhibitions, and soulful concerts. Yet, amidst life's hustle and bustle, I find solace in nature's embrace, cherishing tranquil moments with beloved friends. Deep within, I hold a dream close - to embark on a global journey in an RV, accompanied by my faithful canine companion. Together, we'll wander through diverse cultures, weaving precious memories under the starry night sky, fulfilling the wanderlust that stirs my soul.

What do you think ?

sadmrguna 1 year ago

This list should be called "How to manipulate people"....... I don't think this is how we should treat one another?

37points

LittlePiggie 1 year ago

Yeah, a lot of these gave me icky vibes.

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Becky Samuel 1 year ago

That's literally the point of this list and is made clear in the title.

4points

smolspeedycats 1 year ago

Are you sure?

4points

Jumping Jellyfishes 1 year ago

Came here to say this

1point

Kristina 1 year ago

yeah the whole time I was thinking "if they're giving these... doesn't that mean they do them??? and that means they're pretty goddamn manipulative like *really* manipulative

1point

Ches Yamada 1 year ago

This was a really sh!tty list. Most of it is bad stuff that horrible people do and a lot of it is worded like "this is sooooo cool you can make them do it". Ew.

20points

Old Roadie 1 year ago

Has the flavor of high school bullies trying to haze freshmen. Or the Kardashians giving relationship advice. No wonder GenZ and Millenials are struggling if this is from their mentors.

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Old Roadie 1 year ago

This supposed to be a glimpse into the modern workplace? It's an unholy study in narcissism, cowardice, dishonesty, and weak willed bullying.

13points

Cat Meyers 1 year ago

I agree that kindness is the better option, but it often does not work, even if you're just trying to stand up for yourself and don't want to be mean. Plus, the title dark psyc tricks is fair warning to the readers of it.

4points

Kevin Felton 1 year ago

To everybody saying these were messed up, yeah that's why the title was "DARK psychology tricks." No one posted this list advocating this stuff.

2points

Ivana Bašić 1 year ago

If you want to get rid of someone overly dramatic, just find very simple solutions to all the problems they bring up. They don't actually want their problems solved, they enjoy the drama, so they will leave you alone because they don't get their fix from you.

2points

Antoinette Maldari 1 year ago

Politicians and scammers (same thing, in my opinion) must LOVE this list

2points

K- THULU 1 year ago

I have enough trouble being comfortable around people....this list reminds me why!

2points

David Randall McKay II 1 year ago

Just be a cool person.

1point

D. Pitbull 1 year ago

Should we be using this to manipulate others? Uh.. Heeelll no. Have i seen **every. single. one.** of these used on myself or other people? Unfortunately all the time. The one common factor? They **ALLL** get unreasonable and disproportionately angry and tantrum-y when called out - it's apparently excruciatingly difficult to just be honest. ...............and that's when I realize "oh... no, what... they're just actually kinda not very good people? They're, in truth too shallow and self-serving to actually contemplate adjusting" It's upsetting.

1point

VonBlade 1 year ago

Between this and the "giving fictional characters smaller noses" post, there's been some odd things here this week.

1point

Kristina 1 year ago

hope y'all submitters don't actually do this s**t... that's f****d up

1point

Bluetoyou 1 year ago

This fits here I think. If you want to diffuse a person who is angry talk in a calm voice. Within a few sentences they will match yours. Never try to persuade someone by telling them how you, your group, or your company will benefit if they comply. Show them how they, their group, or their company will benefit from it. Always compliment people who help you even if you never see them again. It will make their day and it was only a minute for you. One sentence. Cost you nothing. "Thanks for your help! Appreciate you!" "Or I always enjoy listening to what you have to say." Be sincere and only if you really mean it. When dealing with parents diffuse the us against them by letting them know you are on their side. "We both want John to succeed. This is how we can work together to make that happen."

1point

lauralett50 1 year ago

Oops , triggers my violent side.

1point

Kaniwani 1 year ago

Really? I'm in the BP app on Android and when I click on the 3 dots, the only option it gives me is "Report Comment". No edit option. I think it's broken, lol.

0points

Sylvia Lock 1 year ago

Something tells me that individuals with personality disorders have had a big influence in this 'advice'. I see narcissists and maybe even sociopaths and psychopaths being behind these words, made me feel uneasy but more aware of what to look out for in others than how I can improve or better myself.

0points

Grace Smith 1 year ago

You may need to abandon morals as you read this list. Think of it like an ancient court setting with Kings and Queens and advisors and such, they played these mind games like art

0points

Neir Lucan 1 year ago

Let's look at this as a cautionary tale. Keep an eye out for these manipulative techniques and don't be fooled

0points

RikakueRoleplay 1 year ago

Personally, I think a lot of these(but definitely not all) are more defense-aligned than one would think at first glance. Some of these can de-escalate potentially dangerous/already unsavory environmental situations when the red flags are there but the other side hasn't gotten hostile yet- which is what I think this post was intended for. But, yea- some of this is just eye-opening towards methods of manipulation that abusers of every kind use to their advantage.

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RikakueRoleplay 1 year ago

Or maybe I just read the title in the wrong tone

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Neuropotathy 1 year ago

Thanks Jurgita, it is useful. If one is too angelic being to use them, it will be helpful to be able to detect them used on you.

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crowspectre 2.0 (he/they) 1 year ago

I'd feel fine is most of these happened to me tbh

0points

sadmrguna 1 year ago

This list should be called "How to manipulate people"....... I don't think this is how we should treat one another?

37points

LittlePiggie 1 year ago

Yeah, a lot of these gave me icky vibes.

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Becky Samuel 1 year ago

That's literally the point of this list and is made clear in the title.

4points

smolspeedycats 1 year ago

Are you sure?

4points

Jumping Jellyfishes 1 year ago

Came here to say this

1point

Kristina 1 year ago

yeah the whole time I was thinking "if they're giving these... doesn't that mean they do them??? and that means they're pretty goddamn manipulative like *really* manipulative

1point

Ches Yamada 1 year ago

This was a really sh!tty list. Most of it is bad stuff that horrible people do and a lot of it is worded like "this is sooooo cool you can make them do it". Ew.

20points

Old Roadie 1 year ago

Has the flavor of high school bullies trying to haze freshmen. Or the Kardashians giving relationship advice. No wonder GenZ and Millenials are struggling if this is from their mentors.

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Old Roadie 1 year ago

This supposed to be a glimpse into the modern workplace? It's an unholy study in narcissism, cowardice, dishonesty, and weak willed bullying.

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Cat Meyers 1 year ago

I agree that kindness is the better option, but it often does not work, even if you're just trying to stand up for yourself and don't want to be mean. Plus, the title dark psyc tricks is fair warning to the readers of it.

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Kevin Felton 1 year ago

To everybody saying these were messed up, yeah that's why the title was "DARK psychology tricks." No one posted this list advocating this stuff.

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Ivana Bašić 1 year ago

If you want to get rid of someone overly dramatic, just find very simple solutions to all the problems they bring up. They don't actually want their problems solved, they enjoy the drama, so they will leave you alone because they don't get their fix from you.

2points

Antoinette Maldari 1 year ago

Politicians and scammers (same thing, in my opinion) must LOVE this list

2points

K- THULU 1 year ago

I have enough trouble being comfortable around people....this list reminds me why!

2points

David Randall McKay II 1 year ago

Just be a cool person.

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D. Pitbull 1 year ago

Should we be using this to manipulate others? Uh.. Heeelll no. Have i seen **every. single. one.** of these used on myself or other people? Unfortunately all the time. The one common factor? They **ALLL** get unreasonable and disproportionately angry and tantrum-y when called out - it's apparently excruciatingly difficult to just be honest. ...............and that's when I realize "oh... no, what... they're just actually kinda not very good people? They're, in truth too shallow and self-serving to actually contemplate adjusting" It's upsetting.

1point

VonBlade 1 year ago

Between this and the "giving fictional characters smaller noses" post, there's been some odd things here this week.

1point

Kristina 1 year ago

hope y'all submitters don't actually do this s**t... that's f****d up

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Bluetoyou 1 year ago

This fits here I think. If you want to diffuse a person who is angry talk in a calm voice. Within a few sentences they will match yours. Never try to persuade someone by telling them how you, your group, or your company will benefit if they comply. Show them how they, their group, or their company will benefit from it. Always compliment people who help you even if you never see them again. It will make their day and it was only a minute for you. One sentence. Cost you nothing. "Thanks for your help! Appreciate you!" "Or I always enjoy listening to what you have to say." Be sincere and only if you really mean it. When dealing with parents diffuse the us against them by letting them know you are on their side. "We both want John to succeed. This is how we can work together to make that happen."

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lauralett50 1 year ago

Oops , triggers my violent side.

1point

Kaniwani 1 year ago

Really? I'm in the BP app on Android and when I click on the 3 dots, the only option it gives me is "Report Comment". No edit option. I think it's broken, lol.

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Sylvia Lock 1 year ago

Something tells me that individuals with personality disorders have had a big influence in this 'advice'. I see narcissists and maybe even sociopaths and psychopaths being behind these words, made me feel uneasy but more aware of what to look out for in others than how I can improve or better myself.

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Grace Smith 1 year ago

You may need to abandon morals as you read this list. Think of it like an ancient court setting with Kings and Queens and advisors and such, they played these mind games like art

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Neir Lucan 1 year ago

Let's look at this as a cautionary tale. Keep an eye out for these manipulative techniques and don't be fooled

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RikakueRoleplay 1 year ago

Personally, I think a lot of these(but definitely not all) are more defense-aligned than one would think at first glance. Some of these can de-escalate potentially dangerous/already unsavory environmental situations when the red flags are there but the other side hasn't gotten hostile yet- which is what I think this post was intended for. But, yea- some of this is just eye-opening towards methods of manipulation that abusers of every kind use to their advantage.

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RikakueRoleplay 1 year ago

Or maybe I just read the title in the wrong tone

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Neuropotathy 1 year ago

Thanks Jurgita, it is useful. If one is too angelic being to use them, it will be helpful to be able to detect them used on you.

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crowspectre 2.0 (he/they) 1 year ago

I'd feel fine is most of these happened to me tbh

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