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Husband Laughs After Neighbor Asks His Pregnant Wife To Cover Up While Swimming In Her Own Pool

Husband Laughs After Neighbor Asks His Pregnant Wife To Cover Up While Swimming In Her Own Pool

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The cold weather is coming, and winter is approaching—which means that, paradoxically, there are more and more pool stories. To be honest, I don’t know what actually causes this. Perhaps the cold weather makes us nostalgic for warm water, or perhaps people from warm states want to share this joy with us… But a fact is a fact—here’s another pool story for you!

This time, the author, u/Pregnantpoolta, tells us how her attempt to make her pregnancy easier in the later months almost turned into a confrontation with her neighbors. However, let’s take things in order.

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The author of the post is in her eighth month of pregnancy and is doing her best to cope with all corresponding inconveniences

Image credits: Garon Piceli / Pexel (not the actual photo)

The woman found out that floating in her above-ground pool really helps, so she now spends hours there

Image credits: Pregnantpoolta

Image credits:  Juliia Abramova / Pexels (not the actual photo)

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However, it turned out that watching a bikini-clad pregnant lady in her pool somehow ‘ruins’ the neighbors’ deck view

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Image credits: Pregnantpoolta

They even tried to complain to the woman’s husband, but he just laughed off

So, the Original Poster (OP) is now in her eighth month of pregnancy and is trying her best to cope with the inevitable inconveniences. Luckily, she has a large above-ground pool at home, and our heroine has discovered that floating in it helps a lot.

The pool walls are quite high, almost level with the fence, so from their deck, the neighbors can easily see how she, dressed only in a bikini (the woman finds it easier than putting on a one-piece), spends hours in the pool.

It would seem that everyone should be happy—but no, the neighbors decided that the idea of a pregnant neighbor in a bikini ruined their deck view completely. One fine day, the neighbor even approached her husband and asked “if she could cover up more in the pool.” It turned out that the neighbors even stopped using their deck because of this.

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The husband’s reaction was, “You cannot be serious”—and the neighbors didn’t press, but from that day on, our heroine began to catch numerous dirty looks from them, every time she dove into her pool. The mom-to-be even began to feel guilty that she had caused the neighbors to contemplate her belly—and decided to ask for advice online. Just in case.

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“It’s really strange, to be honest, that these people even decided to approach their neighbors with such a question. After all, firstly, if the pool is on her property, then why should they care what she does there? Especially if she doesn’t break any laws or rules,” said Irina Matveeva, a psychologist and certified NLP specialist, who Bored Panda asked for a comment here.

“Secondly, any mother will tell you how difficult it is to cope and move around in the eighth month of pregnancy—so, this solution looks like a real godsend for the expectant mother. However, to avoid any complications, I would still advise consulting a doctor and taking certain precautions.”

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“And as for the issue of confrontation with these neighbors, no one is stopping them, for example, from building a higher fence on their property, if watching a pregnant bikini-clad woman truly offends their aesthetic views so much,” Irina summarized quite ironically.

Well, the commenters on the original post also unanimously supported our heroine. “They’ll probably be the sort of neighbours that will ask you not to breastfeed while sitting outside because they are offended,” someone wittily wrote. “They need to grow up and get over it—babies don’t come from a cabbage patch, or brought down by a stork.”

The responders also believe that the OP’s neighbors are simply unreasonable—but, in any case, they have two options. “They can put up a taller fence, or just grow up and be a better neighbor,” another person added. And what do you, our dear readers, think about this story? Have you ever encountered something similar in your experience?

People in the comments unanimously sided with the author, claiming that her neighbors could build a taller fence—and that’s all

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After many years of working as sports journalist and trivia game author and host in Ukraine I joined Bored Panda as a content creator. I do love writing stories and I sincerely believe - there's no dull plots at all. Like a great Italian composer Joaquino Rossini once told: "Give me a police protocol - and I'll make an opera out of it!"

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Oleg Tarasenko

Oleg Tarasenko

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After many years of working as sports journalist and trivia game author and host in Ukraine I joined Bored Panda as a content creator. I do love writing stories and I sincerely believe - there's no dull plots at all. Like a great Italian composer Joaquino Rossini once told: "Give me a police protocol - and I'll make an opera out of it!"

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Monika Pašukonytė

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I am a visual editor here. In my free time I enjoy the vibrant worlds of art galleries, exhibitions, and soulful concerts. Yet, amidst life's hustle and bustle, I find solace in nature's embrace, cherishing tranquil moments with beloved friends. Deep within, I hold a dream close - to embark on a global journey in an RV, accompanied by my faithful canine companion. Together, we'll wander through diverse cultures, weaving precious memories under the starry night sky, fulfilling the wanderlust that stirs my soul.

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Monika Pašukonytė

Monika Pašukonytė

Author, BoredPanda staff

I am a visual editor here. In my free time I enjoy the vibrant worlds of art galleries, exhibitions, and soulful concerts. Yet, amidst life's hustle and bustle, I find solace in nature's embrace, cherishing tranquil moments with beloved friends. Deep within, I hold a dream close - to embark on a global journey in an RV, accompanied by my faithful canine companion. Together, we'll wander through diverse cultures, weaving precious memories under the starry night sky, fulfilling the wanderlust that stirs my soul.

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Surly Scot
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd tell the neighbor that if she complains about it again i'll file a police report that her and her husband won't stop ogling me on my private property and then making disparaging comments to me about my body. If she'd like I can open a civil suit against her for harassment, mental and emotional distress and risk to my pregnancy due to that stress. Meet a bully with a bully.

Petra Peitsch
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WTF did I just read? How can people be so awful saying inderictly, a pregnant woman's body is gross? How can be so entitled morons? They have never been at public pools or beaches?

Ms.GB
Community Member
1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah and that one comment was spot on. If it was a guy with a beer gut they wouldn't say a thing. I like the idea of a water birth in full view of the neighbors 😀

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Jorge Gonzalez
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Have your husband start telling all the other people in the neighborhood how your neighbours must be sexual predator because they keep looking at you in your pool. Insinuate that they should keep their children away from those people or look at their backgrounds just to be safe

Apatheist Account2
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If they don't look, they can't see. For what used to be such a progressive country, they really are extraordinarily prudish.

BookFanatic
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm hugely entertained by the "cachinnate" in the title. Did the author get a word-a-day calendar? Not poking fun--I had to look it up--but it does seem a little tonier than most BP stuff.

Sand Ers
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

cach·in·nate . . . /ˈkakəˌnāt/ . . . verbRARE . . . . 3rd person present: cachinnates . . . . laugh loudly. . . . . "I chuckled, guffawed, chortled, and cachinnated my way through the book"

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Roberta Surprenant
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are amazing creations known as moveable screens which have existed for thousands of years. Neighbors should invest in some if view is "ruined".

Kristen Sharp
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I personally do not find pregnancy beautiful as some might (can't have and never wanted kids), but that being said, your yard! Your pool! What are they doing looking so hard at you? Jealous are they? They have a problem looking your way, tell them to turn their chairs around and look elsewhere or go inside and find some streaming pictures of a beach or something more to their liking!

G Bono
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought she was swimming nude and maybe the neighbors have teenage boys who were glued to the widows or camping out on the deck. I don't understand why/how people wonder if they are the AH in situations like this, or after they've written about it.

FluffyDreg
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because a lot of people have poor self esteem snd are people pleasers. We feel guilt mildly inconveniencing anyone, and as a result think what we did is horrible because we FELT horrible. Regardless of what logic says.

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FM MD
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The best expression of life is a pregnant woman, get naked if you want to!

roddy
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How short sighted they are. You won't be pregnant and in the pool forever, you'll soon have a child. The annoyance, if any, is for a few months at best. Sometimes you literally just need to look the other way.

SKaye
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Simple solution--nosey neighbors can turn their chairs (and their view!) a different direction. No expensive taller fence, no more having to see this woman's "unsightly" pregnant body.

Ineke Pronk
Community Member
4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly I get both sides. The lady should be allowed to wear what makes her comfortable in her own yard. But I also believe the neighbors should be comfortable in their own yard. The lady pointed out her pool is as high as the fence separating them. Honestly, just install a higher fence or use poles with a cloth fence to separate the yards above the actual fence.

Steve Robert
Community Member
5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Would they still complain if you were just fat and not pregnant? And why are they looking at you instead of minding their own business? Not trying to kinkshame, but maybe the husband has a thing for pregnant ladies. Pure utter nonsense!

sweet emotion
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I must be some kind of superior being, because I have never found it all that difficult to shift my deck chair so that I don't have to look at something I don't want to see.

Monica G
Community Member
1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have no problem with the bikiny, but I'd say AITA for using sunscreen, which is toxic for the baby.

Fred L.
Community Member
1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, they do have every right to ask but no right to the request having to be granted since she has every right to decline. As usual here the right answer (NTA) is rather obvious.

brandyy17
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

they shouldnt b staring in the first place. they r invading the OP's privacy by staring and making comments. i wonder how theyd react if the OP and her husband started watching them and complaining about s**t thats none of their business. bet the nosey neighbors wouldnt like it very much. wat r her neighbors gonna do next complain about noises coming from an excited or crying child?

Mother of Giants
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Look at BP using those big 50cent words. I actually had to look up the meaning of cachinnate before reading the story so I know what I was getting into lol. I don't feel too bad though, even Google thinks its a rarely used word. cach·in·nate /ˈkakəˌnāt/ verb, rare laugh loudly. "I chuckled, guffawed, chortled, and cachinnated my way through the book"

notlikeyou1971
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They must be on the Sex Offender list because they sure went out of their way to peep and ogle you and then come over and make comments about your body to you. Only pervs peep. What you wear and what you do on your property is your business and nobody can dictate anything else to you. There's no rule saying a pregnant woman has to be dressed a certain way anyhow. It's none of their business. If they don't like it they should shut up and keep their eyes shut. It's a sure fire way to get slapped, arrested or sued. Neighbors are possibly a few categories here 1- Boomer 2- Karen/Kevin 3- Prudes 4- busybody . In any case, they should have thought before they spoke because times have changed and now people don't put up with that kind of behavior. I'm not as nice as I used to be. There's a few options here. Id ask them if they are on the offender registration. After all why would they be going out of their way to peep at me,harass me and make comments about my body. Then knowing that you are pregnant, there's the possibility that it could cause you unnecessary stress and hurt you and the baby tell them that they can be reported to the police department and a lawsuit will be filed for harassment, emotional distress, mental distress,risk to my child and pregnancy, coming on my property without consent, bullying. Tell them to buy curtains for their house instead of peeping or do they enjoy the thrill ? Tell these busybodies to leave you alone or there's going to be legal action taken.

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1 week ago

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Why are people commenting like this just happened. This post is ONE YEAR OLD. That kid has been born and this post is no longer relevant.

FluffyDreg
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel bad for your friends at any party. Try to tell the funny story about how they wrecked their first bike. "Oh BuT iTs NoT rElEvAnT"

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Surly Scot
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd tell the neighbor that if she complains about it again i'll file a police report that her and her husband won't stop ogling me on my private property and then making disparaging comments to me about my body. If she'd like I can open a civil suit against her for harassment, mental and emotional distress and risk to my pregnancy due to that stress. Meet a bully with a bully.

Petra Peitsch
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WTF did I just read? How can people be so awful saying inderictly, a pregnant woman's body is gross? How can be so entitled morons? They have never been at public pools or beaches?

Ms.GB
Community Member
1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah and that one comment was spot on. If it was a guy with a beer gut they wouldn't say a thing. I like the idea of a water birth in full view of the neighbors 😀

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Jorge Gonzalez
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Have your husband start telling all the other people in the neighborhood how your neighbours must be sexual predator because they keep looking at you in your pool. Insinuate that they should keep their children away from those people or look at their backgrounds just to be safe

Apatheist Account2
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If they don't look, they can't see. For what used to be such a progressive country, they really are extraordinarily prudish.

BookFanatic
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm hugely entertained by the "cachinnate" in the title. Did the author get a word-a-day calendar? Not poking fun--I had to look it up--but it does seem a little tonier than most BP stuff.

Sand Ers
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

cach·in·nate . . . /ˈkakəˌnāt/ . . . verbRARE . . . . 3rd person present: cachinnates . . . . laugh loudly. . . . . "I chuckled, guffawed, chortled, and cachinnated my way through the book"

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Roberta Surprenant
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are amazing creations known as moveable screens which have existed for thousands of years. Neighbors should invest in some if view is "ruined".

Kristen Sharp
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I personally do not find pregnancy beautiful as some might (can't have and never wanted kids), but that being said, your yard! Your pool! What are they doing looking so hard at you? Jealous are they? They have a problem looking your way, tell them to turn their chairs around and look elsewhere or go inside and find some streaming pictures of a beach or something more to their liking!

G Bono
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought she was swimming nude and maybe the neighbors have teenage boys who were glued to the widows or camping out on the deck. I don't understand why/how people wonder if they are the AH in situations like this, or after they've written about it.

FluffyDreg
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because a lot of people have poor self esteem snd are people pleasers. We feel guilt mildly inconveniencing anyone, and as a result think what we did is horrible because we FELT horrible. Regardless of what logic says.

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FM MD
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The best expression of life is a pregnant woman, get naked if you want to!

roddy
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How short sighted they are. You won't be pregnant and in the pool forever, you'll soon have a child. The annoyance, if any, is for a few months at best. Sometimes you literally just need to look the other way.

SKaye
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Simple solution--nosey neighbors can turn their chairs (and their view!) a different direction. No expensive taller fence, no more having to see this woman's "unsightly" pregnant body.

Ineke Pronk
Community Member
4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly I get both sides. The lady should be allowed to wear what makes her comfortable in her own yard. But I also believe the neighbors should be comfortable in their own yard. The lady pointed out her pool is as high as the fence separating them. Honestly, just install a higher fence or use poles with a cloth fence to separate the yards above the actual fence.

Steve Robert
Community Member
5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Would they still complain if you were just fat and not pregnant? And why are they looking at you instead of minding their own business? Not trying to kinkshame, but maybe the husband has a thing for pregnant ladies. Pure utter nonsense!

sweet emotion
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I must be some kind of superior being, because I have never found it all that difficult to shift my deck chair so that I don't have to look at something I don't want to see.

Monica G
Community Member
1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have no problem with the bikiny, but I'd say AITA for using sunscreen, which is toxic for the baby.

Fred L.
Community Member
1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, they do have every right to ask but no right to the request having to be granted since she has every right to decline. As usual here the right answer (NTA) is rather obvious.

brandyy17
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

they shouldnt b staring in the first place. they r invading the OP's privacy by staring and making comments. i wonder how theyd react if the OP and her husband started watching them and complaining about s**t thats none of their business. bet the nosey neighbors wouldnt like it very much. wat r her neighbors gonna do next complain about noises coming from an excited or crying child?

Mother of Giants
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Look at BP using those big 50cent words. I actually had to look up the meaning of cachinnate before reading the story so I know what I was getting into lol. I don't feel too bad though, even Google thinks its a rarely used word. cach·in·nate /ˈkakəˌnāt/ verb, rare laugh loudly. "I chuckled, guffawed, chortled, and cachinnated my way through the book"

notlikeyou1971
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They must be on the Sex Offender list because they sure went out of their way to peep and ogle you and then come over and make comments about your body to you. Only pervs peep. What you wear and what you do on your property is your business and nobody can dictate anything else to you. There's no rule saying a pregnant woman has to be dressed a certain way anyhow. It's none of their business. If they don't like it they should shut up and keep their eyes shut. It's a sure fire way to get slapped, arrested or sued. Neighbors are possibly a few categories here 1- Boomer 2- Karen/Kevin 3- Prudes 4- busybody . In any case, they should have thought before they spoke because times have changed and now people don't put up with that kind of behavior. I'm not as nice as I used to be. There's a few options here. Id ask them if they are on the offender registration. After all why would they be going out of their way to peep at me,harass me and make comments about my body. Then knowing that you are pregnant, there's the possibility that it could cause you unnecessary stress and hurt you and the baby tell them that they can be reported to the police department and a lawsuit will be filed for harassment, emotional distress, mental distress,risk to my child and pregnancy, coming on my property without consent, bullying. Tell them to buy curtains for their house instead of peeping or do they enjoy the thrill ? Tell these busybodies to leave you alone or there's going to be legal action taken.

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1 week ago

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Why are people commenting like this just happened. This post is ONE YEAR OLD. That kid has been born and this post is no longer relevant.

FluffyDreg
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel bad for your friends at any party. Try to tell the funny story about how they wrecked their first bike. "Oh BuT iTs NoT rElEvAnT"

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