Hobbyist Baker Puts A High Price On Their Cakes Because They Want To Avoid Making Too Many Of Them, Family Calls Them A Jerk
InterviewThere are two conflicting sentiments that most of us have heard before: “do what you love, and you’ll never work another day in your life” and then there’s its polar opposite — keep your hobby as far as possible from work not to ruin the fun in it. But when you’re exceeding at your hobby and people start peer-pressuring you into doing more of it, and they don’t take “no” for an answer — something has to be done before things get out of hand.
A Redditor by the name of ‘cakedupp3‘ never intended to turn their love for baking cakes into a profit. In fact, they tried to avoid it entirely. However, similarly to those who were (kind of) forced to turn their knitting and crocheting pastime into full-time operations to help out with the shortage of surgical masks, more and more started asking the author to shower various celebrations with their yummy buttercream delights. They may not save lives, but at least they can make them much better.
Sensing that their beloved hobby was getting out of their mitts, the author deliberately placed a reasonably high price tag on their services to see if that might help to return things back to normal. To their delight, the plan has worked… But not without breaking some eggs.
Concerned whether they have done the wrong thing, the author turned to the trusted ‘Am I The [Jerk]‘ community to settle their conscience once and for all.
It’s hard to put a price tag on the things you love to do the most
Image credits: Daniel J. Schwarz (not the actual photo)
But when a hobby suddenly turns into a full-time operation and starts to lose its charm, seeing whether people are willing to pay for it might be the only way out
What’s a better way to show just how much the family appreciates your handiwork then naming your price
Image credits: cakedupp3
As the world closed down and the novel pandemic forced us to reevaluate our mortality, career choices or even trust in governments—millions upon millions, almost 4 in 5 workers, used the economic shock to quit their jobs and look for something better (thus the ‘Great Resignation’). For others, Covid proved to be a watershed moment that led to unexpected career opportunities.
Comparably to the events that led to the author’s story, Irina Ruseva, a Manchester-based ‘lockdown baker’ who’s been operating her Flour & Soul bakery from the comfort of her house for the last 18 months, never had it in her plans. But she accepted the lemons thrown at her by sudden life changes, including a country-wide lockdown and a newborn, risked ruining the joy she got from baking and joined hundreds of thousands of entrepreneurs that only keep increasing like a fresh sourdough starter.
“I never thought I was gonna be where I am today,” Ruseva told Bored Panda. The 40-year-old shares that she took over this yeasty hobby after her grandfather who ran the village bakery in Bulgaria where she grew up. “I remember him baking in wood-fired ovens and I loved the smell of it.” Irina tells us everything kicked off when a couple of extra loaves were immediately snapped up after posting about them on her local Facebook group. If not for this incentive, she admits, Irina might still be working as a project manager.
People applauded the way the author dealt with this stuffy situation
Of course, running a business is not a walk in the park: roughly 20% of all new businesses fail within a year, while 1 in 3 don’t cross the two-year mark. While that didn’t scare Irina off, starting her own business didn’t come easy at first.
“There were times when I felt like, ‘why am I doing this?’,” she said. “A lot of other bakeries and bakers who’ve started out during lockdown have gone back to their main work. And that gets to you. But what happened is I changed the business to suit my lifestyle—my business fits my lifestyle, not the other way around. That’s a very difficult thing to achieve.”
Wary of the sacrifices one must acknowledge before monetizing their hobby—particularly, ruining it for yourself—Irina believes it’s better to try than live and wonder what could have happened. “You can always go back to your main work, go back to having a stable income,” she pointed out. However, she thinks everyone should try pursuing things they love to do the most, even if financial bankruptcy is far from being the only looming danger. “It’s stressful and I often feel exhausted. But I love what I do and I wouldn’t have done it for the last 18 months if it didn’t bring me so much joy. I think everyone should give it a go.”
When an artist has a piece they don't necessarily want to sell but someone really wants it, they put an outrageous price on it. If it doesn't sell they're ok with that and if it does, they make some nice money from someone who recognizes the worth. She's an artist who works in cake and that is what her time is worth to her.
I'd make a fortune from my mother if I charged her for IT support & handyman jobs.
Here is another idea: "My oven is broken". "It keeps breaking". "The gas line/electricity is down", "It costs so much because I can either make $500 a day picking up extra hours or make you a cake", or the always good "It's my hobby. This sounds like work".
Or "I'm sorry, I can't bake at all that week, there's a deadline and things will be bad at my engineering job.", or "I can't take any new commissions for that month", or "Didn't anyone tell you about the 3rd degree burns on my hands? Oh, how I suffer for my art..."
Load More Replies...That's how every freelancer prices jobs. Price goes down if they really need the work, price goes down if they're really interested in the particular job. Price skyrockets if they really don't want to do it.
I've done the same thing with my crocheting. Everyone seems perfectly fine asking to have a custom piece made, but they also want it for free because we're friends or family. Meanwhile I'm supposed to spend multiple hours and my own yarn to gift them an item.
That bit never ceases to amaze me. Not only do they want all the labor for free, they expect you to come out of your own pocket on the materials! Do they have any idea what yarn costs?
Load More Replies...Good for her for taking care of herself first! I have to do this with my crochet hobby, I make creative and unique stuffed animals for friends when they have a baby, and many have requested that I sell them but I just say "I have to take a break between projects because it'll hurt my hands if I do too much, and it would be an absurd price if I did commission by the hour, so I'm sorry but I don't take requests" Every person I've told this to so far has miraculously respected it!
At first I thought it yes YTA, but now that I know the whole story I get it. Are you overcharging? Yes absolutely, your prices are insane, but I completely understand why so do what you gotta do.
as mentioned above, in our country, specialised/custom cakes are about this price so no, his prices are just fine. If you want generic, go to the grocery store or bakery.
Load More Replies...If you are family or friend you should pay double or extra because you live the person and want to support them
It's happened with me. My cousin asked me to look over his brakes. I did and told him he needed them all replaced. He bought the parts and I put them on. He asked what he owed me and I told him $50. He handed me $80. I told him he gave me too much and he told me I didn't charge enough. Also changed rear brakes for a family friend. It was quick and easy and I told him to give me $20. He handed me $50 and wouldn't take any back.
Load More Replies...Most craft/art related skills are so severely undervalued. People want custom/boutique quality at mass produced prices, but so much time and resources go into creating these pieces. I sometimes quilt for the love of it and a quilt costs me hundreds of dollars in fabric and supplies and weeks of detailed work. People often ask me to make them one and then completely balk at cost - even when I only quote the materials. Plus the stress of creating to someone else's vision and timeline. Its a hard no from me. I create and gift for the love of it.
This reminds me of what I've been going through with my artwork. It's so difficult for artists, bakers, or just anyone who's been approached to create something for someone, to even think of a fair price that is worth it for everyone, and sometimes you just don't feel like doing the activity when it becomes an obligation, resulting in burn out with a long hiatus of the activity. I give handmade, personalized artworks as gifts on special occasions, but I really prefer making stuff to decorate my own space and enjoy. When a family member paid for a bunch of commissions dealing with the transactions was awkward and uncomfortable. But these were time consuming and the subject not something I was interested in, otherwise, and they had to be shipped through the post. I told everyone I'm not doing anymore commissions for awhile. She was the only one not happy with that news.
i am really clear. It takes me a day to make, you pay me a day's rate at my current (Employed) rate. If you want it shipped, that's an extra cost. If you don't like it, cool. Go buy a poster at the local stationers'.
Load More Replies...When an artist has a piece they don't necessarily want to sell but someone really wants it, they put an outrageous price on it. If it doesn't sell they're ok with that and if it does, they make some nice money from someone who recognizes the worth. She's an artist who works in cake and that is what her time is worth to her.
I'd make a fortune from my mother if I charged her for IT support & handyman jobs.
Here is another idea: "My oven is broken". "It keeps breaking". "The gas line/electricity is down", "It costs so much because I can either make $500 a day picking up extra hours or make you a cake", or the always good "It's my hobby. This sounds like work".
Or "I'm sorry, I can't bake at all that week, there's a deadline and things will be bad at my engineering job.", or "I can't take any new commissions for that month", or "Didn't anyone tell you about the 3rd degree burns on my hands? Oh, how I suffer for my art..."
Load More Replies...That's how every freelancer prices jobs. Price goes down if they really need the work, price goes down if they're really interested in the particular job. Price skyrockets if they really don't want to do it.
I've done the same thing with my crocheting. Everyone seems perfectly fine asking to have a custom piece made, but they also want it for free because we're friends or family. Meanwhile I'm supposed to spend multiple hours and my own yarn to gift them an item.
That bit never ceases to amaze me. Not only do they want all the labor for free, they expect you to come out of your own pocket on the materials! Do they have any idea what yarn costs?
Load More Replies...Good for her for taking care of herself first! I have to do this with my crochet hobby, I make creative and unique stuffed animals for friends when they have a baby, and many have requested that I sell them but I just say "I have to take a break between projects because it'll hurt my hands if I do too much, and it would be an absurd price if I did commission by the hour, so I'm sorry but I don't take requests" Every person I've told this to so far has miraculously respected it!
At first I thought it yes YTA, but now that I know the whole story I get it. Are you overcharging? Yes absolutely, your prices are insane, but I completely understand why so do what you gotta do.
as mentioned above, in our country, specialised/custom cakes are about this price so no, his prices are just fine. If you want generic, go to the grocery store or bakery.
Load More Replies...If you are family or friend you should pay double or extra because you live the person and want to support them
It's happened with me. My cousin asked me to look over his brakes. I did and told him he needed them all replaced. He bought the parts and I put them on. He asked what he owed me and I told him $50. He handed me $80. I told him he gave me too much and he told me I didn't charge enough. Also changed rear brakes for a family friend. It was quick and easy and I told him to give me $20. He handed me $50 and wouldn't take any back.
Load More Replies...Most craft/art related skills are so severely undervalued. People want custom/boutique quality at mass produced prices, but so much time and resources go into creating these pieces. I sometimes quilt for the love of it and a quilt costs me hundreds of dollars in fabric and supplies and weeks of detailed work. People often ask me to make them one and then completely balk at cost - even when I only quote the materials. Plus the stress of creating to someone else's vision and timeline. Its a hard no from me. I create and gift for the love of it.
This reminds me of what I've been going through with my artwork. It's so difficult for artists, bakers, or just anyone who's been approached to create something for someone, to even think of a fair price that is worth it for everyone, and sometimes you just don't feel like doing the activity when it becomes an obligation, resulting in burn out with a long hiatus of the activity. I give handmade, personalized artworks as gifts on special occasions, but I really prefer making stuff to decorate my own space and enjoy. When a family member paid for a bunch of commissions dealing with the transactions was awkward and uncomfortable. But these were time consuming and the subject not something I was interested in, otherwise, and they had to be shipped through the post. I told everyone I'm not doing anymore commissions for awhile. She was the only one not happy with that news.
i am really clear. It takes me a day to make, you pay me a day's rate at my current (Employed) rate. If you want it shipped, that's an extra cost. If you don't like it, cool. Go buy a poster at the local stationers'.
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