Legos are way better than dolls.

I’m happy you got a new family and I’m 11 and pan too it’s such a stupid thing too like all genders and be judged for it.

11... "Explicitly" what a word. There are a lot of 11 year olds on here announcing they're 11. Am I the only one who feels weird about this? Too many for coincidence?

Glad you have a new family. Good thing that my parents don't do the awful things to me that your first parents did.

@May: Plenty of people, no matter their age, know their sexuality.

LEGOS RULE

I hope you eventually got some Lego too

My neighbour keeps coming out as pansexual. I don't feel it's any of my business so I just say "okay!", and I don't feel the need to tell her my own sexual inclinations. I know this comment will attract negative attention but I don't understand the need to tell anyone what sort of people you are or are not attracted to at any time in your life (bear in mind that people really do tend to be fluid - the way you feel can change, you're not fixed). Different if you want to be known by another name or change your appearance.

Aaaw...damn.

since this is an old comment i feel much more comfortable saying things that may be considered rude or smth (i have a hard time understanding social stuff so its not on purpose, its just i know stuff can be considered rude when i dont mean it like that) im out to my mother as genderfluid or pangender, and shes very supportive and my grandmother on her side is really obsessed with making me a "girly girl" which ive been against for my whole life, ive never liked that. So when i ask for more masc things, she wont say anything specific, but if im shopping for clothes with her, and i want a suit for a concert, she'll show me a feminine thing, not a dress because she understands i dont like them so itll be like a feminine shirt, and tight pants, and i dont feel comfortable with that because i identify a lot with a guy i think im bigender(pangender and demiboy or trans guy?) also sorry for so much text

When I was younger I always wanted knives, I ended up with a pocket knife eventually.

man legos SLAP

I’m so happy you found a good place to land! If people can’t accept you for being you, they don’t deserve you.

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How do you know what kind of sexual you are at 11? That just seems all kinds of wrong.

@H Edwards : I see your point also. With limited information we cannot know one way or another. However, it seems unfair to assume the worst of a person despite limited information. 70 people have upvoted this comment having made the same assumption, that her aunt was deliberately passive aggressive or not supportive of how she identifies when in-fact, the comment also states that she isn't aware of how she identifies. The world was never going to change overnight, and there are people who have been brought up in immensely different social climates. Patience and respect and understanding HAS to go both ways for this to work.

I see your point, and we don't have enough information to know, but I have been the recipient of passive aggressive gifts over the years. The aunt may be using the present to imply that OP should be wearing makeup or behaving more girly. It's the thought that counts, yes, but what is the thought?

Intolerance is intolerance no matter what way it is directed.

looked it up, Assigned Female At Birth

Asigned female at birth. Basically that her sex is female but her gender might not be femenine.

Assigned female at birth

Assigned female at birth

AFAB = Assigned Female At Birth.

"Assigned Female At Birth" it's the most polite way to reference a transperson's "old" gender assignment, rather than their true gender identity. Likewise, AMAB is "Assigned Male At Birth."

I feel anyone can wear/play with anything they please and should never be put down for it! UGH.

Together we could start a whole chain of beauty parlours.

If I bring the candles I've received over the years we can light up a small country to open your salon in?

AFAB stands for Assigned Female At Birth. When a person’s gender doesn't align from the female sex they have been assigned at birth, as an example, they might reveal that they were AFAB. As an AFAB nonbinary person myself, I hope that helped!

Assigned female at birth

"Assigned Female At Birth" as someone kindly pointed out above. Basically the doc said "It's a girl" but they don't really feel the category applies to them. (No offence intended - unless people harm others they shouldn't be required to live their lives in boxes others designed for them)

and meeeeeee

And me.

im a slytherclaw, im the embodiment of "knowledge is power"

Nope. I’ve never shown any signs of wanting or liking makeup, but oh well. Another 4 years till I can gdt out of this place.

I just get my nieces and nephews toys I would have wanted at that age. Generally LEGO and crafting stuff. 😅