To this day, and especially in colder weather, I and I ask my spouse to do the same , BANG! on the hood of our car before starting. So far - so good ...

My place, they re-conquered in january. I wasn't really searching for a cat, but a cat happened to be in need of a home offering more love and understanding than the previous one ... her former humans weren't really into cats ... her will wasn't worth any there, because they failed to get to know the slightest bit. But ... a cat who gets that you're cat's friend will succeed in communicating with you, you just gotta get straight, and beforehand, that the cat always is right, and if there is any kind of conflict, unless letting the cat do her will exposes her to danger or damage ... unless that, you're always wrong. Be kind to a cat, and said cat will eventually return it ... maybe not the same day, week, even month - but cat's love is so honest and to-be-earned by being honest to her yourself, ... never lie to them. You can lie without words, and that they not only get, but answer in the right kind of way ... never gonna trust you again. Rightfully so, then! Cats just are wonderful!