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Woman Quits Her Job After Being Constantly Reminded She Can Be Fired Any Moment, Leaves Boss In “Fumes”
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Woman Quits Her Job After Being Constantly Reminded She Can Be Fired Any Moment, Leaves Boss In “Fumes”

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The recent report from GoodHire found that 82% of workers across 10 industries say they would quit their jobs due to their manager’s poor behavior, including not being honest, micromanaging, and disrespecting personal time. That doesn’t mean that employees don’t try to suck it up and deal with the toxic management, which doesn’t last for long.

This is what happened to Redditor u/Public_Pressure_4516 who recently shared a story from her job as a teller at a bank. The author was new to keeping a till, so she had difficulty with keeping her register balance. “As if that shame wasn’t bad enough, my supervisor, ‘Mel,’ would remind me that I worked ‘at will’ and they could fire me at any time,” she wrote in a post on the r/MaliciousCompliance subreddit.

But one day the opportunity came to quit the job and leave the pressure behind, wrote the Redditor, and she wasted no time thinking. In the end, the supervisor got a taste of her own medicine, so scroll down below to see how the situation evolved.

Recently, a former bank teller shared how she quit her job without notice after the supervisor kept telling her she worked at will and could be fired any minute

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Liucija Adomaite is a creative mind with years of experience in copywriting. She has a dynamic set of experiences from advertising, academia, and journalism. This time, she has set out on a journey to investigate the ways in which we communicate ideas on a large scale. Her current mission is to find a magic formula for how to make ideas, news, and other such things spread like a virus.

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Ilona Baliūnaitė

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I'm a Visual Editor at Bored Panda since 2017. I've searched through a multitude of images to create over 2000 diverse posts on a wide range of topics. I love memes, funny, and cute stuff, but I'm also into social issues topics. Despite my background in communication, my heart belongs to visual media, especially photography. When I'm not at my desk, you're likely to find me in the streets with my camera, checking out cool exhibitions, watching a movie at the cinema or just chilling with a coffee in a cozy place

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Fat Harry
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"At will" employment is yet another reason I would never, ever, move to the US. When I was a child I thought the US was the thing to aspire to. Now I realise they're decades behind Europe in virtually everything. It's like a backwater of civilisation. So glad I'm not American.

K Witmer
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm glad people are finally criticizing the US maybe it will help us change. We were indoctrinated at such a young age to believe we were the best country in the world therefore we believed the propaganda pushed on us. We're not taught truthful history or truthful facts about other countries if we're taught at all about other places.

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Alma Muminovic
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It’s always amazing how people like that get into manager positions. I worked at a restaurant once where we had a manager who loved to bully people. She only really bullied people who didn’t speak english well tho. After 7 yrs and her firing people left and right on a whim, getting managers to leave..etc I having been there 1 yr wrote a letter to corporate detailing her misconduct got 28 people to sign (basically the whole restaurant) and she was gone within 2 weeks after a formal investigation. Karma is a B. The irony was she hired me. :)

martin734
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It baffles me how anyone still accepts at-will employment laws, why are they still allowed? Please don't try the BS about it giving employees extra freedom, they don't have any more freedom that employees who live in states with proper employment laws have. The only people who benefit from at-will employment are employers.

Kitty Cat
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hard not to "accept" it when it's the law of the land. No one has a choice.

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Kyle D
Community Member
2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

TheRealFedral's comment is spot on. I worked at Barnes & Noble for nine years and my last position was Kid's Lead. On my last day, they let me clock in & work for a few hours then called me in the office to tell me they were letting me go. I asked but they wouldn't let me be demoted even though it wasn't unprecedented. In the same store a former store manager was working as a lead. Again, I had worked there for NINE years & was actually escorted out like a pariah. They gave me no indication my job was in jeopardy. If they had said, "hey, we're giving you two weeks to shape up or you're gone" I certainly would have tried my best. I did get the last laugh, the store I left closed down not two years later, so some of the people who made the decision to let me go, were themselves out of jobs.

K Witmer
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've quit two toxic jobs by not showing up for my shift. Felt so much better both times. 2 weeks notice is bull. I'm an employer now and would expect my employees to not give 2 weeks if I treated them like crap

WoodenLion
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

place i worked for i told one of my guys they could take the day off when he asked. company fired him for taking the day off. [ i think there were other reasons but they tied it to the day off ] i went in and told them i was not comfortable with their decision and was told basically "too bad". i quit right there in that moment.

RafCo
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I worked somewhere they told one of my coworkers it was cool for her to move across country. Her brother was ill and needed long term help. She was thrilled and we were happy for her. A week before she moved corporate changed their stance on remote employees, but there were a ton already, and our boss and his boss said she'd be grandfathered in. They fired her the day she was getting on the plane. That did not sit well with me, and started looking for work that day. I left 3 weeks later, as did a host of others.

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Beachbum
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My last jo I did not give two weeks notice. In reading the employee handbook, once you give notice, they can just tell you to leave right then and there, and I wanted my Christmas bonus. I sent HR an email that night that I quit, and told them that is the reason I did not give two weeks, it is a two-way street!!

Pamela Blue
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What I don't understand is why health care is dependent upon having a job. Does that mean that everyone that isn't working at the moment can just die for lack of care? Only in the f^*&king US of A!

Emmett O'Brian
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unless you're over 65, disabled according to the gov, in poverty, or a family member pays through their work. You can get medical coverage on your own but it used to be absurdly expensive. Actually, more and more, people can't even afford medical care through their employers. It used to be that you got medical coverage for free or very low cost through your job. Now it's only slightly better than the open market, sometimes worse.

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Diane Knight
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The " I quit the bosses not the job" can be so true. I'm a mom with children in school, I didn't need a special schedule as much as a consistent one. Told the boss that he could schedule me for whatever days/hours he wanted, however that is what I'd work then each week every week, so then I would work my life around it. Couldn't do it. I did tell him not to schedule before 6 am on the weekends. So he doesn't listen and I was due to be there at 6 on Saturday. Made an error Friday afternoon and got called in to the office and let go. Came home giddy with "I have good news and bad news, bad news first, I got fired, good news , I don't have to bust my a*s to get done with one job to be there at 6. sounds like a win-win to me.

Pigeon & Tonic
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is an equally unpleasant job in Canada, namely at smaller places like credit unions. I had a very similar experience as a teller, my first job out of college, and the pressure of management making the whole FOH staff stay late every evening if someone was off by a dollar is real. It also bred a lot of animosity, as you can imagine. I left after 9 months.

J Wentz
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I worked with a REALLY nasty black woman, she was nasty to everyone. And she always played the race card when she was called for her behavior. One day, some government people came and took her out in handcuffs. Seemed that someone had written a letter threatening the president of the USA's life and signed her name. She was found not guilty, but didn't stick around long after that. Everyone had a laugh and wondered who actually did it.

Lisa Hearn
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once quit a job due to 'breach of contract' I was contracted by the store manager to 35 hrs a week, the front end manager did not like me, and tried cutting my hours to 12 a week, I tried explaining that I had a contract, she decided that our manager's contract was nul and void and that she would only roster me for 12 hrs a week, I resigned effective immediately due to breach of contract. The issue for them was I was the only person who knew how to run the service desk, and how to do returns, she should of thought about that, I already had another job as I was walking out the door, it paid more to.

RafCo
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stop saying people don't quit jobs they quit bosses. Sure, but I have quit plenty of jobs even though I got on well with my boss. I love my last boss, and will be keeping in touch, but my role there could never be more than transitory. I left another job where I loved my boss, and we're still good friends. But corporate started laying off everyone in my role. The writing was on the wall. My boss was let go about three months after i left. When I put in my two weeks, he handed me his CV and asked for a recommendation. Sometimes s**t happens. I gave him one, but it's harder for middle managers to find work

phil blanque
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In a time long ago, and in a land far away, productivity and accountability were valued. But now, with so many opportunities for corporations and corporate executives to cash in on poor productivity and losses, who cares?

Suze Allyn
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once worked at a very busy restaurant on the Jersey Shore. The owner had a habit of coming in at noon to do bills and ordering and he was fine. Then he'd go home and tie one on, coming back around 5pm to rant and rave and be a complete creep. This particular day at noon he asked me to do the Specials board that the hour long line out the door could see. I did it and he loved it. Then around 6pm he came back very drunk and particularly bitchy. I had just been sat with 15 people when he pulled me aside and ordered me to redo the Specials board. I told him I was completely slammed and there was already a long line. He started screaming at me in front of the whole restaurant, so I took off my apron and handed it to him, along with my order book, and told him I quit and was going home to have a cold beer. What I didn't find out until later was that he flipped out after I left causing the entire staff of 19 people to also walk out that night. Surprised he didn't drop dead.

Lloyd Goodman
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Former restaurant manager at McDonald's. Had an owner operator at McDonald's that constantly told us ate meetings how stupid we were and that his daughters just entering college could run the stores better than we could. A few years after I left he died and a year or so after that his wife and daughters lost the franchise. I guess they could not run the stores as well as the managers ?

rabbit
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Laws allowing "at-will" employment happen because legislators are purchased by corporations who want such laws. Workers need to organize (ever hear of unions? they used to be a thing) and pressure legislators to repeal those laws or face replacement.

Carol Emory
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a former boss think she could swindle me into staying with the office during a busy tax season. I found work with another branch of the company and told my current boss I was leaving. She found out through HR that I was moving laterally and called my new boss telling her I still had obligations to fulfill with her, even though I had given two weeks notice. When she told me I couldn't work for the new boss until I finished with her, I said "I guess I don't work for either place then." And hung up. Why would anyone think that threatening someone like that would work?

Mad Mar
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Walking out when you are sick of the treatment you get to be on a payroll is uplifting. They pay for your time. They want your time. You don't have to be there if you don't like it. They don't own you. Remember that. You are not indentured or a slave to their will. Stand up if you are being beaten down an just gather your items and hand in your keys. The relief will be worth the looking for a new job. In something you would want to do.

The Starsong Princess
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Your decision but you are foregoing a reference. Also, Mel is a bad manager - she should have been formally coaching and disciplining you up to and including dismissal for the repeated mistakes.

Fat Harry
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"At will" employment is yet another reason I would never, ever, move to the US. When I was a child I thought the US was the thing to aspire to. Now I realise they're decades behind Europe in virtually everything. It's like a backwater of civilisation. So glad I'm not American.

K Witmer
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm glad people are finally criticizing the US maybe it will help us change. We were indoctrinated at such a young age to believe we were the best country in the world therefore we believed the propaganda pushed on us. We're not taught truthful history or truthful facts about other countries if we're taught at all about other places.

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Alma Muminovic
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It’s always amazing how people like that get into manager positions. I worked at a restaurant once where we had a manager who loved to bully people. She only really bullied people who didn’t speak english well tho. After 7 yrs and her firing people left and right on a whim, getting managers to leave..etc I having been there 1 yr wrote a letter to corporate detailing her misconduct got 28 people to sign (basically the whole restaurant) and she was gone within 2 weeks after a formal investigation. Karma is a B. The irony was she hired me. :)

martin734
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It baffles me how anyone still accepts at-will employment laws, why are they still allowed? Please don't try the BS about it giving employees extra freedom, they don't have any more freedom that employees who live in states with proper employment laws have. The only people who benefit from at-will employment are employers.

Kitty Cat
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hard not to "accept" it when it's the law of the land. No one has a choice.

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Kyle D
Community Member
2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

TheRealFedral's comment is spot on. I worked at Barnes & Noble for nine years and my last position was Kid's Lead. On my last day, they let me clock in & work for a few hours then called me in the office to tell me they were letting me go. I asked but they wouldn't let me be demoted even though it wasn't unprecedented. In the same store a former store manager was working as a lead. Again, I had worked there for NINE years & was actually escorted out like a pariah. They gave me no indication my job was in jeopardy. If they had said, "hey, we're giving you two weeks to shape up or you're gone" I certainly would have tried my best. I did get the last laugh, the store I left closed down not two years later, so some of the people who made the decision to let me go, were themselves out of jobs.

K Witmer
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've quit two toxic jobs by not showing up for my shift. Felt so much better both times. 2 weeks notice is bull. I'm an employer now and would expect my employees to not give 2 weeks if I treated them like crap

WoodenLion
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

place i worked for i told one of my guys they could take the day off when he asked. company fired him for taking the day off. [ i think there were other reasons but they tied it to the day off ] i went in and told them i was not comfortable with their decision and was told basically "too bad". i quit right there in that moment.

RafCo
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I worked somewhere they told one of my coworkers it was cool for her to move across country. Her brother was ill and needed long term help. She was thrilled and we were happy for her. A week before she moved corporate changed their stance on remote employees, but there were a ton already, and our boss and his boss said she'd be grandfathered in. They fired her the day she was getting on the plane. That did not sit well with me, and started looking for work that day. I left 3 weeks later, as did a host of others.

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Beachbum
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My last jo I did not give two weeks notice. In reading the employee handbook, once you give notice, they can just tell you to leave right then and there, and I wanted my Christmas bonus. I sent HR an email that night that I quit, and told them that is the reason I did not give two weeks, it is a two-way street!!

Pamela Blue
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What I don't understand is why health care is dependent upon having a job. Does that mean that everyone that isn't working at the moment can just die for lack of care? Only in the f^*&king US of A!

Emmett O'Brian
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unless you're over 65, disabled according to the gov, in poverty, or a family member pays through their work. You can get medical coverage on your own but it used to be absurdly expensive. Actually, more and more, people can't even afford medical care through their employers. It used to be that you got medical coverage for free or very low cost through your job. Now it's only slightly better than the open market, sometimes worse.

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Diane Knight
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The " I quit the bosses not the job" can be so true. I'm a mom with children in school, I didn't need a special schedule as much as a consistent one. Told the boss that he could schedule me for whatever days/hours he wanted, however that is what I'd work then each week every week, so then I would work my life around it. Couldn't do it. I did tell him not to schedule before 6 am on the weekends. So he doesn't listen and I was due to be there at 6 on Saturday. Made an error Friday afternoon and got called in to the office and let go. Came home giddy with "I have good news and bad news, bad news first, I got fired, good news , I don't have to bust my a*s to get done with one job to be there at 6. sounds like a win-win to me.

Pigeon & Tonic
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is an equally unpleasant job in Canada, namely at smaller places like credit unions. I had a very similar experience as a teller, my first job out of college, and the pressure of management making the whole FOH staff stay late every evening if someone was off by a dollar is real. It also bred a lot of animosity, as you can imagine. I left after 9 months.

J Wentz
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I worked with a REALLY nasty black woman, she was nasty to everyone. And she always played the race card when she was called for her behavior. One day, some government people came and took her out in handcuffs. Seemed that someone had written a letter threatening the president of the USA's life and signed her name. She was found not guilty, but didn't stick around long after that. Everyone had a laugh and wondered who actually did it.

Lisa Hearn
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once quit a job due to 'breach of contract' I was contracted by the store manager to 35 hrs a week, the front end manager did not like me, and tried cutting my hours to 12 a week, I tried explaining that I had a contract, she decided that our manager's contract was nul and void and that she would only roster me for 12 hrs a week, I resigned effective immediately due to breach of contract. The issue for them was I was the only person who knew how to run the service desk, and how to do returns, she should of thought about that, I already had another job as I was walking out the door, it paid more to.

RafCo
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stop saying people don't quit jobs they quit bosses. Sure, but I have quit plenty of jobs even though I got on well with my boss. I love my last boss, and will be keeping in touch, but my role there could never be more than transitory. I left another job where I loved my boss, and we're still good friends. But corporate started laying off everyone in my role. The writing was on the wall. My boss was let go about three months after i left. When I put in my two weeks, he handed me his CV and asked for a recommendation. Sometimes s**t happens. I gave him one, but it's harder for middle managers to find work

phil blanque
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In a time long ago, and in a land far away, productivity and accountability were valued. But now, with so many opportunities for corporations and corporate executives to cash in on poor productivity and losses, who cares?

Suze Allyn
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once worked at a very busy restaurant on the Jersey Shore. The owner had a habit of coming in at noon to do bills and ordering and he was fine. Then he'd go home and tie one on, coming back around 5pm to rant and rave and be a complete creep. This particular day at noon he asked me to do the Specials board that the hour long line out the door could see. I did it and he loved it. Then around 6pm he came back very drunk and particularly bitchy. I had just been sat with 15 people when he pulled me aside and ordered me to redo the Specials board. I told him I was completely slammed and there was already a long line. He started screaming at me in front of the whole restaurant, so I took off my apron and handed it to him, along with my order book, and told him I quit and was going home to have a cold beer. What I didn't find out until later was that he flipped out after I left causing the entire staff of 19 people to also walk out that night. Surprised he didn't drop dead.

Lloyd Goodman
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Former restaurant manager at McDonald's. Had an owner operator at McDonald's that constantly told us ate meetings how stupid we were and that his daughters just entering college could run the stores better than we could. A few years after I left he died and a year or so after that his wife and daughters lost the franchise. I guess they could not run the stores as well as the managers ?

rabbit
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Laws allowing "at-will" employment happen because legislators are purchased by corporations who want such laws. Workers need to organize (ever hear of unions? they used to be a thing) and pressure legislators to repeal those laws or face replacement.

Carol Emory
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a former boss think she could swindle me into staying with the office during a busy tax season. I found work with another branch of the company and told my current boss I was leaving. She found out through HR that I was moving laterally and called my new boss telling her I still had obligations to fulfill with her, even though I had given two weeks notice. When she told me I couldn't work for the new boss until I finished with her, I said "I guess I don't work for either place then." And hung up. Why would anyone think that threatening someone like that would work?

Mad Mar
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Walking out when you are sick of the treatment you get to be on a payroll is uplifting. They pay for your time. They want your time. You don't have to be there if you don't like it. They don't own you. Remember that. You are not indentured or a slave to their will. Stand up if you are being beaten down an just gather your items and hand in your keys. The relief will be worth the looking for a new job. In something you would want to do.

The Starsong Princess
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Your decision but you are foregoing a reference. Also, Mel is a bad manager - she should have been formally coaching and disciplining you up to and including dismissal for the repeated mistakes.

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