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Guy Creates Body-Shaming Meme Out Of Plus-Size Woman’s Photo, Gets Surprised When She Responds
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Guy Creates Body-Shaming Meme Out Of Plus-Size Woman’s Photo, Gets Surprised When She Responds

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There are few things in this world more satisfying than watching a sexist, body-shaming creep get reduced to nothing by the Twittersphere. It just happened a few days ago when a South African man turned plus-size model Lesego Legobane, also from SA, into a degrading meme that compared her to a thinner woman. What followed was a take-down of epic proportions.

Referring to the more slender model, Joëlle Kayembe, as “girls I like,” and Legobane as “girls that like me,” he not only insulted curvy women everywhere, but also implied that women should only be ‘liked’ based on their weight and appearance. Are we seriously still dealing with these archaic standards in 2017?

Luckily, the Internet swooped in to mercilessly bury the unsuspecting creep under a layer of clapbacks so dense, it could survive an apocalypse. They didn’t even have to, though, because ‘Leeyonce’ herself delivered the most scathing burn of them all – with just 4 words. Scroll down to see how it all happened, and let us know if you think this was the most entertaining Twitter roasting of the year.

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    Meet Lesego Legobane, aka Leeyonce, a plus-size South African model who just won the entire Internet

    Image credits: thickleeyonce

    It all started when a random guy on Twitter used her image, without permission, in a degrading meme

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    In response, Leeyonce delivered one of the simplest, yet most scathing comebacks we’ve ever seen

    *Slow clap*

    The Internet had absolutely no time for sexist, body-shaming rhetoric this time around…

    And people proceeded to hilariously roast the offending beyond the point of any possible return

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    I mean, he did try to return, but it worked out about as well as his initial ‘joke’

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    The other woman whose photo he lifted to use in his meme even came forward to help shut him down

    Leeyonce remains unfazed by it all, as should all women in the face of body-shaming

    Image credits: thickleeyonce

    Was this the Twitter clapback of the year? Tell us below!

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    Stille20
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like that the excuse for insulting is always "it's unhealthy". So are stiletto shoes and being under weight. You're not making fun of heavy people because they are unhealthy, you're just a mean person.

    Ben Smith
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, as a group, we need to end the use of the phrase "won the Internet...."

    Anna Sheridan
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think they both look great. Actually the big girl pulls off her weight awesomely as she still has a great hourglass shape.

    Hayley Lightcap
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about instead of teaching about fat or skinny, you encourage people to be their natural healthy weight

    Alusair Alustriel
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get that some people are fat out of a health condition. But keeping fat cause "I look beautiful just as I am now" is bullcrap. Obesity and fat aren't pretty, they are unhealthy, risky and lead to diseases. Stop glorifying fat! I know that probably she wouldn't be as famous if she looked normal. But c'mon, take care of yourself and your wieght :/

    Little Menace
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know, thanks for posting this. Nowadays it's like as soon as someone is overweight they become mysteriously beautiful and nobody is allowed to say anything at all, yet skeletal girls are fair game. Both are not very nice to look at unless you are into extremes and both are just as deadly. Sure you can have a good attitude about your illness but nobody parades around with their black lungs after a life of smoking and forces everyone to find it beautiful. Because it really isn't to the majority of people. It is only peddled by those inflicted by it to feel better. I happen to like and admire normal sized people and looking at morbidly obese people I see them as a comically distorted version of how a healthy body should look like, it's not right; it's obscene to me, because in 99% of cases it comes about from eating c**p and not giving a damn.

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    Marysia Jawłowska
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Her comment was the perfect response. Everything beyond it is overreacting.

    CommonSense
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    7 years ago

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    t should have stopped there and not be picked up by feminist harpies

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    Alex Florescu
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She is not ugly, however, she is overweight. Obesity is a big problem in this world, and it shortens ones life span, opening the door to numerous diseases and general health risks, like heart-attacks and diabetes. Treating overweight people like there's nothing wrong with them is just dangerous and can have ugly repercussion for the kids that will grow up thinking that obesity is no big deal. Of coarse we should not judge people by their appearance, and stop being so obsessed with our image, but we should think about our health and try to keep ourselves healthy. And almost 100% of people have a low ideal BMI. Simply put, they are healthier if they are thin. Of coarse we should be aware of anorexia, and the growing problem that it is. But we shouldn't glorify obesity to combat it. But rather educate ourselves about it, and teach people not to let their self-esteem come from their external attributes and possessions, but rather from their internal attributes, knowledge and achievements.

    Alayna DeMarco
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    7 years ago

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    People come in different body types, and it has nothing to do with being overweight. There is a difference between having a larger body type and being overweight. It's also unfair to judge her as fat without knowing her body type and medical records. The BMI is inaccurate because it doesn't differentiate between muscle mass and fat nor does it account for different body types. What may be healthy for one person may be morbidly obese for another. A better system would be the body condition score which specifically measures fat placement and accounts for all body types

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    Nancy Higginson
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And right under this is the story "After losing 97 pounds Rebel Wilson looks incredible". :(

    Derpicorn
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YES THANK YOU! I hate when people judge by how others look 😖 Usually those kinds of people are lonely. I just wish people would stop with this kind of nonsense! It happens with everyone at some point and it makes people just hate themselves. People who do this kind of c**p are what cause some teens to be depressed. Just shut up.

    Ben Smith
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a HUGE difference between so called "fat-shaming" and acknowledging the fact that overweight people might not be attractive to you or that's it's unhealthy. His post may not have been kind, but there are plenty of people who find heavier people attractive too. Everyone is allowed their preference

    CommonSense
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and the guy´s message is that he is attractive to women that he himself is not attracted to. But feminism "beauty", what can you do in the face of such blatant manhating? It´s not like the internet is full of memes of fat guys and no one defends them saying they are beautiful unless they have tons of money, right?

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    Peggy Penguin
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think she's gorgeous!!! Her response was short and too the point... perfect!!!

    Betty Smith
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Both women are beautiful! Any attempts to place all women in the same box will doubtless receive negative comments. Why? For the same reason that men would provide negative comments if some random stranger attempted to pigeonhole them as well! No one likes it, so why go there? Be funny in a way that brings people together. Then, you won't have to apologize for the rest of your life. Women can be just as ugly to each other in terms of stupid, body-shaming comments. So why do we go there? It's not worth the trouble it causes you! And not just regarding the person in question. Young girls sometimes don't realize that people in your own circle of friends will feel threatened, wondering if they are next, while you are spreading mean comments and rumours. Think they'll ever totally trust you? Not only "No!" but..

    Blue Hippo
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ha that dude is lonely and got rejected by a beautiful woman...yes!

    Black Dahlia
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ask the plus-sized model how proud she is of her beautiful curves in 30 years when she has insulin-dependent diabetes and she can'r find a vein in her gorgeously fat arm. Ask her if she has any regrets after her first heart attack. Ask her how curvy and delicious she feels when she needs a motorized cart to get from point A to point B. Out of the two models we'll see who dies first.

    Alayna DeMarco
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    having a body type outside of the hourglass figure does not mean she is fat.

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    Krista Leary
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think she's absolutely beautiful and as long as she loves herself then that's all that matters!

    MarionCap
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lovely young lady, looking beautiful in her bathing suit. Glad she's assertive enough to put obnoxious dudebros in their place!

    Marius Jan
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think she has a beautiful face, but being fat is not good. I look 20 years into the future and I see hurting knees, insulin dependent diabetes, hypertension, heart attack, stroke, congestive heart failure, sleep apnea, wheelchair and death. I have a degree in medicine and I deal with it every day. Believe me, it's neither sexy nor beautiful.

    Emma Gascoyne
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hahaha. I mean, she's beautiful so if I was a guy, I wouldn't see anything wrong with her liking me. She's beautiful and deserves the best and all the love. (I'm a girl so different story but IF I was a guy)

    Taylor Magone
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Your meme wasn't inclusive enough" said nobody anyone cares about.

    Stefano Aprea
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here in Fiji when you meet a girl or a guy on the streets, and she/he looks hot and sexy (regardless of her/his size), you can whisper or shout (it depends from your mood...) "Uro!". And actually "uro" in fijian means "fat". I just love this place :)

    Haunting Spirit
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stop this! Being fat/big isn't ugly, it's unhealty. That's way more worse.

    Daria B
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True, but you don't make fun of those suffering an illness, right? This post is still valid.

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    MistyCat
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    bitch you're unworthy of both of those ladies. beautiful ladies. stop shaming people, you cheeto-dicked soggy wad of paper.

    Sarah Britt
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this plus size model is friggin stunning. This a*****e could never in a hundred years get with someone as beautiful as her. Contrary to popular belief, bigger women DO have standards and aren't going to get involved with the first man to come along that gives her some attention.

    Sherri Tyler
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The first thing that came to my mind when I saw the image of Leeyonce was of the extremely powerful and beyond beautiful image of the ancient love & fertility goddess - there is no more gorgeous picture of a woman anywhere. The boy is a child and blind.

    Alejandra Lima
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I understand the point but I don't think it should be offensive to Lee. If he had made the meme showing the pictures the other way round, how many people would have criticized him?

    Amanda Harker
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love that she's so confident! I also wanna know where she buys her bras lol.

    Sharon Halfhill
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand why he used her pic in the first place because she's like legitimately hot..

    Jerrico Usher
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like a natural looking woman, fat, skinny, ugly, beautiful, I want the personality over all of that, in the end it's what someone makes us feel about life that counts...

    Jerrico Usher
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let's imagine that the one on the right was actually ugly (in someone's opinion), here's my response to this ridiculousness: When I see this post all I can think about is the girl on the right may not be super hot but what if she is amazing at love, amazing at making me feel good, amazing at helping me with my goals and I with hers? Do you really want a super hot model type who could have any man she wants and would cheat on you if you fell off telling her how hot she is or would you want a woman that may not be (to the world) super hot on the surface but makes you feel incredible? Looks are one dimension, in the end, it's what you do with your life, how you are, how intelligent you are, how much you can offer her and her you that really counts- looks vs that energy, looks fade, but that energy only gets better. It's ignorant to give a damn about looks, I want passion, love, and incredible conversations, that alone makes any girl, ugly or not, incredibly sexy to me.

    Tracy Moorhead
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's just the continuation of the same theory that men hold...they profess to liking beautiful, thin, well dressed women strolling down the beach in a scanty bikini. While they sit there judging these women with their waist line sagging, acne on their backs, and legs that haven't seen a leg press in years if ever!! I guess we'll never get past men judging women on a totally different scale than they've ever been judged on! Women need to fight back and not put up with this c**p!

    Tony Moon
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Both women showed that they are both beautiful because they never became mean, they became factual. This guy lost before they ever found his post, but he continued to lose. If he has not apologized, then he continues to be a loser.

    Kei Kanzaki
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Would love to see the other model sayin "I don't like you too" XD

    Sick Boy
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now, imagine for a second that the original poster wasn't being sarcastic but literal. Then the angry reaction of these people is just a mirror of their own preconceptions.

    Nancy A Clark
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My God, they're both extremely beautiful women! I'd be thrilled to look like either one!

    Rã Field
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being Gormless is ones ignorance showing very clearly.. why would he even think anyone of adult decency would want to go near him// oh thats right, they dont!

    Kirk Kinnell
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LMAO!! I understand exactly what dude is saying ....He f****d up by putting on SM.....

    J.A. Wilson
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just Google "Guys I like Vs. Guys Who Like Me" before making anymore hypocritical comments. GUYS1-59c3...f5d4e3.png GUYS1-59c3e67f5d4e3.png

    Alia Gail
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not fair either way, and that post is pretty much as bad as this one, but it's true that girls have gotten more sexism, and body shaming, and other such things than a lot of guys. I'm not saying that guys don't get body shamed, but women do get more often.

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    Derpicorn
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is true tho, we put more attention into when girls are body shamed than men. Can't we just stop being jerks and NOT shame people? Geez.

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    Sarah Britt
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah I correctly guessed that the concern trolls would come out in abundance to comment on this. You can say that you're concerned with her health but come on, no one believes that garbage. If you're going to talk s**t about someone, have the balls to do it with the fake concern for someone else's health. I promise you, no one is buying it and you're making yourself look ridiculous and fake as hell.

    Alexandru Ionut Rosu
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stop making stupid people famous,and Stop believing eveything you see on the internet...The truth and the reaity is that was just a good marketing idea..no one knew that girl beofre this..but guss what?! now the entire internet knows it ;) STOP MAKING STUPID PEOPLE FAMOUS!!

    DaisyAppreciation
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the one thing I dislike about this post: "Leeyonce remains unfazed by it all, as should all women in the face of body shaming" That makes me sad... Not all women who get body shamed are strong enough to let it go. What about all the ladies who let it get to them and can't ask for help? What will happen to them. Sorry BoredPanda, but some women can still get fazed and feel horribly depressed.

    Lisa Burns
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh come on, the guy isn't sexist, he's human. Like it or not, people have preferences in whom they're attracted to. I'm attracted to fit, athletic men. I feel awkward when I have to turn down overweight or obese men but I can't force myself to be attracted to someone that I'm not. Physical attraction does play a role in who we see as our ideal romantic/sexual partner. Maybe some people are into fat but that doesn't make it wrong for those people who aren't. She sounds like someone who is overly defensive and she has a lot of like minded people on her side because there are a lot of overweight and obese women out there who identify with her. It's easier for the fat acceptance community to pretend they're still healthy and try and force others to tell them they're beautiful or have to deal with the wrath of the fat community than to put in the effort and dedication to lose their excess fat. I bet if the pictures were reversed, the fat community would praise him in how progressive he was.

    Blackbunny38 The Awesome
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone is alowed their prefrance, but the point is, he used the photo withoit permision, and made it clear that she is allcarou d less dersirable than the skinny one.

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    CommonSense
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    7 years ago

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    live however you want, do what you want, but if people find you unattractive and repulsive then don´t use feminist ideology to excuse your bad habits and accept you have a problem. Feminism is cancer for trying to turn unhealthy into healthy, then silencing everyone who diagrees by using insults. The only idea you should get from this event is that it's not ok to use someone´s photo without their permission, but f*****g hell feminism just has to pour gender issues down your throat on every ocassion. I remember reading a feminist article explaining that catcalling is as bad as rape because it causes similar emotional trauma. Then read another article saying that if you refuse to sleep with a woman when she asks you then you are raping her because you are causing the same emotional trauma. SO what is it then?

    Alayna DeMarco
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The man was using her photo (or the company's not sure who it belongs to) without permission and implied she was less desirable on the internet. You can have a preference when it comes to weight but that does not mean you get to body shame them, especially on a site where anyone gets to see it. Also, just because a woman does not have an hourglass figure, does not means she is overweight. Women and guys come in different body shapes and what may be healthy for one is overweight for another. The BMI is inaccurate because it fails to recognize this.

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    ivan bolitekurac
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    7 years ago

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    Wow,we live in a world where everyone is a model.Whats next,heroin model?

    Phillip Moderow
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    7 years ago

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    I support his right to free speech and you should too. Please understand: Men are BORN to be attracted to curvy, slim, beautiful women. To deny a man's most basic instinct is to deny his right to exist. And I don't think it has anything to do with personality. The plus size model's personality may be preferable to the curvy bikini one but that doesn't change what men find visually attractive or repulsive. I admire people, both men and women, who take care of themselves. Morbidly obese people obviously--keyword "obviously"--don't.

    Alia Gail
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And because he doesn't particularly feel attracted to him he gets to be hateful to her? She's definitely attractive to some men, she's a model. I'm a straight female so I don't feel attractive to her, but i'm able to recognize she looks amazing. Just because you don't see her that way doesn't mean that other people don't see her in that way.

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    Stille20
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like that the excuse for insulting is always "it's unhealthy". So are stiletto shoes and being under weight. You're not making fun of heavy people because they are unhealthy, you're just a mean person.

    Ben Smith
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, as a group, we need to end the use of the phrase "won the Internet...."

    Anna Sheridan
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think they both look great. Actually the big girl pulls off her weight awesomely as she still has a great hourglass shape.

    Hayley Lightcap
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about instead of teaching about fat or skinny, you encourage people to be their natural healthy weight

    Alusair Alustriel
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get that some people are fat out of a health condition. But keeping fat cause "I look beautiful just as I am now" is bullcrap. Obesity and fat aren't pretty, they are unhealthy, risky and lead to diseases. Stop glorifying fat! I know that probably she wouldn't be as famous if she looked normal. But c'mon, take care of yourself and your wieght :/

    Little Menace
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know, thanks for posting this. Nowadays it's like as soon as someone is overweight they become mysteriously beautiful and nobody is allowed to say anything at all, yet skeletal girls are fair game. Both are not very nice to look at unless you are into extremes and both are just as deadly. Sure you can have a good attitude about your illness but nobody parades around with their black lungs after a life of smoking and forces everyone to find it beautiful. Because it really isn't to the majority of people. It is only peddled by those inflicted by it to feel better. I happen to like and admire normal sized people and looking at morbidly obese people I see them as a comically distorted version of how a healthy body should look like, it's not right; it's obscene to me, because in 99% of cases it comes about from eating c**p and not giving a damn.

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    Marysia Jawłowska
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Her comment was the perfect response. Everything beyond it is overreacting.

    CommonSense
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    7 years ago

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    t should have stopped there and not be picked up by feminist harpies

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    Alex Florescu
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She is not ugly, however, she is overweight. Obesity is a big problem in this world, and it shortens ones life span, opening the door to numerous diseases and general health risks, like heart-attacks and diabetes. Treating overweight people like there's nothing wrong with them is just dangerous and can have ugly repercussion for the kids that will grow up thinking that obesity is no big deal. Of coarse we should not judge people by their appearance, and stop being so obsessed with our image, but we should think about our health and try to keep ourselves healthy. And almost 100% of people have a low ideal BMI. Simply put, they are healthier if they are thin. Of coarse we should be aware of anorexia, and the growing problem that it is. But we shouldn't glorify obesity to combat it. But rather educate ourselves about it, and teach people not to let their self-esteem come from their external attributes and possessions, but rather from their internal attributes, knowledge and achievements.

    Alayna DeMarco
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    7 years ago

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    People come in different body types, and it has nothing to do with being overweight. There is a difference between having a larger body type and being overweight. It's also unfair to judge her as fat without knowing her body type and medical records. The BMI is inaccurate because it doesn't differentiate between muscle mass and fat nor does it account for different body types. What may be healthy for one person may be morbidly obese for another. A better system would be the body condition score which specifically measures fat placement and accounts for all body types

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    Nancy Higginson
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And right under this is the story "After losing 97 pounds Rebel Wilson looks incredible". :(

    Derpicorn
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YES THANK YOU! I hate when people judge by how others look 😖 Usually those kinds of people are lonely. I just wish people would stop with this kind of nonsense! It happens with everyone at some point and it makes people just hate themselves. People who do this kind of c**p are what cause some teens to be depressed. Just shut up.

    Ben Smith
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a HUGE difference between so called "fat-shaming" and acknowledging the fact that overweight people might not be attractive to you or that's it's unhealthy. His post may not have been kind, but there are plenty of people who find heavier people attractive too. Everyone is allowed their preference

    CommonSense
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and the guy´s message is that he is attractive to women that he himself is not attracted to. But feminism "beauty", what can you do in the face of such blatant manhating? It´s not like the internet is full of memes of fat guys and no one defends them saying they are beautiful unless they have tons of money, right?

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    Peggy Penguin
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think she's gorgeous!!! Her response was short and too the point... perfect!!!

    Betty Smith
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Both women are beautiful! Any attempts to place all women in the same box will doubtless receive negative comments. Why? For the same reason that men would provide negative comments if some random stranger attempted to pigeonhole them as well! No one likes it, so why go there? Be funny in a way that brings people together. Then, you won't have to apologize for the rest of your life. Women can be just as ugly to each other in terms of stupid, body-shaming comments. So why do we go there? It's not worth the trouble it causes you! And not just regarding the person in question. Young girls sometimes don't realize that people in your own circle of friends will feel threatened, wondering if they are next, while you are spreading mean comments and rumours. Think they'll ever totally trust you? Not only "No!" but..

    Blue Hippo
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ha that dude is lonely and got rejected by a beautiful woman...yes!

    Black Dahlia
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ask the plus-sized model how proud she is of her beautiful curves in 30 years when she has insulin-dependent diabetes and she can'r find a vein in her gorgeously fat arm. Ask her if she has any regrets after her first heart attack. Ask her how curvy and delicious she feels when she needs a motorized cart to get from point A to point B. Out of the two models we'll see who dies first.

    Alayna DeMarco
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    having a body type outside of the hourglass figure does not mean she is fat.

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    Krista Leary
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think she's absolutely beautiful and as long as she loves herself then that's all that matters!

    MarionCap
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lovely young lady, looking beautiful in her bathing suit. Glad she's assertive enough to put obnoxious dudebros in their place!

    Marius Jan
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think she has a beautiful face, but being fat is not good. I look 20 years into the future and I see hurting knees, insulin dependent diabetes, hypertension, heart attack, stroke, congestive heart failure, sleep apnea, wheelchair and death. I have a degree in medicine and I deal with it every day. Believe me, it's neither sexy nor beautiful.

    Emma Gascoyne
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hahaha. I mean, she's beautiful so if I was a guy, I wouldn't see anything wrong with her liking me. She's beautiful and deserves the best and all the love. (I'm a girl so different story but IF I was a guy)

    Taylor Magone
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Your meme wasn't inclusive enough" said nobody anyone cares about.

    Stefano Aprea
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here in Fiji when you meet a girl or a guy on the streets, and she/he looks hot and sexy (regardless of her/his size), you can whisper or shout (it depends from your mood...) "Uro!". And actually "uro" in fijian means "fat". I just love this place :)

    Haunting Spirit
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stop this! Being fat/big isn't ugly, it's unhealty. That's way more worse.

    Daria B
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True, but you don't make fun of those suffering an illness, right? This post is still valid.

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    MistyCat
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    bitch you're unworthy of both of those ladies. beautiful ladies. stop shaming people, you cheeto-dicked soggy wad of paper.

    Sarah Britt
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this plus size model is friggin stunning. This a*****e could never in a hundred years get with someone as beautiful as her. Contrary to popular belief, bigger women DO have standards and aren't going to get involved with the first man to come along that gives her some attention.

    Sherri Tyler
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The first thing that came to my mind when I saw the image of Leeyonce was of the extremely powerful and beyond beautiful image of the ancient love & fertility goddess - there is no more gorgeous picture of a woman anywhere. The boy is a child and blind.

    Alejandra Lima
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I understand the point but I don't think it should be offensive to Lee. If he had made the meme showing the pictures the other way round, how many people would have criticized him?

    Amanda Harker
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love that she's so confident! I also wanna know where she buys her bras lol.

    Sharon Halfhill
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand why he used her pic in the first place because she's like legitimately hot..

    Jerrico Usher
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like a natural looking woman, fat, skinny, ugly, beautiful, I want the personality over all of that, in the end it's what someone makes us feel about life that counts...

    Jerrico Usher
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let's imagine that the one on the right was actually ugly (in someone's opinion), here's my response to this ridiculousness: When I see this post all I can think about is the girl on the right may not be super hot but what if she is amazing at love, amazing at making me feel good, amazing at helping me with my goals and I with hers? Do you really want a super hot model type who could have any man she wants and would cheat on you if you fell off telling her how hot she is or would you want a woman that may not be (to the world) super hot on the surface but makes you feel incredible? Looks are one dimension, in the end, it's what you do with your life, how you are, how intelligent you are, how much you can offer her and her you that really counts- looks vs that energy, looks fade, but that energy only gets better. It's ignorant to give a damn about looks, I want passion, love, and incredible conversations, that alone makes any girl, ugly or not, incredibly sexy to me.

    Tracy Moorhead
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's just the continuation of the same theory that men hold...they profess to liking beautiful, thin, well dressed women strolling down the beach in a scanty bikini. While they sit there judging these women with their waist line sagging, acne on their backs, and legs that haven't seen a leg press in years if ever!! I guess we'll never get past men judging women on a totally different scale than they've ever been judged on! Women need to fight back and not put up with this c**p!

    Tony Moon
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Both women showed that they are both beautiful because they never became mean, they became factual. This guy lost before they ever found his post, but he continued to lose. If he has not apologized, then he continues to be a loser.

    Kei Kanzaki
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Would love to see the other model sayin "I don't like you too" XD

    Sick Boy
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now, imagine for a second that the original poster wasn't being sarcastic but literal. Then the angry reaction of these people is just a mirror of their own preconceptions.

    Nancy A Clark
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My God, they're both extremely beautiful women! I'd be thrilled to look like either one!

    Rã Field
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being Gormless is ones ignorance showing very clearly.. why would he even think anyone of adult decency would want to go near him// oh thats right, they dont!

    Kirk Kinnell
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LMAO!! I understand exactly what dude is saying ....He f****d up by putting on SM.....

    J.A. Wilson
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just Google "Guys I like Vs. Guys Who Like Me" before making anymore hypocritical comments. GUYS1-59c3...f5d4e3.png GUYS1-59c3e67f5d4e3.png

    Alia Gail
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not fair either way, and that post is pretty much as bad as this one, but it's true that girls have gotten more sexism, and body shaming, and other such things than a lot of guys. I'm not saying that guys don't get body shamed, but women do get more often.

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    Derpicorn
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is true tho, we put more attention into when girls are body shamed than men. Can't we just stop being jerks and NOT shame people? Geez.

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    Sarah Britt
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah I correctly guessed that the concern trolls would come out in abundance to comment on this. You can say that you're concerned with her health but come on, no one believes that garbage. If you're going to talk s**t about someone, have the balls to do it with the fake concern for someone else's health. I promise you, no one is buying it and you're making yourself look ridiculous and fake as hell.

    Alexandru Ionut Rosu
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stop making stupid people famous,and Stop believing eveything you see on the internet...The truth and the reaity is that was just a good marketing idea..no one knew that girl beofre this..but guss what?! now the entire internet knows it ;) STOP MAKING STUPID PEOPLE FAMOUS!!

    DaisyAppreciation
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the one thing I dislike about this post: "Leeyonce remains unfazed by it all, as should all women in the face of body shaming" That makes me sad... Not all women who get body shamed are strong enough to let it go. What about all the ladies who let it get to them and can't ask for help? What will happen to them. Sorry BoredPanda, but some women can still get fazed and feel horribly depressed.

    Lisa Burns
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh come on, the guy isn't sexist, he's human. Like it or not, people have preferences in whom they're attracted to. I'm attracted to fit, athletic men. I feel awkward when I have to turn down overweight or obese men but I can't force myself to be attracted to someone that I'm not. Physical attraction does play a role in who we see as our ideal romantic/sexual partner. Maybe some people are into fat but that doesn't make it wrong for those people who aren't. She sounds like someone who is overly defensive and she has a lot of like minded people on her side because there are a lot of overweight and obese women out there who identify with her. It's easier for the fat acceptance community to pretend they're still healthy and try and force others to tell them they're beautiful or have to deal with the wrath of the fat community than to put in the effort and dedication to lose their excess fat. I bet if the pictures were reversed, the fat community would praise him in how progressive he was.

    Blackbunny38 The Awesome
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone is alowed their prefrance, but the point is, he used the photo withoit permision, and made it clear that she is allcarou d less dersirable than the skinny one.

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    CommonSense
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    7 years ago

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    live however you want, do what you want, but if people find you unattractive and repulsive then don´t use feminist ideology to excuse your bad habits and accept you have a problem. Feminism is cancer for trying to turn unhealthy into healthy, then silencing everyone who diagrees by using insults. The only idea you should get from this event is that it's not ok to use someone´s photo without their permission, but f*****g hell feminism just has to pour gender issues down your throat on every ocassion. I remember reading a feminist article explaining that catcalling is as bad as rape because it causes similar emotional trauma. Then read another article saying that if you refuse to sleep with a woman when she asks you then you are raping her because you are causing the same emotional trauma. SO what is it then?

    Alayna DeMarco
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The man was using her photo (or the company's not sure who it belongs to) without permission and implied she was less desirable on the internet. You can have a preference when it comes to weight but that does not mean you get to body shame them, especially on a site where anyone gets to see it. Also, just because a woman does not have an hourglass figure, does not means she is overweight. Women and guys come in different body shapes and what may be healthy for one is overweight for another. The BMI is inaccurate because it fails to recognize this.

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    ivan bolitekurac
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    7 years ago

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    Wow,we live in a world where everyone is a model.Whats next,heroin model?

    Phillip Moderow
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    7 years ago

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    I support his right to free speech and you should too. Please understand: Men are BORN to be attracted to curvy, slim, beautiful women. To deny a man's most basic instinct is to deny his right to exist. And I don't think it has anything to do with personality. The plus size model's personality may be preferable to the curvy bikini one but that doesn't change what men find visually attractive or repulsive. I admire people, both men and women, who take care of themselves. Morbidly obese people obviously--keyword "obviously"--don't.

    Alia Gail
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    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And because he doesn't particularly feel attracted to him he gets to be hateful to her? She's definitely attractive to some men, she's a model. I'm a straight female so I don't feel attractive to her, but i'm able to recognize she looks amazing. Just because you don't see her that way doesn't mean that other people don't see her in that way.

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