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If you find yourself frowning upon something someone younger is doing, that most likely means one of two things: you’re either too old to understand what the current youth is up to—as most of us probably are—or you’re simply a grumpy person in general, which is an entirely different matter.
If you belong to the former category, find comfort in the fact that you are far from the only one baffled by all sorts of youngster trends. Be it a new hairstyle every other male under insert a certain age here is walking around with or activities teenagers are taking part in, it might not be easy to identify with a generation that grew up in an entirely different world. But we should probably at least try to understand them, no matter how confusing it all is. (Goodness knows, we’ve gone through a phase of trends our parents found odd, too.)
If you’re curious about what are some of the things young people do that absolutely baffle those older than them, scroll down to find netizens' answers to an ‘Ask Reddit’ thread on the matter started by u/Fyre-Bringer to find out.
If you scroll down, you will also find Bored Panda’s interview with Professor of Sociology and Director of the Center of Innovation in Social Science, Dr. Deborah Carr, who was kind enough to answer a few of our questions regarding generational differences.
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#1
Just fully watching videos in public with no headphones. Where are your headphones? I don’t want to hear your TikTok clips.
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#2
Gen X here. I don't understand the eyelash thing where they're so long and fluffy that you look like Snuffleupagus. I also don't understand the nails that are so long you can't function. Like, how do you wipe?
#3
Not knowing how to use punctuation. The lack of punctuation drives me nuts. I shouldn’t have to read something 50 times because you don’t know how to place a period or a comma when needed.
Discussing the topic of generational differences, Professor of Sociology and Director of the Center of Innovation in Social Science Dr. Deborah Carr told Bored Panda that every generation tends to critique “the youth of today”, implying that the way they did things as young people is superior to what young people are doing nowadays.
“During periods of very rapid change, those generational gaps are the largest,” she noted. “If two generations were raised in very different social or economic consequences, the attitudinal gaps will be the largest.
“For instance, we have witnessed tremendous advances in recent years with respects to the rights and visibility of LGBTQIA persons – younger people are thus much more accepting than past generations. It’s important to recognize that generations can educate one another and help to expand each other’s horizons, and that education can go up and down the generational ladder.”
#4
Assaulting people as a prank.
#5
Grammar. I'm not even talking about missing commas and s**t I just want them to know the difference between "you're" and "your"
According to Prof. Carr, some of the reasons why older people find certain youngster trends or habits difficult to understand are based on the fact that said people are unfamiliar with them, the trends conflict with their personal values, or they don’t see any value in them.
“For instance, older people may judge younger people for spending money on expensive coffees, clothing, or computer gadgets because they view it as wasteful. However, it’s important to remember that young people today often are strapped with educational debt, health care bills and other factors that are eroding their savings. The occasional luxury purchase can be a short-term way to exert autonomy and personal choice.”
#6
Making every single phone call via speakerphone, especially when holding the phone directly next to the side of their head because they can’t hear.
CrazyKnitter 5 months ago
I hate anyone who does this. I don't care about your conversation. I don't want to hear it.
William Teach 5 months ago
Unless I am at home, I can't really hear on speakerphone. I'd rather use an earpiece
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Alex Kennedy 5 months ago
I am old and I do this. I don’t ever take calls where they would disturb others unless it is an emergency.
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Patrick Linnen 5 months ago
This one I would blame on cell phone makers cheaping out on the speakers. The sound quality was neglected because the manufacturers decided that everyone could just listen using physically jacked in headphones. Then they started skipping the physical headphone connection part to 'save space' and never went back to fix the speaker quality.
Tim Douglass 5 months ago
To be fair, it's devilishly hard to make a speaker sound good when it's only 1mm thick and 5mm in diameter.
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Lori 5 months ago
I frequently have people call while they have me on speaker phone and it's nearly impossible to hear them because they seem to think it also makes them louder. They also have the audacity to get mad at me for doing my job (asking security questions) while they are out in public with speak phone on.
Jack Burton 5 months ago
Oh i'm in for this one, i mean why ?? Just why would you that in public areas, you'll have to put the phone close to your head anyway...
Alecto76 5 months ago
I had to sit next to a teen girl on the public bus tonight doing this. Based upon the conversation, she really wanted attention.
Bobbi McGough Robert 5 months ago
It's fun to reply to them as if they were talking to you! LOL
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Bobbi McGough Robert 5 months ago
Not me. But I do reply to them, regardless of who they're speaking with!
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I depends on your situation. I do this because I am hard of hearing. But I'm retired and live out in the country in a rural area. I'm not much of a phone user. So when I am around other people, it is very unlikely that someone will call me. And I'm certainly not going to call someone.
ProcrastinationStation 5 months ago
This is also rude. The youth is supposedly so aware of other people's problem and of neurodiversity etc., and yet they are the ones who create the most noisy enviroment for neurodivergent people (like me) :(
ZGutr 5 months ago
This is awfull but probably not only the younger generation. Perhaps it's cultural as well. Many doing this here are from arabic countries and span all ages. Common denominator is 'high volume is a must'
Roland Nijveld 5 months ago
This. I see every age group do this. But rarely are it white Dutch people. Mostly people from Africa. So it must be a cultural thing
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JNDauterive 5 months ago
I have to do this because I can’t hear my phone otherwise. But it rarely happens in public.
Kai Collis (eeee) 5 months ago
I do this because I cant hear it otherwise, even if its next to my ear it isnt loud enough. Like if the speaker isnt on I literally cannot make out whats being said.
Juanita Sullivan 5 months ago
First off I hate cellphones but I do have one for safety reasons. I don't have a house phone because I don't need it with a cellphone so I save money. I have the cellphone with me on the road should I need to call for help. I treat it as a phone only. When I worked customer service in a call center I hated when customers used their speaker option. The further away one is from the phone the more they break up and you can't understand what they are saying. It's bad if they are too close to the speaker because then they are too loud and can be hard to understand as well.
Definitely a Human 5 months ago
The only time this is acceptable is when your in private, and you need to have your hands free for paperwork, or you need to find something on your phone
Cat_Whisperer 5 months ago
Not a just a young person thing….my mom does this and gets annoyed if I ask her to take her conversation elsewhere if she’s in a communal space…or in public. 🙄
Dawn Thomas-Cameron 5 months ago
Some of us have fat cheeks that cause grief on the touch screen.
devotedtodreams 5 months ago
I've often been tempted to just start singing loudly along to my music or pretending to be the person on the other end of the line, but then I'd just be annoying everyone else around me, and my conscience can't handle that. So, I usually just end up giving them the stink-eye or growling at them.
Jude Laskowski 5 months ago
When patients come to our clinic, they have to sign an agreement to not use cell phones while in the waiting room. I've had to remind a few people, and they have to take it outside.
The Veil of Fire 5 months ago
Do it around me an I will get involved in the conversation. I will answer everyone's question and follow you around.
Randi Francis 5 months ago
This drives me total shithouse - but not only yungins do this but old people do it too
Guess Undheit 5 months ago
When they do this, I put on Ministry's "Jesus Built My Hot Rod" or another equally loud song and blast it at next to their ear so they can't hear their call. [ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rmenTtGe_6I ]
Ralph Watkins 5 months ago
The younger people aren't so bad in this department. Middle aged people who feed it thru the bluetooth in their car & then crank it up full volume are the really bad ones.
K. LNU 5 months ago
My friend and I were at a grocery store, standing in the checkout line; there was a lady talking on her speaker phone in front of us. Person A (on the phone) talking about someone cheating to person B. A continues to talk to B as she begins the checkout. So, my friend (who has no shame - I adore her) starts gasping and saying "oh no he didn't!!" and "that a**h***!" A turns around and says, "excuse me this is a private call!" My friend tells her "No ma'am it isn't. You are sharing with the entire checkout line." A tells B she will call her right back. A pays and quickly leaves.
Belle Miles 5 months ago
I am 55 years old and there is no way in the world I would touch a nasty phone to my face. Anyone who wants to call me better just expect the whole world will know what we are discussing. Disgusting... gross... The very IDEA of touching someone else's phone without a Windex bath. Phones are filthy. And NO... I can't hear you either. Go on and hate. Now let's talk about not returning shopping carts... I'm just gonna shake shake shake shake...
Steve Hall 5 months ago
Some of us have hearing problems. That doesn't mean we need to be on the phone in public though.
Dre Mosley 5 months ago
One of my biggest pet peeves. Just encountered this in the gym the other day.
KJH 5 months ago
OK, I do this, but I hate that I do and it's only because my phone speaker is broken so the only way I can hear the conversation is on speaker phone. I hate it too, and I just want to hold up a sign every time I do it to explain that I'm doing it for an actual reason.
Morgan Hamilton 5 months ago
Print out a bunch of cheap business cards with this on it so you can hand them out?
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TheGoodBoi 5 months ago
I'll say, if you absolutely have to do this, then have it be a very short conversation. Like seconds long. Please use the texting feature on your phone, unless it's some juicy gossip 👀
LaserBrain 5 months ago
Yeah and if it's a video call then you get to see the inside of their ear, or the side of their head
Jenny Lind 5 months ago
I've seen many iPhone users do ot because the microphone breaks so easily, so speaker phone becomes necessary for phonecalls 😆😆 but that's what you get buying trash
GenuineJen 5 months ago (edited)
Someone did this IN THE PUBLIC BATHROOM yesterday, and they were talking about other people that were in the bathroom. Wtf??
NetworkMan 5 months ago
Preeeeeeach! Why am I on the bus listening to your pregnancy scare and STD tests? Its more work to keep moving the phone from your mouth to ear, so why not hold it as its intended?
Karina 5 months ago
I live rural, so I do this to keep my ear from over"charging" with electric heat and WiFi it sounds crazy, byt less is always more in these cases. If im walking in town, and have to take a call, i have to make the choise on inconvening you for 3 sekonds as i pass, or posebly brain cancer 🤔 i love my neighbor, but not that mych, sorry.
Performingyak 5 months ago (edited)
Similarly, facetiming everywhere. Walking through an airport with a video call to your mate who can barely hear you and vice versa. Why?
ALittleKnownGoddess 5 months ago
Speakerphone is only for when you are alone, or in your car. Anything else is just completely selfish.
iseefractals 5 months ago
My mother in law does this dumb $hit. Every. Single. Call. All hours of the day and night. It's not even the volume of the phone that's the issue, it's that the phone is always 5 or 6 feet from her head, so she compensates by scream-talking. So obnoxious and narcissistic
Anouk T 5 months ago
I do this because my phone is broken and I can hear otherwise I also can’t afford to fix it so… sorry!
PepperPuppy 5 months ago
The only people I know who do this consistently are all older Gen X and Boomers.
#7
Literally commiting crimes as part of social media trends. Especially the "licking ice cream at the store and putting it back" challenge, that's a straight up health code violation.
AisForRebel 5 months ago
That's more of a "the f is wrong with you" smack alongside the head thing.
#8
For a generation that loves social media, we are very anti-social. Lots of us cannot hold conversations or try to avoid them entirely. Another thing is how terrible literacy is amongst this generation while also loving social media. Cell phones have caused pure brain rot as people cannot function without them at all which baffles me. My parents didn’t buy me a phone until I was a sophomore in high school and it drove me nuts when people asked me how to do this or that without thinking prior to use common sense and figure it out. Critical thinking hit a massive decline from what I have noticed as well. Hope this comment isn’t harsh but being a part of one of the young generations I’m frustrated and annoyed. Please enlighten me if I am just wrong about any of this.
“Older adults also may have difficulty understanding actions or behaviors that were less common when they were young,” Dr. Carr added. “For instance, very casual dress, large tattoos and multiple piercings are more common and socially accepted today, yet it could be a difficult pill to swallow for older adults who were raised to present themselves more formally – especially at work.”
#9
Creating GoFundMe pages for cosmetic surgery and/or procedures.
#10
Not being taught to tell time by where the hands are on a clock.
#11
Millennial here: Baffled at the number of people having children with various "baby daddies" and "baby mamas" that all seem to be horrible people. Do they not vet their partners at all before making them parents? It's like there's not even the expectation anymore that two people would raise their kids together.
(Note: This probably sounds judgemental, but I genuinely am just baffled.).
Reset Game 5 months ago
Gen x - AGREE! Why in the world would you purposely bring a child especially multiple children into a world where you know the kids are most likely going to grow up in poverty. 🤦♀️
According to the expert, the thing that has influenced or shaped current youth the most is undoubtedly social media. “Young people today craft identities and tell narratives about their lives—whether fact, fiction, or somewhere in between—online. More importantly, they often derive their self-worth from others’ responses to the images they put out there. The number of likes, views, or followers they receive, the praise—or insults—they receive online, and other indicators of their online presentations are critically important to their self-views.
“In past generations, we certainly cared about what our classmates and peers thought about us, but we had less data and it was less pervasive and in-your-face. So, we probably felt better about ourselves,” she added.
#12
Doing incredibly embarrassing things for social media attention.
#13
Mostly Im baffled by how poorly educated young people are these days. History, Geography, Sciences, Maths, Literature..so much knowledge is missing.
Stephanie Did It 5 months ago
What boggles my mind is how they seem so proud of their ignorance!
#14
Face tattoos. I don't really have a problem with tattoos generally, but come on man, it's your face.
CrazyKnitter 5 months ago
I don't have a problem with cultural tattoos, but the other ones are just so dumb. There's no reason for words to be on your face.
If youth trends baffle you too, and you want to understand the youngsters better, “talk to a young person,” Dr. Carr suggested. “Ask what’s important to them, and why. Or, ask them for a recommendation for a TV show, podcast, or influencer whom they appreciate, or a book that they found particularly influential, and then discuss it with them.
“The only way we can bridge generational rifts—or rifts more generally—is to get to know one another as individuals, rather than relying on false stereotypes.”
#15
Broccoli haircuts.
Maggie Fulton 5 months ago
Every generation has to have haircuts that will embarrass them when they reach 30.
#16
That literacy rates are plummeting. This one is so confusing! How can you be the chronically online generation unable to read?
Candid Panda 5 months ago
Constantly watching short snippets of videos and Tik Tocs has caused an attention deficit. Why read when you can watch c**p all day?
#17
Taking parents to job interviews.
Lincoln_Park_Pirate:
It just happened at my workplace for the first time (television). Blew my mind. Mom waited in the lobby but came in for the negotiations. Applicant was 26 years old.
The professor continued to emphasize the importance of understanding one another by pointing out that every generation manages the best they can, managing the hand they’ve been dealt.
“Younger people today have faced highly distressing events throughout their lives – from rampant school shootings to vast political divisiveness to isolation during COVID. If we see younger people feeling anxious, distressed, or fearful of their future, we should understand where they’re coming from, rather than judging them or holding them against a standard that’s unrealistic.”
#18
Becoming addicted to nicotine. I thought younglings would be a little less stupid than us.
#19
Young people seek information by watching TikTok content rather than Googling the answers. If you have a lot of time to spare, you will often get good info, but I'm middle-aged, and I've always been a big reader. I will do almost anything to avoid having to watch stuff (or listen, for that matter) when I can more quickly visually skim and immediately determine if the information is relevant to me and seems legit.
cj 5 months ago
I feel like it depends on the topic. When I want to learn a new crochet stitch or method, I turn to tiktok because I can watch several quick, focused videos of different people doing the same thing and I can synthesize all of that different information and figure out which demonstration makes the most sense to me, instead of having to try and replicate written instructions with my hands or having to navigate through a youtube video's introduction, sponserships, and ads to try and find the 30 seconds of the video I actually need to see. But for facts and knowledge, I always put the effort into the research.
#20
I guess there’s like elementary schoolers with a skincare routine now?? That’s nuts….
Electric-Sheepskin:
I saw some people in the skincare addiction sub today recommending that a 17-year-old get Botox and retinol for the lines on their forehead. Insanity.
Zedrapazia 5 months ago
Anyone here's heard of these "Sephora Kids" before? Young girls that buy anti aging creams and stuff like that for their skin. A 12 year old doesn't need this stuff, and it's bad for their young skin as well
#21
Anything Andrew Tate.
Just-4-2day 5 months ago
Google: Who is Andrew Tate and what did he do? Andrew Tate, an online influencer known for his displays of wealth and his misogynistic views, is facing criminal accusations over sexual misconduct in two separate cases. Mr. Tate and his brother, Tristan Tate, have since 2022 been battling charges from Romanian prosecutors that include human trafficking. Apr 26, 2024
#22
I've trained 3 early 20s co-workers now that don't use the Shift key to capitalize letters. They hit caps lock, type the letter to be capitalized, then hit caps lock again.
I can't wrap my head around it.
#23
I run a restaurant, and employ a bunch of young people. EVERY dude under 25 has bangs, some significantly longer than the rest of their hair. I call them *Flock of Seagulls*. They don't get the reference.
#24
Binge watching short videos compiled so you never watch anything with a plot or storyline. Just tons of 10-60 sec videos and most of them suck.
#25
There was a group of teenagers in the parking lot talking about scientology, and they were thinking it was a neat religion, like a bunch of them were genuinely interested.
I've never hit a child before...but holy hell their brains needed to be reset.
#26
I'm not really too baffled, I just see a lot of worrying trends.
The main thing that concerns me is the steep decline in mental health among young people since smartphones went mainstream and we got the internet in our pockets. I'm not shocked at all to see it but it is very bad.
Jerome Lenovo 5 months ago (edited)
i love my belly-button, so why don't people acknowledges me. Me me me me me me edit : doesn't ?
#27
Vaping. Isn't it clear by now that inhaling fumes is not really a good idea?
Chumbo 5 months ago
The part that I found the most troubling is how many adults are introduced to nicotine through vaping. I started smoking cigarettes as a teenager (as teens do) and smoked for 9-10 years. Vaping was a less destructive alternative for me. I'm sure it's not good for me but it can't be worse than cigarettes. Of course I wish teens/preteens wouldn't pick up the habit but adults should know better.
#28
The popularity of "nuisance streamers" with younger folks. I don't find being a public nuisance even a little bit entertaining or funny, especially when its being filmed.
Also just in general the trend of filming, photographing and trying to make "content" out of their entire life in some vain hope of becoming internet famous. I don't get it. Last thing i'd ever want to do is have my entire life posted on the internet.
#29
Allowing every one of their friends on Snapchat to know their location at all times. Like seriously. My 23 year old coworker and her friends are constantly revoking and then reinstating their visible location depending on if they're happy or mad with each other. If someone notices that they can't see where another person is, they'll actually bring it up, wondering what they did to upset them. Her best friend will ask her friend to check her boyfriends location, and whichever friend he told her he'd be with, to make sure they match. I told my coworker that it's weird for everyone you know to know where you are.
At least I can kinda understand family members knowing, but even then, my siblings don't need to know where I am at all times, and my parents should maybe stop constantly checking once I hit 18? 21 surely. Lol. Her sister will text her asking why she went certain places because she constantly checks location on her. They have an app on their phones specifically so they can always see where family members are. Her dad texted her once she got home and didn't come inside after 5 minutes. He knew she just drove up. She was simply typing out a reply a text to a friend before getting out of her car. Again...she's 23.
Idk, I guess if you grow up with it, you don't think it's weird. I'm 43, I certainly didn't grow up with people having the ability to know where I am at all times unless I told them or called them.
#30
Not using condoms. My generation was raised hearing about Ryan White and seeing Very Special Episodes about why we didn't want AIDS and everything else. Apparently some younger people aren't worried about it anymore.
Thee8thsense 5 months ago
On the other end of that gambit, I recently learned of a retirement community in which the incidence of venereal disease is very high.
#31
Making fun of another kid because they don't have a specific water tumbler. It sounds like somebody is trying to parody "making fun of other kids for having the 'wrong' brand of clothes or phone".
Maggie Fulton 5 months ago
Well, dammit, you have to be part of the In crowd! So it’s water tumblers now, is it? I suppose it makes a change from sneakers.
#32
All the self labeling. When I was young, we avoided labels at all costs!
CanadianDimes 5 months ago
What is defined as self labelling? I’m gay? I have ADHD? I have anxiety? Most of what people designate as labels are part of someone’s identity and their life. We just have more awareness of how many factors might be part of someone’s life than we used to.
#33
Calling anyone with a different opinion a troll. I see it over and over and over. I do not understand and I can only feel pity.
#34
I use my phone a fair bit, but it's really hard to imagine it being my *only computer*. I need at least 20 inches of screen, a trackball and a keyboard with physical buttons just to *think* properly. I don't want to budget my battery to last all day in case an important text comes through. I want my internet signals sent over a hard wire. When my computer stops working, I want to open it up and swap the broken part with a better one.
But if my web analytics are at all a representation, more than half of everyone is only looking at the internet through their phones.
Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My! 5 months ago
I can only afford one device. The phone was cheapest and lightest.
#35
I listened to a 23-year-old (more than a decade younger than me) say she wanted to start 'preventative Botox.' Girl...
CrazyKnitter 5 months ago
If I ever get Botox, it'll be because I have migraines, nothing else.
#36
I know a girl that had plastic surgery by the time she was 19.
When I first met her, she was literally a ten. Now, she's funny looking.
luizaspiller00 5 months ago
I guess the fact that people will refer to others as a "ten" kinda explains people's obsessions with their looks....
#37
Being unable to read beyond sight words.
Like they CAN read, but not the same way you and I assumably can. They can read words but only because they are recognizing the word itself the same way you might recognize the picture of a bee as a bee or when you read now a lot of it IS sight reading in that you're likely not reading this comment sounding out all the letters- but if you came across a word you didn't know you'd likely have the skillset to read it anyways or at least give an educated guess.
I worked as a teacher and this past year I've been hearing more and more complaints from the higher grades/up even into highschool that their students by and large aren't able to sound out words/read like we were taught to. That's not to say NONE can but it's a significant issue that absolutely baffles me.
Like, I legitimately can't tell if this is some elaborate joke and they forgot to cue in the laughtrack to cue me in or what; but from the conversations I've had they know what letters make what sounds like "a" makes "ay" and "ah" but not how to USE this information functionally when presented a word they don't know before. This skill just.. apparently wasn't challenged and because the kids presumably COULD read (by sight) the issue wasn't recognized until recently. I'm honestly hoping this is JUST our small towns issue and not widespread as I don't even know where to begin dismantling such a profound oversight.
Stephanie Did It 5 months ago
Add to that, a frightening inability to write legible or coherent sentences.
#38
Mullets, will we never learn?
#39
The rising support and voting for extreme right parties/pundits among young people in the West. The people leading these parties will ruin everything resembling a future that you might have. These are awful times to become an adult in, but they do NOT care about you or your plight as a younger generation.
Forrest Hobbs 5 months ago
Look on the bright side. The recent Euro elections in the Nordic countries saw the far right lose a lot of support. Not bucking the trend, but ahead of the curve, they say: apparently it turns out that the far right are rubbish in government. They got votes, they had influence in government, then they lost votes. https://www.theguardian.com/world/article/2024/jun/11/left-wing-nordic-nations-provide-ray-of-hope-in-europe
#40
Today on reddit one told me they refuse to show up to an initial job interview that is in person. They demand the employer use zoom to interview them. It was baffling.
#41
One thing that baffles me is how much time and energy the younger generation spends on social media. It's amazing to see how much they are constantly on their phones, checking notifications, posting updates, and scrolling through endless feeds. I can't imagine being so connected to technology all the time and not taking breaks to be present in the moment. It's a completely different way of living that I struggle to understand.
Immortal Jellyfish 5 months ago
I once stood behind a person struggling to pay, pack do anything at the supermarket checkout because they had their phone in front of their face. They weren't talking to anyone or anything, could have just sat it down or put it in their pocket or something. Funny thing is they paid with cash..........
#42
Giving up. I work with some twenty-somethings, and many of them are completely defeated. They don't think they'll ever own a home or have a meaningful career or get out of debt. They just throw up their hands and resign themselves to a life of drudgery, bills and the occasional weekend bender.
They don't want to be astronauts or engineers or rock stars, they just want to escape reality by way of d***s, videogames and endless screen time.
Who is going to rule the world?
Reset Game 5 months ago
Unfortunately there's a lot of horrible things happening in the world so I kind of understand this. We've got a felon who is still running for president, over 600,000 homeless people, women's rights over their own body being taken away from them, the necessity to make four times the rent just to have an apartment and the cost of an education even trade school is extremely expensive.
#44
Wearing earbuds at work during a shift on an active, collaborative team. (I think earbuds aren't a problem at all for quiet, focused work, or work where there's not much need to speak with others at a moment's notice.)
I understand that many of them can easily hear things, but in my brain, earbuds carry a strong "do not talk to me" message that makes it hard not to see them as inappropriate at work unless someone is hunkering down for a longer, quieter solo task.
At worst , I see them being a hazard in certain workplaces (my own workplace for example, a metal fabrication lab, a lack of full attention could lead to nasty consequences), and at best, I think they send a less than respectful message to coworkers.
I suppose that people have no obligation to treat their coworkers with more than the minimum of respect and courtesy, but I figure that having some friendly connections at work could make each shift more enjoyable for everyone.
Jaymi Leigh 5 months ago
This is a huge problem in the school where I teach. Our junior and senior high kids will not take their earphones off, and it's very disrespectful. I wish it was enforced as a rule that they stay in lockers during class time unless they are being used specifically with a device for class, for educational purposes.
#45
Gen Z and their constant self-diagnosing.
#46
I can't understand why today's kids want to watch YouTube videos of kids or adults opening up new toys and playing with them! Why would any kid want to watch someone else play with toys instead of their own?
Yettichild 5 months ago
To see if it's actually something they want. Or a way to discover new products.
#47
Children as young as 12 drinking coffee before school. Wearing fake nails and fake eyelashes.
CrazyKnitter 5 months ago
Oops. I got into coffee when I was 2 by accident. My dad didn't think that I'd like his black coffee. He was very wrong.
#48
Refusing to learn to drive. I absolutely understand not wanting to, preferring to live places where you don't have to because of good walkability/transit/bikability, etc. But just being unwilling to learn at all? It's an important life skill and there might be an emergency where you have to!
Forrest Hobbs 5 months ago
Learning to drive is expensive in lots of places, and in lots of places you don't need to drive yourself. Most big European cities, for example. When lessons, test fees, and insurance cost that much, when the roads are so clogged up, and when parking is so difficult and expensive, why bother with a car when you can use public transport?
#49
Not knowing how to use a computer.
Maggie Fulton 5 months ago
Does anyone in the current generation not know how to use a computer? I’m very surprised.
#50
Bringing back those thin 90s brows again… its a lesson we all must learn the hard way, it seems.
What did you hear the younger generation do that absolutely baffles you?
Jack Burton 5 months ago
Well well well... Are you all old enough to have forgotten that you hear pretty similar stuff about you as a teenager or a young adult ? And for the smartphone/network problem i'd say it concerns everyone. Don't tell me most of adults aren't addicted to smartphone and social network. Every generation found the next one stupid and non educated enough. It's a human thing.
clairebear 5 months ago
What goes around comes around. Silent generation got their knickers in the twist about boomers being Teddy Boys, Mods and Rockers. Boomers had a fit over Gen X's punk, new romantics (men wearing makeup!!!), goths and skinheads. Gen X laughing at millennials and their man buns and avocado toast, it goes on and on.
Notme 5 months ago
Christ, what a bunch of grumpy old farts. Leave them alone, live and let live FFS.
Janet L 1 month ago
Well, the heading WAS about confusing trends among the young….kinda inevitable to get responses about what confuses people then.
Load More Replies... Noproblem 5 months ago
Let me preface by saying I am not talking about people with anxiety disorders. But I think the younger generation has a hard time recognizing that anxiety is an emotion that you are SUPPOSED to feel. They just think anxiety=bad and therefore I should not feel it, and whatever is causing it needs to go away. And they really need to recognize that it’s a part of life and it’s okay to feel that way & they will be okay if they work through it instead of running the other way.
Apatheist Account2 5 months ago
That's down to too much molly-coddling when young. Everyone gets a prize, no-one loses! Answers aren't wrong, well done for interpreting the question differently! They're not prepared for real life.
Load More Replies... Christos Arvanitis 5 months ago
Sure some of these are specific to younger people, but lots of these apply to people of all ages. More generational divisiveness...
missmal 5 months ago
I think the older generations need to just realize that these newer generations are just different, just like we were different than the older generations. I feel like if what they are doing makes them happy and doesn't negatively impact the life of another human being, leave them alone. If those girls with long nails and eyelashes are happy and confident with how they look, let them be happy. If people do better researching topics on Tik Tok rather than Google, let them. I've found using both worlds well for me and I'm not from these younger generations. Just let people be themselves and like what they like.
Darth Kittius 5 months ago
The younger generations have been criticized by the older generations for about as long as civilization has been a thing. Even in Ancient Greece. And then Baby Boomers get mad about "Okay Boomer" as if they've never been disrespectful to anyone
Malek Basata 5 months ago (edited)
Dear mr grumpus, leave us alone, illiteracy and more might be annoying to you who had it hard, but it is your fault we exist anyway
RavenCroft 5 months ago
I'd like to add trends such as using someone as a "Foodie call" and other ways that people use dating as a way to get a free meal, money, etc from the person. When did that become an acceptable way to treat another human being?
John Harrison 5 months ago
A lot of these really are old people shaking their fists at the sky, lolol. "I can't believe the craaazy haircuts these dawgone kids have nowadays!"
Janet L 1 month ago
I think it goes deeper than that…the lack of modesty and privacy seems very counter intuitive and unhealthy
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Jess Smith 5 months ago (edited)
I'm Gen Z, and I looked at most of these like "am I missing something?" Admittedly, I'm homeschooled and thus don't have as much of the gossip and such, but I was scrolling through this like, "I am Gen Z, and I use control v *all the time*, I don't even get what a water tumbler is, and I have no clue what a fanum tax is." But posting that on like all of them would get boring fast, so I'm posting this at the end: Gen Z is not all like this. edit: rewording
Amelia Jade 5 months ago
What a mean spirited article. Let the younger generation have their trends. I'm glad I'm not a grumpy gus waving my fist at people with long eyelashes and yelling at people to get off my lawn.
tuzdayschild 5 months ago
Tattoos on faces, looong eyelashes, bangs covering the face. Things like this are personal choices that don't hurt anyone else. So for me, they falls under my "nose out" rule.
Janet L 1 month ago
I’m concerned about all the trigger warnings and blanked out words which avoid upsetting people. If you can’t cope with this how are you going to manage your life? Surely any kid who’s seen any eg Harry Potter movie with its themes of murder, sorcery, bullying, treason, can cope with the written word?
Darth Kittius 5 months ago
No, the thumbs up thing isn't just that. The reason some gen z think is rude is because we'll send a long message and then get a thumbs up in response. The lack of effort after the effort we put in feels passive-aggressive
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Jessica SpeLangm 5 months ago
MY concern, which may have already been mentioned a few times, is that the younger generation (I'm in my 50's, so I'm talking about those under 30 years old mostly) can't think for themselves. If they can't google it or speak to Siri to find it, they don't know what to do. THAT'S a problem.
Falcon on Dizzy 5 months ago
im ashamed of my generation god damn. one big thing I've noticed is that since my parents grew up on the 70s and 80s, yet I'm a teenager, I've avoided a lot of these things
William Teach 5 months ago
How did this list forget about them using their phones in the toilet? Talking while doing their business? I hang up
Belle Miles 5 months ago
I just want to let you all know... The kids are going to be alright. Unless you send them to college. Then you will lose them to the political psychoses. Go to trade school. No debt and earn as you learn and become certified in your field. Have faith... they're fine.
Jack Burton 5 months ago
Well well well... Are you all old enough to have forgotten that you hear pretty similar stuff about you as a teenager or a young adult ? And for the smartphone/network problem i'd say it concerns everyone. Don't tell me most of adults aren't addicted to smartphone and social network. Every generation found the next one stupid and non educated enough. It's a human thing.
clairebear 5 months ago
What goes around comes around. Silent generation got their knickers in the twist about boomers being Teddy Boys, Mods and Rockers. Boomers had a fit over Gen X's punk, new romantics (men wearing makeup!!!), goths and skinheads. Gen X laughing at millennials and their man buns and avocado toast, it goes on and on.
Notme 5 months ago
Christ, what a bunch of grumpy old farts. Leave them alone, live and let live FFS.
Janet L 1 month ago
Well, the heading WAS about confusing trends among the young….kinda inevitable to get responses about what confuses people then.
Load More Replies... Noproblem 5 months ago
Let me preface by saying I am not talking about people with anxiety disorders. But I think the younger generation has a hard time recognizing that anxiety is an emotion that you are SUPPOSED to feel. They just think anxiety=bad and therefore I should not feel it, and whatever is causing it needs to go away. And they really need to recognize that it’s a part of life and it’s okay to feel that way & they will be okay if they work through it instead of running the other way.
Apatheist Account2 5 months ago
That's down to too much molly-coddling when young. Everyone gets a prize, no-one loses! Answers aren't wrong, well done for interpreting the question differently! They're not prepared for real life.
Load More Replies... Christos Arvanitis 5 months ago
Sure some of these are specific to younger people, but lots of these apply to people of all ages. More generational divisiveness...
missmal 5 months ago
I think the older generations need to just realize that these newer generations are just different, just like we were different than the older generations. I feel like if what they are doing makes them happy and doesn't negatively impact the life of another human being, leave them alone. If those girls with long nails and eyelashes are happy and confident with how they look, let them be happy. If people do better researching topics on Tik Tok rather than Google, let them. I've found using both worlds well for me and I'm not from these younger generations. Just let people be themselves and like what they like.
Darth Kittius 5 months ago
The younger generations have been criticized by the older generations for about as long as civilization has been a thing. Even in Ancient Greece. And then Baby Boomers get mad about "Okay Boomer" as if they've never been disrespectful to anyone
Malek Basata 5 months ago (edited)
Dear mr grumpus, leave us alone, illiteracy and more might be annoying to you who had it hard, but it is your fault we exist anyway
RavenCroft 5 months ago
I'd like to add trends such as using someone as a "Foodie call" and other ways that people use dating as a way to get a free meal, money, etc from the person. When did that become an acceptable way to treat another human being?
John Harrison 5 months ago
A lot of these really are old people shaking their fists at the sky, lolol. "I can't believe the craaazy haircuts these dawgone kids have nowadays!"
Janet L 1 month ago
I think it goes deeper than that…the lack of modesty and privacy seems very counter intuitive and unhealthy
Load More Replies... Jess Smith 5 months ago (edited)
I'm Gen Z, and I looked at most of these like "am I missing something?" Admittedly, I'm homeschooled and thus don't have as much of the gossip and such, but I was scrolling through this like, "I am Gen Z, and I use control v *all the time*, I don't even get what a water tumbler is, and I have no clue what a fanum tax is." But posting that on like all of them would get boring fast, so I'm posting this at the end: Gen Z is not all like this. edit: rewording
Amelia Jade 5 months ago
What a mean spirited article. Let the younger generation have their trends. I'm glad I'm not a grumpy gus waving my fist at people with long eyelashes and yelling at people to get off my lawn.
tuzdayschild 5 months ago
Tattoos on faces, looong eyelashes, bangs covering the face. Things like this are personal choices that don't hurt anyone else. So for me, they falls under my "nose out" rule.
Janet L 1 month ago
I’m concerned about all the trigger warnings and blanked out words which avoid upsetting people. If you can’t cope with this how are you going to manage your life? Surely any kid who’s seen any eg Harry Potter movie with its themes of murder, sorcery, bullying, treason, can cope with the written word?
Darth Kittius 5 months ago
No, the thumbs up thing isn't just that. The reason some gen z think is rude is because we'll send a long message and then get a thumbs up in response. The lack of effort after the effort we put in feels passive-aggressive
Load More Replies... Jessica SpeLangm 5 months ago
MY concern, which may have already been mentioned a few times, is that the younger generation (I'm in my 50's, so I'm talking about those under 30 years old mostly) can't think for themselves. If they can't google it or speak to Siri to find it, they don't know what to do. THAT'S a problem.
Falcon on Dizzy 5 months ago
im ashamed of my generation god damn. one big thing I've noticed is that since my parents grew up on the 70s and 80s, yet I'm a teenager, I've avoided a lot of these things
William Teach 5 months ago
How did this list forget about them using their phones in the toilet? Talking while doing their business? I hang up
Belle Miles 5 months ago
I just want to let you all know... The kids are going to be alright. Unless you send them to college. Then you will lose them to the political psychoses. Go to trade school. No debt and earn as you learn and become certified in your field. Have faith... they're fine.
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